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FRIYOPATRICK:
My Ex was insecure in every move I made... I have never cheated on her but to my greatest surprise, she was the one cheating on me... It's really unbelievable.... She might believe you are doing the same thing, she is doing.. Mark my word.... Spy on her and thank me later.. that's if your hands are clean and you have never given her any reason to be insecure..

I'm surprised this is the only comment on projection thus far. As soon as I read OP's comment I just had a strong assumption that she may be cheating, and that paranoia is manifesting as a result.

Whobeatme:
Mould your women to whatever the mess you want.
You're the PRIZE KINGS

Forget the social media hype. This one is just to stroke the guy's ego and turn his head (while flexing on other females). Women are not romantic, once they start doing "romance" be cautious because it's just to manipulate and make you lose guard.
It's also a common format to hype their man on social media after cheating to make themselves 'feel' less guilty. Her friends too will be commenting "Relationship goals!", "God when??"

Guy A that provides for her is the one she'll be giving this 'verbal love', but Guy B that she'll publicly & prudely shame will appeal to her emotions and tell her to come over, and she'll go to his house to give him the fullest extent of what she has to offer.

Karlifate:


The Redpill haters & trolls right now:

"So wait.. this redpill thread is still here?"

Tempulated:
Stop capping nonsense on what you do not know. There are over eight flats in my compound because the compound is very big. I occupy one of the flats anm Most of the flats are occupied by single ladies and unmarried women. We have only few married people. I moved into the compound not long ago.

From the day i moved in, i noticed they have been trying to get close to me by always greeting me, helping them to charge their phones when the power is off. I don't usually allow them to enter my apartment because i don't like strangers invading my privacy. They later shrugged it off by understanding my kind of person and we were good.

But recently things took a new dimension when i bought many new items into my apartment. Most of them doesn't greet me again, Whenever i greet them, they will just squeeze their faces. They have been gossiping about me ever since then.

"If they gossip about you, it means that you are enough not only for yourself, but also for others."
- Arthur Schopenhaeur

https://www.nairaland.com/7753241/wahala-chaos-female-nature-volume/1#124364802

Meedon:
When it comes to men, they would be nothing like natural giving. Some people are funny. Very funny.

"Naturally giving to women" it is indeed funny.

You know one of easiest ways to see if you're being finessed? Look at it from a woman's perspective. Man give resource; woman give sex - but swap "man" with "woman" in his comment:

"Bro, see, when a woman is a lover of men, she just finds herself naturally giving to men."

That's the issue.. more particularly the rationalisation from man's pov. Why are the 'naturally loved' not giving sex or even resources initially? Is their 'love' not reciprocal?

The honest truth is, when generosity is only focused on women it is driven by ROI. When ROI isn't met, generosity becomes the crutch à la plausible deniability. It is that same selective generosity women use on men when they want something in return - it is a feminine trait/tactic. And seeing how women don't like the feminine (other women and effeminate men) their sexual attraction to these men becomes evident.

Kinda off-point but I just remembered secondary school when someone would beg you for something, like food, when you tell them "No" they'll say "I was just testing you.." but if you give them they'll take.

If a man continously gives mainly to women and believes he wants nothing in return then he's a nice guy and that's great... for women... because women love nice guys and never refer to them as mugu/maga whatsoever when gisting with other females.
Women value it and like to give when they've worked for it e.g. worked for your attention instead of it being given freely, so why should one just give when it has not been worked for?

Seeker675:
Bro I swr man, this girl started off as a very caring girl with a golden heart, I was even commending her parents for raising her well but all of a sudden, she switched!

The good ol' "bait-and-switch". You're lucky she did the switch in courting stage. Many unfortunate men witness this switch after marriage (with children).

Poke

ElliotP:
First of all almost all Nigerian girls have rape stories, secondly I assure you that barney is sexually active, she's just not sexually active with you, and she's seen you're a sissy that's why she taking advantage, if she's asexual let her go because it's obvious you need some pussy in your life

Unfortunately @OP, this is it. When you said "wait" I thought you meant like a few weeks (which is already a sign that she's not sexually attracted to you) but you seem to be waiting till marriage.

Your mention of 'love' makes it more likely that she's seeing you like one soft guy. She is a woman, and there are men she's attracted to - would she honestly just lay down like a plank of wood with those men?

Even if the disdain of sex due to trauma is true, why would you willingly plan to marry someone with unresolved trauma? Don't let love trap you between a rock and a hard place.

