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BSdetector:
Yeah. Life goes on, it's okay to be a piker.

Yeah life goes on but a piker can turn to a spendthrift tomorrow you never know, change is constant

BSdetector:
He's pained because he felt compelled to reply to someone being proud of their linage.....and yes the sky may be big for everyone but we have chickens, pigeons, vultures and eagles but they all fly but not on the same level......the problem is obviously with you and him.....check yourselves.

But still all the animals exists and enjoy themselves in this God given world according to there levels

So such is life
Whether one is on the top most or the lowest, life is still there to be lived
Everyone should just enjoy his levels chikena

The other person's success doesn't stop his fellow man success
And life goes on

Maxymilliano:
Wike is right on this, it's all about lip services

Story
Are they not getting same allocation like Akwaibom State government that is moving ahead rapidly with Ibaka deep sea port with it's commencement becoming clearer?

Even Rivers have more advantage than Akwaibom, because of presence of oil companies for decades they are not utilising there resources efficiently

He is rather building flyovers everywhere instead of putting critical investmenty with serious future profitability and sustainability drive

BSdetector:
Cope and eat sh!t, you're clearly pained..... except the Yoruba guy wants to go into drug business that's only when he connects with an Igbo urchin...check most of those Yoruba techbros they hardly have flatin0s as partners.

Why should he be pained by someone else success? Mr bigot

The space is there for everyone to succeed Yoruba, Hausa, Igbo, Efik, Ijaw, idoma etc
God has given everyone space and opportunity to succeed and many are doing well in there fields and spheres of influence

So saying he is pained shows that maybe the problem is from your level of reasoning.

pansophist:
You are right, but mind you, my submission was not to evaded responsibilities in the last of Africans, but a hint why things ended up the way it is. About written language, ever heard of Nsibidi from eastern Nigeria that dates back 400AD?

Nsibidi was never a written language it had no documentation anywhere

There is no black nation with written languages before the Europeans came
It was the white man that helped us develop our languages into writing


If you do research into the past, you will see same pattern.

But it's not late, it's even early if we wake up to what's ahead of us

The Chinese where nothing to write home about some decades ago but today they are gradually straddling the global economic development growth.

pansophist:
Read the book "gun, germ and steel by " Jared Diamond", you'll understand. But to give you a quick analogy, imagine the differences between a lion raised in the zoo and a lion raised in the jungle. The zoo got everything handles to him, but the jungle lion must be smart and innovative, to survive the harsh terrain of the Savannah. That's how it is between the Africans and the whites you're comparing.

Go to Europe, the weather, especially in the dark winter will kill you if you don't find a way to be warm, the soil is covered with snow and nothing can grow, it's and more, and they must think to survive, but this is not so for Africans. Same reasons while first generational immigrants are the most educated and successful abroad, because they came from a place of lack, but not their kids who are born in the western system and docile like a zoo lion. You see the source?

Then what of countries like Singapore, Malaysia even Thailand that has the same weather as African but they have improved themselves to be respected nations

All these are excuses to me

It's more of a deficiency in collective group thinking and deficiency in high level thinking

Which black African tribe had a written language?
Many other ethnicities had written languages dated thousands of years
Hebrew, Arabic, Latin, Indian, Chinese and other Asian countries all had form of written languages

They had renowned scholars, ideologists and deep think tanks dating thousands of years

To organize a successful, progressive nation, which nation you will point out in black Africa?


There are lots of anomalies, but waking up to know your problem is the turning point, but how many have woken up to such in this continent?


I was reading recently, last week precisely that percentage of Africas participation in the global trade is just 2.2percent and when you remove North Africa that has 0.7 percent then the entire sub Saharan African nations contribute 1.5 percent of the global trade

There are lots of anomalies and until a people wake up to the challenges ahead nothing

But hopefully there is hope for Africa
More young Africans are getting educated unlike before. And when these educated ones begin to ask questions
When they begin to think outside the box, then the tide will change

But the black man must wake up to tackle the challenges affecting Him.

advanceDNA:
Don’t be triggered ....I never said he’s lying...

I have my own views about polygamy...

