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Your story may be different. Make sure you learn from them and make better decision then.

Enough mullar tommorow will be your only attraction tomorrow.

If you can get a loyal girl now both of you can make the mullar together

zedegit:
Looking at those that married before me and the type of wives they ended up with which leaves nothing to desire.

I begin to wonder if indeed marriage is for me. Assuming I make enough mullar tomorrow, should I marry or should I shun it and live a single life?

This is my dilemma.

No, no, not a wife material.

Person daughter wey don get lineups since tey tey, before the contract end.

It will even make more women take good care of themselves because they will have market value

Say no to wives with saggy breast

Faber:
Person daughter will suffer for you Finnish and you use her finnish, when she turns 40 you will refuse to renew the contract, make she kuku go back to her papa house or die of loneliness abi?

I think this post applies to other countries not in Nigeria.

How many houses in Nigeria pays taxes?

Apart from estates, commercial buildings and offices I know pay tenement rate..I personally know how local governments and FIRs is still struggling to generate money from housing

Yes I have experienced love at first sight few years down the line we got married

I actually did the wooing then. It wasn't easy. It took me years to fully win him the competition no be here o.

But I followed my heart that told me he is my husband

Wittyglam:
My friend, was on her way to the market and saw this cute guy they connected and she claimed to have experienced butterfly in her tummy. I told her it was lust but she got mad at me and they started dating the next day, one month into the relationship mama is not feeling it again, as all they spoke about was sex and physical appearance. Long story short, mama ended up blocking papa and agreed it was lust.
The end
Share your own, don't read and run if I catch you eh.

If am in his shoes, I will apologize to my wife right there then transfer my aggression to the other man for interfering in my matter.

That other man self get GUTs. Is this story real self?

If he keeps mute for days, I'll assume it could be as a result of the phone loss or something else not relating to the money.

Then, I'll let him know am waiting for him to decide if I should replace the phone asap or return it the money.

Seriously, he has to make that decision for me because na him cause am.

The point here is to let my man know that if he can't control his temper and disrespect me as his wife, someone out there is will to do more for me.

Same applies to me too

setobaba:
You still seating on a fence here, you said you will collect the money and later ask your husband if it’s right to keep it, what if he kept mute for days on this ??

Hmmm... interesting, they should find a way around it and make it doable because western celebrities and rich people around the world are living that way.

That's going to be our future marriage.

Who knew 15years ago that court/registry marriage could be as common as it is today?

Those days it was solely done for travel purpose

JOACHINpedro:
This opinion is gaining ground in a contemporary society but the issue of child bearing and psychological health of the progeny after the contract has nullify it's efficacy.
It's therefore not feasible

Let marriage just be a contract between men and women first, when it survives few years they should renew the contract, that is more manageable than what we have now.

I will collect the money. Na gift be that na.

Then I'll ask my husband if it's okay to keep the money because if he hasn't thrown a tantrum, the man wouldn't have reacted that way.

It's not my fault o

setobaba:
Your husband shouted at you in public, during a ceremony, because you mistakenly broke the screen of his phone worth (350K).

Surprised by his reaction, a man got up and gave you 500k and ask you to buy a new phone for your husband in the presence of everyone including your husband.

The man gave you his phone number asking you to call him incase the money is not enough so he can add more.


Dear Nairalander,
As the woman, would you accept the money from the gentle man ?? What should the man do ?


Open for discussion:
Lalasticalala

All my music lovers so, we nominate FALZ Falana abi?

Thank you for the insight

Kebbiprince:
Love doesn't expire dear, what u call expiration is actually expectations, that's why u are able to live with your siblings without getting tired of them. U don't spice up love, if there was no love then no love was there. What you think you're spicing up is your ability to live with your second half and not love

We are here to learn from ourselves

But everyone knows love expires at a point and you have to start looking for spices

This applies only in marriage not in Relationships.

Kebbiprince:
Okay, but everyone doesn't have same experience as you

You should known a spinster can never assume this. Of course am talking from experienc

Kebbiprince:
Are you married? Or just a spinster assuming?

It's true, when love expires in a relationship they break up. When on be expire in marriage they hang on and if they succeed in that period of hanging on(without getting a divorce)...they begin to begin to grow in love.

It's not always Rosy Bro

nony43:
After experiencing hate with the person? Sis I disagree

Love takes years to grow most times it starts growing after experiencing hate with the person.

This happens in most(if not all) marriages and NOT in Relationships/Courtships

Kebbiprince:
Are you really sure, ppl say they can grow in love which wasn't there ab initio. I can correlate with what the op is saying

Check well. That love is fake or conditional. When a lady loves, she loves for really real

nony43:
Why is it that a lady can love you with all her heart and still marry who is ready?.

If she loses him now because he has no money and is uneducated, she may never find anyone to treat her well like him again.

At 26 what or how has she contributed in his life to help make him a great man tomorrow?

Tell her to plant a tree today and start watering it so that she may have a shade tomorrow.


