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satechexpress:
Sorry for the break in transmission… kind of busy with web app dev work to meet up deadline…

So my naija wife follow me go abroad with the agreement she will be flyin in and out to take care of her govt work of around 110k per month in naija while I will stay in abroad and manage my work since na the place better money dey come from.

She will stay 6month abroad and one or two month in naija. But the problem I was having is using all my saving to pay for flight all the time because that time na covid time. And also all her stay in abroad with me it is always fight complain of woman in the flat that I am engaging with them in conversation too much… Last last I decided to cut off ladies conversation to please her.

But it gets to a point this my naija wife start again as usual with fight. God knos most time I will just be looking and she will not all me to go out of the room. Tore my cloth and start with alot of abusive word sayin my sister is prostitute also all sort of abusive word to all my family while she lock me up…. All because I did not follow her to mall outside to get veg. And I told her babe please I am busy I need to finish this client work on my laptop.

To cut the long story short this my naija wife na very hot temper person but I am tryin as much as possible to manage the situation.

During argument she also keep mentioning this filipino lady that I did not tell her the true later later one of my africa bro usually witness most of her argument because he has this loud voice. This bro step into the matter and persuade me to tell her the truth since the incident was b4 marriage. Na so I tell her o. Still argument and fight every week.

To be ctnd later…

Obavoh:
There is an evil lady in our street that my wife recently became friends with.

This lady is single and lives alone. She has many boyfriends that comes to visit her.

I have warned my wife severally to stop being friends with this lady but she has refused to listen.

Messi1:
I broke up with this lady two years ago and forgot about her.. Since then she has never crossed my mind as anything important.

Last two weeks i saw a message popped up my WhatsApp from a new number, i replied and we started chatting. She has sent me "I miss you" and "I still love you" several times.

This girl said she wants us to get back together and her pushing me to get back to her is frustrating me.

How do I avoid this lady without hurting her?

Virginprincesss:
You need a virgin like me

Lindajames1010:
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Hmmmmmm this is deep.

Although during the time I dated her sister, I enjoyed every bit of it. She love me genuinely and she doesn't bill me at all.

She's not the hungry type of girl.

udofia234:
Good morning my wise nairalander and once again I believe I can count on your advice....


work with a company, but as a hustler I have just few home lessons I do for selected people who can pay my bills.


This years July I got a home lesson through a trusted friend and believe me guy this people are paying me good money, what I get is more than half of what I earn in my work place, I go there only twice a week.


The parents of the said student I'm teaching are working with the govt, the dad is a colonel in Nigeria army and the mom works with inec, so this people are rich.


They have a son who am preparing for waec, neco and jamb, he is just 16years, I shouldn't be saying this here guys but I'm fed up, since I got this lesson I know how much I've made apart from my pay from the parents, this boy offered to pay pay me good cash to permit him go out to get his market(drugs) which I rejected, his parents are strict, they instructed me not to allow the boy go out of the house when ever I'm there , the dad specifically called me to monitor the boy and report any strange behavior..

On many occasions I've had few altercations with the boy, to my utter amazement this boy threatened to report me to his father that I stole his iPhone and his money, and nobody wants to end up in a military barracks.

This boy doesn't have that freedom to go out anytime I'm not there for lesson because the parents had also contacted a nanny to watch over them, so when ever I'm there for lesson the nanny is on off, so her off is 2wice per week. May be the nanny allows him too I don't know, but I have invested my time on this boy but he is so addicted!!! He was withdrawn from the hostel where he was schooling may be because of this bad character, I don't want to leave the job without helping the boy!!! The boy can go to any length to frame me before his parents.


Just last week I went there before my resumption time because I came back from office a bit early, so instead of going home direct I decided to drop, guys as I got into the house the door was not properly locked, I found the boy and the nanny smoking weed!!! My God!!!! I was perplexed!!! I knew something was fishing right from the time I saw the nanny attitude towards the boy!!! she claimed she was just helping the boy out of her love for him, cos I will never allow him buy that stuff when I'm there!!


The nanny have being pleading with me not to tell the boys father, that she only helped the boy purchase the stuff out of love and that she does not want to hurt the boys feeling, can u imagine that rubbish? my colleagues at work said if that attitude doesn't affect my huge pay I should just shut my eyes and continue my work, but my conscience will not allow me, some said I can be framed if I say anything. if I tell the dad is in two ways I must provide an evidence to make him believe me, secondly if I do, the son can frame me up before the father and that could spell doom for me!!!

