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Romance › Re: Do Ladies Find Slim Guys Unattractive? by Divoc19(f): 12:17pm On Jun 09, 2021
Gym guys do look healthy you'll agree with me.
I have my preference too I only spoke in general.

Biglittlelois:
We Ladies? You can't speak for all ladies cos we all have our different preferences, I for one like slim tall guys, I do not fancy gym induced thick guys.
Romance › Re: Are They Ladies That Actually Like To Be With Married Men? by Divoc19(f): 9:12am On Jun 09, 2021
Married men are more mature because of their experience and they have more control over the girls than young men.
Career › Re: Please Recommend Any Free Computer Related Course With Free Certificate by Divoc19(f): 8:37am On Jun 09, 2021
You can learn Graphics using CorelDraw or Adobe Illustrator. Most of these softwares come with help manuals. Have you own personal computer and be dedicated to teaching yourself.
Romance › Re: Do Ladies Find Slim Guys Unattractive? by Divoc19(f): 8:18am On Jun 09, 2021
Edited.

VlamesIffect:
grin lipsrsealed
Divoc19:
Yes. Add some weight and build it with exercise. We ladies like thick guys/men too but not shapeless with potbellys so exercise is key.

Introverts do get laid well especially when they always look good and clean.

Confidence in yourself and in all you do attracts ladies too.
Romance › Re: Do Ladies Find Slim Guys Unattractive? by Divoc19(f): 8:14am On Jun 09, 2021
lipsrsealed

VlamesIffect:
You said you like em thicc...

Who's the one with the sexual desires grin

If you know what i do for a living and how many people i have helped you won't say all i think about is sex...

Again, 7 inch grithy curved upward veiny cuck. Think about it.
Romance › Re: Do Ladies Find Slim Guys Unattractive? by Divoc19(f): 8:01am On Jun 09, 2021
You are not any different.
Nigerian youths are preoccupied with sexual desires. May y'all be delivered and channel that energy towards inventions and personal development.

VlamesIffect:
Accept the fact that you used wrong vocabulary there...

Why would you speak for ladies in general?

I directed my reply to you, you either want this 7 inch veiny girthy cuck or you Don't.
Romance › Re: Do Ladies Find Slim Guys Unattractive? by Divoc19(f): 7:48am On Jun 09, 2021
Get use to slangs. Decode the message only.

I said we ladies. I didn't give my preference.

VlamesIffect:
Wrong use of vocabulary...,

Moreover na you talk say you like em thicc....

Not the general public...
Romance › Re: Do Ladies Find Slim Guys Unattractive? by Divoc19(f): 5:42am On Jun 09, 2021
Douse your plug.

I speak in general.

VlamesIffect:
Hmm.. you like em thicc? wink...

You want it curved upward like a banana with a thick vein reaching the cap...i'm your plug.
Romance › Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Divoc19(f): 9:25pm On Jun 08, 2021
Not all men like the marriage idea.
And she may just be madly in love.

Me can't blame anyone for their actions.

Nobody wishes bad for themselves.

They may just be ignorant.

donogaga:
If he truly loves you, he'd do the needful and marry you right. Don't be mistaken. When the right one comes along, he'd do away with all the excuses he's giving you and marry her. Unfortunately, many learnt this lesson the hard way.

The choice is yours.



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Romance › Re: Do Ladies Find Slim Guys Unattractive? by Divoc19(f):
Yes. Add some weight and build it with exercise. We ladies like thick guys/men too but not shapeless with potbellys so exercise is key.

Introverts do get laid well especially when they always look good and clean.

Confidence in yourself and in all you do attracts ladies too.

SweetVibe:
Could having a slim body despite being tall be a reason a guy is not getting female laid Or Could it be because he is an introvert who gets clingy once he find a girl he like.

Am asking because I want to know what will make ladies find a guy unattractive.
Romance › Re: Nairaland Guys And Ladies If You Will, Come Let Us Reason Together by Divoc19(f): 9:13pm On Jun 08, 2021
It's wrong for her to settle with a stable guy. What if the money vanishes tomorrow?

That's why I said he shouldn't be lazy and she has to bring something (intellect) to the union cos most girls today are too materialistic and forget that they also need to be mentally ready to face financial challenges in marriage.

And yes, I've seen many married people who started poor. Today they have built businesses

Mikester:
I came across this thread on front page this morning https://www.nairaland.com/6588135/should-follow-mother's-advice where a lady sought advice on the type of man she should consider for marriage due to her uncertainty on an advice she got from her mother.

