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 Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 10:45am On Sep 07, 2021*. Modified: 12:32pm On Sep 07, 2021 |
Nature130:Many women are akin to children in many ways. Children are naturally solipsistic and egocentric--I think due to the egocentrism, the world revolves around them from their view so if mental and/or emotional maturity isn't gained or instilled before adulthood, they will retain that 'narcissism' and will continue to retain it until they decide to "grow" or self improve. Here's a "poem" I copied from a reddit thread about narcissists; A Narcissists Prayer: That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did... You deserved it. Lots of women are good at putting up a facade a la an interviewee giving a good impression initially, but once they've gotten the job, or in this case, marriage--their true colours come out--they let themselves go after birth, they stop doing the good things that attracted you to them, for they've gotten what they're wanted so for what reasons should they continue to 'appeal' to you, should they 'kill' themselves for you because you're a 'provider'? It's your 'job' and 'duty' to provide, after all, how can one be 'entitled' to what they now 'deserve' as your wife? 14 Likes 5 Shares
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| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 11:01pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
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| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 9:49pm On Sep 06, 2021 |
neyoohhh:Lol, thanks. For some it sounds good and "progressive", for others it serves as justification/rationalisation for indulging in questionable things. It is what it is I guess. “It is no measure of health to be well-adjusted to a profoundly sick society.” - Jiddu Krishnamurti 6 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 2:39am On Sep 06, 2021*. Modified: 10:30am On Sep 07, 2021 |
A bit off topic but I've kinda been following some of the 'activities' in the US' social climate and I've also been noticing some 'parallels' and similarities with America's "trajectory", Babylon and the Decline & Fall of Rome. Their society seems to have "advanced" to the point where common sense is apparently not needed anymore, as some would say, "so progressive, it's regressive." Feelings are prioritised over logic and reason and any attempt to "invalidate" said feelings are shot down with personal attacks and shaming e.g. "Misogynist", "racist", "sexist", "homo-bi-transphobe", "bigot" and the rest. First world problems.. when your basic needs are met, you look for "inconveniences" and turn them into problems. "Men fight for liberty and win it with hard knocks. Their children, brought up easy, let it slip away again, poor fools. And their grandchildren are once more slaves." (A mistake China seems to be avoiding, although via authoritarian means) They push 'depravity, debauchery, degradation and degeneration' in the form of LGBTQ+ rights, gender theory (founded by psychologist and known pedophile- John Money), critical race theory, "empowering" sex work & promiscuity, modern feminism, sex transitions for kids, "58 genders" (as well as gender being a "social structure" so anyone can identify as anything), supporting women to be single mothers, etc, in their society under the guise of "progress". To be fair, some, maybe a lot of these things probably sounded good on paper or in their heads but is horrible in practice as well as destructive for society's morals and integrity. Society has stigmatised many of these acts for centuries for a good reason--"sexual freedom" might sound good to some on paper but actually erodes the morals & discipline of individuals causing lower moral standards of later generations, inadvertently corroding society in turn a la Sodom and Gomorrah, (somewhat akin to a "chain reaction" ). Perversion of any kind, I guess could be analogized with cocaine--you're convinced that it's "nice", "cool", makes you "feel good", you snuff a 'line' then eventually you get 'desensitised' to one line so you "up" the dose to two lines, get desensitised to that, up the dose again to get that "high", to be able to "get off", rinse and repeat, culminating in self destruction--like that but on a societal scale. "You don't know you're addicted until you're addicted." "Vice, in its true light, is so deformed, that it shocks us at first sight; and would hardly ever seduce us, if it did not at first wear the mask of some virtue." - Lord Chesterfield A progressive degradation ending with a total disappearance of high moral standards. - Aristidis Matsoukis (Agricultural University of Athens Greece) Russia and China; two superpowers, aren't adapting these harmful ideologies, for they know the detrimental effects it has, but they simply watch, perhaps in anticipation of the eventual outcome of the double-edged sword (freedom) the US so proudly flaunts. