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Which state are you?

missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

Try me and then you understand all men differs. When you're undervalued detach urself from something not worth it don't allow situations change the good side of you.

Hahnemann:
I think they finally reopened. Hopefully cost is acquiring visas will drop down soon

They did

Preshieben:
Omoh...
I know I'm not supposed to be worried but I have to

Whenever a guy approaches me,no matter how nice and lovely he looks,
All I think is,he just wants to explore my pussie and move on..and gbamm I'll just ghost him and this goes on with every guy I meet.

I've had failed relationships, infact the last one ended when I discovered my ex bf was cheating on me with my cousin that I'm four years older than and I'm sure that I've moved on completely but I don't seem to trust any guy any longer

The way I reject men who approach me cos all I think is "he only wants to fvck you, nothing else" is sooo alarming, and I fear if I continue like this,I may not marry

How do I change this mentality?
How do I change my mindset about men abeg?

First of all ask yourself this question.. have you dated all men if no then trust me there are lots of genuine men outside all it takes it's taking the risk b4 u can meet the right man. Another thing is remove the thought of you feeling pussy is all you got to offer too cuz that's why u feel incoming are just for Pussy fist also

ndukwechinasa:
I met my girl friend around 2015 but I was not so serious about loving her. Just wanted to make love to her normally or even become a casual friend. But my intentions did not work out as planned we both stop communicating.

Not until December 2020 when I had accident and she eventually came visiting me and bought somethings for me. I was so impressed for the kind gestures. Her care and kindness made me started loving her.

However, this love extended to her family. I always call the sisters and the mum at will. I also visit their village during festivities and their base too. She is kind to me that I can not imagine. I have grown to love her immensely that I don't have affection for another woman.

But yesterday, my babe called that the mum wants to speak with me. I aborted the call and hurriedly call back. I greeted the mum and she responded very well. She asked me not to get upset that she wants to know my intention towards her daughter that time waits for no one and again there are suitors coming but the daughter said she loves me. Finally she will not be happy with me if I dump the daughter in due course.

I just told her that I love her daughter so much and I also have the intention to marry her but she should also pray for me that things work out right for me.

Honestly, I really love the girl so much but I am not financially stable now cos I lost my job two years ago and I have been trying to put things in order as to meet up financially.

What do I really do now?

MATURE MINDS���

If you really love her with genuine intentions trust me you won't know how it will happen when the time is right... but make her your only woman so her prayers can work faster

Lalami3232:
Dem plenty ooooo .
Immediately you tell a 9ja babe say get feelings for her, E be like say you dey owe her instantly.
Funny enough, 99.2% no get anything to offer aside that toto wey everybody don chop before you. Even the toto wey majority of dem dey offer isn't even tight.
Na we go still use our own money to buy enlargement pump and cream before we fit enjoy the wide canal wey many of dem dey carry. I doubt if this generation of girls go stay labour room pass 2mins sef. The pikin go swim out with ease


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "a single mother for Europe tight pass our average 9ja babe"

Comrade off mic....you love vawulence

Atimjessy:
He kept over-pricing everything like a stingy man.

You could have thought him how to be generous by footing the bill when you noticed that.

ijustdey:
SOURCE

Taking that bold step isn't easy but we all got to take that necessary difficult decision just for mental health reasons and then being true to ourselves....

ULiTv:
Credit: BBC bidgin

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ulPW0_WpaQ
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"If the animal dey sick, me self dey feel sick"

Meet Malam Abba Gandu from Kano, who has been feeding Lions for the pass 50yrs
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He has been on this job since the zoo was commission in 1971

https://fb.watch/bHmUspk9sB/

Anytime this is taken away from him not sure he will survive it

Hahnemann:
Is Vietnam still fully opening up for tourism come March 15th?

Doesn't look promising.....

EBMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1416350/ebonyians-hold-one-million-man-protest-match-solidarity-governor-umahi-photos/

That's how it goes when you publicly go against ipob over and over again.... let's see how ur stupid presidential ambitions goes

PSG buy Goat real Madrid use Benz kill am

L1TTLE:
I've been dating her for over three months now, first day I saw her I didn't like her or anything, I just did some biz with her, had a short Convo and left, so along the line we got familiar and we exchanged contacts, went on a casual date, then she painted herself as a God fearing girl, who don't want anything with guys, then I asked her how come her relationship status isn't single on fb, she said she put that to deter guys, I was wondering what she's doing with me since I'm also a guy then she gave me a shocker, that immediately she saw me she knew God want us to be a thing.

