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Fatalveli:
What do you have to say about the statements you made, since its so obvious you were the one that uttered it. The screen-shots is a prove

Stop smoking banana leaves they are clearly not good for the brain...

Psalmwise:
No wonder...den u dnt knw much about the Nigerian Babes and ladies...
They are a very distinct...asin eh u can't understand unless u grewup with dem...So I guess u knw nothing about wat tosyn as being saying about girls all dis while...,
You need to be lectured

Lecture completely unnecessary - thing is no.2 is no.2 I don't need to go to Chile to know that a Latino's no.2 smells but if people enjoy living in a sewerage and like the smell then so be it.

Psalmwise:
Well I tink dats ur opinion...,
No vex for this question...Are u a nigeria??

Nope and thank goodness for that if what you say is true

skywalker888:
Are you think you are gonna receive avalanche of PMs from the ladies by this post of yours ?

In as much as I'm a lady, I know this dude is made of truth just that we ladies feel very uncomfortable when we hear the truth

Pls stop hating bro

And why would I be waiting for an avalanche of PMs? Darling I have a life, full of friends and family - I'm not like you, I don't live for NL. I get PMs and I ignore them. Only reason I even joined NL was only because I was meant to come to Nigeria for 4 months this year and I just wanted to see what Nigerians are like and let me tell you y'all do a bad a job of representing yourselves hence I turned the offer down but now it makes sense to me why Nigeria is the way it is.

skywalker888:
Are you think you are gonna receive avalanche of PMs from the ladies by this post of yours ?

In as much as I'm a lady, I know this dude is made of truth just that we ladies feel very uncomfortable when we hear the truth

Pls stop hating bro

And why would I be waiting for an avalanche of PMs? Darling I have a life, full of friends and family - I'm not like you, I don't live for NL. I get PMs and I ignore them. Only reason I even joined NL was only because I was meant to come to Nigeria for 4 months this year and I just wanted to see what Nigerians are like and let me tell you y'all do a bad a job of representing yourselves hence I turned the offer down but now it makes sense to me why Nigeria is the way it is.

skywalker888:
Are you think you are gonna receive avalanche of PMs from the ladies by this post of yours ?

In as much as I'm a lady, I know this dude is made of truth just that we ladies feel very uncomfortable when we hear the truth

Pls stop hating bro

And why would I be waiting for an avalanche of PMs? Darling I have a life, full of friends and family - I'm not like you, I don't live NL. I get PMs and I ignore them. Only reason I even joined NL was only because I was meant to come to Nigeria for 4 months this year and I just wanted to see what Nigerians are like and let me tell you y'all do a bad a job of representing yourselves hence I turned the offer down but now it makes sense to me why Nigeria is the way it is.

Psalmwise:
[b][/b]For your mind...,All wat he said is wat I myself dey see...,9ja babes mentality diff from d mentality of other countrybabes
Cos persn dey talk abt d core truth of d girls naw...,una dey baptise am wit critisim...well sha e no affect am..., So if una no lik wetin I dey I'm dey talk free I'm...,This tosyn is Made of Truth...,His monicker should be Tosyntruthmuch

Well I'll give you that much of a benefit of a doubt about Nigerian women because, with the exception of a few ladies, most ladies here are too foolish to realise when they are being insulted, suffer from PHD (pull-her-down) syndrome and actually seem to like the abusive father-child relationship going so far as to advocate it. Nigerian women may be what you say but it still doesn't change the fact that these lists are disrespectful.

Bisolarh:
[i] Your comment reeks of hatred.. I have been watching you attack this dude since the little time I have spent on this forum

If you think you are really mature, why not come up with your own threads and show your impact in your own little way rather than dissing him and derailing every of his threads

Do you know what ? I ran through your previously created threads and to my surprise I couldn't even see any sensible thread

Don't even bother to quote me cos I won't reply

Darling I wish I cared for your reply. You even went through my posts I wish I cared enough to do the same for you. I don't even know what the helll you are talking about first time I spoke to this guy was yesterday. And sweety before you use big words it would help to know meanings and implications of the words. Hate implies feelings (I know you are slow so I'll try put it another way) in order for you to hate something you have to have feelings for it. I don't know this guy and do not care to therefore I do not have feelings for him in other words it's impossible for me to even hate him. Now go do something useful like learn how to have pride and see when someone is insulting you as a woman (if you are even a woman).

