Politics › Re: Umar’s “Biafran Boys” Dig Part Of Nigeria’s Unofficial Igbophobia By Farooq by djon78(m): 9:35pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
jaxxy: Obviously it doesn’t and I don’t support it bt we must all stop playing the tribalism and ethnicity card. That’s what brings the divisions.
Now some say Apc is Yoruba party and Pdp is Igbo party. So it’s about tribalism and not ideology to them. Apc has the most fault probably unconsciously because they started and grew from the southwest unlike Pdp that grew nation wide. For that reason Pdp will always be stronger except for Fg influences or other factors like poor performance.
Tribal bigotry and lack of tolerance is the major problem here. When the head/leader carries it in the head What do you expect the followers to do Success or failure of any entity lies directly at the table of the leader A leader can't be doing otherwise and you expect a different thing The success of Nigeria solely lies on a unifying headman simple |
Politics › Re: Umar’s “Biafran Boys” Dig Part Of Nigeria’s Unofficial Igbophobia By Farooq by djon78(m): 8:50pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
jaxxy: Some leaders unify and some divide. That’s the same situation with Biden and Trump In away.
Goodluck, obj, yaradua unify bt Buhari and Apc consciously or unconsciously divides the more. Even though Yorubas felt left out under goodluck bt it wasn’t causing this much turmoil. And you think this bodes well for the future of this nation The level of ethnic self interest I see amongst igbo youths is very alarming It was never like this before The damage done by this administration to Nigeria as a nation is besetting Is it unity wise then economical level is abominable Many may not see what is happening But deep thinking minds will weep for Nigeria Honestly it was a horrible mistake It was never like this before |
Politics › Re: Umar’s “Biafran Boys” Dig Part Of Nigeria’s Unofficial Igbophobia By Farooq by djon78(m): 8:43pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
favor914: If anyone in your family can afford a plot of land in Victoria Garden City, I will leave Nigeria & relocate back to Columbus Ohio? Nuisance. Haha you dey talk VGC wey you can't even drive around during rainy season If you come be people like us wey don rock banana island going to a decade Wetin then will you do? You are still a learner |
Politics › Re: Umar’s “Biafran Boys” Dig Part Of Nigeria’s Unofficial Igbophobia By Farooq by djon78(m): 8:36pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
ScamHunter: That Danladi is actually representative of a vast majority of Nigerians. The Igbo problem is just a case of people who do not understand that too much success can be dangerous to them as a tribe in the midst of many that don't measure up competitively. Why Nigeria is afraid of Igbo exit is that they justr cannot envisage an existence independent of Nigeria's freebies that has made it a retrogressive country. The Igbo man is the catalyst in the chemical reaction called Nigeria Go to the East West North South and see the contribution of the average Igbo man to the success of his community he resides in He is the only one that will live in a place and have tangible investments Who else does it? No other And you think they will want such an asset to leave Impossible |
Politics › Re: Umar’s “Biafran Boys” Dig Part Of Nigeria’s Unofficial Igbophobia By Farooq by djon78(m): 8:26pm On Apr 03, 2021 |
jaxxy: I’m not sure there’s any Igbophobia now again beyond tribal bigotry which is even on both sides. Igbos did suffer many setbacks and marginalization bt they have now decided not to engage with their best political minds now the national has tried many other regions and mostly failed and seeking a possible Igbo candidate.
Many of the major politicians from south east are not serious or credible people even amongst the Igbos they inspire very little confidence. The ones that are credible and fought against or regarded as small dogs in the political game which is wrong and untrue.
Igbos have a problem from other zones bt they have an equally big problem amongst themselves which makes matters very difficult when engaging other zones politically.
There are Igbos In Apc and Pdp bt are they the best representation for Igbos? Capital NO! Hence Igbos are unable to forge ahead politically. Most are clowns or crooks.