Nicepoker:
You did it on your grandfather's grave . That old man is really disappointed in you.

Old man was rolling in his grave.

omooba969:
You see, our women are funny...I mean they're comedians.

I saw a video earlier this year about a notorious deadbeat mum. The lady absconded, left her 1yr old son with her mother-in-law and hubby. According to her, she wasn't prepared to suffer/struggle with her husband. The mother-in-law volunteered to help raise the little boy, so that allowed the dad to fend for the family. No one knew the whereabout of this lady, even though they enquired from her own extended family, no one heard from her.

Suddenly, this notorious deadbeat mum showed up after 8 or 9 yrs demanding to now have the little boy she dumped. She actually eloped with another man, got married secretly but couldn't bear him a child, so she remembered having a child somewhere...lol. 😂

Grandma who's uneducated & of little financial means struggled raising the child, tried enrolling the little boy in the village school. Grandma refused to release the child to her, even the deadbeat mum's family took sides with grandma. She wailed so much, the whole palaver was very emotional.

Here's the funniest part, they asked the fool if she would be able to identify her son if they met....she couldn't answer.🤣🤣

Damn.

omooba969:
When shall we have a post on Deadbeat/ useless Mums?

Dey Play

I remember when a moniker, TheGidRedpiller, made a thread about his deadbeat mom and the issue he had with her. Most people on that thread kept calling him a bad son despite his tellings of the whole situation.

The truth is there's a natural bias in this types of matters, so much so the term 'deadbeat mom' sounds unnatural.

If a guy does something terrible to a girl you'll see all manner of threats towards him (whether that's appropriate is a different topic) from males and females alike, but there's rarely the same level of intolerance for a woman who does something similar (or worse) to a guy.

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Poke

CaveAdullam:
It's funny to see that the most deceptive - women, fall for easy deceit.

Women are deceptive because they are naturally weak, in terms of physical and muscular strength. In the animal kingdom, to survive, species either become a fearful predator.

Or, If they are sought-after prey, they develop adaptive features or behaviors to escape and survive.

Humans' ancestral wiring is positioned for surviving in the wild, where circumstances are unpredictable, and must be alert, active, and vivacious in case of impromptu situations that threaten their survival.

Women had developed the art of manipulation and deception for such an environment because they lack the strength to fight, unlike men who are ready to go to war at the sight of threats and clangs of metals of destruction.

That psyche imbued in women is still active today. Even if we are in a better environment with lesser violence compared to our ancestral/hunter-gatherer days, women have leveraged the art of deception to scale through their problems and have caused men to fall into their whims.

A grimaced face, tears, display of innocence are common tools in their toolset. Humans are first emotional before logical. And since these tools work on our emotions, the woman can easily be excused for her vices. (And proven guilty under scrutiny investigations).

However, the most deceitful are prey to deceptions because they're lost in lies, and can't determine the truth and be convinced by it. Hence, despite womanly manipulative techniques she still falls for the worst amongst men. And the lies of the sisterhood.

Being able to choose a good man is the work of a strong patriarchal identity and community work. Left alone, women deceive and are also victims of deceit.

Men falls for womanly deceitful trap before coming to an understanding of women. The ones who manage to escape have already been counseled by loving female relations + have drawn from the experience of the father figure in their lives or the brotherhood.

Under circumstances where logic and strength fail men, manipulation will be leveraged. However, narcissistic men are cunning to a disadvantaged point while benevolent men are cunning to raise and protect a community. Women's cunning is based on solipsism.

The cost of shunning truth.

Haydens:
And some guys will end up paying her bride price.

Reason why I hate talking to girls atimes. They repulse me.

Yuck 🤮🤮🤮

Women and the perpetual need to self-victimize. Did he point her gun to visit him and have sex or was she in a non-beneficial relationship where he's the only one enjoying the sex? Lol, e get wetin dey carry her go him house.

She enjoyed the dominance but trust women to remix their stories for maximum victimization. It's very possible that something she did made the guy emotionally detached and just kept her for knacks (assuming that part is authentic).

Anyhow, she has been alpha-widowed. He has left his mark on her, like Voldemort left a mark on Harry Potter's head. She'll likely meet a nice, sweet and caring guy and all it will take is for her ex to reconnect with her and her mark will start throbbing.