The thread got a lot of comments and a lot of guys and maybe some ladies lacerated her based on her will to consider a rich man over a struggling one. Though she didn't pass her message well due to her unabashed display of derogatory statements she made pertaining to her mother and her line of thought.

My mind also didn't agree with a lot of people in that thread thus I decided to bring my questions here. Please educate me.

My questions are these;

Was it wrong for her to consider a rich man over a struggling one even when she herself isn't reasonably rich as well? If yes why is it so?

Was her mother's advice sound and was it logical or not?

How often do women who remain with struggling men eventually end up with them later when they turn rich? Do you know any woman like that?

What would a woman be doing precisely if she chooses to struggle alongside a struggling guy?

Should a struggling guy be with a woman in the first place?

Should a woman be compelled to carry the mantle of a provider as well in the home? If she does, is she to still accord total respect and submission to her husband?

Please judge these questions according to your wisdom and give your replies. Thank you.

Cc
Lilpen3758
NeeKlaus
erinatso
Divoc19
emorse
mrblessed
emmaodet
Ninejaywon
Bola146
Kobicove
luminouz
Amotolongbo

And finally omolola100.

Please do come and help me out on this
Romance › Re: So, What's Your Plan If Nobody Marries You? by Divoc19(f): 9:01pm On Jun 08, 2021
Get a baby daddy and face my business..
Romance › Re: Are You A Feminist Or Do You Believe In Feminism? by Divoc19(f): 10:11am On Jun 08, 2021
And the sperm is not of man?

Please check if they now sell monkey sperm.


budaatum:
No one says women don't need men, though we can easily replace you by buying sperm in a shop! I mean, some men are not men at all, as you ought to very well know, and would sell their sperm for a loaf of bread, so what use can men possibly be?
Romance › Re: What I Do by Divoc19(f): 9:52am On Jun 08, 2021
Its a common thoughts in women.

They've been together for 3 years. If she was really stingy he would have known.

But to build a life together is a different thing.

Let him just talk to her.

pansophist:
Do you know her personally to make this conclusion?
Romance › Re: What I Do by Divoc19(f): 9:48am On Jun 08, 2021
She's just scared of making you lazy by supporting you now.

Have a good talk with her, let her know you know her fears and you wouldn't let it happen.

Some men become lazy when they know their woman will help them out.

olufunmi01:
I and my fiance has been planning to settle down. I am not really earning that much here in ibadan, as a graduate I earn 30k but my fiance earn 40k in the same city. Things have been going rough lately because I want to take a new accommodation but all the savings I have wasn't enough. So, I asked my babe if she could support and later I will pay back but bluntly told me she can't give a dime. Well I told my friend about it and he told me that that kind of lady would never support even in the midst of financial crisis. Yesterday, I tempted her to borrow me 1k that by Friday I would pay back, telling her I don't want to touch money saved for our accommodation but she immediately told me no. What do you think I can do? Because I don't want to make a wrong decision. Advise. We have been together for 3 years
Romance › Re: Please Help,i Sold My Kidney,now This Is Happening!!! by Divoc19(f): 9:34am On Jun 08, 2021
You have money now.
Please go to a very good Private and General hospital ASAP.

Go to the 2 different hospitals so that you can compare their service please.

hustlertothecor:
I sold my kidney late last month,it's the only option I had to get of poverty.
Fast forward to a day before yesterday, which was the day I was meant to do giveaway,but towards that evening on Saturday,I discovered that I can't urinate properly, when I want to urinate it comes and go back,like something is pressing it from inside forcefully.
I have contacted the white guy that did the operation,but he laughed and said it's Normal and it will stop,but since then I have been experiencing the same thing.
Please what can I do please,I need good advice please, doctors here please help me, atleast let me enjoy my money alittle, please!
Politics › Re: 27 Mourners And Traders Killed In Agatu, Benue As Herdsmen Storm Burial Ceremony by Divoc19(f): 9:21am On Jun 08, 2021
Who are these herdsmen na
Entertainment › Re: MC Freedom Beaten In Ibadan As Prank Goes Wrong (Video) by Divoc19(f): 9:20am On Jun 08, 2021
More grammar please grin

mightyhaze:
He is a stupendous stupe..




I'm stupefied by his stupendous stupidity
Romance › Re: Disadvantages Of Dating You? by Divoc19(f): 2:03pm On Jun 07, 2021
Some people think talkatives can't keep secret but they're wrong. Talkatives just don't like bad things. We still keep only safe and very few secrets that's all. smiley

Dagger111:
Yes oo
Romance › Re: Disadvantages Of Dating You? by Divoc19(f): 1:38pm On Jun 07, 2021
Keep enjoying my brother cheesy


Dagger111:
Just like my.woman, elejo wewe. Bt talkative are very nice pple.
Romance › Re: I Don't Understand My Relationship Direction by Divoc19(f): 11:48am On Jun 07, 2021
If you want to marry her and she said she's not ready. It means she's not into you.