I believe polygamy is greed...it’s repackaged adultery......women are the same...trust me...

I believe no one can love his wives equally... so already there will be biasness....

Polygamy breeds jealousy among wives and children...
if any woman tells u she’s fine with the fact that her husband is drilling another woman in the next room and will still put the same pen!s in her later on ....then u must believe I’m dangote...
So already I are just hurting several women emotionally who can’t talk because of their desperate need to be married and have children

At the end of the day...polygamy tramples upon the rights of woman..

This is my view.. I am not speaking from religion.


.it’s based on my views I feel that Reno is not alright..

Yeah polygamy breeds all manner of evil
If you research into the family unit when our forefathers where practicing polygamy. There were hidden bitterness and quarrells amongst the wives and childrens

Example my paternal grandfather married 2 wives and my maternal grandfather married three wives and I know how the troubles it brought

Infact some of the wives went deeply diabolical and affected some of the children even till today

But my parents learnt from it and maintained there monogamy Union over 4 decades now

Polygamy breeds all kinds of evils

Morover women then were not exposed, if it's today's educated and exposed woman you talk say you want marry another, she may even Kil you or waste your life.
Even the men keeping side chicks hide to do it, some not wanting there madam to know

Mrscarter:
Exactly. I dont think ppl(male or female) realise how much hurt cheating can cause wen u love someone n put into them all ur hopes n dreams aswell as ur heart.

Sure
Hurting someone that gave you all his or her heart and self is an unforgivable sin. It always comes with repercussion

When someone has given you there all, the wise thing to do is to give your all more in return

And people that do that always end in regret, because once they loose that person that gave them special love
They may never come across sich opportunity again in there lifetime. They will only be meeting scorpions and cobras which will bring misery upon misery and regrets

Cheating on a loved one is a despicable evil and only those that don't value life do that

MrNipplesLover:
Some men are scum.

If u know u want to be fvcking around, don't cage any girl under the guise of BF-GF level.

Don't make a woman fall in love with you when u know that you're not ready for something serious but only want to be fornicating.

It pinches my heart anytime I see some girls being cheated on or heart broken cos women don't have the heart as men do.

That's why I always preach to my niggas say don't promise love to any girl or take her as ur girlfriend, just find girls you'll all be having fun and merry together, cos I know most men are naturally cheats.

And u self, shey u no know say no matter what it may be, men would womanize, fornicate ni?

Some women matter dey tire me self.

At the bolded was one reason I jettisoned anything that will make me cheat on my madam

Some women totally commit with there whole heart and believe in you
Cheating on them is terrible

A woman that has genuinely given you herself and shunned others.

That many women are turning into bad eggs is caused by guys

But karma has a way of paying back
They always get there own payback somehow

ttoyetade:
Thank you for your intelligent contribution. An average Nigerian is always in competition with others about money. Money is not everything. Probably the OP missed the opportunity of going to US some time ago and he want to justify himself that he is still doing well despite the miss. You can't compare people doing well in US or Western World to yourself at all. Your N22m savings to day will loose its value with the depreciation of Naira. Also some abroad may not be earning much but they are living in Properties which could be more than $500k and could be sold if they have to return home

And can you compare someone doing well in Nigeria to someone doing well in the US

Let's stop deceiving ourselves
The kind of money you make here if you know your way around
You can't dream of it in the US

I have relatives in the US, that have lives there for decades, these are professionals, but still they can't match the achievement's of those in Nigeria.
Likewise Canada, even UK too

Abroad is not easy and it all depends on what you want in life. If you want to just live a mediocre, just get there life, then you can relocate over there

But if you want to live a life of impacting and touching plenty of lives, then it's more achievable here.

There are guys in Nigeria here making millions of dollars in annual turnover and nobody in the US can compare to them

See Nigeria is a nation of over 200 million people. This population has to feed, live etc and if you can produce goods and services that can touch even 1% of Nigerian population, you are and have the ability to even touch more lives

But it all depends on what you can see around you, and the ability to use your brain to think and create wealth


The major problem with many Africans is that they just think only about there feeding there stomach, so they just live a very mediocre life.