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZMAP9Ccg2-0 (51 second video) Vladimir Putin explains how a powerful empire (US) has a tendency to overlook little problems which "snowballs" into bigger ones. "Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake." - Napoleon Bonaparte America being incredibly influential in the west means if left unchecked, these 'philosophies' slowly seep into other (western) countries, they slowly integrate it into their media for example, slowly desensitizing other countries and cultures, normalising it, making them "tolerant" (of course, they don't do that with countries [or religions] that draw a hard line i.e. Islamic countries, China, Russia, etc) but other countries do have a tendency to be more accepting of certain ignominious beliefs, especially in this age of social media. That's why one must stand by their morals, integrity, for what is right, against what is clearly wrong--the Americans didn't, so they legalised gay marriage, not realising the "flood gates" they just opened, and a decade or two later, the 1-2% minority of their population has gained enough power to (ironically) oppress anyone who doesn't share their views. People who spoke against this depravity, basically predicted their current social situation, but they were shamed, called trans- and homo-phobes, minimising their predictions to "slippery slope" fallacies, just as current day people are predicting the normalisation of pedophilia with organisations like NAMBLA (an actual movement promoting pedophilia). If you see someone doing evil it's your obligation to stop them. You need to actually be brave and stand up to evil if you want things to go well. When good people stop others from doing evil, evil people will think twice before they try it again on someone else. Also, people who are about to do evil won't because they are afraid of the consequences and that keeps all of us safer. Everything gets a lot safer when good people don't let evil people just walk all over them. Cowards empower the criminals and allowing them to become more dangerous and competent at their craft. Criminals need practice and experience. Every time they succeed they get a little better. It's your job as a good person to stop them before they can develop. You can't just passively sit by and let this things happen, hoping they attack someone else instead of you. If everyone does that then eventually its going to be your turn. Except this time the criminals will be way more difficult to defeat because they'll have all the practice and experience of the people they took down before you while you were busy being a coward. You need to be brave or bad people will take everything from you. If you stand up for yourself on a regular basis then you'll be the one who'll have all the practice and experience and you'll be the one who is difficult to defeat. - Think Before You Sleep 33 Likes 9 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 2:22pm On Sep 02, 2021*. Modified: 3:19pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
MetalJigsaw:Damaged/unstable people normally have "uniforms" they wear and can be used to identify them like tattoos, piercings and body mods, the more "conservative" ones just use heavy makeup, pushup bras, tight and/or revealing clothes, etc to get attention or adoration (signs of attachment issues) Promiscuous women typically indulge in 'immediate' gratification rather than 'delayed' gratification so they tend to be impulsive/erratic and lack self control which could have detrimental effects on their mental, emotional and physical health. Many don't seem to discover or acknowledge their trauma/unresolved issues which should lead to self improvement and true growth, so they just "accept" themselves as is and enter relationships with that baggage, sometimes using (identifiable) comments (to rationalise) like: "I need a man that can handle me." "I'm speaking my truth" - (at some point in their lifes, a lot/most of their actions are powered by emotions so what they "feel" is right to do or say in that moment is right thing.) "My body my choice." "Going through my hoe phase." "I'm a nice girl" - (like a guy being "nice" simply just to have sex, this comment is a red flag. Nice people don't have to tell other people they're "nice" because it shows.) Some women may be childish but they're not dumb, they know what men want to hear so they simply "parrot" it to "catch" men but they don't actually do or believe what they say (cognitive dissonance--a somewhat common phenomenon with many women) e.g. Ayesha Curry speaking against thirst trap pics and later posting some or Billie Eilish who's against sexualization, posing in lingerie for a magazine cover. Just like lying, pretending to be what they're not actually takes a lot of focus, attention and willpower (a finite resource) to keep up and they'll eventually slip up showing their true nature in the process. "If you don't pay attention to how people behave, then you are gonna end up unhealthy." - Think Before You Sleep. Also, "There's never one unhealthy person in a relationship" because healthy people don't linger in toxic/unhealthy relationships. As for the "cheating" thing, there's a saying in Denmark--"A thief thinks everyone steals" so maybe she thinks he cheats because she does, maybe she subconsciously thinks she's not good enough for him, maybe she "got" him with something superficial like sex ("what you use to attract them is what someone else will use to attract them" ), maybe it's just insecurities or paranoia. 37 Likes 12 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 1:02pm On Sep 02, 2021*. Modified: 2:38pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