Psalmwise:
Tosyn is jez an expirienced dude...,all d 10tinz abt girls e as been compiling is all abt his experience wit girls ...,Anybody dat sees dem can either take it or leave...,Hez nt a girl hater...,Jez a babez researcher(Sumone dat does researcher on babes)

BTW Tosyn2much...,Try and Research onthis topic 10 Things That make Girls Hate Guys

Everyone has experience. Us women could very easily start compiling lists about what idiotic douchebags men are but we don't because we are mature, emotionally healthy and wise enough to know the 5 douchebags we've met do not constitute the entire male population in actual fact it says something about YOU and the world you are building for yourself. Tosyn2much does not respect women, if he did he wouldn't even be compiling these childish lists. It is disrespectful and is a form of psychological assault on women. Now impressionable young women will see these immature lists created by this immature amateur and will start having misconceptions about what it means to be a woman and they will want to conform to this sexist posts about what is girlfriend material. All of this is designed to psychologically abuse women and create an insecurity in them so that they'll be ripe to used by the types of Tosyn2much. It's sad that impressionable young men like you are also getting affected because you see this idiocy as the Holy Grail. If you want to learn about women go to your mother, go to your sister - they will teach you far more than this Tosyn2much. Their lessons will actually teach you how to find and keep the woman of your dreams.

Just by the way ironically enough Tosyn2much's lists actually show they were created by someone who hasn't had much experience with WOMEN and is an amateur when it comes to WOMEN. Obviously if you date or hangout with young girls you will get an up and down as they themselves are learning. Tosyn2much needs to grow up and if he wants to learn about WOMEN he should start dating WOMEN.

tosyne2much:
I don't get you

What don't you get? Why I call you a mysoginist? Read your posts. It's clear you have a low opinion on women that carries an undertone of hate or bitterness.

Blackett:
I said you are a man pretending to be a woman. This is the male comment you made, and the fake pic you use.

Should I explain again?

LOL! I'm starting to think I missed the disclaimer you need to be crazy/sexist to sign up to NL

BaebieHot:
You guys are so fake, like what the hell is wrong with you people? What do u want from us?
Ok, do u want us to ask you out directly! because am sure that would bring up another issue. Na wa o

These are not necessarily acts of desperation.
Some are just flirtatious while others are a form of leading a guy on but don't classify it as desperation. Like c'mon who are u guys?

I will also let you know that there are so many independent ladies out there who prefer to eat out alone without a guy. The fact this does not sound normal to you does not mean it's desperation to get a guy.

Clearly you guys are obsessed with ladies, you can't stop talking about us.

Tosyne2much, it's like u sef are indirectly seeking for our attention, now it's dat desperation? Puhlease spare me all these trivial talks abeg.

More than half of what you mentioned if not all are done by guys too.

Just ignore tosyne2much. He's nothing but a bitter misogynist. I feel sorry for the woman/women who've had to put up with him.

Since I know my bf would too scared to do anything and I wouldn't want to put my bf in that embarrassing position I would kick the guy's balls with all my power then run away like there's no tomorrow.

neutrotoba:
same way you couldn't comprehend the original post, or any post you've been reading since yhu joined nairaland... why not stop wasting ur tym den??

LOL! So true... Worse part is the title of the post states the OP's point. LOL

onila:
Growing up, I thought once you bleach and get burnt

your own don finish

But yesterday in the Library, I met a Nigerian woman who I always suspected she bleaches her skin

I asked how come you look darker, Did you go back to Nigeria?

she was like I used to bleach
but I realized how dumb I was after sometime and stopped

I was like wow, you look more natural, real and more beautiful now
she was so happy when I said that

when she was bleaching, she looked like some amoeba

Ha ha ha... You are gutsy to have told her she looked like an amoeba.

emusmith:
To Us? I doubt...

Young Lady, that's what sexuality section is all about. We say it as it is, with courtesy!

Can you pinpoint a lie in an of my threads? I'm waiting for your reply

Gave you an example just now and also pointed out why it's sexist. What more do you need? Reread what I said maybe you'll get it the second time.

