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Sosa993, back here again.
What a nice piece you've got her.
This is an interesting work, I must say.

@pwettyella, I see you oo..
Just dey famze surname there

Wow...Sosa993, I've had a wonderful read so far...
Imagine reading this and listening to Beyonce's I was here...

You're the bomb...

I hope you update frequently to keep the zeal in your readers.
Nice one though

Who else went checked out the Legal Marijuana Now Party?
Craze everywhere.


Thanks, Centino....

How come I feel Cynthia's husband is part of the hole....

Nice work Souloho19

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This is some deep stuffz bro.....to get serious with a lady?guy is to stop saying love is blind but gat to open up to the real things that matter....was a good read

gentlegenius:
I was once in Ken's shoes... I dated a young girl about 2 years ago and I was very sure she loved me. But her attitude towards me was very inconsistent. Today she will act like I mean everything to her and she can't live without me. Tomorrow she'll act like I don't mean anything to her or I'm not even part of her life. This got me thinking and wondering what is it that she really wants. Sometimes, she'll behave like we are quarreling when actually nothing gone wrong between us. I used to ask her why she's behaving so warm and cold towards me but she wouldn't have any answer to that. I finally resorted to playing by her rules: Any day she acted warm and loving towards me, I will also act warm and loving towards her. Any day she acted cold and unfriendly towards me, I will simply pay her back with her own coin. With this development, I stopped complaining about her attitude. But I noticed that she, on her own side, wasn't happy to be displaying such attitude towards me, and yet she couldn't stop it. I began to see it as a psychological problem, and I decided to help her overcome it. But unfortunately, she was doing everything possible to prevent me from helping her, and that includes avoiding me sometimes. When her avoidance became too much and too obvious, I resorted back to the rules of the game: paying her back in her own coins. But this time, I went too far... She noticed that I have gone extra miles to show her that I can also avoid her. Sometimes, she'll come to my house with a look of remorse on her face - behaving as if she feels deeply sorry and want to apologize to me, but I will ignore her and continue with the avoiding game. This whole thing baffles me so much because I loved her and I was very sure she loved me. I was always wondering what could make her behave this way towards someone she loved. It was difficult to either continue dating her or let her go.
One day, I read Gary Chapman's book 'Things I wished I had known before marriage'.
This book opened my eyes and I saw the exact reason why she was behaving that way and why changing her was almost impossible. I learned a great lesson that before a man considers a lady for a serious relationship or marriage, he should first of all find out about her mother's attitude especially towards her father... Just like what happened in this story, I discovered that my girlfriend's mother had a very bad attitude and she was constantly fighting and quarreling with her father until they finally seperated.
So, the constant fights, quarrel and sometimes warm, sometimes cold relationship between her parents did not only affect the girls character, but it molded her and shaped her thoughts and emotions to resemble that of her mother; and because it affected her entire being, it was almost impossible for another person apart from her parents to influence or change her.
Back to our story, Ken wouldn't have been able to change Grace no matter how hard he tried, but now that her mother is beginning to talk sense into her, and show her regrets for treating her late husband so coldly, it is possible for her to influence Grace and change her. For it is only the same people that impacted us negatively with their character flaws that can easily influence us to correct those flaws and change.

This to me was an important lesson, that's why I took time to write this.

In case you see this as a useless distraction from the story... I humbly apologize.

Dear Divepen1,

Sure this mail meets you well.

On behalf of friends, well-wishers, readers, commenters, ghost readers, farmzers, family, colleagues, haters, nairalanders, Uites and others, I humbly request you start the second part of this great story.

However, if you hae started or completed already, kindly send the link to the story here.

Much regards,
Me.

Cc: queenitee
Bcc: IRALIFE

This is some deep stuff.

Sometimes, we need to calm and check ourselves before judging other people's actions

And Busayo made a call....


Hmmmmm...deep

ahhhnn..nothing should happen to that girl ooo

Na Blessing they wan use now

Some deep stuffz going on here.

Fome is lesbian?
Menh..some deep stuff

Souloho19...good job manh

Finally back and here...

Souloho19 is a badass.....


Nice work one man.
I feel like driving a power bike now.

queenitee oya make we fall in love na...

Please come and tell us a small thing about agent Sparrow.

Good job souloho19

When the heart breaks, it doesnt break evenly....


Rosemary33...good job

Thank you for the updates.

When I think about love,Ialways pray to get lucky with it.
Thumbs up Rosey

bloda...come and give more

how come I feel that there is something about Agent Sparrow that is not known..


gbayi always Souloho for the update menh

Oyinprince... well-done oo..na so you no mention persin


queenitee...you too dey here..i haff sah enter

this one that she want him to kill Bami now...warapen sef?

wakanda thing is going on here.


so fome is not saying something i should know

Im not really good with write-ups...I have tried and all but...

But Souloho19, it's a good job here bro.

The update, the consistency, the uniformity of character and the role of each character.

Cheers brother.
Drink toa better you.

the hole in the wall

Centino..i love the way you relate today happenings with the characters in the storyline.
I must say, good job brother

okay guyz...its high time we voted for our homie Souloho19

souloho19