Martinez39s:Some (toxic) women have what some refer to as "high school mentality". It manifests in a few ways like: 1. Shit tests - These are attempts to test your 'composure' and 'self control' as a "real man", sometimes used as a technique to test your boundaries/to see what they can get away with e.g. intentionally ordering too much food or expensive food at a restaurant (when you're paying of course) and just taking a few bites, deliberately going against your rules/instructions, using personal info against you sometimes accompanied with physical abuse, etc. 2. Attempts to change you or 'mold' you into the man (they think) they want, often by (perhaps unintentionally) emasculating you. There are no winning scenarios with these two points because 1. Shit tests are often are sign of immaturity so if said tests are "beaten" they'll will be more as it typically continues indefinitely, sometimes escalating overtime. 2. If they can't change you they'll keep trying and if they successfully "change" you they themselves may not even be fully aware of it but they'll despise you for being "soft, submissive and easy to control". Like a child bored of a toy, you'll become contemptible to them and they'll likely set their gaze on a new, "better toy". The only way to win the game is by not playing in first place. 41 Likes 11 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 5:49pm On Sep 01, 2021*. Modified: 12:37pm On Sep 02, 2021 |
If a woman puts most of her time, money and energy into her appearance rather than her education, finances or growth (acquiring skills, self improvement, etc), she isn't doing it for herself, contrary to what some might say, but as an "investment" to snare a man who would take care of her like a child. Since many men require nothing more than "fine face" and "nice body", the 'halo effect' becomes a common phenomenon. "Once a woman realises she can get by on her looks, her mind stops maturing". If she successfully "catches" a man, whatever that man expects to get from her--maturity and peace of mind are not amongst them. The man can maintain an 'illusion' of 'peace of mind' by constantly giving her what she desires (further infantilizing her) but the moment she senses "non compliance", she will lash out in various ways (akin to a spoilt child), including but not limited to, S.I.G.N language (Shaming, Insults, Guilting & Not being wrong [you can check out my 'red flags' list on page 769]) Makeup (~heavy makeup--fake eyelashes, mascara, eye shadow, drawn eyebrows, concealer, etc), fake (long, brightly coloured) hair, big earrings, long nails, clothing that accentuates sex appeal (e.g. skin tight/revealing wears, pushup bras, high heels, etc)--like a peacock 'mating dance' they adorn themselves with bright coloured, provocative, attention catching fabrics and cosmetics to simultaneously compensate for their lack of substantial traits (good upbringing, behaviour, personality, humour, morals, etc) while attracting a "non-platonic father" to provide for them (the more lust/lack of self control he has, the better). If the "mating behaviour" gets them a "good man", then they now have a man who they can "starve" and manipulate with sex (their one defining "commodity"/selling point) to get their way as much as possible.. after all, they're already giving him a "good time" at their own "expense" (consensual sex), what more could they provide or offer him? Smart, well brought up women with proper self esteem don't resort to the aforementioned "mating behaviours" or sex appeal to garner attention and attract men and some men don't seem to realise that said attention seeking behaviours are a result of insecurities, attachment issues, childhood emotional neglect, etc. Bad behaviours don't just go away, especially when you don't have any interest in stopping them so they'll eventually pop up in your relationships and cause issues - that's why you have the Ayesha Currys and Jada Pinketts looking for attention and other things outside their marriages. 23 Likes 5 Shares
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| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 3:11pm On Sep 01, 2021 |
People 'project' a lot. When person A sees or hears about person B doing something ignominious or immoral (e.g. cheating, physical abuse, manipulation, being provocative/promiscuous, entitled, etc.) and starts defending them, they very likely aren't doing so because "they just like defending nonsense". Person A 'associates' themselves mentally with person B because if both persons were switched, they (person A) would most likely do the same thing. So if person A criticises person B, they would be (subconsciously) giving themselves a psychological narrative that goes against themselves, and would have to acknowledge that they themselves possess the same immoral behaviour so person A will justify and rationalise the action(s)/behaviour of person B (often resorting to 'strawman' arguments which sometimes start with "So you're saying.."/ "So you're trying to say that.."/ "So what are you trying to say? That.." then proceeds to 'strawman' ) rather than hold them accountable in spite of how irrational they may sound in the process. "Birds of the same feather, something something.." