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Unconditional Love.

needanswer:
What do you think the answer is?

Maybe doesn't like you. Any girl that really likes a guy will die to have sex with him.

If she's not a virgin then, she may even be giving someone else self.

Let a girl love you for who you are NOT what you are doing for her.

Gores:
Hello everyone. Their is this girl I have been dating since last year , I took real good care of the girl , I have spent roughly 600k on her ! She is a graduate but not working at the moment so I have to put her on monthly pay , send money for her upkeep each month and also render other support and buy her gifts.I have had many sexual relationships in the past .

Several months without sex in the relationship ,I want it but this girl kept insisting that no sex until I marry her of which I made it clear to her in the first place that it will still take few years before I can finally settle.

I love this girl to some extent and really want us to actually be together but I can’t cope with the no Sex in a relationship having waited for several months without sex! this girl is not a virgin !

I ended the relationship because I felt this girl is just using me or something. I felt since this girl isn’t a virgin , sex shouldn’t be a problem so far it’s protected sex! I ended the relationship because I felt she seems like many other girls out there who just want everything for nothing!


Your contribution will be helpful !

Tell him to help you get a better job and quit this club thing. Relationship mode is a rehearsal mode for Marriage.
That your boss is eyeing you already. Imaging giving you double appointment is also (just like your boyfriend) trying to control your whereabouts with his money/salary.
Girl, be wise.

prezidob:
I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. Honestly he's such a sweet guy and every lady's dream man. We're both course mates in the same university. We love each other and have pledged to get married after graduation. I'm a very beautiful lady as there's no day gone by without a toaster. Because of financial difficulties, I took a job in a club as a waitress and recently, secretary to my boss... combining both work. I go to meeting with my boss to plan for the organisation of the club and I do come late and sometimes I sleep over.
My boyfriend reprimanded me for late nights and I told him that he's not my father and should not try to control me. He is so jealous!!
But the truth is he doesn't hide anything from me. Throughout the lockdown he was there for me.
I don't like the work but it's the only way to get by since my parents are not helping and my boyfriend is a student too.

How do I convince him that I love him and I will not cheat on him?

He doesn't want me to do the work neither do I. But we can't help it.

Please your opinion matters a lot to me as it will help me manage my situation. I don't want to lose him.

Emotional Guilt.
Or
She's not into it.

UYEMDO35:
What do you think can make a girl feel sad after sex? I really can't figure out.... According to my friend he was like after having sex with his suppose girlfriend for the first time. The girl became sad... He tried persuading her... But the girl refuse to talk.. So he had to open up to the girl that.... It was his first time of having sex in his entire life... The girl was like..... Chai...I don Bleep-up..(putting her two hands on her head).
......... She angrily left and promise to call but ever since then the girl didn't call neither did her line went through..
And he is ashame to approach her...
Please advice needed.....

Tufiawa!

Turn negativity into jokes.
Don't let it get the best of you.

The day my siblings ganged against me... I knew I was alone in this world. I never gave a shïët about who cares anymore. I just pray, live my life and stay out of trouble.

You are what you think you are.

Change your thinking and become a better YOU!

Follow your passion, be unique and up to date in your field.

You can also make it a family business by incorporating your kids to avoid house helps and stories that touch.

Begging for tuition fee is not the best way to start.

Go and learn a Skill/Trade and make yourself useful to yourself.

You can always go back to school when you are ready.

It's your choice though.

What poverty can do

Hmmm. Every tribe in Nigeria claim to be sovereign before the British invasion but little is done to validate these claims.

In my opinion, all Nigerian tribes are LOST tribe.

Let's get a hang on how to survive and develop our country for posterity abeg.

Yes as long as it's less than 6 weeks.
Your body your choice.

Bathroomalgae:
I'm very confused and scared right now and I need help and opinion on what I can do!
I'm currently about 19 days pregnant according to the last time I had sex with my boyfriend. The condom he used broke while we were having sex and he didn't bother to replace it. I'm supposed to have seen my period about 4days ago and I haven't seen it so I decided to use the PT and it came out positive. My boyfriend has refused to have anything to do with me because he claimed that he used condom that day and that was the last time we had sex too.
I'll be 20 years this August and I still have 2 years to finish my degree and I don't have the resources to keep this pregnancy. What can I do please?

I'm just a reader here on nairaland and I decided to create this account for this purpose.
Mods please help move to front-page
Rocktation Farano

Wetin concern core-North with boarders

BoP Daddy dey VEX

War is not the Way.
Patience is the way now.
We can't risk all we have now and lose twice in one country.
Please let's stay together

He didn't delay to respond this time.

Thank God he is now Awiah

No Igbo is more Igbo than the other, it's your mentality and level of exposure that differentiates.

I don't blame Igbos that never left the East or it's terrains all their lives having a myopic mind about Biafra.

Of course the sit-at-home is long over due. The Biafran heros must be acknowledge and history be told to our children. It's still not supposed to be a [b]bloody dea[/b]l. Violence has never paid the Igbos.

Take it or leave it.

As at now.
Biafra is not ready to GO.

fozapi:
please kindly runaway if you did not understand the messaged passed during the sit at home then you are lost,i know you are lagos or abuja igbo na so una day yap

SKhanmi:
When it comes to money, there is no religion.

True.
Religion is for the poor in spirit, finance and mental health people

The thing is, Not all Igbos support Biafra. Let interested Igbos go back home and develop their states like sovereign states first. War/blood won't achieve Biafra.

Everybody should go back home please.
Let us pray for Nigeria. Nigeria will be great AGAIN

Let the Igbos just withdraw from other states in Nigeria and reside only in the East for a start first na, to prove they can really stand alone.

I really feel for Biafra

OP follow this advise. Let her know what marriage entails. If the girl is ready to settle down, have her own home and kids... Marry her now. Las Las na bad boys and sugar daddies go still turn her to slayqueen at 39. Early marriage is beautiful

njele:
Moslim girls married at 16 and they are glue to their husband for life, in a real Islamic state, a 20 years old girl is consider too old for marriage. Don't let jealous people deray you. Grap your sweet 20 and start enjoying the fun

His command of English language is admirable

Kidnapping, Banditry, Terrorism, Islamic fanatism and Christian hypocrisy... all at their peak

letitrainnow:
What's happening in Nigeria

Good news. Some of us don dey get mind be that. Chinese, Lebanese and all foreignese go soon dey respect us. There's hope.

That's why they are demanding Shari court every where so that 'Islamic' is recognized. It will serve as a prove to their Arab-African allies that Nigeria is an Islamic state.

Fasindo:



Buhari can never hide his jihadist nature.

How come all the female children are all on hijab.
Where all the children selected from Islamiyya school.

Even on children's day Buhari still decided to celebrate with only Islamic children.
So Christian children are not worthy to be celebrated by the president

8 tin milk cup measures goes for 400 in Abuja

Political appointee. He is not a career diplomat.

If my son is an adult of course. I will allow him. People do crazy things for love.

What if they were in overseas and decided to wed over there? I will allow o. But only an Adult son of mine.

Oshin56:
See lady advice, please as a good mother can you allow your son to do introduction before showing you his fiance? I don't see anything bad for the lady parent to allow there daughter to follow him to meet his parent before introduction. As a guy man they don't trust me be that.

Never been dumped cos I always know when the times up.Thank God.