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ubunja:
life is tough, and dangerous,, and men are perfectly designed to strive in it because they're stronger, faster and their bodies are durable. Plus they've the mental and psychological make up to withstand its challenges. When a woman has a man, she benefits by him shielding her from life's challenges and thus, like a protected flower, she has the luxury to be delicate and soft. This is her femininity. But a woman without a man doesn't have that shield and life's challenges hit her directly with no man in between to soften the blow. The challenges don't destroy her. But what happens is that her attitude, body and mind HARDEN and TOUGHEN to withstand the elements. Thus she becomes combative, pessimistic, loud, rude, nonchalant etc. all these characteristics are masculine. And she adapts them for survival. Hence single mothers and their daughters have them. Because they need them to survive. Since there's no husband and father in the picture to do the job.

Thank you for the insight.

armadeo:
Am looking at the reds now. Will it dip further?

Let me wait small and dive in briefly

Which coin are you timing?

@ubunja The tougher the men around her, the softer she is. The softer the men around her, the tougher she is. The toughest woman is the fatherless woman, for the fatherless woman seeks a surrogate by whoring herself.

Regarding this quote, I learnt a high percentage of mothers in the black american community are single mothers, and I also notice when (black) single moms pop up on manosphere YouTube channels like FnF or MTR they tend to have this 'combative', overly aggressive behavior some call 'masculine'.
So those are being masculine? And if yes, are they conflating said combative behavior with masculinity or is that just hyper-masculinity?

Elsueno:
I really do not know how to read these charts woh....the only thing am good at, is reading the market "emotion?". Humans themselves are predictable when it comes to greed...so I just cash out on dat, Though I do fail 3 times out of 10

Haha, so this Christmas period maybe people's emotion will be to sell their crypto and get money for Xmas, causing a dip

Elsueno:
Xrp very predictable coin, study well & u go make substantial profit if u can see the trend

Yeah it seems this might be a good time to buy but I'm curious to know if there's a correlation with btc's movement..

Xrp has really gone down. I thinking of buying like 20k but I'm new to crypto so I don't know if this is a good idea..

orchin:
Why was he crying?

Because he's human, I assume. I think the question should be why did she feel the need to capture his moment of weakness and post it online for attention or clout? Are they married or enemies?
To date women wey dey active for social media no be am.

Hmm..

Horsh:
Now she's suggesting we should get married but am calming her down now
I take full responsibility of the child but marrying her is a no no

I wish I've know about this thread since

Yes, it's possible for a woman to get pregnant for the sole purpose of tieing you down. It's called a 'baby trap'. Also, rushing marriage is often a sign of an ulterior motive.

CaveAdullam:
Thanks.

Your reply was really enlightening, I should be the one saying 'thanks'.

Aaron12:
To my redpill brothers, let's keep the thread from female invasion. To my guys
i'm devilish cold to women although many of them are always coming around me, what can i do to avoid these women. Thank you.

An earlier comment of mine:
When an attention seeker spots someone who stands out i.e. pays them no attention, it piques them in a way, sparking their interest.
They'll likely try to familiarize themselves with you and when you get comfortable and start paying them attention, they likely get contemptuous.

Familiarity > comfort > contempt.

Once they've gotten the attention, their interest will dissipate but they'll keep you around as an 'orbiter'-- a fuel source for both attention and possibly an ego boost when they reject you.

CaveAdullam:
3. Women don't help women. Why? Because if they do so, they already made available a woman who becomes noticeable by their boyfriends, fiances or husbands. And since high value men don't go round, these women must protect the ones they've got by all means. And if it involves shadowing other women, it is a welcome development.

The way a woman becomes attractive to other men when a man upgrade her works same say as when women upgrade other women. They do donate gifts like pads, books, pencils, food clothes etc. But these things aren't bringing these women to the limelight to the extent they become a challenge. Observe very well, most of these charity works takes place in rural areas where competition is very low. If the same women were to help their counterparts nearby, hell will break loose as the game becomes intense and more competitive.

Thanks.

I remember a lady saying "women don't help women because they want to see the 'new' girls fall on their face like they did."
I find the differences between men and women in this instance interesting..
For example, women are less likely to help each other, but they have this hive mind-like herd mentality to defend each other (against men). Men are more likely to help each other but have the opposite of the aforementioned 'hive mind' to defend each other (often defending women instead).
From that tiny thesis, I would say modern feminism is not about helping their fellow woman but about 'catapulting themselves into a newer dimension' by acquiring power, which is also evident due to women's natural tendency to be solipsistic and egocentric.

Men and women are opposite. What applies to men, flip it up side down, and it will apply to women. That's the key to mastering intergender dynamics. The formula.
- Ubunja

SolarConsultant:
Same here oo, it just keeps show error, I made payment already, but the voucher is not redeeming.

Have you been able to fix it?

Is your luno voucher still giving you error?

Recently, certain monikers have been flooding and trolling this thread. The urge to reply them might be compelling, but first, heed the words of Mark Twain..

"Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience."

"Never argue with a fool, onlookers may not be able to tell the difference."

leetylee:
Ahem... They always seek for a validating approval to entitlement.

See the fake hair and makeup on all their profile pictures

Cryptobits:
You are only eligible if you used someone's referral code.

Referral code, asin I can't deposit money without someone inviting me? I'm confused..

SolarConsultant:
Same here oo, it just keeps show error, I made payment already, but the voucher is not redeeming.

