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obembet:
What exactly could lead a man into extramarital affairs even though he has a beautiful and good wife?

eneazi:
When you talk; do not bottle things up, let your partner know how much their action has hurt you, express your feelings and not oppress it.
If you've forgiven do not make reference to his/her offence again-- remember it should be left in the past, focus on the future by making things better.
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Helpannonymous:
Suggest a professional not a quack, It’s not a bad thing so don’t feel odd, There’s a reason for everything

illicit:
If she will quit, no p

Flier:
No! She wanted to punish him with no sex but the man forced his way in, after few min,the man wanted to force his way in again then she asked him why has he not been helping her,the man gave him his atm and pin but it seems she doesn't trust him to fulfil the promise after sex ,probably the man is a pathological liar
That is why she decided to kill him so she can get the money for sure

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

Belafonte:
It's not really laziness, it's a little bit more complicated than that.

The old ways of making money (re: school education and employment securing) are no longer viable for large swaths of the population and a lot of men that have been trained in that regard are not adaptable. And this is why you see a lot of internet fraud, because me have to meet up with responsibilities and even just life basically.

The trend of dependent men will be a thing of the past in the next 10 years, at least there'll be a drastic improvement. And this is because a lot people are disregarding the school-job route and opting for irregular income generating skills. That's why you also see a lot of bitcoining and tech and entrepreneurship.

Relax na rest we dey so.

Belafonte:
Men don't care about your money and your degrees unless he wants to live off you or needs your help in running the household day-to-day.

The kind of men that women want are exactly the kind of me that marry uneducated women. You women can protest this as much as you want, but this is the simple truth.

A woman who depends on her man and appreciates that fact will have a happier home than a woman with a chip on her shoulder who believes she can walk out of the marriage at any time. These different sets of women bring different attitudes and approaches to their relationships.

No man that has options (read high status men) will tolerate the arrogance of an independent woman, unless he lacks self respect or self esteem.

So, there's the answer to your question

Peace081:
Why are the uneducated girls so lucky to get husbands faster than the educated ones?
Please this topic should be move to front page.
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officialmario:
Why do men lose interest in women after sleeping with them.
over to you.

Ddokie:
What state is the commissioner that gave the order for their arrests?

chatinent:
Do people do this?

chatinent:
You mah wey go dey use many names for different agencies, you didn't know they'd be repercussions?

SuperSuave:
wow. No time wasting