₦airaland Forum

banom:
Miracles do happen, and it happens everyday. But if the miracle you talking about is to expect that now you have financial need for your house rent, that from nowhere your phone will just ring and a stranger will just say take this money and fix your life, you are actually deluding yourself. .. nothing like that happens.

See the possible solutions to your challenge.

1, Meet the landlord and honestly explain your situation to him, and ask him to please give you more time to fix things up, and bring him his rent, and give him the one you have already ( if any ).

2, Move into a cheaper accommodation; one you can afford to pay for now. If things Improves tomorrow, you can rent a better one.

3, Fnd someone to borrow from, and pay the person later. Or take loan from your working place.

4, find someone and stay with for now, if you get enough money, you can now rent your own house.

5, Double your hustle.

It is in doing any or some of those things I wrote above that the miracle you are looking for will come. It won't come by just staying one place and be praying for God to intervene. God don't work that way. Your miracle will most likely also not come by you going into a betting shop to gamble the little money you have already to see if you can increase it and pay for the rent. You are most likely going to move from frying pan to fire.

Whichever you choose to do, ensure you don't end up being homeless, or thinking suicide Challenge is a normal thing in life, and everyone is facing one form or the other, and it is a lifelong thing. But it does not consume a person who always keeps his or her hope alive.

Shalom bro,..God loves you, and may he see you through.

Darlingme:
Honestly things are really getting crazy with the nature of story that spring forth everyday. I was in counseling session with a woman days ago and I lack what to adviced.

What can you advise in a situation where the husband refused to go out to get a job nor engage in any form of business or do anything to provide for his home? He always complain and turn down any job suggestion from his wife, thereby watching her do all the struggles all alone?
He stays back at home and wait for what his wife's beings?
What kind of situation is this?
Are they men out there who really practice this kind of lifestyle?
What would you advise such a wife?
Is this enough reason for a woman to cheat?

Ugaboy:
Women too should be encouraged to participate in politics.

slivertongue:
Women deserve a place in govt house and in governance

odenkirk:
et them die. as a man nobody likes u nd body feels for u learn to be cruel and hearless

nairalanda1:
Divorce happens because of breakdown of communication and because both sides do not look before they leap.

Plus, if you want to avoid divorce, work hard on your marriage.



How about you tell me first how you do it. I'm not an influential man, old chum.



Do I look like a marriage counsellor to you? Are you one yourself?

Stop hating women, maybe your relationship with them would improve.

Glottitis!

IyaebeTheGreat:
What happens to forgiveness, what did Jesus say about forgiveness. This pastor is a case of " practice what I preach but not what I do"

nairalanda1:
Divorce happens because of breakdown of communication and because both sides do not look before they leap.

Plus, if you want to avoid divorce, work hard on your marriage.



How about you tell me first how you do it. I'm not an influential man, old chum.



Do I look like a marriage counsellor to you? Are you one yourself?

Stop hating women, maybe your relationship with them would improve.

Glottitis!

nairalanda1:
Divorce happens because of breakdown of communication and because both sides do not look before they leap.

Plus, if you want to avoid divorce, work hard on your marriage.



How about you tell me first how you do it. I'm not an influential man, old chum.



Do I look like a marriage counsellor to you? Are you one yourself?

Stop hating women, maybe your relationship with them would improve.

Glottitis!

nairalanda1:
So the story about his mom being in charge of the money was not true

And Nairaland men, most of us, were rejoicing and calling Hakimi a wise man

The fact is, when a story is not in any of the major sport or ordinary news sites and newspapers, but is hearsay, it is a lie until proven otherwise.

Looks like Hakimi is no longer the hero we thought he was.


Modifed

Listen up people who are quoting me

In France, in a divorce case, if any one of the parties is discovered hiding any income from the other party, the offended party can request a new divorce trial, and the party that his hiding the income better cough it up.

So, Hakimi, if he did what you are praising him for , is in a world of potential trobule.

Divorce proceedings run on people fully disclosing their money in its entirety. If any one of the parties is discovered hiding money, the proccedings can start again.