Their best hands are not supported enough by them or allowed to represent them on bigger stages and platforms. So how did this your write up correlate with what Farooq rightly stated? The main problem is that there is no real sense to build a nation. This administration really tore the little bit of unity that was still prevalent Go to the East Most of the young people don't believe in Nigeria It was never like this before |
Celebrities › Re: Chioma Deletes All Davido’s Pictures From Her Instagram Page by djon78(m): 6:09pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
Liposure: Chioma is a disgrace to womanhood. Not really true She can still make something out of her life She can still get suitors and move on Davido is a no no Putting her hope on a man irresponsibly impregnating women up and down was a big mistake But it can still be corrected All depends on her One of my brothers drivers daughter who had a baby out of wedlock some years ago got married early last year to a fresh made young husband She delivered this year and her mom went for omugwo The family was happy Nothing is impossible absolutely |
Politics › Re: At The End, IPOB/ESN Will Benefit Only Igbo Elites by djon78(m): 5:43pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
chrismastre5: Aboki with unity begging,leave that property part for them to solve. if they can survive 20 naira after civil war, what are you saying. Every time you remind them of their properties in the north but you are wishing they don't go because north will be a ghost town without lgbos Will all Igbos live in the East? No See dividing from Nigeria I will personally say it's impossible Nigeria with all it's anomalies will still work Building a nation no be Bean's So I don't see that possibility |
Politics › Re: At The End, IPOB/ESN Will Benefit Only Igbo Elites by djon78(m): 3:47pm On Apr 02, 2021 |
thebosstrevor1: Those Hausas/ fulani you see there arent permanent, you dont see them with their families in those areas, they dont plan to live long, they dont own properties except shops. This is a right fact The Hausas don't build houses or even raise there families outside But the Igbos rather do the opposite Of building and settling in there host communities If you know the number of Igbo businesses and families in far North you will be shocked even as far Niger republic A guy recently told me of streets and area's in Jigawa state where Igbo business men have plenty numbers with houses, shops, plazas doing very well So actually splitting from Nigeria won't favor the Igbo man See even the northerners know the value Igbos add to there region They may not shout it but they respect the resilience of the average Igbo man That Nigeria is still working despite all the madness, the igbo presence is part of it IPOB may do all but with time a lot of things will change I also believe Buhari style of leadership contributed to many anomalies we see A better leader will start healing all these wounds A working Nigeria which is possible is more beneficial to the igbo man more than breaking up which looks almost impossible We should just sought out our differences The bond that ties us may not be seen but it's very deep despite the anomalies presently |
Celebrities › Re: Pete Edochie: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage by djon78(m): 4:50pm On Mar 31, 2021 |
meobizy: Okay. Good. Mr Biggs still dey, abi? Aunty which one be Mr Biggs again |
Romance › Re: Why I Have Decided To Marry An Uneducated Woman When I'm Ready by djon78(m): 8:35pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM: Our fathers were dominant and had successful marriages can't say now of mordern women with equalist ideologies And presently many guys are successfully married to modern women and running it well A modern day woman is just a human being like you Has her likes and dislikes I personally don't really see any issues with the modern day woman that is not present with the modern day Man The era of our fathers is different from our own era and requires different approach And still guys are running it very successfully The problem may be from you guys mindset and your outlook |
Romance › Re: Why I Have Decided To Marry An Uneducated Woman When I'm Ready by djon78(m): 8:25pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
NiRfreak: A man needs a wow factor to deserve a happy home. Hmmm...nawa...And the people without wow factor don't deserve good marriage abi You need a wow factor to captivate your woman She will be completely loyal Na lack of wow factor dey lead to see finish Which Most of you dey worry about |
Romance › Re: Why I Have Decided To Marry An Uneducated Woman When I'm Ready by djon78(m): 6:36pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM: Nonsense We need feminine,soft, submissive,fit, cooperative young beautiful attractive women The more educated a woman is the greater the odd she becomes Feministic I think most times it's guys that have low self-esteem about themselves do talk the way you do. A man that's in control of himself, knows his direction about life don't worry about these things Even the highest educated woman will be completely loyal The issue is that many of these guys don't have the wow factor So they go for mediocre things |
Celebrities › Re: Lilo Aderogba: "Men Don't Like Good Girls" - BBNaija's Lilo by djon78(m): 3:52pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
doxijaw: Stupid analysis.
Please go and marry a prostitute or stripper if your theory is correct.