There must be a way to help this young boy out of drugs!!!! Pls help I need your advice wise men in the house. There are still many I can't even be saying here guys.

Sasi54:
How come some ladies don't know even the so-called common things. Straight to the point, there is this lady that I met, she looks so great, nice shape, very respectful & very good in bed. But my issue with her is that she is lacking in so many things that every lady should know about. There was a time she came over to my place, & she told me that she will be staying with for three weeks. So inorder to be able to cater for our needs, I gave #30k for food stuff, this lady told me that the food stuff will get spoiled, that what she will b doing is that every day she will get stuff for us to be eating. I said let me see how she will be able to cook. Guess what? This lady bought bottle of groundnut with some bananas for we to eat for that day, for goodness sake, I am an African man, I can't condole such a life style. I said let me talk some sense into her, but I discovered that she doesn't like anything cooking. Her altitude is just to irritating to me. I want to let her go!

Lindajames1010:
She broke up with me few months ago.

Now the elder sister wants to bring us back together. each time she calls me to ask if I'm communicating with her sister, she always use that opportunity to bill me. Not once not twice always o.

Meanwhile my ex is working and she told me her elder brothers has money, so why can't they help this their particular sister that always beg me for money, even though she's married with kids although her husband isn't rich.

I want to cut them off totally because she recently beg me for money, I won't give her a dime this time.

All the big girl my ex has been forming, praising her family members I still can't believe her elder sister will stood so low and asked her younger sister's boyfriend for money......

Funny enough my ex has never asked me for money all through the time we dated.

LincolnOnyeabor:


Just as the Heading rightly Suggests, this evening on returning from the Market, I was Shellshocked!

I saw an Igbo Man selling Suya!

A real Igbo Man oo, selling Suya with his kid.

At first look, he looked like an Hausa man, but later when he spoke, He said He was an Igbo man! I couldn't believe it.

So I bought Suya #500 naira own, and watched him slice everything, put in that pepper, added onions and Cabbage and wrapped it for me.

He then told me to keep coming, as he wants to give the Hausa guys serious competition.

My Foundations have been literally shaken. Isn't it in the Constitution that certain jobs/roles are for certain people ni??

What's this one again na??

The Suya was really tasty and spicy by the way and it was well dried. He really knows his trade.

Ikennaford:
I'm not a rich guy, just Wanna help.... But the problem now is I don't know how to do this, I want this funds to get to people proposed for this, pls I want opinions on how to disburse these funds, the payments will be made through b. t. c thanks and God bless

Please if possible, let the mods contact me, they know how to sort, I just want it to get to the right people that needs it

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

ahnie:
Yesterday I visited the mall to get toiletries, snacks and beverages for my gangs
It was an impromptu buying. I was actually dodging from buying it, but my gangs just wouldn't let me.

We got all we wanted, ate and arrived home with our loots.

I was trying to fit all we bought inside the kitchen, when I heard the voice of a neighbor, like she stays 2 compound away from mine.

She's a widow who recently lost her husband to the cold hands of death this year (June) precisely and saddled with the lone responsibility of taking care of her 3 lil boys
She came to buy fufu (akpu) for her sons to eat.

I don't know what prompted me, I invited her inside my pavement, then slashed my loots into 3 places then gave her 1 part including a crate of egg idling away.

She started crying ,father lawd I was confused the more, you needed to see the joys in her face.

I knew my kids needed those things badly, but here was a woman who needed it more than us.

I have planned gifting her 2 paints of rice during Xmas period to put smiles on her face. May God make things easier for every one of us.

The economy is hard at the moment, but let's try and help one another. People are going thru alot, it takes the grace of God for some people to even afford 1 square meal.

Hers was pics 1.
Pics 3&4 for my gangs


Pics 2.....my boy refused sharing his and he held on to his loot

Whiteangel1234:
ESN Chief Of Defense Staff Lt Gen Chinasa Nworu have Announce the formation of special Unit of ESN called the Sniper Division

Video


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Holiness2100:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fAbw1Hmu2r8


https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-11389643/amp/Scientists-say-Earth-needs-prepare-alien-encounter-late.html

ObedOkoro:
What do you think about this weeding ?

