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Tonnyray:
My position on physical violence:
Never hit a woman out of anger.
But if a female hits you first for any stupid reason, cripple her.
It will not be well with you if she walks vertically from the scene.

Note:
There is a reason women have NEVER in their lives or wildest imaginations tried it with some guys.
Be that guy.

Lol, you watch the video abi?

One should not condone or advocate for violence or physical abuse but "Never be a gentleman to a shameless woman."- pansophist
If you give some people an inch, they'll take a mile. And if you ignore certain behaviours you're simply enabling and reinforcing them.

I like to think of behaviours as 'psychological patterns' and one thing I know about patterns is-- it repeats itself.

Nezzjnr:
Who be That Guy wey drop PhD thesis for this page

See the way i was scrolling down

Lol. I post am for person oh. I dey wait for my certificate

MJBOLT:

I fit bet my black balls say if the roles were reversed,the girl go treat him fvck up instantly.

I remember one thread like that wey hit FP,babe see her Bobo with another girl for mall,right there the babe asked her BF to remove everything he was wearing do you know why??she bought the clothes and shoes he was wearing and demanded for it back without giving a fvck,This one happened overseas.


There's another video I saw the same scenario except it happened here in Nigeria

Women are very similar to children in many ways---emotionally, physically (compared to men), logically, etc. If you look at women like kids (or juvenile adults), a lot of their actions and behaviours starts to "make sense."

Kids are naturally solipsistic/egocentric.
If you give/gift a child something, it's socially frowned upon to take it back, and since women are more 'shrewd/aware' in social situations, they have the added ability of employing 'shame tactics' (not unlike some kids anyway) to get their way.
If a kid gifts you something and later wants it back for whatever reason, they won't hesitate nor contemplate "dignity" because they're "helpless" and "weak" compared to you.

"A man's facade of strength is his weakness (ego), a woman's facade of weakness is her strength (victimhood)."

If you don't control or 'take charge' of a child, the child will disrespect and take advantage of you. They'll hit, slap or insult you without a second thought because "adults" will back them up if you retaliate (especially after utilising their tear ducts to show their "innocence." )
"Leave am, na pikin.."---"Leave am, she be woman.."
If one doesn't face or gets absolved of the consequences/repercussions of their actions/behaviour, they don't learn so they don't grow, a la 'spoilt children'.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndX2RFHmMNg
(55 seconds video). She how she slapped him without hesitation, was shocked that her actions have consequences and then other men rushed and beat up him up.
Also, the guy proceeded to sue the show, win, and become an actor whereas the lady's career is seemingly ruined (I'm not promoting violence but I'm not promoting being a simp/doormat either).

You'll hear "A real man wouldn't/shouldn't..", "Aren't you ashamed?", "You be man oh", etc.
But like Esther Vilar stated-- "Any qualities in a man that a woman finds useful (in this case, gifts and money), she calls masculine, all
others, of no use to her or to anyone else for that matter, she chooses to call
effeminate."

"Once a woman realises she can get through life on her looks, her mind stops maturing."
As a man, you probably dreamt of being an astronaut, a prince or your favourite fictional character when you were younger but you grew older, became matured, and left those dreams behind.
Little girls are 'taught' to marry rich/wealthy men that will take care of them. They get older but still retain this 'ideology'.
Once they acknowledge this "reality", their development is likely stunted, they put in less effort/work into their growth and retain neotenic mindsets and behaviours, which is further reinforced by society giving women child-like benefits and accountability (or lack thereof).

The list

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...

There is something that you should know...

Women don't really value the stuff they got for free..

That's why most girls will give you sex when you promise to buy an item for them..

They see the sex as a prepaid payment for your gift..

An engineer friend of mine at the company I work and I got talking some weeks back...

He said he broke up with one of his girlfriends when he asked for his television and DVD player and the girls said whether she has not already used sex to pay him...

This was 1990 something oh...

I always say never put yourself in a position for a woman to tie herself to you and never tie yourself to a woman...

Mind you alot of women are entitled and senseless...

I was talking to one foolish girl yesterday...

She said if a man bought a gift for her and ask for it back in return she would not give him..

