₦airaland Forum

Women, girls and ladies that believe in equal rights (50/50) to their men.

You provoke them they dump you for another asap. Marriage or not

larryking540:
and who is a feminist ,? sorry If I may ask please

Congrats to the new couple.
Nairaland no do Aso ebi ni?

Yes.

Dating for 4 years?

Don't fight her again.
Pack out of the house, let her win.
Have your peace.

Vixenn:
he only focuses on work. I told him to allow my best friend to stay so I will feel safe, but he refused...
Last week she beat me, stripped me, penetrated me with her fingers and snapped me... If I leave my Boyfriend's place she will win, but I feel I will soon stab her...
Please how can I handle her, rn I careless if she dies

Op, you try but lower your tone so that you don't pass the good message in a wrong way. I am a woman and I understand. But these benefits does not apply to feminist.

NiRfreak:
[b]Here are the benefit of disciplining your woman when she goes wrong.
So it's true u get better sex from your woman when you discipline her bad behavior.

You don't really like this guy seriously. Leave him and his life na.

He chooses to share his humble beginning with his nairaland family.

When him blow big now, you go say you knewd im .

Cokahot:
Odeh. I have told u they will give u h.i.v or blackmail u. U will end up poor. You can never be rich. Dont relocate. No worry u will beg for accommodation fees when your rent expires and I'd make sure no ones contributes a dime towards that.

Clutch and brake to slow down
Clutch and brake to stop
Clutch and brake for bad road
As my driving instructor taught me to sing it that year

Me love manual cars abeg. Wetin be automatic?

Buying time to fabricate comfortable evidences to incriminate more people. Sorry sorry o(in Femi Kuti's voice)

CharisEleos:
This is a pure Case of murder. I wonder what else they are still investigating when the culprit has already admitted to committing the crime.

Positive influence. Ride on.

Can you borrow me this picture

Kenneth10110:
CR7

Greed.

I hope Nigerian government won't run down his business because URA can destroy their own except you're from North like Dangote. I come I peace

Every one of us have our vulnerable/weak moments. [s]Some could be in sleep or after eating too much food. Just like snakes[/s]... our enemies may strike then may God help us.

If you don't feel comfortable around them please move out ASAP please don't play with your life.

Ilamina:
They were so nice
Why do I mess things up

I was beginning to enjoy their parties � they throw in the area

And their noisy friends
Sad, now I have to move out for my own safety

Lol...

Black people are poor. Rich people are fair.

When you become rich, Bleach

smadav554:
Nice concept, but why are the rich children light while the poor kid is dark?

In my honest opinion this is the colourism people complain about.

He talks anyhow. Like those body shaming kind of person in the name of joke.

He still wonders why I suddenly changed

Run

Bitter Truth. I Hear

How To Chill With Celebrity?
Find their locations and act like it's a co-incident

The only benefit is marriage rehearsal to see a wife material there.

Because a man shall leave his father and mothers house to cling to the wife of his youth.

If you're not ready to marry, DON'T date a Nigerian girl please leave her in peace.

Infolenka:
This is a serious question. Please what's the benefit a guy can get from dating a Nigerian girl in 2021 apart from sex? I'm asking because the way I see guys begging girls to date them, spending on them, buying expensive gifts and taking them on expensive outings, maybe there is something they are gaining besides sex that I don't know.

Last time I checked, dating a Nigerian girl is like a full time job. Girls today are very entitled and expect you to provide for them and fund their lifestyle like you are their father. You end up spending a much money, attending to their needs and giving them the attention, emotional support and security they yearn for.

But whats in the cards for you as a guy? She opens leg and you fuçk. What else?

So please help me answer my question.

As I dey so, any man ask for my account number I will give freely.
Whether you like me or not. Na another thing.

I don't blame anybody for appreciating the good work of God.

@OP, check if the girl loves you. Marry her and send the yahoo boy packing outta her phone.

If he needs a refund tell him to give him to give you time to pay back. Just face you life jejely don't follow nairalanders that have no experience, some of them are not qualified to advice.

