It's damn too late for a lady except if she wants to be a nun that is when such is acceptable

It's something of great price and a thing of pride. A lady married intact as a virgin will easily earn our husband's trust even when her fidelity should be questioned. I think for men marrying a virgin gives the sense of a singular ownership on her, she also gets to feel more relaxed and confident in our matrimonial home knowing the fact that she was married as a virgin and I don't think any right thinking man will treat such meanly

Well he has really tried in certain aspects but on a general note I don't see anything special about this Fashola guy, he's just being overrated. There definitely other governors doing better than him example is Rochas Okorocha and Mimiko. As corrupt as Tinubu his while in government he was perceived to be performing this is because Lagos is the commercial hub of the nation and without allocation from the federal government it can make do with what is realized from the internal revenue. What Lagos alone realizes as IGR in a month other large states will hardly get such in years as Lagos accounts for about 60-70 of the country's GDP

youngmonie: Most people still do not understand some of the key principles of leadership. "Taking fierce and decisive action even in the face of opposition". Decisions cannot favour everybody it will and can never happen. Some win, some loose. However it must be for the better of the generality.

and is it the masses that should always be affected with all his policies? Democracy is all about the masses and Fashola does not care his programmes don't give consideration to the masses at all and they constitute the majority of those who voted him in

jmoore: I am 24 and still a virgin. it pays to remain a virgin till you get married. It applies to both sexes. I am a man and I am keeping it!

good to know we still have men with such conviction, whether the society still reckons with it or not it still remain a thing of pride, dignity and honour. It's just unfortunate civilization is fast making us to lose our core values which are of great price.

why not? circumstances that demand for such things help to prove a true love. Love is supposed to be a practical thing and not just the words of mouth, it surpasses emotional drive and sexual urge. I will gladly donate more than a kidney to the one I love and who truly loves me. True love is about making sacrifices for one another and seeking the benefit of each other

biolachick:

Thanks Candy,

I am 26years....I have discussed it with my partner and he said courageously that the baby is and will be fine....he is against the test saying he doesn't support me going through the test.

I think that is what you need as it can be very scary and distressing if you keep your heart at the possibilities of the baby having it given the percentage of chance of being affected. One of the secrets of coping with life challenges is having a right attitude to life. All you need to do is believe it won't happen to your baby and never give it a consideration in your heart as it can lead to further complications just take necessary precautions and the result will be great. It is well with you and your baby.

it all depends on the lady but I feel it's more difficult for a lady to keep her virginity given the societal pressure and the level of sexual perversion but as for the other items it varies, though girls are known to be chatterbox a good number of them are good at keeping deep secrets

Are we not tired of useless predictions that never come true since Jesus christ himself says of the time and season no one knows even himself I don't think we should reckon with this false predictions any longer it is just part of the end times signs but anyway whether it happens now, tomorrow or if it will tarry long it's our duty to always keep ourselves ready for the coming of christ

From your description of the church it's a perfect place for a heavenly-minded person but as for the tithe, the bible isn't against tithing but rather commands it. My reservation for the church however has to do with their opposition to the use of drugs I wonder then if they have doctors in their congregation.

No reason whatsoever qualifies a man to start beating up his wife it is an irrational act for anyone to do. There are sure so many other ways to rebuke a lady if she does anything wrong and not turning her to a punchbag as much as the husband needs to be respected, the wife also needs to be cherished and accorded respect in her own right too

marriage is meant to be enjoyed by both parties involved provided it is made to thrive under the right atmosphere. As for why you have developed so much apathy for marriage guess it's because of your previous involvement in what is exclusively meant for married people

Many if blissful can be viewed as an achievement but most of the marriages we have around are more like hell on earth because emotions, personal interest, self will and infatuation to override right thinking in the selection of partners.

I don't wish or pray for such a thing o but nevertheless if it happens it's no big deal provided she still respect and honour me as her husband not being puffed up because of her financial status. It might not even be so evident if she is exceptionally humble, but I must confess cases like this make men lose their authority over the family and it can sometimes be socially frustrating but anyway understanding among the couples is the most important thing

There is no justifiable reason why a guy should have his girlfriend or wife beaten, though it has become a very prevalent thing in our society these days it remains a condemnable act. But I feel one major cause of this has to do with how ladies carry theirselves, the way you present yourself before a guy will go a long way to determine how he treats you. But then guys in relationships see themselves as superheroes overbearing without taking cognizance that their girlfriends are not sold out as slaves to them

I do not dispute that there is will of God in marriage but it seems to me sometimes like a mirage. When you conversant with the will of God things in the churches where it is strictly practised then you will agree it's more of a ruse and what irks me most is the fact that some women in the church even at very late ages still keep waiting for a will of God which they may not find.

One of the factors responsible for various vices in our society has to do with the inability of parents and the society to train children in explicit and unambigous terms.
Many times parents tend to be over-protective on their children and because of this fail to enunciate the basic morals they intend to impart on their children the result of which is usually debilitating by the time they eventually get exposed to these things. A very common example is with sex education[/color][color=#000099]

I think in my own opinion that we seem to be giving too much emphasis on sex and it's rather too shocking that when a guy and a lady are in a relationship just after a few months expection for sex begins to permeate their minds. Girls particularly feel disturbed and unsettled if their boyfriend don't ask for sex which I feel should be appreciated
Chastity before marriage does not only have spiritual blessing but makes couples to be able to build trust, love and a strong relationship without deceit and infidelity

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You just have to be yourself. Don't go extra miles in trying to please him, don't be too hasty to get laid by him. Many atimes when girls do this it makes them lose their value and worth.
I will advice you study and watch him more, men sometimes can be very deceptive and so human beings in general once they are getting at something they can do everything to get what they want. Above all whatever feelings you have for him let it not be money-induced or as a result of obsession then I think you are good to go

My sister there is no way to know it's good if you desire to marry a virgin but a litmus test for it I guess it does not exist. And as for a guy being a novice with issues that concern sex it does not offer a proof of virginity because we have a lot of virgins already so exposed to pornography, masturbation and the likes and may know just as much as just any philanderer knows