I asked her why...

She said because she didn't beg him for the gift in the first instance...

Can you imagine?

I also heard a case of a man who was abroad and had a girlfriend in Nigeria...


He was sending money for the girl to buy properties..


The girl was buying it in her name...


In the end the guy didn't get married to her..


He came back from overseas and demanded for his deeds to his properties...

She refused to release them...

She was hunted like a dog by men of the NPF...

She eventually gave it up...

If you allow a woman tie herself to you or tie yourself to a woman like the mugu in my story above...

You will always be at her mercy..

In Esther Vilar's 'The Manipulated Man'---it explores the concept of the "dishonest wh*re"---explaining that deep down women want to be paid dates, gifts, cash and in fact, a combination of all, for the "access" they grant a man.

Now, because they don't want to be tagged wh*res, they keep that expectation implicit, and throw all the coy signs that they expect a man to read.
Having consensual sex and tagging a man "stingy" because he gave nothing or not something enough (even when there wasn't a pre-agreed term of payment) is that wh*redom at play.

It's "dishonest" because it is within that "I'm not a wh*re" guise, but it's wh*redom nonetheless because they expected to be paid for their time and the access granted.
-Aghosagbamu

Lightheaded:
Picks mic.
I don't know who the prophet up there is but he's a prophet of the redpill
[/b]Normalize calling out disrespect and bullshit.[b] Don't allow such in the name of friendship or girlfriend, boys have worshiped them so much they think they can do anyhow. Show her you're not like other boys.

Names you'll hear wicked, stubborn, mean, strict, you're not sweet. My male friends even know "mi o gbadun" . I call out nonsense, pack your shit...I don't condone it

[/b]Give people a mile and they'll get to the moon, humans in general. TRP isn't restricted to women.[b]

Drops mic.

Familiarity breeds comfort, comfort breeds contempt.

Bwilliam:
I just got off a call with a girl I thought I was dating, turns out I was dating myself.
She led me on for 4 months and now she laughed as I was trying not to sound hurt over the phone.

I'm not looking for pity from you guys, just let me drink deep from the golden chalice. Today a boy died, but a man was born.

She seems like an 'attention seeker' and you were probably one of her 'orbiters' (people who attention seekers, often women, keep around for attention and/or validation).
I posted a 'red flags' list concerning things like this a while ago but it seems to have been deleted. I could send it to you if you want.

Y'all should check out Esther Vilar's "The Manipulated Man." It's a short (108 page) book that shows the modern woman's behaviours and tendencies. Some parts may sound a little bit misogynistic but there's a LOT of truth in between those pages, here are some chapter titles in the book, if you're curious:

Manipulations by means of Self-abasement.

Women have no feelings.

Sex as a reward.

Manipulation through bluff.

Children as hostages.

Women's vices.

Heck, here's some quotes from the book:

"Any qualities in a man that a woman finds useful, she calls masculine, all
others, of no use to her or to anyone else for that matter, she chooses to call
effeminate."

"By the age of twelve at the latest, most women have decided to become
prostitutes. Or, to put it another way, they have planned a future for
themselves which consists of choosing a man and letting him do all the
work. In return for his support, they are prepared to let him make use of
their vagina at certain given moments. The minute a woman has made this
decision she ceases to develop her mind."

"Woman's greatest ideal is a life without work or responsibility — yet
who needs such a life but a child? A child with appealing eyes, a funny
little body with dimples and sweet layers of baby fat and clear, taut skin —
that darling miniature of an adult. It is a child that woman imitates — its
easy laugh, its helplessness, its need for protection. A child must be cared
for; it cannot look after itself. And what species does not, by natural
instinct, look after its offspring? It must — or the species will die out.
With the aid of skillfully applied cosmetics, designed to preserve that
precious baby look; with the aid of helpless, appealing babble and
exclamations such as "Oooh" and "Ah," to denote astonishment, surprise,
and admiration; with inane little bursts of conversation, women have
preserved this "baby look" for as long as possible so as to make the world
continue to believe in the darling, sweet little girl she once was, and she relies on the protective instinct in man to make him take care of her."