By the way I never said you lied I said you are sexist

emusmith:
I've never had "bashing" in mind as I create threads about "SOME" or "MOST" Ladies.

They are simply true, though bitter.
Every one has some kind of soft spot, I believe.

If you read closely, I candidly respect and honour ladies a whole lot.

Don't feel insulted. Don't take life too serious, as a Lady NLer once told me that changed my perspective. Have fun and be cool.

Do you know? A girl's online character is equivalent to her real life character?
Some get angry and even UN follow you, others UNLIKE your pics, Some refuse to read your thread ...That's Just Who They Are In Real Life:

Unforgiving
Moody
Tired
Lack a spirited life
Boring
Lonely

Our threads are meant to put smiles on your faces. You know, you argue but with " Kid's Gloves"

SMH

It may not be your intention but your posts are sexist. For example the above. The part you made bold - if you are human you are apt to be like that not only women. If you truly respected women you would hear what we are telling you and proceed to change you wouldn't be busy defending you wrong behaviour. We are telling you we don't like your posts, regardless of your intentions. You may not think it's wrong but to us it is and it is offensive. Respect that.

missclassy:
I have read most of the posts relating to seriousbabe and I must say this
Whoever is behind that moniker is mentally sick,psychologically twisted, emotionally depressed, intelligent,psychotic and sociopathic in a sense.

The thing is that most Nigerians don't pay enough attention to things like this. Hence the comments from most people.
I believe serious babe needs help but how can we help him or her

I also think he/she has sociopathic tendencies and I worry he/she will turn criminal and hurt someone. This may have been fun for a while but he will get bored and look for other ways to make himself feel better.

LadyX:
Some of the topics/posts bashing women can make one feel inadequate or if you're not strong, they can lower your self esteem. For instance, when a lady asks for advice, instead of advising some people bash her. They try to justfy why she is facing whatever challenge she is facing, without considering her feelings.

Yesterday I thought of posting a topic, "Say no to ladies being attacked online," but when I thought about the kind of bashing/insults I would receive, I said it's not worth it. I decided not to have anything to do with topics that bash women.

Ironically the first in line always ready to bash and rein curses is other women.

vjsmiles:
i dont really get people that really have important and trivial things to do in the real sense couldnt come here and rant about hating threads life your real life for petes sake and stop depending on this forum for social status.
does nairaland feed you? NO
does nairaland pay you salary? NO
does it improve your self estee? NO
so why all this balderdash
iceberylin pass me my shisha pipe please

Was your post necessary? NO
does it feed you? NO
does it pay you salary? NO
does it improve your self estee? NO
Did you just rant unnecessarily? YES

Oops guess you fall into the category you just criticised - you didn't think that one out all the way did you? Yep, you are right. It really does baffle you, you don't even recognise you yourself are doing it.

Xiadnat:
At op:

I know you just started this initiative, "operation seek and rescue seriousbabe". While it is noble and all; retire early while your sanity is still intact.

Anyone who comes to social network/site like this to portray a mental case or so called "multiple personality disorder" is playing the crowd. And, clearly has gotten to feeble ones like yourself.

Just chuck it to temporary insanity. This person isn't that sick, trust me. If it happens that s/he is; well, you can't save the world.

Social network is not a good place for the 'truly' sick to seek attention. Attention you will get, but not the one you want.

Besides, there are other productive ways to get "real" help on social sites if one needs it.

So go on.....GIT.

I hear you and you are right. I did think seriousbabe could have planned the whole thing and did it deliberately but that in itself is crazy and psychotic for someone to sit down and plan to fake being crazy. It is still attention seeking, the person is still crying out for help albeit in a sick, twisted way.

ilo04:
Nice one but how are we going to help

I wanna talk to her/him to see where his mindset is. Maybe I could even persuade him to seek professional help. Who knows? Maybe Seriousbabe has multiple personalities and she herself doesn't realise she is Blackett and Cklent.

diddydiva:
am not crazy dude.

just giving the guy work ni

K, lol

Aprime:
Stop trying to sound smart.

That was a reasonable question, and you knew sensible people would certainly ask. In desperation to dodge away, you decided to hit up that stupíd line to sheath you.

