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JESHAL007:
Sincerely, this warped mentality (my man cheats, I must cheat too. what a man can do, a woman can do better) is the reason why our society especially Southern Nigeria continues to deteriorate massively in the name of being 'educated', 'woke', 'not taking nonsense'. Whether you like it or not, both genders are wired differently. The success of any marriage depends a lot on the maturity of the man and the patience of the woman. I'm not excusing men but this mentality has one and only one outcome, DESTRUCTION of the marriage. The white folks who brought/facilitated this warped mentality have already run down their own societies. They raise feminine men, high rates of divorce, and many more men shying away from marrying altogether. Their women hoe around in their twenties and are left with regrets in their forties, with many taking solace in their cats, dogs and other pets. Their society cannot sustain its own population and their politicians are facilitating immigration at insane levels. Those who fail to learn from the mistakes of others would definitely taste the same cycle of failure. A divorced woman is a money spinning venture (you can research more into their spending habits and the effect of divorce on the black communities in Baltimore, Chicago, etc.) and the children suffer the most.

What more? You divorce your husband for 'cheating' and end up as a side piece to another man in a relationship, most times married. The joke remains on the woman! Those who praise a woman for leaving a loving man whose only downside is cheating (no diseases, no violence and takes great care of his wife and children) are the same people who would quickly fill up her space. These women wont tell you but the truth is that it is only after about four to five relationships after their marriage, that they realize the enormity of the bad decisions that they've made but it's too late. They would then keep posting pictures online, seeking validation from random people to make it seem as though they're happy. If you disagree, it's fine but Jeff Bezos's ex-wife divorced him, remarried one everyday guy (a music or french teacher or so) and guess what? She divorced him again after 2 years. Is she married again now? Oh, you don't need to be married to be happy? Lol.. keep deceiving yourselves. The joke is on you!

maxkenny:
At a point in time, I reported her to her family. Why I knew was lying, whenever we had quarrel she would say even if she has pregnant for me again she would rather abort it than remain in her womb.

Tallesty1:
Bookie: Goalkeeper to smoke shisha in normal play time?

You: No

Stake: 500k


Injury Time: 5mins

Current Time: 90+4mins

Goalkeeper: .👇

UppaZakum:
Some men are trying honestly. May I never born a male child that will bring embarrassment to my family name.
Simps have their own benefits I guess, else who will marry off damaged women and public properties.

BUGOFF:
Op, it's a common trait with persons who feel disadvantaged in other persons' company, especially if they're well-to-do, they cant just help proving a point to u along the way. Sad.
Funny thing is the Corper will soon see right through him gnd may just bid her time till Service is over, then u'll see him tail between hindlegs groping around u.[not wishing any evil, though]

GOFRONT:
Abeg oo.........The brutal murder of Igbodike by a 26 year old Lover single mother of two; Sarah Amankpo is still fresh in our Hearts and the thread is still on Frontpage now.

We want Single to Single pls!!!!

Martinez39s:
When the son does blame her, [she won't accept any blame or responsibility. She will blame the son... and even the father.

Martinez39s:
Coming to a red pill thread to express disappointment and ridicule over the discussion of women and female nature is as stupid as going to any major thread in the sports section and crying that sports discussions —as determined by the thread's topic— are ongoing.

It is even as stupid as going to the ashewo thread and belittling or criticising the members for paying for sex and doing their thing. If you don't like want you see on a thread, kindly excuse yourself or start your thread and do better. It is a free world. Anyway, trolls are very stupiđ and childish; you can't expect much from them.

fortunez1:
i'm troubled alot by her(wife)
truly wen there's less cash due to unforeseen circumstances a man will experience hell from his wife. My tale

tyup:
People have always took advantage of the fact that I'm kind and easily give that i decided to change and be less concerned and care less bout people until a day my kind gesture opened a door to an astronomical increase in my finances.

Be kind but always use ur head is my advice for you ensuring you make the asker knows you're doing out of sacrifice not out of abundance

Dyfynezz12:
Women forget the good u did 4 them easily but not the bad ones
They are the worst when it comes to carrying grudges

xtivin2:
I don't know what happened o, buh the woman looked like a troublemaker. Emeka was correct, he probably got what he didn't order.

correctguy101:
This man calm down...

There's truth in your outburst though.

I had one ashawo Oga some years back. He's a barrister and a crazy person. He likes married women and his tactic for those who seemingly stay loyal to their man is to create problems for the man and when the man starts acting up, the unsuspecting wife will be vulnerable for my Oga to exploit.
Get close. Find out how she is. Create a problem if she's modest. and Get her. That's his modus operandi

The madman almost always succeeds. He's a damn pastor now...

Smh.

IAmHim1:
"...to make themselves feel less guilty..."


how do u mean??

Efna55:
Yesterday I wrote about my visit to a diagnostic centre and how I was turned back because of consent from the mother..
Today I got the number of the general manager who is also the owner of the centre from their site online, I explained how I was turned back because the lady scientist in charge asked for consent, he told me they never had such policy, he said consent is only required if it was sent by a court and apologised and asked me to come and do it, I simply told him they've just lost a client.
Well I won't go back, because I might be given a false result, I saw emotions on the lady's face despite not knowing the person involved, she also acted unprofessional with the discharge of her duties..
Note:
1.I trust my wife despite some circumstances I'm not too comfortable with which I might share later, I mean the full story
2. There are many stories of people taking care of children not theirs which they'll find out later in future, I want to avoid stories that touch, I can't trust 100% even if you're coming from heaven,
3. I love my son, so it will hurt me to find out he isn't mine when he is grown after all expenses and time spent, being scientifically sure I don't think is a bad idea.
Additional!
*Most people have nothing to say on nairaland, they have no opinion but to insult at any slight opportunity, you might not even know the person you're talking to just because it's a faceless forum, we should have some level of decorum as a people.