And there are so much more money to be made, so much, but it depends on what you see.

Indians, Chinese, Lebanese are cashing out big time here in Nigeria but Nigerians will feel that it's only when they go abroad they succeed

Nigerian population is increasing
More opportunities are available

There are richer Nigerians here than there are abroad. I mean legitimate hard work
Not everyone is involved in crime
I even believe crime will stunt ones ability
Even most of these scammers we have here no e even get money
They are just noise makers
Those making money are not even loud

PDJT:
-Sometimes it’s not all about money.

-Life is complicated. Many seek sanity, health, decent education and opportunities for themselves and children. For instance, the US citizenship will open tremendous opportunities for you if you’re business-minded or just love traveling- so many countries to visit without visa. Same is applicable with many other firstclass Nations.

-Madam Ngozi had to recently take up her right to US citizenship in preparation for her WTO application. She wasn’t daft when she made that decision.

-As our faces are different, so are our life expectations.

But money plays a very important role in life
Even the first class nations you have, with money you can still purchase there citizenship for you and your families

I know big ogas here that purchased citizenship for there families and siblings

See there is a level of money you can't make in the US that you can still make in Nigeria as a business man into manufacturing, production and several other businesses

Infact the dollar transactions these guys do here, even if you work in the west for hundred years you won't make it

My own operandi, I am making my money here, go there to rest or do vacation, even if I want to rest several times in a year and keep on praying that a sensible leadership will come up soon or the nation goes into regions

Men are cashing out big time here, but na only those that have the eyes to see

jaymichael:
I thank God you get the correct story. I had stated earlier what transpired. It is just "technicality" both Freeze and Benedicta has done absolutely nothing wrong. They seem happy together.

You guys will just be standing truth on it's head
Which one is technically?

The guy is simply an adulterer
Who wasn't ashamed
A woman was still married to the husband
And he impregnated her and had a baby with her

Na just because our world done spoil
This is totally abomination
But our world done cast finish
Na why abominable people can do anyhow
At least the law courts have given a fair judgement

bwambasolomon:
You pay people salary, so what? Does Buhari or Osinbanjo not collect salary? I have more manners than your whole family combined. If you think you can just come and spew rubbish because someone brought issue for you to comment on, then you are talking to the wrong person. I repeat, you can't stand where I stand, so it's better you watch your tongue.

Empty vessels makes the most sound


Even Jeff bezos or Bill Gates that are worth substance are humble talkless of someone that ain't even seen anything in life

More grease to your elbow

This is my last reply to you

bancoleh:
Child custody in Nigeria, Na person with money bag they get am not capability
Text in a video no

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyw6l3wM8kc

Story
Where you here when both IBB son and Atiku son lost there custody battle with there wives despite there father's wealth, connection and clout

It's solely determined by the courts

bwambasolomon:
You clearly don't have sense, cos you should know that I am not your regular class of guy, I am way beyond that, if I were to tell you what I earn monthly, you will begin to postrate for me. How can I be the one with the problem when I was just trying to make a good husband until I discovered the girl was an ingrate who won't appreciateb nything you do for her. It's best you don't say anything than to say something that is completely off point from the main topic. I bet you, you can't stand where I stand, so you better watch your words.

Even from your manner of your reply shows that you don't have no manners, you are uncouth and not properly given good home training.

You can talk to me a stranger in such manner, how much more someone in your life

Better get your self sorted out and seek for change and betterment or else na same story

You talk about levels, you still dey collect salary, me I pay salaries every month.

[quote author=SmellingAnus post=99609744]hahhahaha me no want girls wey dey selfish/greedy with all her things o but na true you talk[/quote

The truth is that the dude ain't matured at all
Misplaced priorities, can't manage his money

A recipe for future brokenness when the job is no longer there

A well matured and sensible guy will handle that babe and get the best out of her

To me that babe no even get problem, she needs a man that has listening ear for her which is what most females want but a lot of guys ain't matured for that

The guy has more of the problem, because he is meant to be a leader and give the relationship a direction. Women won't even respect such type of guys

obinoral1179:
it's better not to support either of them because From their analysis it's base on character flaws from both side...

