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emcemayo: I proposed to my hubby and we r now 5 years + into it and I couldn't have been happier, best part is that he love's me more!!! Our home is happy and we are best of friends , u can never guess I made the first move because we both are conservative people

Oshe! Let them know its possible and not all men will take you for granted. I guess before proposing to him, you have measured his level of maturity in handling such... Thats what I am saying. If you are convinced about it, then go for it gurl!

madridsta007: Hmmmmm... I think it is possible to find men that do not double-date, the good, bad and ugly exist everywhere, men inclusive. I have not double-dated for a few reasons- The fact that when am dating someone I should love the person and believe in 'do to others want you want them to do to you'; I also feel double-dating is an expensive adventure money and time-wise, it won't yield anything tangible to me so I don't. My guys that double-date seem to be always borrowing money up and down to live their false life, something I don't subscribe to; My career and academics and church life keep me extra, extra busy as well; I also feel that double-dating is for immature, untrustworthy people, people still growing up at a very slow pace. Double-dating is simply cheating and for someone who is proud of his lady, who displays her picture everywhere and anywhere, who makes her known within his circle of friends and family, who has his lady as his best friend, (I call her my PA), I would get caught so easily.

Never tried it and can't try it. Maybe, am a bit traditional, I dunno.

Gbam! Thats the spirit bruv... We both have like-minds. The problem be say, you dey support my arch-rival... Anywayz, that one dey sha

tintingz: Gals and their good guys fallasy. . .they are the one that love bad guys Another thread on NL

Oshe! No mind them jare. If you put a good and a bad guy for here, gurlz go rush the bad one sharply and yet them go dey complain... Them no get talk jhor...

greyce: u guys are always in a fix.pls get dis straight if she really loved u she wouldnt av left u &u wuld wont b askin dis silly questn now.i suggest u let her go cos even if u give her anoda chance she wuld stil dump u.its ur decision 2 mk though..

Gbam!!! You yan the thing well... For me, this thread is redundant. You should read the inscription on the wall and act accordingly rather than ask questions to which you already know the answer... Na wa to you oooo

ogugua88: No. Nigerian women are very confident. Fat or not, they are the brightest shining star and there's nothing you can do about it.

Brightest? For where? Them and who dey drag who bright pass? Abi na them and Togolese women, Cameroonian women, Benin-Republic women and the likes right

What I want to know is that, are they not concerned about doing something to revert it I mean....

achukwunet: Well then you've been trying to date too many ibo chicks

Ohh! Is it about tribes now Well, newsflash! its a general thing with most gurlz just so you know... BEsides, I ain't dating anyone cuz most gurlz are full of crap and really, being single is better than being with 95% of gurlz today... You see! Since I am broke I dont have to worry about the next isi-ewu joint to take a gurl to.. lol

[quote author=190-the-clown][color=RED]Till small stout and isi-ewu + Goat leg, Goat tongue and Goat tail are banned in nigeria

Nigerian girls would always continue to posses POT BELLIES

even mama's don begin pass am to unborn children!


source - CNN, 1994 [/color][/quote]Lol.. Little wonder u always stress on the fact that 9ja gurlz are just about the bar.. So, u mean say if I no fit buy isi-ewu and the likes, I no go fit get them abi? Well, thats y a broke arse guy like me no fit get chic. Lol

nikkyshyne: Singing* Wonder(x9), till you turn to wanderer!

Whats ur take on this as a gurl Nikky?

caseless: no mind her. Most of them no get wetin nija men needs apart from that pothole in-between their legs. All they have are wavy belly, tyre-like waist, sagged breas'ts and asymmetrical arses.

Sagged breas'ts? Ohh! U mean their breas'ts have low self-esteem? Lol

I'm still wondering why 9ja gurlz can't maintain flat tummies. Are they not taking cognizance of their body? Or is it that they don't fancy it?

baddiguy: that you're asked if you prefer pounded yam to semovita does not discount amala, eba, akpu etc.
here we have no option C. pls choose either option A or B

I wasnt opting for option C, just thought I should highlight it. Besides, I already chose mine earlier on...