Honestly I'm not a God guy, I'm not religious at all, but I have good morals, I have been single for long so I decided to give it a go and we started dating.

not long after that she came to my place, and one thing led to the other and we had sex, it was a very foolish mistake I made because we agreed not to indulge, at least for like three months, and barely two weeks into the relationship we had sex, then I started noticing changes, first she became possessive, like she always wants to know what I am doing, who I am with, where I am at, and I hate that, I don't like feeling like someone owns me but she would always throw a tantrum when I point that out.

Things started going bad for me, financially I was failing here and there, it was a clusterfvck, bad luck everywhere, but I didn't think she was the cause because like I said, I'm not religious, I just believed it's just trying times they come and go, but it started shortly after the sex, I'm just stating it because it's significant.

Second, she calls herself a goddess, at first I thought it was this self appraisal thing girls do, I discovered it's not self appraisal at all, her birth name is some kind of deity where she's from, at this point I started wondering what I got myself into like she's all over me, I can't breathe, I sat her down and tried to talk to her that maybe we should breakup, she started crying and guilt tripped me into having sex with her, and since then whenever she comes around it's always sex, like I'm tired of it now, I will resist and she'll do things, touch me in places and I'll be aroused in seconds, for someone who claimed she's not into sex, she's a vixen on bed, I feel like I don't even know her anymore, lastly I have terrible nightmares now, and it's always sexual, that wasn't the case before I met her, right now I can't think of a way to free myself from her shackles, I just want to undo everything, make everybody dey him dey.

Make God ur number 1 in honesty and Truth then you will be freed....

unclothedness is the only source of female spotlight wealth argue with the gods

hismylolo:
Glory be to GOD Almighty! I received intensive care and treatment at LUTH and I was placed on hemodialysis and given several blood transfusion and later was placed on blood boosting medication. Last time I had dialysis was in March 2016 and I have been freed from dialysis and I am now able to do things that I love doing and also resumed back to work before the end of that same year. Initially i lost hopes and I thought that I was going to die simply because my case was very severe and my blood pressure was very high, blood sugar levels was low, creatinine level was very high, BUN (blood urea Nitrogen) level was very high, PCV ( Percentage of Cell Volume) was extremely low, but Thank GOD for my life today. I didn't do a transplant but I took caution, i listened to the health workers, i avoid some certain foods, i adopted a new lifestyle, i do adequate medical check-up, takes my medication accordingly and completely avoid self medication.

God is not man he always gives us reasons to smile

Because breakfast nah national cake e go reach everybody

Spring is here!!!

Everywhere just getting wet without rain lol

All this yeye tactics from the fg to avert kyari extradition will be futile....they should bundle him out immediately

LesbianBoy:
So everywhere you look these days, almost all the young people want to relocate a.k.a japa. What I find hilarious is the reason they always claim made them decide to japa but some of us can see through the crap they say! As far as I am concerned, what they lowkey plan to do when you get there is same as what these our politicians are doing in Nigeria.

Yes! If you fall under these set of people, you have NO RIGHT to insult Nigeria because you o, buhari o and other politicians NO DIFFERENCE!!!

Over staying your visit visa: Believe it or not many of the people who make noise about japa, plan to use this illegal means to stay there. They are ones that are so quick to run to Twitter to talk down on Nigeria. They do these things yet they insult Nigeria politicians for doing illegal things. No be juju be that

Planning to marry your ancestor for papers: you are toying with people's feeling because of your selfish gain. Just like how politicians do. They are currently toying with the people's feeling because election is coming soon. As far as I am concerned I don't any difference o!

Anyway, If you want to japa, japa......but my own is, just resist the urge to shalaye when you know your intention is part of the above things I mentioned

After all said you ended up writing rubbish WTF

Marimart:
Link me to your own school pls

Check my signature

Marimart:
Bro can you link one to the school one can apply to?

There are thousands of schools in Vietnam. You can make research on that which fascinates your taste and make inquiries with them.

There are Nigerian students who are coming in March precisely though still on their admission processes hopefully everything will be out b4 28th Feb.

Schooling in Vietnam also gives you enough time to work cuz of their time table pattern which can accommodate everyone both workers and non workers . Their timetable is far different from Nigeria bombarded schedule. most schools here are Just One course a day and it can be morning class or evening class which gives you the rest of the hours to pursue ur businesses.
Furthermore, it might just be 3 courses a semester or 4 which is relatively fair unlike the Nigerian uni that gives u 14 courses per semester and expect u pass all. If you're just trying to use school route as means of getting visa then u can apply to any school but if otherwise u have a particular goal course wise then make sure u verify the particular school that has such course and then run ur admission with them hopefully they reply and accept you after going through the admission process.
Scholarships doesn't really work here like USA etc. Their scholarships are most often extended to their Asian counterparts alone, only few involves other countries unless you're applying through another country which is affiliated to Vietnam schools (masters and research purposes) they will do everything for you.
Happy weekend to y'all. Make I go play ball �

blackpanda:
ESN!