I can also see her friends are influencing her future. Who friends epp!

Kingscee:
A friend said I should help her post this here, she needs your advice over this matter bothering her, see the messages below.


Good evening Nairalander, please something has been really bothering me..

I have a boyfriend who will be 31 this year and a plumber, he is hardworking though just that favour hasn't really found him, he loves me so much and is ready to marry me if it was possible.

He treats me the way I want to be treated but he isn't educated as he stopped in JSS 3 due to situation of things.. He is also not financially bouyant yet to even settle down as he is the first born....

My problem now is that the feelings I had for him is going down gradually and I don't know why, he is not completely what I want in a man but he treats me well.

My friends advised me to break up with him as it might be holding me from getting married, I will be 26 this year...

My question is, does still dating him blocks my chances of getting married? I just don't want to hurt his feelings but he doesn't have everything I seek in a man...

Guys please do you think I can still find his type that cares and also comfortable at same time? Many men that comes my way mostly wants sex first and that is not my style...

Note: some years ago, a friend told me that he had a dream, that he is my destined husband, which I later started liking him but now the feelings is diminishing again...

Please guys advise me as this bothers me alot. Thank you guys.

Quality Time

Bobrisky for this naija? They will run sheim dry

Ignore her online. It will wear off with time.

SIR0:
Regardless of how she paints it, all I know is that my girlfriend is obsessed with sex. I'm holding a position now in my fellowship which does not allow me to satisfy her sexual desires (though we've had sex before I assumed the office).

She's an undergraduate and she has many admirers, both on campus and at her fellowship. Considering the way we relate and chat these days, I am afraid she would likely cheat on me sooner or later. And I strongly wish to avoid sex until we get married.

Whenever I say this to her, the language seems distasteful. The sex means so much to her. I love her so much and I wouldn't want her to offend me by looking for other means to satisfy her sexual needs (cheating on me) while we are still in relationship.

Please how do I break up with her without hurting her feelings? Or, what other advice do you have for me?


Thanks in anticipation

Op follow this advise if it's less than 6weeks except you are ready to be a dad.

Girls these days self�

buygala:
Confirm she is pregnant first before giving her abortion money..

Invite her over...go to any chemist and buy a pregnancy test strip (100 naira) and let her test her urine right in front of you...if it shows two red lines, then she is truly pregnant...if not, kindly tell her to fvck off...

If she is truly pregnant, whether the baby is yours or not is immaterial at this point...You sha poured inside her recently..so it's likely the baby is yours...Get her to a safe facility and take care of it...discharging a pregnancy below a month is real safe and low risk as long as stipulated procedure is followed...

If you actually know what you 're doing, it's something you can do to her by yourself...two tablet inserted in her vagina within a few hours of each other will take care of it..


Cheers if you decide to keep the baby though...Children are a blessing from God

I use to have girlfriends make this up to milk money from men.

Am not judging here please.

I'll suggest you wait till she delivers the baby and don't allow yourself to be used.

Everywhere dey red now.

Qathafi:
2

Funny thing is our government owns us and can decide to take whatever we have with little or no compensation.

No matter the amount of werey we gat.

Sometime ago in Abuja, a woman's sleeping child was murdered during a demolition exercise. The woman committed suicide....there was no compensation for her husband and the remaining 2 kids

Naija my country

Patosky4U:
I just the wait for them to touch that my #1300 for ecobank. Na that time then go no say I get werey

Counting your blessings and being at peace with yourself everyday, all day is the best gift you can give to yourself on your birthday. Irrespective of your current situation or age.

You'll automatically adjust to maturity when you see young ones taking over.

Note that with maturity, you'll realize that you have to[b] let go[/b] of somethings and do the needful at a particular time.

Lastly, having a scary feeling about aging is normal. But, you have to reconcile with it in other to enjoy it.

Karleb:
My birthday is the last day of the month and I've been afraid of that date since last year.

Maybe because there are things I should have that I don't have but it really doesn't make sense, why am I scared?

I'd like to hear from those who are of age, do you get scared of getting older?

Funny thing is, my unofficial age is 2 years + my real age. I have an unofficial age for mischievous reasons.

Age is below 30.

Matured men hustling for their family by all means.

Unfortunately, the Account Department must have burnt down before the Fire Department came to save the building

Naija News

osuofia2:
HOPE THE ACCOUNT DEPT IS SAFE

Wow! You gat brain.

For marriage?
No matter how sweet or bitter it is
Whoever go cheat go find reason to cheat.
Las las

Olakunleyakub:
Your husband think he can't loose you again that is why he is not paying attention to all those details and little things that turns you on again.

Communication is key in every successful marriages.

Pls talk to him and help him out in some areas he need to improve.

Replied.

Phelumie300:
Check your mail i just did

When money talks, bullshite works

Sinachi100:
See as dis gal use dis big,tall adult men as slave dog cos of birthday pics

Dis life no balance