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TripleLTD:No, but I just searched it and there seems to be lots of bad news around alat. |
Please where can I get a usd virtual card with U.S billing address? The site I need to use it on doesn't accept cards with Nigeria billing address. Klasha can't change address and Gotok web app isn't working. |
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elipheleh:And will punish you more severely when you forgive them. |
"DNA test?! So you're calling me a prostitute or what?!! After all I sacrificed to marry you, after suffering with you!!" But see how 'Secret DNA' ended in the above picture. It is not love nor wisdom but ignorance and folly to not ascertain with 100% scientific proof that your child is yours. "My wife will never.." is the fertile soil where paternity fraud is planted and allowed to grow. How will you truly know your wife will never without proof first? Men are men because they prioritise logic over emotions. Don't let death leave you ignorant as another man's child inherits your fruits. |
Wealthoptulent:https://www.nairaland.com/7753241/wahala-chaos-female-nature-volume |
"Q. Who remarries? Idiots? A. Two basic types of men come back for seconds. One is Mr. Nice Guy. He just can't believe that other people aren't as loving and ingenuous as he is. When he hears about a particularly nasty divorce, he automatically assumes there are facts justifying the vindictiveness of the female. He can't imagine it happening to him. The second type is the man who HAS TO BE MARRIED. He is a custodial case, unable to function without a woman occupying a position of power in his life. This is due to his religion, upbringing, or other deep rooted motivation for him to marry. You will sometimes encounter this individual on the threshold of another wedding. He presents a pathetic, even false cheerful- ness. He is beyond the point of no return— again—and his eyes are glassed over. Advice would neither be welcomed nor heeded. He will soon have another monster in his home and is doomed to a lifetime of subjection and acquiescence." - Rev. Lawrence Shannon |
The Bible states that women should not be allowed to speak in church, if they have questions they should go home and ask their husbands. It also states that women should not be allowed to preach the gospel unless to children. Both statements have been ignored and overridden by feminine imperative, any verse hinting to the true nature of women is conveniently ignored but you'll be hearing from the mountain tops.. "He who finds a wife finds a good thing!" "He who finds a wife finds a good thing!!" Even prostitutes will be shouting "He who finds a wife.." |
Tallesty1:This guy gets it. Esther Vilar mentioned this in her book, The Manipulated Man, how women use emotional outbursts to manipulate and control the outcome of situations. They know damn well what they're doing. Similarly, in The Anatomy of Female Power the author talks about macho men who think they are in charge, which makes them oblivious to the fact that the woman is pulling their strings. |
luminouz:The physical virginity is one half of why men opted for virgins. The other half is the mental virginity, meaning her mind was (seemingly) pure and untainted. But women will like to eat their cake, use a rationale to wipe their mouths and say "I've done nothing wrong", so they can snag an unsuspecting simp because 'the seal is unbroken'. When guys have sucked, fingered and even straffed anal, that one no go affect pair bonding? It's like finding a way to wiggle the cover off a water bottle without breaking it, mouthing the bottle while drinking (even putting some spit inside), top it up with tap water, wiggle the cover back, then sell it as 'new'. |
Exceed15:Tis' their way. Focus on the man's actions while, conveniently, brushing their own aside to victimise themselves as much as possible. A man is always beating them without any provocation or reason whatsoever. |
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Nudge |
"Well, weak people are a problem and I don't mean physically weak. I mean cowardly let's say and deceitful because I'm thinking it more in terms of moral weakness. Well, there's a variety of reasons. If you can't support your own weight then someone else has to do it and that's good. And then if you don't pick a forthright and useful and noble pathway through life, then you'll become bitter, too hurt by the tragedy of existence then you tend to seek your revenge wherever you can get. And that's not good. It's a mistake on all fronts. It's not good for you, it's not good for your family." - Dr. Jordan Peterson Have drive. Be upright. Seek purpose. A man without purpose is nothing; to be bereft of purpose for man is, perhaps, a fate worse than death. He will wander, constantly seeking pleasure for his body or mind wherever there is a supply, to fill the void that should be purpose. Maybe it is the thirst for bliss found at the bottom of a bottle that may destroy him, or maybe it is the hunger of giving in to base desires that perpetuates his problems, or perchance the fear that the foundation of his self-worth or confidence built on the ephemeral likes, compliments and validation of others will disappear. Who knows? Maybe he does but is not yet willing to accept it.. Without a compass he clashes with his willpower and so depends on motivation, and with each failed attempt he grows more frustrated and bitter. Insecurities, getting aggravated at foreign thoughts and opinions, tyranny, an intense focus on things out of his control and striking at the world to change what he struggles to change in himself. He slowly becomes the very things he hates. The knowledge of the importance of purpose is innate. Women may not seek purpose but they will follow men who have it; man, even if he lacks, will long for it in some shape or form. Do not wait for the stars to align before you leap no matter how small. Leap forward with boldness and if you err then correct your mistakes with more boldness. Seek purpose in fruitful endeavours and be the change you want to see in the world. "If you're too big to do small things you'll be too small to do big things." |