Another wasted sperm spotted

If he can do such to his papa then ur own might be on the way moving forward. If he loves you as he claims then he should tell you and then make amends with the father. Never u go and Inherit enemity in name of marriage and don't forget happy homes make everything perfect

Brownygold002:
Hey, Nairalanders

Something has really been eating me up, I think I need to share. I'm a young gal of about more than 17, I'm brown, tall, slim, have a long curly hair (I'm from a mixed race - Lebanon and Nigeria), brown eyes and nice lips I'm endowed (no be mouth).

I'm a fresher at UNIZIK. I know I am attractive which I don't deny, I don't boast nor make anyone feel inferior. I have 3 roommates. I respect them cos I'm the youngest amongst them. But they don't seem to get along with me. I have tried everything I Can.

Each time we go out, I'm usually the center of attraction which is not new to me, nothing special. They just hate me. I don't boast. I try 2 look as simple as possible. But guys do come for me and they get jealous.

I have tried talking to them but they said they're fine but deep down I know they don't like me. The other day they intentionally frustrated me, they hid my assignments and burnt a new gown a guy at church got me. I'm tired of all these attitude everyday. I feel lyk taking my life, the hate is much. I didn't make myself. Help me guys!!

At this point we don't give advice to unclear and unverified stories. give us a pictorial reference so we know how to advice and where to remove and add tankioooo

Nogymmarts:
oh that one will have issue na while working

Don't get u

Nogymmarts:
great but dlordy100 what the diff between visa on arrival which is either 1yr single or 1 yr multiple

Single means you can't travel in and out during this period then multiple means you can travel at anytime within the visa validity

School route recently has proved be easiest means of getting visa approvals. You can apply to schools of ur choice and wait for decision on ur application. There are thousands of schools here to apply.
In Vietnam, most schools here will require u do a 10 months vietnamese learning program once you enter b4 u can progress with ur program while some are core HD English program and won't warrnt the 10 months vietnamese learning.
Processing admission and inquiries on admission can be tiring due to language barrier. You will send mails upon mails upon mail to ur school choices and not get any feedback just cuz the person in charge doesn't understand English and not ready to use translator thus makes the process a hard one. Some schools reply but at some point you might stop hearing from them which doesn't necessarily mean they don't want you but laxity from the person in charge.
So after some months of no reply from the schools I wanted to apply to,I had to talk to a Nigerian in Vietnam who then explained to me the above reasons why I didn't get feedback . He however told me it was easier if you had someone over here meeting them on your behalf as a middleman cuz most of them now speaks vietnamese and can converse with them in their language which the understanding better for both parties easy but doesn't mean you can't get some schools that reply mails (few).
Intake starts from August in Vietnam while few schools does two times enrollment per year (March and august ). Admission processing in schools varies. from paying and getting ur admission forms to processing it then getting govt approval without govt approval u can't enter cuz they haven't opened the whole borders then you get immigration too . The school will apply for the govt approval on your behalf and doesn't take time to get a result on the approval if granted or rejected.
N/b if you have someone here helping you out he or she will always disturb the school to hasten the process of getting all necessary doc's for you which is the advantage else the school will opt you into joining via online classes (ur data go hear am).
After getting the necessary doc's and approval, everything will be sent to you either through the school or the middleman then you can fly in. Upon your arrival at Hanoi airport, you will present ur approval and then pay for ur visa on arrival which is either 1yr single or 1 yr multiple as you wish. After expiration you can get 4 years once (for undergraduates) mind you , you can apply for trc.


B4 I drop the pen, be wary of the schools you enroll with most of them are not ready to push for govt approval and will always tell you they are waiting for when things gets better that's how you will graduate from home via online classes. I hope this helps tankioooo!!!

U even get mind buy her iphone.... Bro wer u get this kind heart I wan get am too....

Try and learn accent fess let's see where the problem is coming from

mystery22:
Ok thank you very much, but what of after, will the person with a degree from Vietnam University stand a chance against someone with a degree from an English speaking country

What you got to offer makes you standout btw natives are still at advantage but doesn't mean they're better of. The most important thing is you will always find a job but salary difference.

Senomii:
Kai! And there's something my bro told me recently about this hiv tho I'm not too sure, he said there's this injection that costs over 200k or more that if you suspect that u contracted hiv and u take the injection within two days the shot will kill the antibodies or whatever instantly, just the same way pregnancy is prevented with contraceptives

U can take it b4 or less than 48 hrs of intercourse...btw it's not that expensive also and it's free just that our country regulations no dy work pharmacists hijacked it and started selling it buying from hospitals and then selling it expensively