You're simply another case of seriousbábe.
A jobless adult, seeking attention. Nothing more.

YAWN!
There's nothing reasonable or sensible about your question. It doesn't take much IQ and EQ to figure out the answer. If you are still battling then ask a 5 year old not only are they clearly smarter than you they will also have the patience for your s-l-o-w-n-e-s-s that I don't.

Ps: I don't need to try sound smart. I am smart . My employment status has nothing to do with anything and I couldn't care less what you think you know about me. Believe what you want it takes nothing away from me. I don't know you and will never meet you. Between you and me the only attention seeker is you. You are the one who came here and even though you have no value to add you felt you had to run your mouth. I asked a question that required a certain answer. If YOU had a job, YOU weren't bored with your life and YOU weren't seeking attention you would have quietly exited because you don't know the answer and you have no value to add but nah, nigga just felt he needed the spotlight on him so you and your backward pseudo psychoanalysis just ran your mouth regardless.

Aprime:
I thought you had a Job.
Why do you feel the need to help that weirdo?

I'm going to pretend you understand English and you only happened to miss this part because you read too fast:
...I know there are jack-donkeys here who are going to unnecessarily reply "mtsheew" and "why should I care?". If you have to ask that question then that shows your intelligence is too low to the understand the answer and well, there's nothing the rest of us can
do for you except feel pity for you...

diddydiva:
what a thread!!!

pastor I have so many fake ACC's on nl. they are



DieeDiee , vjsmiles(m ), Seun( m), Andyblaze ,
sheloree ( m), bayulll01 (m ), xynerise (m ), farano(f ),
akinsadeez (m ), kessluvall(f ), RomanceLander ( f ),
tosyne2much (m ), izaray ( f ), marioayoelebute(m ),
Andy790 (m ), LovelyPrince , Blackett , esmarcq,
zaragal ( f ), srone( m), JayKayMaybachz( m),
D9ty7 (m ), MrDojo , eminent007 (m ), marieolae (f ),
mytime24 ( f ), Foxycute(m ), Twaci (f ), Flawlessangel
( m), flaws (m ), Tymax ( m)


deal with this!!!

*DEAD!!!*

I don't think your level of crazy has ever been measured in the history of mankind. I shouldn't be laughing but this is completely HILLARIOUS. Child, God Himself wouldn't be able to help you. LOLEST!!! What does your family say to you? There's no way they haven't noticed all is not well in your upstairs.

So I "met" Seriousbabe I think on a couple of posts. I used to think he or she is annoying at times, I was even dismissive and somewhat rude to her/him a couple of days ago (I apologise to him/her). I know Seriousbabe has been removed but if accusations are true then he/she is probably still around acting like someone else. Yesterday when Seriousbabe/Blackett/Cklent/whoever got busted I found it HILLARIOUS!!! I laughed till my stomach hurt. Now I've been reading posts Diddydiva has shared with me and I've come across Seriousbabe/Blackett/Cklent/whoever's posts. Guys Seriousbabe needs help honestly. I know there are jack-donkeys here who are going to unnecessarily reply "mtsheew" and "why should I care?". If you have to ask that question then that shows your intelligence is too low to the understand the answer and well, there's nothing the rest of us can do for you except feel pity for you. The rest of you guys, I think we did not treat Seriousbabe well. He/she is in a serious crisis. It is clear he/she is lonely and crying out for help. Yes he/she did annoy some of us but let us be human and try to help him or her. Seriousbabe shouldn't have been deleted instead we should have reached out to him/her. Think about it. This person created multiple profiles and then befriended himself and followed his own profiles, declared love to himself etc. This person is begging for a friend and is begging to be noticed. I'm begging you guys for once, stop being donkey-holes and open your hearts. Please help me find Seriousbabe/Blackett/Cklent/whoever.

@tosyne2much

DiddyDiva
shared your posts with me... Dude do you realise you are a misogynist? You need help to deal with your women issues. Get over it! She trashed your heart and it hurt - fine. You still need to grow up and man up. Shiyt happens in the world and will always happen but you don't hate and bash because of that it just shows how immature you are and that is probably why she played you - it had nothing to do with women being bad and deceitful. GROW UP!