MessiahOfAfrica Unperturbedpota |
On one hand it's good to have supportive family, but on the other hand she has indulged and dodged the consequences of her actions by using her parents as 'safety nets' (the grandparents will be emotionally inclined to accept her back BECAUSE of the child). What are the chances she'll come back if her man was still around or providing for her? This is why arranged marriages (with its disadvantages) were a staple of the past because men would opt for a competent provider for their daughters instead of leaving her to her devises so she that can return with no man and an extra mouth to feed. Well, what has happened has happened.. all the best to them. |
this kind thing made me stop using whatsapp, and phone calls with girls. heartofcity12:Isn't this the former moniker of the person you quoted?: https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature/3#113990082 https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature/2#113937142 https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature/2#113937215 This message was sponsored by the Make Money and Women Will Come Foundation. |
UppaZakum You're right. Your wife, as a woman, will only be focused on the "good" parts of your relocation. Most women go through life with various (male) safety nets around them in the form of fathers, boyfriends, husbands, even male strangers and everything in between---so foresight is not exactly their strong point---I'm certain that you see her "safety net" thought process about the situation. It'd probably be a good idea to somehow deny her access to your balances henceforth - your woman having an accurate estimate of your 'worth' (from her pov) isn't a good idea. Your red pill instinct is right against her supporting you. Here's a comment from a while ago (to keep this one short): https://www.nairaland.com/7263645/wild-worrisome-ways-women#115381804 This one she's just jubilating about the "fun" aspects, I don't think she'll find the responsibility of providing (for her husband) fun. I also don't know exactly how you perceive your wife but do not lose guard and underestimate a female's nature, especially when the circumstances can be 'right' for her or when you "upgrade" her. And that includes the possibility of her solipsism entering full gear in a gynocentric society so when she has gotten comfortable there she (hopefully) won't start thinking "If I can support myself and my children singlehandedly then..." Please we don't want to see you DM'ing redpill twitter accounts about your issue or recording yourself on social media talking about "I brought my wife abroad and see what see did to me" like many men before and after you. So yes, your concerns are very valid. |
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FairlyUSEDpussy:Honestly.. look at how they're rationalising prostitution. Despite the lady being a fully grown adult they defend her as if she's a child that shouldn't be held responsible for her actions.. calling her "vulnerable". Even talking about how 'she just wanted a relationship and he took advantage of her' when she just wants to exploit him first and foremost. What she'll get in a relationship will far exceed that 10k 10k he'll be giving her, then before you know she'll inevitably drag her child into the mix with "You say you love me but you can't love/take care of my child?" Smh. @Noble4life Thank you bro. @Whazar Whether what you did is right or wrong is inconsequential and does not negate the fact that she, a prostitute, tried to get you into a relationship with full intent to keep you in the dark about her runz life (she obviously wouldn't tell you) whilst looking for a "London man." Don't let anyone shame you into falling victim for a prostitute. If someone thinks intentional sex workers are truly "weak", "vulnerable" and "taken advantage of" then they simply do not know the exploitative and ruthless aspects of female nature. |
When you ask a direct question and they start to prevaricate, just know she doesn't want to tell you the truth. Also, please desist from seeing 'good/church girls' as "angels". It's all social packaging: https://www.nairaland.com/7753241/wahala-chaos-female-nature-volume#124228847 Also also, it's not unheard of for non-virgins to feign naivete about sex stuff or "erotic words" (it complements the "good girl" image). Also also also, that "good girl" might already be working wonders on you, as you are now insisting on her 'innocence' and 'crying' despite the need to ask people about this. If a woman really wants to move in silence with her exploits then hearsay from people around her might not be enough.. |
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damosky12:It's actually left-oriented. Apparently, it's just "Patriarchy bad" the movie na why Google dey do all this one. |
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BenedictAbajue:You're seeing the silver lining in the cloud... that's positive thinking. |
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