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njokusboy:
You are an incorrigible buffoon...
Where do idiots like you spring from?
A woman cheated on her husband, then you are advicing her to say she was raped, if dat does not work, it won't be long before you consider murder, dat is how far desperate lowlifes like you can be...
Do you think it's easy for a man to believe his friend raped his wife, where did the rape happen? Did he do it in your house? If not what were you doing with him? And why did it even take so long for you to say it?
I bet you were too ddumb to consider all this?
The only thing to do here is to come out clean....
If you are going down, do so with some dignity not as a bloody witch...
Seriously, I pity the unfortunate man dat marries someone like you..

It's your father that is a buffoon. Now get out of my sight you enemy of progress, you don't want the girl to progress in her marriage because you are a failure in life and you want everybody to be at your level.
When your sister goofs up in her marriage, evidently she's not perfect either, pls advice her to use her hand and put sand in her garri. But don't cause other people misery just because you are a selfish human being. Nonsense

njokusboy:
@diva, ur suggestion is indeed stvpid, any reasonable man would know ur lying else you would have reported as soon as you were raped...
Nd if that man is really his friend, he won't believe ur story against his...
Dat is me tryong to rationalise ur evil thought...

Nd. I pity your husband...

It might be stupid to a shallow minded individual such as yourself but a real and practical person knows what point I'm trying to get to here. Secondly I'm not shoving my opinion up anyone's throat, that's why it's an OPINION it's up to her to take it or leave it. Don't say the man won't believe it, you can only speak for yourself.
I pity your wife and the sisters that you advice too

SAMBARRY:
it's ok na diva

Shebi I dey my lane, na she come look for my trouble?? I have left her na unless she comes back here barking like a frustrated stray dog again then I have no choice than to keep putting her in her place

Tundeiab:
You sound like a woman who has passed through such before.

Well I haven't and will never be, I'm too smart for that.

I don't recommend offers like this to any couple that have money. If you have money, invest in quality because it's a once in a life time wedding. You can only imagine the quality of services that will be offered to you at such a budget. The cost of all these on a regular day at an average Lagos/abuja wedding of 350-400 guests is nothing less than 3 million. If you decide to have 500k wedding, you already know it's Fanta, Coke and zobo that your guests will be drinking.

taryour:
I have better things doing than exchanging words with a retarded fool on a faceless forum.

Evidently you do for you to have replied that last post and I'm sure your worthless self will still come back here to reply this one. acting like you are busy when we all know that you are nothing but a jobless idiot seeking so badly her 5 mins of fame. Educated illiterate with no common sense

taryour:
Spare me all this rant abeg and say it to the dogs.

Whatever bit*ch! Unfortunately the truth hurts!

taryour:
Oh i see how less a hypocrite you are. So you would rather leave under a roof with your husband and sleeping on the same bed, eating from same plate and keep such info from your man. And you claim you love him? Its the likes of you that poinson thier husbands to prevent them from knowing the truths.

I repeat you have a wicked heart and if you can do what you have typed then your are worse than the blackmailer. How can you leave under same roof with a man you claim you love with such event eating up your heart? yes it could be true that you dont disclose everything ( which i personally dont believe in and yes i am a married woman with kids ) but not in this type of thing.

What happens when the husband eventualy finds out the truth What will you do You can lie for years bit definately one day the truth will catch up with you.

SHAME on you if you are a woman. I hope you dont go planting such thoughts in your daughters head.

No! SHAME ON YOU!! Because you don't think like a wise woman.
Okay! She confesses, he sends her packing... What next Marriage done end... You have succeeded in helping her ruin her marriage. She even specified it in her write up that the man will send her packing if he finds out, read it again.
In this world we all have our secrets including you... Including her husband. Do you think the man doesn't have things he has kept to himself that the wife doesn't know?? Or Can you honestly say that you have never lied in this life or hidden a truth that would have deprived you of a benefit?? Answer na! Because you are a Saint that can never do wrong Abi?
You are entitled to your silly opinion but I'm trying to be as practical and as realistic as I can be with the Poster. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. When you run into your own problems, handle it the way you have prescribed and let's see if you will survive it.

taryour:
are you a woman you must have a wicked heart. You are even worse than the blackmailer. Christ!!!!!

Sorry for you! Unfortunately you are the wicked soul here. It's people like you that will mislead this lady into ruining her marriage when if you were in her shoes you would have done worse. Hypocrite!! you are expecting me to advice her to confess to her husband, my dear, when you get married if you aren't already , you will know that it's not everything you tell your husband. She has made a mistake that she is remorseful for. So why lead her to make a second mistake that can potentially ruin her home

freshvine:
And you think a man with such devilish and sinister plan won't have an evidence in this age and time?

