₦airaland Forum

Addicted2Women:
The exchange rate on the black market was $1 to 305 naira as at January 17th 2016.

It went to $1 to 295 naira today January 19th 2016.

Trust me, naira will not appreciate.
It will keep going down.

Can some put a bet with me ??
$1 will exchange for 400 naira by July 2016.

Let's watch and see the trend these few weeks

OneONYX:
House please help. I have a job offer each from PWC and Deloitte (associate positions) and I'm kinda confused.
Your posts will help a lot.

Is associate position an administrative post? Also what was your starting pay

Not true! My husband wasn't the richest suitor that I had yet I accepted his proposal. I had extremely rich men at my feet promising me the world but I set all that aside because I knew that even with all those riches I would not have peace of mind because of the type of men they were. Yes money matters but it's not all about the money! there are some women out there who are ready to support their men and build with them. Lastly I never advise any woman to totally rely on any man's wealth. ladies, have your own money and investments, you will thank yourself later.

Works for some people, so it's not a taboo. As for me it's a No! I've always liked and dated older men... My goal was to marry a man atleast 7-12 years older than I am. My ex was 9 years older than me. I'm now married, My husband is 5 years older than me

140k - 165k and 30k - 45k

shegsky:
lol. See me, the one i bought was size 18 , or is there an italian size just like shoe size when it comes to ring ni. Cos am now confused .

Check the conversation, I gave you US size

This is barbaric

shegsky:
Anybody willing to help me with the kinda size of ring that could enter thru these finger comfortable
@jopretty, Do u have an idea .

I'm guessing she's a size 8 or 9

Wiseoldman:
Ask her to be sure, or take the exact measurement while she is fully wake. Ask her for the kind of ring she likes...platinum, yellow gold, white gold, etc. Tired of all these pointless copy cat Hollywood drama. I'm a business man so is my fiance, we have no time for childish one day fairy tale.

So unromantic

If you know any of her close friends , plan the proposal with her. Tell her friend to investigate her ring size and get back to you on it. Her friend can jokingly ask her one day what size of ring she wears , that way she won't suspect. You can also snap her fingers and show a reputable jeweler that has been in business for years, person would be able to give you an approximate ring size but the first option I gave is always better.

Story number 2 is very believable. Ive heard stories of couples conflict during their reception over who will pick money and handle certain responsibilities on the big day. I have also heard of a case where the two families of the bride and groom were visibly quarreling and almost fighting themselves but it's hard to believe that such silly issues would break a new marriage up.

It's a CONTRACT job, I wouldn't advise he abandons a life time investment such as a masters degree for a short time job. If it was a permanent job offer, it would have made a lot more sense.

kilode100:
Meaning?
A womanising man is a full LovePeddler in the bedroom.. They know the right places to touch and I love being touched..
Who cares whose bed he crawls out from??

Loving money more than me only means he's gonna be super duper rich and That's a nice thing abi?

I also smoke substances.. It all works out very well.

Just listen to your self my dear...

1. Are you ready for the numerous STDs that would come your way? Dealing with a promiscuous man comes with many consequences to your health as a woman. Take a day off and go to a public hospital and see the number of women who have been infected by their wayward husbands of either HIV or another common std

2. Have u seen a man who loves money, makes it and doesn't spend it on anyone else but themselves? Stingy to the core? Ask women who are married to rich stingy men how they suffer daily in their marriages despite the fact that there is money

3. Thirdly how are you both going to successfully raise responsible kids while smoking your lives out? Your goal as an adult should be to build an environment where you are a role model not just to your kids but everyone around you

openmine:

This guy is wicked

Lol!

No! I've seen a man give a babe 50k transport money to catch a cab. So imagine what he would spend if he took that babe out on an exotic date. People do it ... You go to the club and see pple blowing 150k on a bottle of champagne. It's just a matter of cutting your coat according to your size ... To some pple 50k on a date is not a big deal

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Hehe...but what kind of dumb guy saves his side chick's name with that sobriquet? [/color]

Lol! Same way a babe can save a guys name as 'Emeka ATM' or 'Tayo Bae #2 ' just don't go through your FWB phone if you know that your relationship is not yet seriously defined

Look good for your wife or look good for the ladies?? Which one

estheremma:
just rush to a good gynae to guide u.keep d baby.it will only be tough for some months.hubby needs to show love.dnt listen to all this teens on nairaland.i kept mine n they are 13 & 12 now.they look lyk twins.marriage is not easy.stop listening to all these people most are single.Do u guys know that family planning fails?yes it happened to me!only abstinence is safe n that is impossible in a mans house.For the person saying one year,sexual relations resume 6weeks after delivery according to medicine.pls most of u that are too young can go to romance section.tanx

What kind of family planning were you using that failed?