Another example is Devon Franklins - preacher, producer and ex-husband to Megan Good. It seems she became "born again" before or after the marriage.
When asked in a gospel interview about his wife's dressing on previous occasions as she sat besides him, he responded "My wife can wear what she wants to wear in the name of the Lord."
Forfeiting the sacredness of his religion for supporting woman's antics.

It seems he was later masculine enough to initiate divorce. Also, the guys she dated can give a strong indication of her past.

Picture 1: ex-boyfriend
Picture 2: Devon Franklin

Ciara, after dating Bow Wow, 50 Cent, Trey Songz and finishing with a baby from Future, she became 'repentant' and gave her savior---Russell Wilson---a condition of abstinence after passing round with her (known) exes. Do 50 or Trey Songz look like guys that would do 'no sex'?

I remember when my knowledge on redpill was quite shaky, Ubunja comments on male & female relationships tinging towards sex (as Skepticus would phrased it) or that you should start a relationship with sex seemed weird to me, but as I began to understand female nature it then started to make sense.

Women are not enlightened creatures. Their main agenda in life is to have fun & have their cakes and eat it as much as possible. When they enter relationships it is not for love or any other virtues exclusive to men, but for THEIR benefits first and foremost.
That's why their standards of 'provider & protector' remains unchanged throughout the centuries but man's own keeps dropping.

Oblivious men throw themselves into the gears of women's self-serving machinations, and are more than happy to settle for less to support woman's hypergamy. They would even defend how she presents herself when she's just busy advertising herself to other men. Also notice the body language (body language is right >90% of the time).

narite:
That lady might have not eaten anything all day and probably there is no hope that something will come at the end of the day. If it turns out that this is the precarious situation she is in, You have no idea the blessings you might have thrown away by not buying her just one Donut.

There is nothing wrong in stretching out a hand to someone you are just seeing for the first time; what or who they are, the things you have heard about them shouldn’t not really matter to you. Good is good and it should be rendered unconditionally. This is the grandeur purpose of everything in existence. A Cup will allow you to drink water with it, whether you are bad or good does not really matter to that cup.

Lastly, simping is not about being brutal to ladies right from day one. Yes! You might need to become brutal but it is only when you are being taken for granted. This is the moment you stop and walk away from her.

A man can be simping to his fellow man, being taken for granted by his friends, not appreciating or seeing any worth in him and taking the things he does for them as nothing. This is where you stop and move on. Move on to those who really values and appreciate the things you do for them and not actually becoming a just brutal person.

One day, those that you left behind will begin to see your true value but they have blown their chance. They probably will want to move back into your life but do not look back. Only then will they truly learn something significant from that experience and you would have helped them grow.

I see where you're coming from, and it's good to have empathy for others but try and regulate it with women because, as the weaker sex, they have to be exploitative for their survival - so they need to test what kind of man they're dealing with to see if he's firm or they can use him, that's why she was so quick to demand.

Any opening will be taken advantage of if not careful. Before you know, she'll assign him the title of "mugu" or "maga", and that will dictate how she'll perceive him going forward.

Nahunger:
Lol
Person advice me to press code I go see free money, I press I no know say na Loan shark call "MIGO" them disburse the money sharp Omo the interest rate fear me and the payment day scare me, I pay up ASAP THEM STILL COLLECT FULL INTEREST RATE LOAN OF SAME DAY SINCE THEN I WARN THEM TO AVOID ME AND I FLEE FROM THAT MY FRIEND.

heartofcity12:
Cold&Ruthless. He passed with flying colors, he’s redpilled/Alpha 😊 ..Always maintain frame #redpill

"I no it's hurt you" not "Sorry it hurt you"? smh. Loving females is like turning off your immune system and sitting in the midst of sick people. But I'm curious though.. is this a shit test or does she want to call him to rationalize any impending guilt during breaktime?

Karlifate:
Don't mind him

It's still the same fear of accountability that made women more prone to followrship, than leadership.

If they fück up (which they do) as a religious leader, their followers which include men, women like themselves, children, etc will expect them to take responsibility for their actions which is alien to them.

So, they take the easy route — followership.

It was even stated in the new testament that women should not be allowed to minister the gospel nor speak in church but to go home afterwards and ask their husbands any question they have. (Christian) Men, ever-bending backwards to please women, have slowly omitted/ignored those red-pilled aspects of the bible, but if na to shout "He who has found a good wife...!!!" you'll see them - even prostitutes will be shouting "He who has found..."