You guys are so delusional you can't even differentiate between sex and picking a life partner It's not being delusional It's being real Do you even have a clue how married women are chased more than even single girls nowadays Many guys are just hypocrites You sleep around with so called bad girls and then think when you marry your past won't hurt you After they marry the good girls They will still keep on sleeping around Because bad habit's die hard Guess what Other Randy guys will pursue your wife And woe betide you don't have enough money you are finished They will be enticed with money Better money My advice is simple Everyone whether man or woman Live a responsible life Simple If you want to marry a good partner Make sure you are good yourself Not when you have damaged other people And you think yours won't be damaged |
Celebrities › Re: Lilo Aderogba: "Men Don't Like Good Girls" - BBNaija's Lilo by djon78(m): 3:31pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
milann: Monogamy is an illusion. There's no way one woman can satisfy a man even if its love at first sight. Love fades. It takes discipline and the fear of God to stick to one woman forever because our body is not wired that way. Thats why I said it takes discipline and fear of God Many of these guys commenting here are hypocrites They marry the Virgins and the good girls but go around sleeping up and down And when the good girls find out Some of them Secretly begins to cheat there own From what I know around People's wives are even chased now more than even single girls And when those good girls married See they are on the losing end They start cheating on there own Especially this younger women getting married nowadays They don't tolerate cheats |
Romance › Re: Why I Have Decided To Marry An Uneducated Woman When I'm Ready by djon78(m): 3:23pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Uneducated women are the worst oo
Wait until she born finish for you Then you will see her true color
Just yesterday an acquaintance of mine was complaining that his brother married with four children slept in his house His uneducated wife brought out pestle to fight with him, seized his phone and he ran from the house to allow peace
Uneducated women are the worst Education brings refinement
The problem with many guys is that they want to just Lord it over women The more they realize that women are human beings that requires to be given the respect due them they will have it better
This is a modern world You can't just Lord over her When you respect her She will respect you back in multiple times
But if you want to go for the uneducated ones Continue Maybe when she don born for you finish And begin to show you her true color Then it will not be late
You will be shocked that the woman that will make you happy are those ones you feel will be hard to marry Life is very mysterious |
Celebrities › Re: Lilo Aderogba: "Men Don't Like Good Girls" - BBNaija's Lilo by djon78(m): 2:48pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
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Celebrities › Re: Lilo Aderogba: "Men Don't Like Good Girls" - BBNaija's Lilo by djon78(m): 2:43pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Kayberg: A man after sex will dash at a bitch to give him always. Hence they clamour for big ass, big boobs, tiny waist, bleached skin, artificial eye lashes, artificial nails and every other things they need to turn them on, which they'd only love to see on a sex doll, a slut to satisfy their lusts, and not on a wife.
So never let any man/guy/boy/lad/child/pikin out there, who is only after your body deceive you with that I love 'em bitches slang/statement. Because if they succeed in getting you to that realm of fantasy, you're done.
Any serious man would prefer a virgin to a sex expert as a wife. Believe me. All those men/guys/boys/lads/children/lads/pikins who run to you are just eating their possible share off your destiny.
Be wise. Be a woman with dignity; Not a bitch. They will marry the Virgins and still be cheating on them up and down with the bad girls That's the mode of operation of most of this men Many men don't even have time for there wives once they finish borning except a very few principled ones It's a very very big issue in many marriages now The level of philandering men is highly on the increase Although sometimes I personally blame it on monogamy because majority of these men are just a generation into monogamy There grandfather's even father's we're polygamists |
Romance › Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by djon78(m): 1:51pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
wpadmin: They just got engaged so I wasn't talking about how their married life is.
The thing is why do men have such taste in the first place.
Marriage alone is a responsibility.
Why give yourself an unnecessary headache?
On your wedding day, people wey don bang your wife go come spray both of una money and both of you will be dancing.  This majorly happens to unexposed men who don't know the ways of women But guys that knows the way of women Carefully search and end up with wife's material ladies But the irony is that many of those ones that end up with good women will still be playing the field even after marriage |
Romance › Re: Ladies Actually Eat Their Cake And Have It by djon78(m): 1:45pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
chinchonglee: This statement is fallacy of hasty generalisation! You are not in the marriage with them,. You dnt know what the marriage is passing through.. u are jst concluding based on mere pictures/social where everyone pretends to be happy....
Have u reasoned the case of tonto dike vs olakunle churchill Nigerian needs to be real in their dealings... Not because of social media pics you generalise they are happy... My brother too is wealthy got married to a somehow retired olosho. He literally calls home everyday crying... The divorce process is still delaying cos the girl and her family are still begging..
Do you also know the rate of known paternity scams in the country An olosho(at least 90%) never retires, they end ip fvcking out and getting pregnant for their outside lovers right under their rich husbands roof and trust me those rich husbands do DNA test in secret. Come to SYNLAB in lekki and see for yourself...
Nobody woman will tell you are marriage is crashing hence we judge marriage based on social media pictures where everyone is faking smile... Face fact bro, ur statement is fallacy of hasty generalisation. 
Also reason the case of fani kayode vs snowwhite! Exactly Oloshos rarely retire They still do coded runs while married That's why they prefer marrying unexposed men |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump's Facebook Ban Likely To Be Overturned By Oversight Board by djon78(m): 2:00pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
truthfulparrot: Facebook and Twitter are now jittery of the prospect of Donald Trump launching his own social media platform. Trump is a ruthless business man. I am sure he will soon launch his own Cable TV to payback CNN and other America media. Na people wey no Sabi that man Donald Trump has been a world renowned business man way before he ventured into politics He was not just a business man but a renowned showbiz man He will seriously give these social media goons a run for there money And many people around the world like Him. So it will be a big game changer |
Family › Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young Even If You Are Poor by djon78(m): 12:42pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
wirinet: Are you serious? A woman is not expected to contribute a penny in marriage? And you got 261 likes. I now see that Nigeria is in deep shit with this stupid mindset. You mean to tell me that you expect over half the Nigerian population of women to rely only on the men to be productiv?