Both of them need serious growing up to do.
They ain't matured at all

obinoral1179:
it's better not to support either of them because From their analysis it's base on character flaws from both side...

Both of them need serious growing up to do.

post=99602698:
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PDP will wait again for another 8 years to try again, APGA will take over again from Obiano

Ehe ndi political yes men amaputaba one by one

This ain't about any party
Obiano was a terrible leadership blunder
Go around the state and ask our people

Like I said
By November
Posterity will judge him

The way they rushed to the site showed the news really pain them well well

Anyway by November
Posterity will judge Obiano
On how he Governed Anambra State

But to me
Peter Obi really made a very big mistake in handing over my state to that guy
It was a terrible leadership blunder

I don't know between Obiano and Mbadinuju who will take bottom pot for Anambra State Governors

Queenlovely:
If Russia can CHANGE, Nigeria can change. Corrupt Oligarchs almost destroyed Russia, they had more money than the state.

Inshort private jet was nothing to them, they had 4 to 10 jets, and luxury flats in UK and America. They used state owned asset as their own and sell it at wish.

Until Putin came onboard and flushed these evil minority who was holding Russia's blockos.

Ask any Russian who Oleg derepasky,Mikhail Khodorkovsky are? They were the don of Dons. Today Putin has humbled them all. They are living in exile and cannot say a word, they are now broke.

Putin can go after them with spies and nerve poison if they say a word.

If Putin a young KGB agent had sat down and complained, then Russia would have remained the same. he took his chances, ran for president and won.

Let us learn from Putin

Forget all these pity party. Think outside the box.

We would Chase these evil men holding nigeria down. chase these evil politicians. j.j Rawlings of Ghana did it, He took action instead of complaining

I stand with the bolded in your submission
Enough of pity party and crying


What are the business sector doing to fight back this agenda?

They will be crying while the man puts everything in his pocket

You are building refinery
You also now want to go into retailing
You also want to be sole importer

Haba na only you Waka come?

Maybe doing what BUA is doing might be the best solution now

Match him bumper to bumper

In addition government come and government go
Maybe the next government may be different

purples25:
Of course there are other things to be gained in marriage. But this thing here is a problem.

Fertility, youth, purity, beauty.

No matter what any man says, these are the things they truly want from a woman. Yes, she can work, but a man would rather choose an almost untouched beauty without a job than a capable older, modern , experienced woman.

Therefore these relationships without closure/marriage lead to the degradation of the woman. A woman after eight years can say she wants to marry but by that time the men will be saying she is old, she must have been used, etc. Most men will avoid her and that's just the truth. As a woman gets older, no matter her wealth and degree, her options to marry get smaller. So yes, it matters for the woman that she gets some gain from whatever sexual stuff she engages in. It is important to her because that is one of the things men value in a woman. Clearly you can see she is at a loss if she gives it all for nothing, when that is part of her relished attributes. A woman giving her body is giving a very precious thing she is rated by so she loses if she gives it in charity. A man will not be rated by his body and you know this.

Knowing this fully well, men still explore the expensive and precious youth of a woman, which they know, if not for the lapse modernity has given them, they can't have that for free. Even then they will pay for this when wanting to actually SECURE a woman with such attributes as youth, fertility, purity, and beauty into their household. So what are they doing with these young women that they have all their pearls for free? Let me be plain. They are eating a very expensive meal for free. They are eating what a potential suitor would have paid for OR valued the woman dearly for.....for free.

If it was about clever and independent career women, why is this time in history the one that records the most of single women, hmm? Men are getting more and more repelled by the independent and career women. I watch videos every day where even the western men diss their women for not being sexually pure and too old. So this sex of a thing is really important for women and relationships scam her of the sexual value that she would need to get a life partner.

She loses her purity for nothing. And at the end of the day, this is one of the most inportant things you guys care for. Don't pretend that it is not.