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJP086yeHyw (1:28 second video) For example, this is the elevator footage of Quavo and Saweetie. Quavo leaves her apartment towards the elevator with his orange Call of Duty case, Saweetie swings on him and tries to snatch his case, Quavo pulls her back to get back the case causing her to fall on the floor (she seems to be playing victim by laying on the floor rather than standing up but I'm not too sure about that so I'll just give a benefit of a doubt) "Never be a gentleman to a shameless woman." (like a spoilt child they have no qualms in disrespecting/disgracing you) When this footage was released, there were many women who called Quavo an "abuser" in this particular situation in spite of the footage clearly showing Saweetie instigating and Quavo reacting in the best way he could without hitting her, because not only does Saweetie's action and behaviour seem rational to them, they would likely do the same thing in that scenario. This is important to know because what people 'read' in a situation, often says more about who they are than who the person in the situation being perceived are. This could be used to "screen" for questionable behaviour in women (or people in general). Though one should also be wary of 'cognitive dissonance' or being a "chameleon" with women (somewhat common), essentially, saying one thing (because it sounds good or telling you what you want to hear) and then doing the opposite. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 12:25am On Aug 28, 2021*. Modified: 12:47am On Aug 28, 2021 |
"Never be a gentleman to (or for) a shameless woman." (One should not advocate nor condone violence). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lCP9ZSbiZUQ Sign of a child in an adult's body, a lack of emotional intelligence--when tantrums and fits are not addressed during childhood it results in physically impulsive and disrespectful women. She how she instigated a fight with a man, implicating her spouse leading to him getting knocked down with a punch (potential brain damage). If she can put hands on a stranger, I'll be surprised if she doesn't hit her man at home and will probably despise him because he didn't defend her. Chances are, he's currently in a 'Cycle of abuse'---many men aren't aware of this cycle because they have this mindset of "I'm a man, she can't do anything.." Looks, sex, whatever it is, it's never worth it--women like this will shorten your lifespan. 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 11:29pm On Aug 27, 2021*. Modified: 12:29am On Sep 03, 2021 |
How to Ruin your Life 1.) Wakeup whenever you feel like, not at a reasonable hour. When everyone has a head start in their day. Don't make your bed. 2.) Make sure your room is a complete disaster, to subconsciously reinforce the idea, that you're a disorganised person, whose life is not in order--this is a very important belief to have when trying to remain miserable. 3.) Procrastinate When the thought dawns on you to get some work done, ignore it. After all, you just woke up and have so much time within the day to stuff done-- a habit of delegating all your life's problems to your future self, who will probably have a lot more energy and motivation than you do right now. 4.) Look busy You sit down to do some work, open up a Word document to help yourself feel like you're being productive. Give your document a nice title then immediately open up Reddit, instagram, Facebook and Twitter, 'just to check' if you missed anything--it doesn't really matter what you do, as long as you're sitting on your desk and that Word document is open, it'll help trick your conscious into thinking you're doing work, but you won't be getting any further in life. 5.) Wait for opportunities Never be proactive with finding new opportunities to grow your career or meet new people, wait for all that to come knocking on your door. After all, it's gonna happen, it's gonna happen. You'll just also land your dream job if you wait long enough. The most important thing is to not take action--don't figure out the most effective way to get what you want, just wait to things work out. 6.) Be default no When a friend ask you to go out for a drink just say no, after all, you're 'super busy' this days. When your boss gives you the opportunity to lead a meeting at work, try to find an excuse to sneak out of it--the key here is to give everyone the impression that they should let you do your own thing. Be so good at saying 'no' that people just stop asking you to do anything. 7.) Be suspicious of people Never give people the benefit of the doubt, believe people just want to take advantage of you, because of this, you should be guarded, put up walls to protect yourself emotionally. Assume the smiles people give you are fake and that their motives are malevolent. 8.) Never fix the things you dislike about yourself. Continue to engage in activities that makes you feel subhuman, weak. Never prove to yourself that you can overcome obstacles or better yourself or attempt to transcend your vices or change your lifestyle for the better. Subscribe to the idea that "people can't change", so you shouldn't try. 9.) Focus on things you can't control. As often as possible, get pissed off at the government, the pandemic.. you really wanna reinforce the idea that the world is messed up and there is nothing you can do about it. Focus on the shortcomings of others, the failings of your country and the state of the economy. Maintain a constant external level of control over all the events in your life. If will really help you feel powerless and if you're trying to miserable, that's perfect. 10.) Use fear as motivation. Make the fear of negative consequence your primary motivator for everything you do. Set up deadlines that frighten you and punish yourself for failing to meet them. Use 'white knuckle' tactics to force yourself in productivity and remind yourself constantly that your entire life can fall apart if you don't keep your head above water. 