Oh and one more thing.

If you are a man , and you are cheering for Hakimi because women are evil in your book, better change your mindset. Thanks. You will soon marry, and you will soon have children, male and female. For their sake, change your mindset.

Modified

Most of the main papers who report the thing say...unsourced, unsubstantiated...to refer to the story.

Flamemignon1:
Yep they founded societies and deemed anything that weren't like them beneath them hence taking and continue to take from other genders,look at the world they created today

Flamemignon1:
Men made up the patriarchy and women just followed like mindless zombies because the men used their power to make it so. They are literally following the footsteps y'all created for them,only today that majority are deviating from it so you can't blame them for being the zombies y'all created

Flamemignon1:
"Neglected".... males literally have all the power,who created the patriarchy?

Peterobi90:
Honestly i am struggling to understand you...

Century?
Marriage is for what then if not legal procreation?
Guilt trip who?
Archaic thinking?

Was the comment for me?

Flamemignon1:
What century are you living in? You don't marriage for procreation and the definition of achievement is relative. If marriage is your aim,good for you but don't rope others or guilt trip them in your archaic thinking

Peterobi90:
Men don see things for this life...

The discrimination is too much, what about the boychild, is it a sin to be a man?.. do men not need help and assistance?

If we don't help train gentlemen to marry the "trained girl child" and birth reasonable children what is the point of all the concentration on women in respect to procreation?... Men are humans too.

Career jobs - women most preferable
Government - concentrates more on the girl child
Aids companies - concentrates on the girl child
Kids - concentrates more on their mothers...
Accomplished men - concentrate on the women

MEN NEED TO START SPEAKING UP.... its part of your resources being shared to help the girlchild while neglecting the boychild... rate of male suicide is 80% compared to 20% of women.. unemployment for men is through the roof, but men don't speak up because no one cares to listen or bothered...

Stay strong soldiers...

Righteousness2:
Wherever you are on the Face of the Earth, Listen to the voice of reasoning
Listen to the word of GOD
Listen to GOD'S Standard of Marriage so you don't use your hands to destroy yourself.

Marriage is between a Man and a woman and it is For better for worse! Until death do you part.
GOD Hates Divorce.
The Only permission given to anyone to remarry is if your spouse is dead. Outside that you are living in Adultery, Fornication, Deceiving yourself and on your way to Hell.

Departing from your spouse and remarrying either as a man or woman is Adultery.

If you are 2nd, 3rd, 4th so on wife in a home, as long as the First legally married wife is alive, you are Decieving yourself. Pack your bags and leave that Home. Eternity is a Personal Race. It is not a family or community race.

If you are a Man and you jumping up and down from one woman to another in the name of wife, you are jumping to Hell. Your 1st legally wife is your wife. Settle and Discharge the others. Eternity is a Personal Race.

Consult the Word of GOD so as not to make mistakes!
Matthew 19:4-9, Malachi 2:16

Alawode01:
Jobless and sick people also are the majority in the churchs today ,so what is the different

SmartPolician:
In truth, this lady is out to prove that what a man can do, a woman can do better. This is really commendable because our women need to be independent to add more value to our society. For instance, if we didn't have someone like Okonjo-Iweala, which Nigérian would have considered winning the bid to lead World Trade Organisation?

However, many ladies mistake neofeminism for feminism. Those neofeminists need to understand that many educated guys - I don't mean the SENSELESS alpha males on Nairaland - want their wives to be financially independent. So, there's no basis for competition and rancour between the two genders.

Congratulations to Amanda!

olumide4christ:
When I read the comments of many Nairalanders on this naira re-design matter and how it will stop vote buying by politicians, I just laugh because it is obvious that it's either they are not exposed or they are just plain ignorant.

If and whenever the new naira notes come into circulation, be rest assured that the multi-milliionaires, billionaires and politicians in this country will be the 1st to get it before you and me get it.

I know this having worked directly with 2 billionaires while I was in paid employment and my dad having worked with 1 of the former south West governors and later senator for 17 years before he retired in 2020.