Have you been able to fix it?

At all o! This is my first time using the voucher so I don't know what's wrong, my acct has been fully verified.

Please I've been getting error since early this morning as I'm trying to redeem luno voucher, is someone else getting this error? I'm just got fully verified.

Danycrusoe:
Of course, don't be a faithful loser, you know some older women who are married with kids fifteen years old once told me the best thing as a man is to have multiple ladies as options, the moment Ur gf knows she is the only one, she will misbehave.


They said keep her on her toes let her know she is just another lady and u can always move at the speed of light to another woman. Infact some of them told me they don't like having a guy who is just about them, it's boring and makes them too comfortable.

Make that of what you may man. Even when u don't have another, form an imaginary one or pull another female friend closer.

Everyday the things I read here and people like you post happen to my face and I like it

If the guy is clingy then yeah, otherwise, it sounds like trauma bonding or they like drama.

Danycrusoe:
I don't care about the man's reply but does this lady's post ring a TRP bell?

Preselection is a type of herd mentality prevalent in women. It's pretty much indicative of an immature mind and 'highschool mentality'.

hmm..

By the age of twelve at the latest, most women have decided to become
prostitutes. Or, to put it another way, they have planned a future for
themselves which consists of choosing a man and letting him do all the
work. In return for his support, they are prepared to let him make use of
their vagina at certain given moments. The minute a woman has made this
decision she ceases to develop her mind.
- Esther Vilar

Tenshades:
I believe you saw a red flag before marrying her but you chose to ignore the obvious signs that she was going to belittle you when you're financially down.

Now it has happened...emm...

Over to the elders in the building...

"When you wear rose-tinted glasses, red flags just look like flags"

Sex and looks are two of the major reasons men overlook red flags, and then later it 'appears' as if the woman just "changed".

fattprince:
Never thought you were on this thread. But welcome back home.

All Nigeria girls are useless .......

All of them.....

KiNg0G:
Noe be to snap for hotel, hope say you lodge



One of my alternate

King of the zanga, you don come back?

Who be that guy wey dey post thirst trap for here? Things dey occur for this thread o

Hm..

emmaodet:
Exactly.
This has always been my motto.
Put yourself first.
Men settle for less far too much and most time it boils down to who they feel they can easily lord on.
Many men settle down with women below them so that they can control them, flirt and have mistresses outside without much consequence all because the woman rely on him and can’t park out. They want to be coming home at night without a woman questioning them about why coming home from club or beer parlor with his friends at 11 o’clock.
So they have to make that sacrifice of going far below.
You see a company manager marrying a jobless woman and make her a house wife.
Bussiness men marrying housewives etc.

True

Martinez39s:
Here is a Christian female called Shilekunola Moronke Naomi Oluwaseyi, a church minister and prophetess in the Christian Church. Her religion didn't stop her from marrying the Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi who is a traditional worshipper otherwise called Igbakeji Orisa (meaning second in command to the gods). Though the bible said do not be equally yoked with unbelievers, but hypergamy doesn't care. She went through all the traditional and pagan rites of marriage. Naomi is the Founder/President of En-Heralds - an interdenominal ministry based in Akure, Ondo state. She started public ministry at the age of eighteen and became a full time evangelist in October 2011.

Look at the picture below, and even see her rationalisation. As long as you are a high value man, women will see you as marriage quality and you are like a lucky lottery ticket to them. Women won't have any excuses when it comes to picking you for marriage; they will make excuses as to why they want to marry you and rationalise that decision. As I said, leave it to women to rationalise and justify their choices and decisions. Regardless of what any woman says, female nature will always take its course.

No be white garment church? A 'real' christian will marry ooni of ife and be walking on top blood?.. I'm kinda curious tho, is she still "prophetess-ing" as they're married and what type of excuses and rationale is she giving while "serving" God?

Herbsworks:
During the weekend I went to visit my elder sister. As I sat down to watch movies, my little niece of 10 years old came to me and asked me to please help her draw some things for her assignment. I refused and told her to do it herself. The next thing this little girl did was to start crying hoping to manipulate me to help her

I was shocked cos as little as she is she already knows how to manipulate emotionally. I got angry and told her to shut up. To my amazement she stopped crying, picked up her pen and began to draw. She stopped crying cos she knew that her manipulation couldn’t work on me.

Apart from some men falling prey to women manipulation, they also fall prey to their kids manipulation which is why a lot of father are under the control of their kids. This generation will keep churning out irresponsible children cos parents (mostly fathers) have lost grip and control over their children.

When men slept, women came and sow tares in the heart of their children against their fathers. Wake up fathers and take charge.

Love & Light

Boys can also employ 'tears tactic' but once they get older, it stops being tolerated as it isn't masculine. Girls aren't given the same treatment as they get older so they have years to perfect their craft of emotional manipulation.

Children are meant to be taken care of, that's why women tend to act childlike, to rouse that innate feeling of providing for a child.

But this feminine claim to beauty is also supported by subterfuge, by a trick. Woman's greatest ideal is a life without work or responsibility — yet who needs such a life but a child? A child with appealing eyes, a funny little body with dimples and sweet layers of baby fat and clear, taut skin — that darling miniature of an adult. It is a child that woman imitates — its easy laugh, its helplessness, its need for protection. A child must be cared
for; it cannot look after itself. And what species does not, by natural instinct, look after its offspring? It must — or the species will die out.
- Esther Vilar, The Manipulated Man

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