Thesuun:
OMG! McDonald's customer got fined for visiting twice in 14 hours

https://trendytalker.com/omg-mcdonalds-customer-got-fined-for-visiting-twice-in-14-hours/

lhordspy:
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DamnnNiggarr:
pouch

creamylicious:
i can imagine how it feels but if you think i am not sincerely looking for lov e, let your intuitionkeep up with its investigative prowess

ifynwa002:
Am also wondering on these Same thoughts... been that I've actually been hurt at several occasions by positive guys that I met along the line... It's been 9 long and lonely years on this journey so far but the truth is that God almighty has been faithful...Am not embittered and I've actually achieved a lot with almighty on my side...well it made me so happy that i knew my status early in life

amy4you:
hi

omoharry:
HMMMM...

ethereal:
female

fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all!
I'm Fadila. I'm the fifth born in a family of four girls, two boys.
I want to know your thoughts/opinions about females that put on waist beads. What do you think of them? Do you have any thing against waist beads? I want to know because your opinions will help me in a way. I wear waist beads, but I usually try as much as possible to avoid people knowing I wear one. So, I do hide it all the time, because some people's opinions on it might not be what I would really like to hear. I usually feel bad when I hear some things people say about putting on waist beads because, those things are never the reasons why I wear them. There is a reason why I wear them, and it's never because of those things they say.

So, I would like to hear your opinions about it.
And if there's any one here (females) who wears them, you can give your reasons ( if you want to) why you wear them. So, those that say some things about it can maybe have a rethink and be more enlightened about this.

Thanks.
Sannun ku!

Below are pictures of mine;
What do you think of them?

Ilamina:
I read the European settlers brought in India and blacks slaves into the country when they arrived

That means black south Africans, were not originally from there

no wonder the white man in the sarafina movie told the black girl
How dare you cause commotion in my country
When the blacks were fighting against apartheid
I.was like wtf. .it's a black country. .how dare make that comment. .now I understand

So why did the blacks fight against segregation and ruled the country ever since
No white man has been president since apartheid

But I am sure, it can happen soon

That means xenophobic attacks against blacks is dumb

Not only black south Africans own the country

It's owned by indians and whites

Just like how blacks, natives and whites own America

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

rightdata:
With what is happening in Nigeria, you can clearly see why it was easy to enslave the black man. After 8 years of suffering, people still come out and support their oppressors because of tribalism and religion.

Black people are cowards.

phosky:
Tragedy as cleric, wife and their three children die in church fire

https://makesensepromotions.com/tragedy-as-cleric-wife-and-their-three-children-die-in-church-fire/

A couple and their three children tragically died in a fire that gutted the Methodist Church mission house in South Africa.

The incident occurred in Askeaton locality in Cala; in the Eastern Cape on Thursday night, November 3, 2022.

The deceased are, Reverend Mandisi Mpthiti (46), his wife Dunyiswa Mphiti (29), and their three children Khololwetu (5); Zimi (3) and Yololwetu (11 months).

Police spokesperson, Brigadier Tembinkosi Kinana, who confirmed the incident in a statement on Friday, said detectives are investigating the cause of the fire.

“Preliminary investigation revealed that a member of the community alerted the police to the burning house in which there were five people. As the police arrived, they indeed found the alleged house in the blaze with members of the family inside,” the statement read.

“The fire fighters who were also at the scene managed to extinguish the blaze but the family could not be saved as they had already died inside the house. Only one person believed to be a domestic worker aged 28 was rescued. She was rushed to a nearby hospital for medical care,”

“The deceased family members include a husband and wife age 29 and 46, together with three children one girl and two boys aged between 3 and 11.



“The circumstances surrounding the incident are currently under investigation. An Inquest docket has been registered

“Anyone with information regarding the cause of the fire, is requested to please make contact with Cala Police Station on 047 877 0132 or call Crime Stop on 08600 10111. Tip-offs can be submitted by using the My SAPS App.”

Meanwhile, the Eastern Cape Premier, Lubabalo Oscar Mabuyane has expressed his deepest sympathy to the family of Reverend Mphithi.

“We are saddened by this tragic news and send our heartfelt condolences to the Mphithi family and friends. It is a tragic loss not only for the family but the Methodist Church and the entire Cala community who have been receiving pastoral care and support from the reverend. We extend our condolences to them as well,” said Mabuyane.