11.) Only do what is comfortable. Let your comfort zone be the authority on what you do or don't do. If it's not comfortable, don't do it. Avoid discomfort at all cost and participate only in activities that are familiar and effortless. Don't concern yourself with gaining fresh perspectives or novel experiences--stay in your lane, operating your wheelhouse. 12.) Believe you're special. Behave you're entitled to things on the basis that you're just different than everyone else. Always regard yourself as unique, talented, one of a kind. This will really help you develop an 'outsider complex' which will make it difficult to open up to other people or see things from their perspectives, but since you don't wanna do any of that uncomfortable stuff anyway.. that's perfect. 13.) See life not as it is, but how you wish it to be. Fantasise about a life where all your problems are gone. You wanna make sure you mentally escape as much as possible, to distract you from the obstacles in front of you. Pour your mental energy not into fixing or improving yourself, but into building up this fantasy to be detailed as possible. Reflect daily on what you'd buy if you won the lottery or became a celebrity. Constantly compare your life to this fiction and become resentful at the juxtaposition. So if suffering is what you're after and you crave the daily strife then you're in luck because if you follow this advice, you'll be miserable for the rest of your life. - Better Ideas (check him out on YouTube) 38 Likes 6 Shares |
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| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 9:31pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
Bwilliam:When an attention seeker spots someone who stands out i.e. pays them no attention, it piques them in a way, sparking their interest. They'll likely try to familiarize themselves with you and when you get comfortable and start paying them attention, they likely get contemptuous. Familiarity > comfort > contempt. Once they've gotten the attention, their interest will dissipate but they'll keep you around as an 'orbiter'-- a fuel source for both attention and possibly an ego boost when they reject you. She's also "very active on all social media" which is another red flag and if she is actually narcissistic then that's an even bigger red flag.---whether as a friend, family or spouse, narcissists will make you miserable. So things probably worked out for the best. "When one door closes, another opens." 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 1:18pm On Aug 27, 2021*. Modified: 2:15pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
Karlifate:Sex and their bodies (sex appeal) are the linchpins holding up the personality, behaviour and character of these women. Remove those two things and everything crumbles, revealing a shallow/superficial person. Those two things are their 'worth', their selling point, likely the only "substantial" thing they could offer. These ladies almost embody the phrase "beauty' is skin deep." Actual smart, well brought up women don't resort to a provocative and/or promiscuous lifestyle. A well adjusted woman with a good head on her shoulders doesn't seek attention/approval/validation to remedy their self esteem, because those are typically the traits of women with attachment issues (daddy issues). Men see these images, these depiction of the "perfect" woman and fall into the 'halo effect', glorifying them for the makeup on their faces, fake hair on their heads, tight/revealing provocative clothing, slim waist merely there because of simple gender physiology (slimmer when achieved with ribs removal surgery or waist trainers), "flawless" skin and angles achieved with cameras, lighting & editing apps/software and the (visceral) and subcutaneous fat & tissue that makes up their breast, thighs and the buttocks which serves mostly as a 'cushion' on the toilet when excrement passes by it, because that's what society has taught men to worship. Women are well aware of this "conditioning" of men, so many of them put in their time, effort and energy to creating a good "bait" (with their bodies) to snare oblivious men, rather than investing those 'resources' into their personal growth, which in turn, further 'infantilises' them (there's probably some irony/ an ironic cycle in here somewhere..) 14 Likes 3 Shares
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| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 12:49pm On Aug 27, 2021 |
Think4Myself:I think FnF just apologised to their fans because they're were losing subscribers but yeah Aba n preach are milking it a bit much. Youtube drama.. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 12:36am On Aug 27, 2021 |