So what do you think women can offer to men in marriage? Only sex and child bearing? In that case why waste money educating and training female children, when they will only end up in the bedroom and kitchen. I teach my daughter to be independent and not rely on anyone. That's the way we raise our daughters in the Niger Delta. The person you quoted is right Majority of marriages in this nation. Almost all the financial burden falls on the man. Even in situations where the woman is earning something, she will keep her money to herself and maybe support when she feels And many men are in this situation. Right from the dating period to the wedding, everything on the man Head. Marriage itself na the highest Many men are facing it and are still moving on with there life. |
Sports › Re: Chelsea Players Celebrate Late Goal In Atletico Madrid Win (Photos, Video) by djon78(m): 6:38pm On Mar 18, 2021 |
Ibadanpikin: The summary of all this ur explanation is that ur Tuchel will go this season unbeaten.let him win all the trophies available to him oo since he have a special tactics,but let him beat arteta's arsenal this season. You are not making any sense Arteta is still a rookie What has he managed This particular Chelsea team people may underrate them But they have one of the best sides in Europe Lampard was a rookie He had no clue of managing them But look at how Tuchel has turned them around The man is very good He is a genuis Look at Chelsea defense and midfield That were leaking goals Now they have only conceded 2 goals in 12 matches The man is good |
Sports › Re: Chelsea Players Celebrate Late Goal In Atletico Madrid Win (Photos, Video) by djon78(m): 4:58pm On Mar 18, 2021 |
Ibadanpikin: I pray make uefa join chelsea n man city for quarter fina and we will see if this ur wide mouth won't b shut. Oga no talk like that oo The secret to this present Chelsea is Thomas Tuchel He is tactically very good This team was same lampard managed But couldn't do anything with them The three tactically sound Managers in the premier league presently are Jurgen Kloop Pep Guardiola And now Thomas Tuchel is added He and pep have not played any game before So it will be a very hard one If you watched the ATM game Diego Simeon has his own tactics which is not bad But Tuchel outfoxed Him Winning or losing a game All depends on the tactics of the manager Tuchel tool a team that was awful under lampard And turned them around Simply because he is much tactically superior to lampard |
Family › Re: His Money Is Ours And Her Money Is Hers- A Selfish Statement by djon78(m): 2:35pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
It depends on each family's peculiarity
I know some where the man brings in 100% the woman runs the home and they are ok with that
Some both couple's work but the woman supports with her own contribution but the man also supports the woman in chores. He doesn't leave everything to her
It all depends on individual family
What works for each couple and doesn't cause friction so be it
And it also depends on the kind of partner one marries Some women no dey play with there money oo, while some are open with there finances
But honestly in many homes the man brings in almost all the money needed and doesn't complain
If you married a woman that doesn't earn much compared to you, then you should take on the bills but she also should bring in something once in a while to show she is not selfish
More about applying wisdom here in the Marriage |
Celebrities › Re: Pete Edochie Advises Women Against Leaving Their Cheating Husbands (Video) by djon78(m): 1:28pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
DEMZEE: Noooo we don't need a woman who is financially stable or even educated. We just need a woman who is feminine, submissive, cooperative, fit, have fidelity and young.
I don't deal with hoes bro, I kick them to the streets.
Marriage is transactional.......commitment, time, resources, emotional stability from the man for sex from the woman. It's that simple
Why are u not considering women's sexual mating strategy though?? How old are you? You are talking like someone that have not experienced life You are here talking polygamy, woman, all etc Why do you think many men very well financialy capable and can comfortably take care of many women in marriage But still marry only one wife Young man when you grow up you will understand Leave all these things you read up online Real life experience is different |
Celebrities › Re: Pete Edochie Advises Women Against Leaving Their Cheating Husbands (Video) by djon78(m): 1:27pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
DEMZEE: Noooo we don't need a woman who is financially stable or even educated. We just need a woman who is feminine, submissive, cooperative, fit, have fidelity and young.
I don't deal with hoes bro, I kick them to the streets.
Marriage is transactional.......commitment, time, resources, emotional stability from the man for sex from the woman. It's that simple
Why are u not considering women's sexual mating strategy though?? |
Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji To Ladies: Pray To God To Be Rich Instead of Praying For A Rich Man by djon78(m): 2:28pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
franchasng: Lindy Lindy, becoming rich is not easy. Thank your God and destiny that you made it and don't take because of that and be discouraging other girls whose destiny to becoming rich is tied to a man.