Oga leave her and move on.

Girl wey ready no go give excuse.


AuwalYusuf812:
Good morning guys, please bear with my English & my write up as know body knows finish in this world, there is this issue disturbing my heart and it get me confused till date & I want you guys to help me out with some advice, am in an open relationship with this lady for five years now & she has meat my people and I have meat her people too, but the problem we are having now is that she just tell me that she'll have to finish her HND before we wedd & our wedding suppose commence Next year ending and with the calculation I have made this girl will finish school & service on her 30s, my issue there now is that I don't want to marry a woman so old like that, am not against her going to school but am thinking about my own welfare, it sounds abnormal to me to marry a 30yrs old lady, at least 25-27 years old is okay but 30yrs is a big Number for a woman who just marry.
Romance › Re: Disadvantages Of Dating You? by Divoc19(f): 9:01am On Jun 07, 2021
I don't like to cook, not religious and I talk too much.

Stephen2324:
What are the disadvantages of dating you?
Education › Re: by Divoc19(f): 8:48am On Jun 07, 2021
SSCE/WAEC, NECO, GCE and NABTEB are all O'level and evidence that you finished Secondary School in Nigeria. O'level certificate should come before your final year in higher institution.

egalitarianism:
The greatest achievement of finishing from secondary School is having SSCE.

I finished from secondary school close to two decades ago but then I couldn't sit for final exam (WAEC & NECO) due to financial issue as at that period (The ultimatum given for payment elapsed).

That same year, I registered and sat for Nov/Dec WAEC (GCE) but had flop in Mathematics.


As year goes by after learning skills, I registered and sat for NECO June/July, had my result which I used in processing admission into university after which I graduated.

My concern now is, CAN THIS AFFECT ME AS A CARRIER MAN ESPECIALLY ON POLITICAL PATH?

Help out with your views and experience!
Politics › Re: Atiku And Soludo’s Campaign Posters Spotted In Abuja (Photo) by Divoc19(f): 8:37am On Jun 07, 2021
We are already used to the Fulani government. If only Buhari was the real Buhari that was voted after Goodluck, Nigeria would have been better and stronger.

But, life happened.

Sammy07:
If at all I'm given the chance to choose the lesser devil.
A Fulani will always be a Fulani, I can never vote for a Fulani.
Phones › Re: Twitter Is Now Accessible Without VPN by Divoc19(f): 8:21am On Jun 07, 2021
Bypassed. Yes. Maybe.

But, I doubt if Federal Government can really pull this stunt of Banning Twitter undecided

Sincinnati:
The useless ban has been bypassed as Twitter promised
Music/Radio › Re: . by Divoc19(f): 1:27pm On Jun 06, 2021
Abuja sounds far.

How can you assist me?

Studiojimmy:
If you are in Abuja we can link up. �
Celebrities › Re: Temitope Is My First Fruit Not Ire -actress Toyin Abraham Reveals by Divoc19(f): 8:05am On Jun 06, 2021
That is how you will know she really loves her husband till eternity. T.B. Joshua is gone. Life still goes on.
Christianity Etc › Re: Yep! TB Joshua Is Very Dead! by Divoc19(f): 7:56am On Jun 06, 2021
Speechless...

HappyPagan:
We will all die. It's a good thing.
Christianity Etc › Re: Yep! TB Joshua Is Very Dead! by Divoc19(f): 7:52am On Jun 06, 2021
Thank you. The news just shattered me this morning cry cry cry

Let me comanfollowyouself.

HappyPagan:
It's yours.. for a while. Do with it as you please.
Christianity Etc › Re: Yep! TB Joshua Is Very Dead! by Divoc19(f): 7:35am On Jun 06, 2021
This life is not our own... let's be careful with what we do.
Romance › Re: Breaking Bad by Divoc19(f): 8:43pm On Jun 05, 2021
Learn a Skill about what you like.
Like Fashion, Music, Dancing, Making Skits with friends and uploading, Farming or Poultry, Agent to sell anything for businesses, Social Media Consultant for businesses and organization, Computer Graphics, Typing Skill, Buying and Selling clothes online and offline, electronic repairs e.t.c. The list are endless

Abba114:
what skill should i learn

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