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Tough one! I think most men would save their mum. Anybody that picks money over the life of these two important people is a dangerous person.

Because of N200

Begging won't change the situation. It will only make your husband and the mistress even more proud and arrogant. I suggest you take this issue to strong members of the family that he listens to like his father or an uncle that he respects. let them advise him. If all is said and done and he does not change then you might want to think about 'something' else. I'm not advising you to arrange acid for her or touts to scatter her face beyond recognition. You might want to look into this spiritually because your husband may have been manipulated/charmed. Have you noticed any other strange behaviours? Did your husband have this tendency previously or was this a sudden change? Visit a strong man of God and let him guide you through this, also pray fervently. Some babes are desperate and will do anything to have a hang on a man even if he is married or not. The last and final option which I don't advice would be to get a separation/divorce. Because the moment you leave, you are making way for her to come in. Don't let the devil win. Good luck!

I don't know why people carry out evils like this. If you can't keep a maid without physically abusing them, don't get one. It's hard to see people do to these young children what they would never dream of doing to their kids.

Atmmachine:
I'm in fear.
I don't want to deal with anyone again.
I got scammed.
I sent $5000 to someone in Nigeria and it's been a week and i haven't received my money.
Mehn, You guys need to watch out.
These guys will take advantage of you.

What are you gonna do ??
Book a $1,500 flight to Nigeria to come track the guy who scammed you of a small amount of money and also waste your precious time.

I hope you learn from my mistakes and not fall a victim to them savages.
You will start hearing stories on how people are scammed here.

I was just laughing because it's just a small money to me.
I hope the guy uses the money for a reasonable stuff.

You took a huge risk! You mean you lost $5000= N1.5m I never advice anyone to do these transactions without seeing the person up front. So many undercover scammers on this thread seeking their prey. It's terrible .

Is there any bank currently selling BTA/PTA at the moment?

That baby is his carbon copy

Google is your friend. The info is on the Nigerian immigration website

Spirit of gambling has taken over. You need serious counseling and help. In the meanwhile, make it a point of duty not to play that game again... Restrain yourself and have some self control. It's going to be tough but you can do it

lomaxbien:
Thanks guys
@NL
Still up for sale

How much is it? Can you msg me and Is it in Lagos?

onatisi:
I can see u don't know about the business. Pls if you have the time ,try and interview those drivers and hear their side then you will know better. And pls pls pls don't advice any blood relations of yours to do transportation business unless that person is a complete tout

Speak for yourself. I'm telling you what I know. I have cab men I patronize regularly and they tell me how the business works for them. Maybe you are comparing Keke business to actual cab business.

onatisi:
70k a in Nigeria??
pls,have u done a cab business before ?

Yes oo! Depending on your location. Ask all those Lagos island cab drivers how much they charge. Just from lekki to ikeja airport is about 7k,8k. Some of them do that runs atleast 3 times or more in a day. Check 7k x 3= that's approximately 21k in a day. Some peoples monthly salary. Even those pple that make 2k or 3k per runs. Imagine if they carried 6 people for 3k that's 18k in a day. 18k x 6 is what? The profit you make depends on your location and availability/commitment to the job

Wasn't that the aim of you having unprotected sex with your boyfriend in the first place? To conceive and pass it on to your husband as his? Anyways this post has been a while, what happened? How did you handle the issue?

At that age most professional cooperate bodies will not accept you without experience unless you are applying for jobs like security guard, cleaner or driver. Your best bet would be to create a job for yourself or try options such as teaching and cab driving. Believe it or not cab driving is actually very lucrative. Some of these cab drivers make up to 70k a week

Beautiful car! Love the interior and the front of the car

timunstopable:
Abeg h much is iphone 5s london used now

Wats the difference btw American and London specs

Holywizard:
imagine ashawo i dey bang always for #500 so after yesterday's own i banged her without negotiating bt after de wrestling, she said her fee was #2000 because of high price of dollar & i was like 'sheybi u dey service ur toto wit foreign products?'

Lol ....

The 220k multinational oil and gas makes more sense just because of the exposure and experience it will give you. As your contract reaches expiration, you can begin to scout for a new job, I'm sure with a good record it shouldn't be hard for you to move to another oil and gas firm or you could even seek another job within same company via internal recruitment

It's going to be a tough rough road but I suggest you find a way to keep the child. Even if you can't raise the baby, have the child and give the baby up for adoption. Don't make the mistake that many girls have made which is hunting them till tomorrow. Abortion is evil and the aftermath will leave you with depressing thoughts. Secondly you would have committed murder which is a very grevious sin. You cannot undo it. Find someone you are close to , let them help u break the news to your mum, your parents will be very angry and disappointed but trust me, that anger is temporary but the guilt of abortion is forever. They will eventually get to accept and love that child in the future. The only issue is that the two families will have to be involved in the upkeep of the child. Like I said it's not going to be an easy route but trust me, you will look at your child 10 years from now and be glad you took this advice. Look at it as a blessing in disguise. Next time when you have sex always make sure you use protection. It not only will protect you against pregnancy but what about all those nasty diseases out there? Wish you all the best!

Addicted2Women:
Do you have the right to tell anyone what to do ??
Are sugar mummies not human like you and i ??


They ought to be happy in life.
They are the most caring people on earth, just imagine caring for a guy and giving him everything he wants,

No girl that can do that for you ??


From my experience, they are the best.


Dating younger girls are sometimes hectic and full of demands.
She will want to know where you are every minute of the day.
She is on Facebook, twitter, Instagram all day.
They don't know what they want.

If you have a sugar mummy, you will be treated like a kid and spoiled with gifts,cars, houses and money, all you have to do is give her the sex whenever she wants it.
She is more experienced, she don't nag or complain for anything.



Why would you waste your time in dating younger girls, spend money on them and at the end of the day, she will move to another nigga.


You need to have fun, keep your sugar mummy happy and at the end of the day, you will go to vacations, get some cars and houses and some money into your bank account

[size=15pt]I'm proud to be a sugar son.[/size]

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No

Your state of origin remains your state of origin. Marriage does not change where you originated from

I don't see this lasting! They are too focused on social media impressions rather than keeping their relationship private

The finest is the one on white with straight hair

naijafella:
Renumeration?

Doubt it will reach 20k since its ssce qualification

Is nigeria better than Ghana?

Joy1706:
If my husband cheated on me, It'd be extremely difficult to forgive him. If he impregnate a woman outside, there would be no forgiveness not to talk of him sleeping and impregnating my maid in our house. Hahahahaha! Fogerrit o. No coming back from that. I would divorce him, we'd divide our assets and I'd claim damages for adultery sef and move on. OR I'd remain married to him, kick the maid out but we'd definitely have an open marriage and he won't say jack about it. We'd be strictly room mates, do your things by yourself and vice versa. If he doesn't like it, he can as well move out.

Those women who are saying they'd collect the child, una try sha

Thank you. This is the only realistic comment on this post. I would have absolutely done the same.

Mamatee07:
more like a weak woman with low self esteem

oh I just comprehended what you wrote. Yes you are accurate

Lol I just had a good laugh!

Man cheats, gets maid pregnant, expects forgiveness.
Woman cheats with one of her staff, husband finds out and sends her packing.
How unfair! A man that stoops so low should prepare himself for the worst. only a very strong woman can remain still in such a situation

There's no rule as to what age a woman or man should get married. It's mental muturity that matters the most. Marriage is a very serious matter.

Where are all the animals?