Princeojua: Hahahahaha. Why are you guys rejecting d couples?

Cuz they ain't worth emulating

jstringz: I don't really know if its right but why should my gurlfriend know the exact amount I take home every month?

Is this not suppose to be strict and confidential? Even, one's parent can hardly place the precise amount one earn?

Is it improper 2 avoid disclosing this info 2 ur girlfriend especially when she wants 2 know the exact amount and not the range?

Do u know that alot men dont even disclose this to their wives? Although I dont support not letting ur wife know. Buh thats just to tell u that if some men can hide it from their wives, how much less your gurl friend. Bottom line is... She has no right to know. You can tell her if you deem it necessary buh if u must do that, then dont tell her the actual amount, you can tell her 2/3 of ur original salary

baddiguy: Pot belly = Evidence of good living (by Nigerian standards, of course).
Six packs = The so-called sexy guy who works out a lot to stay fit (and attract women)

Both categories lick a lot of beer, devour isi-ewu like no man's business, and may or may not be rich/broke.
There is actually no real way to prove that men who have the belly of a 6-month pregnancy have more money than men who have relatively flat and sexy stomach, and vice-versa. But the issue here is about finding out which of the above will make a guy more attractive to our women.

Babes! Which of the two would you prefer?
Guys! Which of the two would you rather have?

Its not just between pot belly and 6pack. What about guyz with relatively flat bellies without the 6pack Abs??

[quote author=kpolli][/quote]Gbam! Tell them... If a gurl marries at 18 no one will talk about it being early buh if a man marries at 25 its early. Is that so? Balderdash!

eduson55: is it advisable to marry at 22-25 as a man?

Hell yeah! Marriage is about maturity and not age. You'll also agree with me that maturity is not about ur age buh your ability to be able to react to and handle issues properly. Its also about emotional stability which enables u to contain whatever situation that comes to the fore.. If u are financially stable and you have the above listed attributes coupled with the psychological readiness to indulge in marital life, then the sky is ur starting point. Who says its wrong? Is there age tag attached to getting married? What pericope of the bible talked about age in marriage? Its always about when a man is ripe for it and being ripe is not about getting to a certain age.. Is it?

achukwunet: Money has nothing to do with romance. True romance comes from the heart, not your wallet. Thats oyinbo thinking there

True talk. Buh u gurlz dnt realise that its the heart that matterz not how much money the guy has. Gosh! I wish I could change every gurl's mentality.

M M M: Just drink alcohol & leave d rest 4 ur pen1s

So I hear... Lol

benbrains: Well, the question is quite clear... Can U̶̲̥̅̊ marry the opposite-sex-version of you, possessing all your characters, looks not necessarily considered?

I'll do everything ethically and morally possible to get the female version of me. I'll be the happiest of men and the most fulfilled..

caukerzee: well, i wount say you are not different from every other man out there but one thing is for sure, it is in man's nature to appreciate what he works for than what he is gifted for free. Women are always on the reciving end. Gender equality will never work. That is how man is wired and anything trying to disobey that law of nature fails. If a woman woos you, you would be on the reciving end, you are always searching for her wrong doings, constant fault finding, rather than appreciating her good side. You would be looking for what is not there than what is there. The feeling a man gets when a woman woos him is totaly different from the feeling a woman gets from being wooed by a man. When a woman woos a man, theres this sudden fear that sets in, the fear of desperation. It doesnt matter how long youve liked or love her.

See! You are wrong. Do me a favour, speak for yourself. I dont knw the kinda mentality you have, but for me, I see alot of things differently. For instance, alot of guys see cheating on a gurl as a normal thing, whereas I dont see it that way and I've never tried it. Secondly, alot of guys can't stay for 4 yearz cuz to them its unusual especially if you've had series of relationships before, but its nothing to me cuz I've done it. I can keep giving instances as much as u want about peoples' perception being different from mine. So, newsflash! I'll NEVER act negative if a woman should do the wooing. As long as she is my kinda gurl.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]All good men are dead.[/quote]Ehn! Abeg I neva die o. U wan kill me before my time? Lol.

caukerzee: I will discourage women not to do that. Not becaue its wrong, but because its a big risk. Very few men will take it as normal, but the average nigerian man will take avantage of it when he is wrong or offends you. He will remind you of how you were the one that wooed him. Women dont remind men of how they(the men) were the one that wooed them(the women). Whereas, a man would do that. You may ask why? No because it is wrong, but because it is not normal.