Very intelligent analysis
This your comment is a good answer to many times young men ask whether sex is the only thing a woman offers

And also an answer to many young women that allow there lives to be wasted by unserious men

Many wise girls who understand this your Analogy wisely make there choice in choosing a spouse


I have been noticing many young women getting serious with matured but established single guys who immediately marry them

When you ask them, they say they made there choice based on a man that will value there youthfulness and comit to them
They will also tell you that most young men are unserious and very Randy

I am getting a good understanding that a woman's body is a value she brings to the union. With other intangible things and those that have this understanding rarely miss it in marriage

abbey621:
We are arguing A, you're talking about B! Get out of here with the nonsense you just typed, generalization and strawman rhetoric should be left to those who don't know anything about the western world. I have been living and working in the USA for over a decade and my father for over 3 decades, if you're opportuned to reside in Chicago or Bronx NY, you'll see just how much lives are not really valued when it comes to gun violence. The problem with people like you is that you've developed this idea in your head that those in Africa are barbarians while those abroad are the only sane ones, this type of reasoning assumes the Western world is in unision and everyone behaves the same way, this is pure horseshit!

Now back to topic, you assume under any circumstances a man must part with his property and assets when it comes to a divorce even if the reason was attempted murder, you believe a man is not entitled to his house after working all his life to build it but must give it up because he's the stronger sex and his needs are far less than that of a woman. This reasoning can only make sense in societies where men have been relegated to an afterthought, it's like asking a rape victim to allow visitation rights for the rapist to see his son or daughter. I'm not going to argue with you about which world is better because we clearly know there's no competition but becareful about generalization, it is the trait of lazy minded individuals who would rather use semantics than actual logic to push home their point.

You are talking about violence in Bronx NY and Chicago but those people over there aren't the ones that wrote the progressive laws of that land.

They are rather the anomaly a system can possess. But still the progressive Western nations are attracting and pulling the best brains out there because they got there laws and acts right in respect of human rights.

Name other nations in the world where immigrants build great life than there

As for there laws, they did it to protect the woman. Still clauses like pre nuptials can also be used but in the long run everyone is taken care of.

sharone21:
I'm sure d husband is d type dat still want sex with his wife of 64 and d woman say no. I'm sure d man is also about ,70plus years. This could cause such hatred for d wife of his youth. Also, if d man built d house nd has six grown up children, d first wife still owns d house. Also, Incase d man died, d children will throw away d new obiageli from their house. Except if it is a rented house. So, let d first wife relocate to a smaller place for her peace of mind, we are in a wicked world nd also endtime when men's heart is snared nd desperately wicked. It is well let God judge what no man can judge.

*What my mum said

I have seen these type of cases and it never ends well for those men
They always die miserably when they think all is well and still those children and wife move on with there life

A man 70+ that should be thinking of making peace with his maker as he is nearing his grave
Rather they will be the ones misbehaving and in the end they die miserably and forgotten like a vapour
Nonsense

It

abbey621:
Someone tries to kill you and you are here saying the victim is the babaric one? Bullshit! My point remains we can't judge the situation without having more info.

Any nation that has no respect for human rights can't rise in economic emancipation

Why are the best and brightest in our world still rushing and migrating to Western nations?

Because they have excellent respect for human rights

Most of you will continue living in shithole nations without any iota of development or feeling of what being developed means

And any day you are exposed to advanced Western nations you will still be subject to there laws

I am inferring that the major reason the African man is retrogressive and backward is simply because he has no regards for the right of his fellow man and that exactly is the mentally your leaders possess

Kondomatic:
What's the cause of their divorce?

Whatever that may have caused it
The woman can't be thrown out of the house like that


In Western nation's laws
That woman deserves half of whatever that man is worth, having lived together for over 4 decades


And cases like this in our clime, will embolden young women to look out for themselves while in marriage, of which many have started doing nowadays. Many young women are no longer being patient. In the end, the institution of marriage is being battered

abbey621:
Now ask yourself would you still feel the same way if the woman tried to poison you or you found out that your kids are not really your kids? The fact remains that we don't have the full gist of the story and using a backward and skewed system like the Americans or Europeans divorce system to judge this particular situation is laughable. American court that would grant a woman the house and still require the man to pay child support and spousal support even tho the woman was the reason for the divorce. American system that does not take into acccount that a woman that cheated or acted violently should be punished by not getting the house, a system that has resulted to most men committing homicide and suicide.