A lot of Instagram models are simply glorified sex workers e.g. escorts and call girls, but they are well aware of the social stigma (especially in countries like Nigeria) so they use the guise of 'brand deals' and 'rich unknown spouses' as a sort of 'red herring' to hide the actual source that powers their luxurious lifestyles like Dubai trips, exorbitant apartments and high end fashion brands a la Hushpuppi, with "motivating" captions on how far hard work has bought them--which might be 'grossly' fitting as they are often paid high amounts of money for 'unorthodox' or 'degrading' sexual acts like indulging in scat fetish (being pee'd or poo'd on), bdsm, sex with minors (like described in the video below @7:40), etc. Their large following serves as a platform for both attention and (more importantly) 'exposure' to wealthy individuals willing to pay for 'access' to them. The more followers they acquire, the more luxurious their "lifestyle" is portrayed on social media, the higher their price, like an investment they take the revenue and reinvest it further increasing the ROI. This type of wh*re seems almost "antithetical" to the "dishonest wh*re"--as Esther Vilar refers to them-- in the sense that they don't put off 'signs' or 'hints' to pay or compensate them for 'consensual' sex but are rather straightforward to their clientele (at least behind the eyes of social media). Some are aware of the perception of Instagram "models" so they don't use that 'tag', simply posting provocative/ thirst trap images of themselves. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQVrSmXk-1g&t=39s [Can skip to 6:35.. Instagram model gets tricked into telling what she'll do in Dubai for money @ 7:40] 18 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 11:27pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Regex:The red flag list 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 7:55pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Regex:Prof., you no even give me feedback for that PhD thesis I send. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 6:44pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
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| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 4:31pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Trex4:I heard about that. When you mostly invite immature "bad b*tch" type girls to your studio, you're bound to invite one that's impulsive and physically aggressive. 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 3:55pm On Aug 26, 2021*. Modified: 6:58pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Martinez39s:I try not to follow drama of any kind nowadays but that Aba & Preach/Fresh n Fit situation was actually a good learning experience. Fresh/fit used 'ad hominems' rather than attacking the argument, acting "alpha", bragging and started making monkey noises or something, which was kinda immature.. maybe all those onlyfans girls they keep bringing on the show started 'rubbing off' on them lol. They barely bring reasonable, mature women like maybe Candance Owens, mostly just scantily clad, immature girls.. sha maybe na that one dey get views.. Aba handled it maturely, talking about integrity and about not joking with violence. Preach just wanted to throw hands lol. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lDJ0jNQJ5Bk&t=21s A popular youtuber Spencer Cornelia who covers topics on frauds and "financial gurus" made a video recently showing how they make money off guys setting up $1000/hr "dating" lessons.-- One of them claiming to have slept with around 1000 women (that's not a typo) and not paying for sex (with actual proof that they do, basically not practicing what they preach), even harassing a certain lady because she said "no" to having sex with one of them. I've noticed a lot of guys who actively claim to be "alpha" actually aren't. Any man who must say, "I am the king" is no true king. -Twyin Lannister. Similar to how a matured person doesn't need to say "I'm matured." Aba & preach is cool sha but I try not to put anyone on a pedestal cuz that could lead to blind allegiance or being a toxic stan. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 3:12pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
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| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 3:07pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Martinez39s:Lmao. Oga, mention name direct, no dey do side side  and I no know why that picture dey always make me laugh.. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 9:36pm On Aug 25, 2021*. Modified: 12:26am On Aug 26, 2021 |
MJBOLT:Wild women: "I need a man that can handle me.." Man: *runs in opposite direction without looking back* 22 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 3:29pm On Aug 25, 2021*. Modified: 9:33am On Aug 26, 2021 |
Skepticus:True. Some guys think that a tiny, childlike baby voice is cute or attractive on a grown woman, which is understandable as I assume it's not really common knowledge that-- "A woman's voice would stop developing at the age of their initial trauma if the trauma is bad enough." [Involuntary] Leading to emotional, mental and traumatic baggage that affects them and the people they're (romantically) involved with. Also, a grown woman using a childlike, baby voice and/or childlike, neotenic behaviour (often with a 'sensual' or sexual undertone e.g. calling their spouse "daddy" ) to get what they want is a very likely sign of an exploitative, manipulative woman. This types of women are likely to be abusive and play the victim. [Voluntary] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q2oRuX3QR-4&t=1s For those curious, the lady in this video falls in the latter category (Voluntary). After her boyfriend broke up with her via twitter, she comes to his house, lies so he lets her in, uses a "cute" childlike voice and mannerism with a sexual undertone to convince him (which she claims has worked before) [at timestamps 1:25 & 7:35] that they're still a couple (while he live streams) in front of the camera. Later when the stream gets turn off and she thinks they aren't any cameras around she grabs his phone, runs into the bathroom and shows her true colors [at 9:30]. He had to call the police to make her leave. Later, she posts "bruises" of body on Instagram to insinuate that he laid hands on her during the incident but because everyone watching the live stream saw what happened, she was met with backlash, prompting her to delete the post. She also is an Instagram "model" and has an onlyfans, further proving her 'broken/unstable' nature. Women (and people generally) like this will ruin your life. Men tend to ignore this flags because of the 'halo effect' and sex. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oxUiTNa8SI8&t=44s [Mental instability red flag @ 0:55 Rationale behind her behaviour @ 11:20 & 13:02] [Red flags - Astrology (on her twitter bio), heavy makeup, lewd/ thirst trap instagram content, provocative clothing, promiscuous, sex worker, uses childlike voice and (sexual) mannerism, plays the victim, abusive, can't/doesn't take "no" for an answer. Can check out my red flag list on page 769 if curious] Funny enough, he later got back with her after everything (I assume after they had sex) and proceeded to insult his fans who warned/advised him to stay away from her--- a somewhat common phenomenon in abusive/toxic relationships. "There's never one unhealthy person in a relationship." 11 Likes 3 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 2:02pm On Aug 25, 2021*. Modified: 2:19pm On Aug 25, 2021 |
Zabiboy:Could be a simple case of misunderstanding the red pill, understandable. But I've seen men who use red pill and other excuses to justify sleeping around. You'll hear "Men are polygamous by nature." "It's a man's biological imperative to have sex with as many women as possible. Why should I be any different?" Your penis is just a penis, but you treat vaginas like a gold medal, put it on a pedestal and glorify it, resorting to rationales on why you need it. Women see this, become entitled and become "dishonest wh*res" as Esther Vilar would put it, and expect money and gifts for 'consensual' sex. I don't support promiscuity for men or women (as self control and disciple goes a long way) but if they want to sleep around or live like King Solomon with 100s of wives, that's they choice-- say it with your chest rather than using rationales as a crutch for your argument, that's how denial and blame-shifting starts.. Also, monks are not 'incomplete' men because of abstinence. That sounds like a shame tactic a woman would use. A dedicated monk is an 'enlightened' man so please respect respectable people. 21 Likes 4 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 12:50pm On Aug 25, 2021*. Modified: 2:45pm On Aug 26, 2021 |
Skepticus:Her tattoo and provocative (maybe promiscuous) nature is already a red flag (you can see my red flag list on page 769). "People who get tattoos and weird piercings do so as a way of self-harm and as a way of corrupting their body." "Trauma survivors tend to not know what is socially appropriate or desirable so they don't have those boundaries which means if you have trauma in your past and keep forming toxic relationships or healthy people keep trying to distance themselves away from you then you need to change your behaviour." "If you don't pay attention to how people behave, then you are gonna end up unhealthy." - Think Before You Sleep Damaged people or trauma survivors tend to not be aware of their mental and/or emotional issues so they have a propensity to ruin their lifes with questionable/terrible choices, will ruin your life and the life of their child. Because toxicity and maladaptive/unhealthy behaviours is what the child grew up knowing, they see it as normal, often with a tendency to become abusive or get into abusive relationships, they'll have a kid and they 'indoctrinate' them with their damaged ideologies, behaviours and tendencies. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=475i4OnHZS0 You'll see the daughters of single moms, becoming single moms e.g. Bernice Burgos, a instagram "model" and video vixen, being a single mom at the age of 15, her daughter doing doing the same at the age of 21. Or daughters following the path of their mothers who are/were sex workers. A 'vicious cycle' that can only be broken when one person in the family becomes aware and puts in work and effort to break and discontinue it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZjjjnqPYo4&t=2s Fathers are there to teach the kids boundaries so when a woman lacks a (proper) father figure, they end up with attachment issues (daddy issues). They start seeking attention/approval/validation from men, dress provocatively, become promiscuous (possibly exploitative, using their bodies to "secure the bag" [gold digging] ), having hyper self conscious traits leading to tattoos, piercings, body mods etc., which in turn worsens their unresolved issues as well as leading to new mental/emotional traumas. Sex workers, instagram "models", video vixens, slay queens/ runz girls, (radicalised) modern feminists and "normal" women who use their bodies and sex as a proxy for feeling loved and adored--some intuitively know this kinds of people are "broken" but may not exactly know why. Also, 'like attracts like' so if this are the kind of people you attract then you should probably reflect on yourself because "there is never one unhealthy person in a relationship." 