The spirituality of woman---the adult child---is a replica of child's spirituality: ephemeral. Prayers and tongues one second, lies and manipulation the next. Like flipping a switch.

nairalanduser23:
If I show any form of threat, she saying things along the lines that I should break up, date another woman that she regrets marrying me.

I'll be honest with you.. There's an incredibly high chance that she's already cheating on you. When a woman cheats, she begins to create this juxtaposition between the man she's cheating with and the man she's cheating on. When she interacts with the cheated man that juxtaposition creates resentment towards him.

She wants you to initiate separation/cheating because:
1. She thinks the grass is greener on the other side.
2. To play the victim afterwards.
3. It will justify her own infidelity.

Ignore any "manage her women are like that" advice because you're the one losing peace of mind while the woman will even enjoy tearing you down.
If no children are involved you can divorce immediately (it won't get better). If you have kids and some cash do paternity tests, then you may prepare for divorce depending on how you value peace of mind.

Uptheante:
Let me be more specific, I mean a girl with ugly face, dry ass, flat boobs & generally undesirable physical features

Otto Weininger had stated that no woman ever believes herself ugly. Due to her experiences she may see herself as less attractive in contrast with others, but never ugly.

When these unattractive women cry about being ugly they are simply doing their ritualistic dance to summon sympathy and pity. They don't want beauty for self-esteem but to get what the fine girls are getting from men. That girl that seems special and intelligent, as if to compensate for a lack of beauty, will show a man the ruthless aspects of female nature when he gives her what attractive girls are given.

I'm not sure but I think it was Pukkalolo that made a comment a long time ago about a friend who was dating an unattractive girl just for knacks. He would hype and flatter the girl, until the day they had a quarrel then she started telling him something like she's 'doing him a favor for being with him' lol.
Because she is unattractive doesn't mean she acknowledges that truth. Truth & women are water & oil.

BafanaBafana:
Took my cousin who came visiting to the motor park to board a vehicle back home. The booking clerk told me it was 10k for the ticket even when I told him the person travelling wasn't going to reach the final destination of the vehicle. She was stopping in a town before. He collected money, wrote our details in the manifest. I asked for the ticket and he said it wasn't ready so I went and was talking to someone. My cousin came to me laughing and handed 1k to me. The guy issuing the ticket refunded 1k back to her that the fate was 9k.
It was later I got to understand that the simp of a guy was trying to help my cousin extort me. A girl he has never known and will never know or get anything from.
I get that he probably thought she was my girlfriend. But who send am message? Why will a man behave like that to a fellow man? To what end? The thing is so difficult for me to understand. I letter learnt that some guys do such in shopping malls. Men like that are half men and should never be allowed to talk in a gathering of men.

Stamped and approved.

LikeAking:
Na only simps go remove am..

The moment him remove he becomes nothing in the eyes of the new wife.. His value will diminish..

Many of you don’t understand the F gender.. When it comes with dealing with F gender your must be highly manipulative..

If he keeps the late wife’s pics, the new wife will be very loyal and she will respect him in her heart..

If he simps, she will show him her devilish side..

He shud warn her neva to repeat that nonsense agian…

You've got a point.

Abahboniface45:
No issue since the day if creation
You will be charged $5 for creation of the virtual dollar card

Exchange rate is #1,104

Alright thanks

UcheKingsley1:
Nigga, girls take princess treatment from simps. Take messy treatment from naughty alphamales.

Let me tell you for free, take her as a princess she won't still be satisfied, make her a bitchh she will be curious for more.

Treat her like a princess and she'll treat you like a peasant.

Braveryy:
Hello guys, Please I want to get a 16tb flash drive from AE, but I'm seeing most prices around. $7-10 and suspect they might be fake, although they have positive reviews (4.5+)

Are my suspicious wrong? Or is there a reliable shop to buy from? Thanks.

You should do some research on these cheap drives with ridiculous sizes. It sounds too good to be true. Maybe check YouTube and read comments.

Abahboniface45:
Grey has us billing address
That's what I use

Please what's the charge for creating a virtual card, and have you had any issues with topping up or the card or using it this year?

TripleLTD:
Well it was long but I thought it came with us billing address

Is it 777 Fremont street, San Francisco ,California

That might work.. I'm asking because the quality of their services might be something else now, and I don't want comma after I've transferred money.

TripleLTD:
well the last time I use it , it was perfect

Maybe something change.

Please when was that and is there an option to change the billing address to another country on the app?