DMerciful:
Those who look in one direction have their neck stiff in that direction!

According to your logic, how's it married men's fault that girls are offering them their bodies?

So? how is it the woman's fault that men are toasting and sending money to her?

Am only saying not all girls are whores, we all face the same challenges with men. Op should be her guide here so next time she'll handle it better.

DMerciful:
The challenge with women is that you people think you're wired like men and when we tell you the mindsets of men, you don't listen!

When a man goes out of his way to help a woman 90% of the time he wants to sleep with her. If he did not sleep with her doesn't mean he didn't intended to do it, it could just be he lacked the courage or the opportunity to ask for something in return. For yahoo guys in this case, it's 100% legit that they'd wanna sleep with the lady, it's just a matter of time.

In the things of men, try to listen to men.... we're wired differently. What a man can do for sex, you cannot even imagine!

Yes she did. Because she didn't know how to tell op about it and it won't jeopardize their relationship. Remember she said she's doing it for him.

iamadonis2:
She blocked his line only so messages from him don’t deliver while she’s at OP’s apartment.

We know you girls

Your imagination is getting the best of you.

Giving people chances is part of reality. You have so fed yourself with too much online news that you forget some real human beings are out there

stormborn28:
you mumu ooooooo.....the moment she backed OP, that was when she deleted her chat....I don't need a prophet to tell me....all these your nonsense defense of her are rubbish

If he was my brother I'll tell him to take it easy on her. Not every girl her age is smart.

You may want to be honest but fear the out come of your honesty until you're rest assured you're safe to be honest. Nigerian Police use this format to interrogate suspects.

So what's wrong if she wanted the money. Do you think it's every man that must sleep with a girl to help her? No. Some men are just nice or nice in advance. It's simple.

DMerciful:
No sane girl happily walks into a yahoo guy abandoning someone that has done some traditional rights.....you don't expect a yahoo boy to be dating only you how much more marriage.

She obviously wanted the money and continue with her fiance but it doesn't walk that way. You and I know she'd sleep with the yahoo guy for money and if she becomes pregnant, dump the child with the fiance.

You mentioned they'd learn transparency, you don't learn honesty....it's either you're honest or dishonest. Now that he has seen the handwriting on the wall, it's his choice if he wanna continue but again the stick you see cannot blind you.

I also know if the fiance is your brother you wouldn't advice him to ignore this gross misconduct

Am defending her cos nobody is an expert in these things. We don't always have to be self-centered or negative.

They are a young couple that need experience to learn and to grow.

She and her husband to be are learning how to be transparent...trust me, it's not easy.
They'll both learn how to handle situations like this better in future.
Mind you, she's not into the Yahoo guy. If she was, she would have walked out on her man and the Yahoo boy can buy her another phone. Shebi he is rich?

DMerciful:
Nope....what's important is a partially married woman collecting money from another man and not telling the fiance.

Never ignore red flags when you wanna take a life decision.....the stick you see cannot blind you!

Why are you defending this act? Something you can comfortably do?

One woman's food is another woman's poison.

Some women like things rugged while others like to be treated with all gentility.

Nope. Based on the write-up, she already blocked him on WhatsApp before, that was why she put her phone on flight mode because text or calls can still come in. And remember her boyfriend was not aware by this time.
What is important here is that she already regards him(op) as her husband to be. Toasters will always come and get worse after marriage.

DMerciful:
She blocked him when she refused to give him her phone cos she knew he'd check....she probably deleted some chats. It's basic and I expect you to know

True. I do it. I don't like it. If I can, I will avoid it. Totally.

shamsin6300:
You not like to eat outside has to do because you are a female, when hustle hits u, you will bend anywhere to eat.

I don't have to be familiar. Few people are neat when it comes to kitchen hygiene.

I don't like to eat out side

shamsin6300:
You must be very familiar with the family to even know about their kitchen or way to the kitchen rather.

Dirty kitchen, water, overall kitchen hygiene for me.

Even if the house looks clean, maybe the cook was talking and spits dived into the cooking pot.

shamsin6300:
What's the problem with eating at people's homes?