A lot of Nairalanders don't know that the banks categorize multi-millionaires, billionaires and politicians as HIGH NET WORTH INDIVIDUALS (HNI), and as such, they provide them with VIP service which you and I are not eligible for.

Some banks like GTBANK even have special branches for these HNI people, just like the new branch on Awolowo Road, Ikoyi, which I was among the consultants. Another one is on Sobo Arobiodu street, Ikeja GRA and Bayo Kuku street, by Gerrard road, Ikoyi.

These HNI people hardly ever go to these branches...it's the account officers that go to them bringing anything the need, cash, cheque book, any forms whatsoever. If these people need new notes even at 8pm, they are just a call away from getting it.

All the times I went to visit my dad when he was working with that governor, all the cash I ever collected from there in form of transportation fare or gift were new mint notes. Where did they always get it from?

If you don't know, all those bank managers and MDs are in the pocket of these HNI people. It's their big money that forms the main capital of these banks. My last boss was a case in point. I was told that he had controlling shares in Heritage bank. In fact, whenever any of the top people of the bank were going on leave, they would come to our office and greet him, telling him they were going on leave. Nothing happened in the bank without his consent. Do you now think such a person will need new notes/currency and the bank will choose to put the new currency in ATM for you and me and neglect the person that gave capital to keep their bank in business?

It's what it is, unfortunately.

Thus, anyone thinking that our presidential and governorship candidates will lack new mint notes when the time comes are on a very long thing. Even Emefiele knows this...if he doesn't, then he must be the most naive CBN governor in history!

BadRadio:
The only person that should know where u live are ladies you don't have sex with.

When u intend to have sexual relationship with anyone, don't let them have ur personal details or home address.

Hookup babes can be dangerous and mean... if u fall-out with them and they have ur home address, u are finished !!!


Girlfriend will always find her way to your house after she has ur address whether u like it or not, and if ur the cheating type, expect her to show up uninvited.

If you have issues with her, and try to stay away from her, she'll always be at ur doorstep to resolve with u.

It's hard to break-up with a woman who knows where u live, u ignore her calls and she'll keep coming to ur house and begging u to take her back., if you refuse, she'll start talking to the people around, like ur flatmates or siblings to talk to u on her behalf.

If she accidentally gets pregnant, she'll just pack her family or the police to your house, that's if u try to deny it.

If you forcefully reject, hurt and abuse her... she could just get some tough thugs to attack u.


Receive sense in Jesus Name

Blessedmercy8:
My dear people change.

I just hope Basketmouth is not looking at those other celebrities dumping their spouses and going for smaller girls. Men can copy bad things, you know.

Candidlady:



"Society has no place for a man like wiseone28. The police force has no place for an officer like wiseone28. Enhle and Sithembile deserve justice. They had their whole lives and he recklessly took away their future and left us in deep hurt and unbearable suffering."


They all deserve death. . If God could snatch air away from these genders this world would be a better place

EverGrand:
What does this mean in clear terms?

Jolly1010:
That's not true. The available data shows opposite.

Ckonnet:
Until you give them political appointment.
Just look at finance minister n her sister at the other ministry. They act like they have nothing to loose

olumide4christ:
Go and read my post...I left Benin City in 1992..I am an indigene of Ogun state, thus I voted for Amosun in 2011...19 years apart.... hope you understand now?

olumide4christ:
Well, checking the entire thread, you seem to be the only one who has lived in Benin, and Edo state and feels Oshiomhole did nothing...and the rest of us are aliens.

You are always entitled to your opinion, and as you know, opinions are not always facts.
Regards.

Righteousness2:
Whoever loves this young man should tell him that he is deceiving himself.

Whoever loves this young man should tell him that apart from his 1st legally married wife, any other woman he is frolicking with is Adultery.

GOD'S standard of Marriage is One man , One woman. Any other thing is Wiman and man deceiving themselves in Iniquity.

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Kobojunkie:
Na the "women are property" mentality dey do many of them.

Kobojunkie:
Isn't it unlawful to hold someone hostage in Nigeria?