Becoming rich is not just by hustling alone, there is God factor and there is destiny factor too.
God said in the Bible "I will bless whom I will bless", meaning God have already chosen and destined some for greatness so it has nothing to do with your hardwork most times.
I am a living testimony. I have worked so hard in the past and made peanuts...did all humanly possible to no avail until when the time was ripe, I can't even remember doing any special thing again and some of the things I prayed for and wished to have some years back now I look at them and laugh in disbelief that I once cried and wailed to have this.
Life is like a movie, we all are actors in it. Every actor have a defined role pre-assigned to him by the script writer of the movie and he can only act according to the script as directed by the movie producer and director.
So Linda be calming down, that you made it is your destiny not by just hardwork. Some girls will be first ladies and queens through their husbands so don't discourage them, just stay on your own lane and thank your God for giving you your own destiny. Don't use your time and destiny to chart or define other women's life This is the best reply to this issue |
Family › Re: Does Religious Differences Matter In Marriage? by djon78(m): 1:35pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
babtoundey: If you as a Christian (woman) are married to a Muslim (Man) you believe all if fair, fine a d all rights if all children follow you to church and go against the faith of their father. But it is unfair and wrong when those children follow their father to the mosque. Why must we be selfish! Are children robots that you must dictate to them what God to must worship? If all Tinubu's children are all Muslim (as you said) why should the mother be worried as long as the religion is not foisted on them? That's why one should not mix religion because of the consequences. Let each religion marry each other Mixed religious marriage carries it's own wahala Although those in South West does it but from the East it's not possible |
Family › Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by djon78(m): 1:17pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Adonis86: The matter don tire me. The guy denied knowing me, rather accuses the wife of having an extramarital affair with me. People I've never met in my life. She said at the initial stage he suggested they meet a man of God. When they met the man of God and told him about hee husband's sexuality, the Man of God advised her to play along, that if the husband likes asss more than pusssy, she should give it to him... That one off me.
I humbly advised her to involve her family and the husband's family for advise. But she's insisting on divorce against the Man of god's advice... I hereby wash my hands in innocence, that I may go about the Lord's supper. But if the guy is gay, the woman has every right to divorce Him, also addim the beating on top |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Essa Ogory's Death: A Sad Lesson On Believing A One-Sided Story by djon78(m): 10:39pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
Nationale: The video was clear during the time the said wedding was cancelled. The couple were just 5 minutes late and not 1 hour. Again, he waited for them for a whole 1 hour only to tell them to have him wed them privately? This story was loosely put together. Where is the spirit of forgiveness that they preach all the time? If he was patient enough to wait for 1 hour then why not forgive them and wed them having also flown all the way from Lagos. Haba! Make unna sofry dey twist story. Na because him be MOG.
RIP sha. I think we should judge things soundly For a pastor who was on sick bed battling terminal sickness and he left the hospital flew all the way from Lagos to Ph, means the man honored them He may have become incapacitated, having waited for a while People with terminal sickness goes through lots of pain I have seen such before Suggesting that a junior pastor Weds them wasn't bad seeing his condition which after some days he died The couple's raining insult on the man is very gross. Almost every Nigerian is very angry and little thing dey don start to shout And this is common with Nigerians Citizens of other African countries ain't like this They are much cool and disposed to life Life is not about shouting and making noise all over the place in an unruly and rude manners Watch the oyibos, even the Asians, you can never see them behave in such manner. It's animals in the zoo that behaves like that Our people seriously need to change honestly |
Business › Re: Flutterwave Raises $170 Million, now Valued at Over $1 Billion by djon78(m): 4:59pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
Kennyking1234: Written language in what sense? Nsibidi serves as a form writing and communication. So all European languages had their own scripts? All ancient languages were written in scrool, parchment or animal skin They were documented Was there any documented evidence of nsibidi? In fact those scrools or parchment were many that they became books There was no such thing in black Africa I have asked an erudite scholar this same question before and he had no explanation and was even surprised |
Business › Re: Flutterwave Raises $170 Million, now Valued at Over $1 Billion by djon78(m): 3:01pm On Mar 10, 2021 |
Kennyking1234: Technically the Igbo's had written characters. It called "Nsibidi". Is it documented anywhere with parchment or scrolls I know of nsibidi, but it's not a written language. Achebe mentioned it in one of his books. No sub Saharan African tribe had a written language. It was the Europeans that even interpreted and developed our languages into writing form |