Have you ruled out the possibility of a recording device like phone, wristwatch, pen, hidden camera etc.

My dear think

That was why I stated it there. Did you read my post well at all? Secondly there is also a probability he might not have evidence, he's probably just instilling fear into the woman so that he can manipulate her. I mean you weren't there, so don't act like you know everything

LagosNIV:
Adjusting status on a B1/B2 visa is a misuse of the tourist visa... You do understand that, right?

She already had the B2 prior to adjusting. She just applied to adjust barely 2 months ago. We just want to know if she will be able to renew it. Will she?

Go to any Catholic Church around, ask to see the parish priest. Talk to him, usually they have reverend sisters who they can recommend to you to assist you. They can make accommodation for you and your baby and look for a good catholic orphanage that can take in your baby when he/she is born for safe and proper adoption. Good luck! What ever you do, don't give your baby out to just anyone. Too many wicked and dishonest people in our society.

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Don't give him money. The moment you give him money, he will ask for more and keep black mailing you. Don't tell your husband about what happened either( you already know he won't forgive you and you will use your hand to scatter your marriage)... Spoil his so called friend's image/reputation first by telling your husband that his friend made sexual advances at you and that you want him to leave the house because you don't feel comfortable with his presence anymore. Men don't like it when their territory is being threatened so u know that telling him something like that will quickly alert his senses....If your husband trusts you, he will believe you and act fast by then you have already made his friend handicapped and he cannot carry out his blackmail or soil your image any more. The only way that you will be In serious trouble is if you two have a sex tape or he secretly recorded you carrying out the deed. Other than that you should be fine... Just speak out first and fast

I have a vital question. My sister is currently processing her change of status in the US aka green card. She's scheduled to visit nigeria soon... I would like to know if She would still be able to renew her B2 visa in Lagos this feb, visa expires in March. Is it possible to have the other process on going and also have a visa renewal? They gave her a slip when she applied for a visa in 2014 saying She qualifies for a drop box renewal next time

Because he still has a chance to prove that he is not guilty until the court finds him guilty. There have been cases where innocent people who are just mere suspects have been arraigned to court.

I remember the days when $500 was less than 100k, now $500 = N140,000. Incredible!

But why are banks no longer selling PTA/BTA

Dominiquez:
I am still wondering how we allowed a man who retired 30 years ago and never ran any business but rear cow to come back and become our leader.

Welcome to the cow paradise.

Well....... he is our leader and will be our leader till 2023. So stop nagging, get used to it and accept the fact that change has come to stay

Temporarily... Yes! Permanently No! Because once the sweet beginnings of the marriage is over, he will be back out there exploring again and looking for new thrills

This won't stop BDCs from operating because they will surely find a way to get dollars. However black market will be extremely expensive to buy as I suspect that with this ban, naira to dollar exchange will be about N300+/$ soon

busomma:
The banks are not helping matters as a matter of fact. I am in Washington DC as I write this. I withdrew $200 from bank of America @ the rate of N277.8/$ against official rate of N199/$.

Are cards still working on foreign ATMs

bigug04:
Please what's the rate at the black market?

Dollar is N282 as of today

What is 'quitted' ?

Keep the sabbath day holy aka go to church?

Isn't there anybody above the manager that you can report to? Or is there a way that you can file a complain to HR? Maybe they might be able to move you to another branch. I can only imagine what you are going through, there's no greater torture than coming to work everyday with no atom of peace of mind. It's evidently not a healthy environment for you to be in

They renewed their vows, she's not a new wife

Not in support of both parties cheating but why is it that When a woman cheats it's a problem, when a man cheats, it's understandable... Things have changed! Men watch your backs because What a man can do, a woman can do better.

Nice campus, I'm impressed

Lol

One of the reasons I never get involved in loans. Serve her papers through a lawyer demanding for immediate payment and let the lawyer emphasize on what would happen if the conditions are not met. Which is going to court and possibly getting jail time. I wonder why people borrow money that they know that they will never pay back and I'm sure you are not her only victim

who knows the things she must have already done with the politician ex boyfriend and im sure its not just 40k that shes being paid...there's more to the story that you her husband doesn't know.... there must be some juicy exclusive offers involved and probably an on going affair as well....investigate properly. good luck!