Well, not someone like me... I think depends on the man's personality

gilmaro: .
I asked for advice n not scolding. Anyway thanks.

i think the remonstration is what you need. Maybe it'll help u think right

gilmaro: I truly loved not in the present, do i adhere to my friends pressure or not ?

What kinda pressure? I'm sorry to say, it seems you are lame. Maybe u are just around ur early twenties I presume.. Cuz u ain't driven by ur own will, you are definitely the type that is being pushed around aimlessly

Fell in love? With a guy? U high ni?

adonisyung: fact! But guys also G̶̲̥̅o̶̲̥̅ jealous wen they see another guy chyking their sister

No be lie

Kirinwa: I feel same but I can't tell exactly until I tell her I can't afford it at the moment maybe her reactions may say better. Btw why is so difficult for me to get someone who cares much about me,who calls me,dotes on me.Most times am the one doing most of the loving tins.

Na because u still be novice. U neva wise up

Kirinwa: It's because you're understanding but I don't know if she is.I truly care about her.

Guy wise up jare.. I'm nt saying its bad 2 get a gurl something she likes, buh a gurl u just got together with to demand for a phone that same day.. Hell no! And whats I love her so much? Ehen? Does that mean u should ruin your life? Or dont u think this is just the begining? Na wa to u o. Tell her say u na get make u c her reaction.

gilmaro: Early this year. February to be precise, my girlfriend called of our three year old relationship for reasons she didn't disclose to me though i leta got the wind she was dating 1 rich politician. But surprisenly she sent me a love txt on val day which I didn't respond to cos i was still trying to recover from the unexpected hrt break. It took me till July before i started puting myself together because i truly loved this girl and was already making arrangements to marry her. On august 26th i met a cute working class girl in my friends birthday party, we exchanged number n started calling each other.
I visited her late last month, took her out n asked her to be my girlfriend. She inclined n we started dating. But the issue is that my x gal wants me back now, infact she's using both my friends n relatives i respect a lot to beg me. What should I do ? I truly loved her n I can't abandon my new girlfriend cos i can see she's commited to me. Should I disappoint my friends n relatives n carry on with my new gal ? Advice please.

I dont like it when people ask questions they already know the answer to. Infact! Let me reserve my comments cuz I'm already pissed

adonisyung: some guys do pretend like they aint moved by the affairs of their spouse!is it that the girls go more jealous than the guys or its just a pretence

Jealousy is inherent in human nature buh to tell the truth, gurlz are more jealous. Most gurlz grow jealous when they see their ex with some other gurls, especially when the gurl is more beautiful. Dont b surprise that even your sisterz can be jealous of u. I've noticed this many a time. Or do we talk about a gurl seeing u talking with her friend alone? There are endless possibilities...

baddiguy: Pot belly = Evidence of good living (by Nigerian standards, of course).
Six packs = The so-called sexy guy who works out a lot to stay fit (and attract women)

Both categories lick a lot of beer, devour isi-ewu like no man's business, and may or may not be rich/broke.
There is actually no real way to prove that men who have the belly of a 6-month pregnancy have more money than men who have relatively flat and sexy stomach, and vice-versa. But the issue here is about finding out which of the above will make a guy more attractive to our women.

Babes! Which of the two would you prefer?
Guys! Which of the two would you rather have?

@OP, u b funny dude. Anywayz, I detest pot-belly alot and I see young guyz with it as guyz that lack modern orientation. In other words, I see them as guyz wey no know whatsup. Lol. Well, me just dy manage my 6pack abs. I no fit shout.