Op I hope you wife has started cooking for you now

Omg! I opened this post when I was eating

She simply needs medical help. She has a bladder problem. Take her to a doctor that can help her else the problem will persist.

edohdaniel:
I received mail from KPMG for an aptitude test with dragnet. Please anybody with dragnet past question should forward to my mail. "edohdaniel@gmail.com" I have written dragnet test several times but did not pass.

how tough were the exams and how soon did kpmg call you to write an exam with them after applying?

tomdon:
shutupuu!!!
how much was your own contribution inside the 10million naira
mcheewwwww

GO AND ASK YOUR GREAT GRAND FATHER. ANUOFIA!

Lol very funny scam. The degree of grammatical blunders alone is already enough red flag

tpiah2:
Bellanaija has featured hundreds or thousands of weddings, which one was yours?

scammers, ignore my post.

I said I can't reveal my identity on this forum. The moment I give one person the link. Everybody will know who I am. The reason why I said I will drop a "Vague" clue....

agarawu23:
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10 gini? Na las Vegas na go do am ni?

Pictures or you know the rest

Unfortunately I can't reveal my identity on this forum but I'll give you a vague clue... My wedding was featured on BellaNaija.

agarawu23:
better.
Are u married or single?
If you are to plan your wedding, how much will your budget be? If you are married already, how much was the cost?

We are all here to learn and gain experience

I'm married, wedding was in Lagos and we spent almost 10 million if not more on both trad and white wedding. Just decor alone for the white wedding was 1.7 million. Cost almost a million to rent the hall, food and drinks more than 3 million for both weddings etc luckily we had the support of both parents. So it was a success!

agarawu23:
so I should invest all my life savings because I want a quality wedding (and cos its a life time thing abi?) Thank u.

No wonder exposed ladies are hanging around in their parents house @35.

Mr sesan a neighbor who lives close to my dad's house got married 5 years ago, I knew the bro was below average financially but his wedding was very cool and everyone was happy.

Since he was like a uncle to we guys in the street, I asked him how much the wedding cost him. He told me he spent nothing less than 115k since he can't pass his boundary cos of a day event and there was happiness on the ladies face despite being a low budgeted event. This man is living happily with his wife and two kids till date and God has been providing for him.

My cousin got married 4 and half years ago and the wedding was a big one (what do u expect when his dad is a car dealer and a property agent plus the guy is a Yahoo guy). The wedding was a lavished one cos of the status of his dad and of cus he wants to impress friends and family. (I was present and I know millions spent on that event). As I am writing now, there is no peace in their home till date. My dad is now their councillor when ever they make trouble and start their everyday wahala(his dad is alws abroad).

In conclusion, I am not not saying expensive lavish wedding aren't lasting and vice versa but as we dey see as things dey go, majority of this lavish wedding don't last and this are the kind of wedding our ladies of nowadays are working towards to and some of them will end up marrying a ritualist. All that glitters aren't gold.

Accept your fate and cut your coat to your size.
Some will even go into debt just to do a big wedding and after the event, u will see different people coming to embarrass them for unpaid debt.

That was why I emphasized on the phrase "couples that have the money"... Even with this 900k budget you will still see people that want to have 50k wedding ... Like you said, let everyone cut their coat according to their size

edwife:
Please when you said advice a woman ruin her home how? Didn't she ruin her home by sleeping with her husband's friend in her matrimonial home probably on her matrimonial bed?

If you said that she must use evil to cover another evil good but ain't nobody ruining something she ruined by herself.

So what are you advising her to do now? Since you know everything. You and I know that if you were in her shoes, you will not tell your husband. So why advice her to do that even when u can see that it will scatter her home.

njokusboy:
Gerrara here, onye I beribe, anuofia...
So your mother thought you that the best way to progress in your marriage is to cheat on your husband and claim you were raped...
You are a disgrace to the woman that carried you for 9 months...
Cheating on your husband is no goof, if you can do it then you should be able to take the fall for it not lying to cover it up...
If any sister of mine is so stvpid as to sleep with her husbands friends, i'd help her husband pack her things out of his house after flogging the evil spirit out of her...
I don't support evil...

Anu mpama. You are the one that's a disgrace to your entire family and generations to come. You don't support evil but yet you advice a woman to ruin her home. I wonder why people like you even visit threads like this, you are the same motherfuckers breaking homes and luring naive women into trouble. Swear that you are a one woman man now and drop dead. Shameless fool!

SAMBARRY:
it's only a daft woman that will follow this stupidity typed here.Op accept this at your own peril.you have to follow divas suggestion if you still love yourself. That's where your emotional strength is needed moreso he doesn't have evidence since there was no picture taken it will only make ur hubby friend look stupid

Thank you, atleast there is one person thinking right on this thread. When will pple learn that it's not everything you disclose to your spouse... Even a marriage counsellor will tell you this.