Whatever you can't just throw a woman that has lived with you for over decades like that

The Western world we're right in there divorce laws
You must pay for the years together

Even rich women pay there less rich husband's settlement. Adele paid her husband millions in divorce settlement

You can't just Live with a spouse for decades and just throw them out like that

It's barbaric and backward
No wonder our clime is barbaric and backward
Cause there is no respect for basic human rights
And the backwardness will continue

Kondomatic:
Except the man is cheating on her with you which is not impossible, there is no way you can be sure that he cheated on her.


It's crazy how biased you lots can be on issues like this.

Since you know enough to form opinion on the man's fidelity, you should as well tell us why they're getting divorced.


It's also very possible that the woman is cheating on him the whole time right?


Sorry, I shouldn't have asked.


I just remembered that a woman can do everything a man can do except being violent and cheating.

But the lady you quoted she is not wrong in her comment

If it was abroad, that man can't do that.
A woman that has been with you for almost 4 decades is treated like this

That's why the oyibos will always be advanced miles ahead of us

You see billionaires paying through there nose for divorce. Jeff bezos payed through his nose to divorce his wife, infact billions of dollars

I am a man and God forbid bad thing, I and my madam will live together till end, but if for instance after staying with me for decades and things ain't working fine, it's evil for me not to pay and settle her well.


The lady you quoted is right
Because scenarios like this will teach young women to look out very well for themselves
Since men are being heartless these days and times and they have every right to use there head well

1Sharon:
You're wrong. Heart attack IS due to a bad diet or bad habits.


Looking at her pics, she looked overweight. And she herself acknowledged she had issues with her diet and working out.

You're defending the indefensible so just FOH.

Not wanting to talk I'll of the dead
May her soul rest in peace

Nothing works magic in the human body like healthy eating, exercise and sleeping right

It does wonders

People should be conscious of what they eat
Avoid all processed and junk foods
Eat only natural foods
Drink lots of water
Eat fruits
Avoid alcohol
Exercise even mild ones is ok
Get enough sleep each night

All these mentioned above
You will rearly get sick

Basicend:
There is FFP, Chelsea cannot just keep spending without commensurate profit / returns.

They spend almost same amount last summer. How will they balance the books.

This news is fake.

Actually money Chelsea spent last season were from sales of Hazzard; 130mil pounds, the Spanish striker who was sold for 70 million and another sales.

Chelsea were banned for a whole season so they didn't make any purchases and had enough money to buy this present season.

Timo Werner initially was linked to Liverpool but they had no money last season

Abrahmovic is a sound business man. You think he became billionaire anyhow.
He has run Chelsea very well and they have won trophies 5 premier leagues, 1 European cup, 2 Europa cups and plenty fa cups in his reign

That man is sound
Jews are known to be astute business men

The qataris that have excess money more than him are owners of PSG
How many trophies have they won in Europe despite all the money they have spent?

It's not just about having money but having the sense to make your money work for you.

Emekaonline:
All we true Yorubas want really is for everyone to move back to their region without further delay. Those that have businesses in Yoruba land need to start moving back to their regions before it is too late. You cannot have a divided country and you still want to lay claim to where is not your papa land. Never it will not happen

And you really think we all reside in SW?
You must be a joker
I example have nothing with SW
Either business or property

I don't reside in my region
But where I reside
I am contributing significantly

It's not everyone that has anything to do with SW

Fiscus105:
Majority of those who rebelled against Jonathan in 2014 are regretting now and I biliv remaining ones including Amaechi will weep last. Jonathan is a child of destiny, Nigeria rejected goodluck and God gave them opposite of good luck I mean confirmed bad luck.

If Jonathan comes back many of them will go to jail or run away from Nigeria.

That was how James Onanefo Ibori were messing Jonathan up during Yar adua reign.
When he took over, he gave Ibori the heat, the guy ran to Dubai from there was arrested and repertreated to UK

Today Ibori has been castrated politically