15 Likes 7 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 7:56pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Dizzyyish: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CXYZqZTpk0E (A short [5 minutes] discussion on why women live longer than men. Can skip to 3:10) The lady (with the pink top) claims to be a "strong, independent" woman while playing the "victim" at the end. They are neither, "constantly shifting between pretending to be strong or a victim. They puff their chest because they know challenging them is deeply frowned upon, they play the victim for easy perks." (Child support is for the child[ren] while alimony is for the spouse) Notice how she 'reverts' to a childlike voice, changing her demeanour and mannerism in the process. Also notice how the female reporter (who I assume should be taking a neutral stance) ignored the lady's jab at the man divorce but defends the lady when he asked about her alimony (to be fair, he jabbed first at her when he said "When men are married to women who scream like you, they want to die sooner." ) 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 2:20pm On Aug 24, 2021*. Modified: 3:48pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
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| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 1:39pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
DarkCaesar:"People with severe mental health (or emotional) issues don't have the self-awareness to realise they're doing something wrong, more importantly, people with mental health issues do not know how to contain their behaviour so the more comfortable they are around you the more they'll flip out of control." - Think Before You Sleep. Familiarity > comfort > contempt. Also, toxicity breeds more toxicity so if you let toxic people into your life their toxic traits will likely start 'rubbing off' on you. 14 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 1:12am On Aug 24, 2021*. Modified: 6:00pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
Tonnyray:Lol, you watch the video abi? One should not condone or advocate for violence or physical abuse but "Never be a gentleman to a shameless woman."- pansophist If you give some people an inch, they'll take a mile. And if you ignore certain behaviours you're simply enabling and reinforcing them. I like to think of behaviours as 'psychological patterns' and one thing I know about patterns is-- it repeats itself. 17 Likes 3 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 10:18pm On Aug 23, 2021 |
Nezzjnr:Lol. I post am for person oh. I dey wait for my certificate 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dizzyyish: 9:55pm On Aug 23, 2021*. Modified: 5:52pm On Aug 24, 2021 |
MJBOLT:Women are very similar to children in many ways---emotionally, physically (compared to men), logically, etc. If you look at women like kids (or juvenile adults), a lot of their actions and behaviours starts to "make sense." Kids are naturally solipsistic/egocentric. If you give/gift a child something, it's socially frowned upon to take it back, and since women are more 'shrewd/aware' in social situations, they have the added ability of employing 'shame tactics' (not unlike some kids anyway) to get their way. If a kid gifts you something and later wants it back for whatever reason, they won't hesitate nor contemplate "dignity" because they're "helpless" and "weak" compared to you. "A man's facade of strength is his weakness (ego), a woman's facade of weakness is her strength (victimhood)." If you don't control or 'take charge' of a child, the child will disrespect and take advantage of you. They'll hit, slap or insult you without a second thought because "adults" will back them up if you retaliate (especially after utilising their tear ducts to show their "innocence." ) "Leave am, na pikin.."---"Leave am, she be woman.." If one doesn't face or gets absolved of the consequences/repercussions of their actions/behaviour, they don't learn so they don't grow, a la 'spoilt children'. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndX2RFHmMNg (55 seconds video). She how she slapped him without hesitation, was shocked that her actions have consequences and then other men rushed and beat up him up. Also, the guy proceeded to sue the show, win, and become an actor whereas the lady's career is seemingly ruined (I'm not promoting violence but I'm not promoting being a simp/doormat either). You'll hear "A real man wouldn't/shouldn't..", "Aren't you ashamed?", "You be man oh", etc. But like Esther Vilar stated-- "Any qualities in a man that a woman finds useful (in this case, gifts and money), she calls masculine, all others, of no use to her or to anyone else for that matter, she chooses to call effeminate." "Once a woman realises she can get through life on her looks, her mind stops maturing." As a man, you probably dreamt of being an astronaut, a prince or your favourite fictional character when you were younger but you grew older, became matured, and left those dreams behind. Little girls are 'taught' to marry rich/wealthy men that will take care of them. They get older but still retain this 'ideology'. Once they acknowledge this "reality", their development is likely stunted, they put in less effort/work into their growth and retain neotenic mindsets and behaviours, which is further reinforced by society giving women child-like benefits and accountability (or lack thereof). 21 Likes 6 Shares |
do you know why??she bought the clothes and shoes he was wearing and demanded for it back without giving a fvck,This one happened overseas.