Crazychris: I brought it here on nairaland last week about me and my girlfriend situation who got pregnant for me. However, the issue on ground now she has refused to abort and I have persuaded her but she refused, she said she's scared. This girl is my perfect taste, fvcking beautiful, nice ass and all that she's 18+ and I am very okay as a guy money couldn't be my problem. But my problem is her family I can't afford to raise a kid in that family. Her mom is fvcking careless and wayward doesn't care, her mom is greedy, she likes guys with rides approach her daughters. i met this girl when me and my guy went to buy alcoholic drinks from her mom shop, immediately I sighted her I got attracted to her because of her calmness and beauty. Her mom was so hospitable when we were there I never thought na eyes service she dey dey do so i got captivated by that love and I collected her daughter's number. First day her mom was asking me if I was the one that parked that car there I was like ahhh what's wrong, this woman is so materialistic, I come dey feel na mom convinced her to get pregnant for me. Though I love this girl she's so young and innocent and she loves me but my problem is her family and there's no how all the daughters won't take after their mom. Even one of her sisters has already taken after their mom as Yoruba adage says "Owu iya lōmō ngbòn". I just don't feel it's alright to raise kid in this shitty family.
Right now I'm thinking of inviting her over and force her to take pills but she has refused to visit me since cos she sense what I'm going to do.
Somebody advice me
lucky you! People don do that thing for 10-20 years no results.go and do the needfuls.carry ur wife far from them, educate and train her.happy family!!!
Geminita1: Men that do that are just dumb. I mean even if you were the most handsome I've ever seen, walking up to random women on the road for relationship is just a huge turn off. And shows how very dumb you are.
That's why I like white men. Those guys are so cultured. You will never see them running after a woman like a motto park tout "because they are too beautiful to resist" or "because they may never see her again"
Its a barbaric way of approaching women. There is something known as Circles. Join a circle of like minded people, those are places you meet people you can go into a relationship with. Anything by the road side is just for fling.
You approach me by the road and get my number through another means(cos I won't share my number with a dumbass), I'll block your ass straight up. You try to "apply pressure" I'm getting a police report. I dislike dull men.
Like, I don't even like guys staring at me on the road. Its irritating, nor to talk of walking up to me, yuck.
Samantha123: She's right.. we South African women don't really care about a man with big bucks because from a very young age we were taught to be independent and work for our money.
Only few of the women are after rich men.
So even if you're just a security guard or a garden boy, when we love you, we love you.
Widowscharity: There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of bread. I saw the world I had walked since my birth and I understood how fragile it was, that the reality was a thin layer of icing on a great dark birthday cake writhing with grubs and nightmares and hunger. automatically lead to an increase in the population until the natural state of starvation and misery is restored. In a universe of electrons and selfish genes, blind physical forces and genetic replication, some people are going to get hurt, other people are going to get lucky, and you won't find any rhyme or reason in it, nor any justice. The universe that we observe has precisely the properties we should expect if there is, at bottom, no design, no purpose, no evil, no good, nothing but pitiless indifference. Feel what it's like to truly starve, and I guarantee that you'll forever think twice before wasting food. I cannot survive this anymore on my own.
kyber: A girl just packed into my hostel Well she is a beauty I must say, we exchange pleasantries and got talking sometime.I asked her what she does and she said she’s a student of my school,I said okay.
Here is the thing she doesn’t stay at home at night and she comes back home the next day at 6pm in the evening only to leave an hour later. When I asked she said she goes to her aunt house to sleep and also eat free food,she made mention that she couldn’t sleep in the room all alone at night.I don’t know how true that is,but when coming in the evening her mode of dressing doesn’t signify that she is a student and she doesn’t come home with books or leave with any.
I asked her one day to borrow me her pen,she said for where,she doesn’t have any,a whole student o, She dresses recklessly .
So my Question is if she knows she won’t spend 12hours in her hostel or won’t sleep there at night but goes to her Anut place as she claims,why then did she rent the hostel?
Why doesn’t she carry books and pen to class and how does she attend lectures?
Please can any decipher the real a occupation of this girl or is she just wasting her sponsors funds?
Please I need answers
she be N.A.S (Non Academy Student)in the department of mass fornication.
Ebenman: I meant a lady 3 months ago. After we talked, she began to show interest in me, but she wasn't my standard, so I wasn't feeling the same way.
My standards are: 1. At least she must be a graduate 2. She should be self-sufficient (earning something reasonable) 3. At most 5-6 age difference between us 4. Looking calm and understandable 5. She must be an average-height lady
This lady, in particular, is an NCE holder, working as a teacher, earning little because of her level of education. She is just in her early 20s, and I am almost 8 yrs older than her. She is from a poor background and has 2 other younger siblings. She is also not tall and looks like an average girl.
She is very decent (a virgin) and loyal to me. I have told her severally that she is not my standard and I wasn't interested in her, but she refused to listen and began to feel very insecure. Maybe because I earn well and she knows I will soon get married.
She now comes to my house almost every weekend because I am very accommodating. Recently she has been telling me to delete the pictures of other females friends, in which I asked her on what grounds I should do that.
Note: I don't want to invest in a lady that is not my wife, and I am afraid her family will see me as a rich guy from which her other siblings can benefit if I proceed with her.
Should I block every contact with her, or should I forget about standards and risk and look at the good side?
Please advice
are u cripple? If no,go on ur kneels and ask God.rare flower blossom in the winter.(Mullen the cartoon)
Preciousgirl: What is wrong with men? Can't believe that my ex guy whom I broke up with years ago is asking me out again Knowing very well that I am married Should I tell my husband? Should I block him? Please how do I handle it?
I am never interested in him
tell u husband and block him.u fit call police too.
Jobbyteno: Alert! Warning! Graphic content! It was the image of an Ukrainian alleged militar cooking a human (allegedly Russian) head and showing the whole process.We are back 2000 years. I'm totally shocked.
Hollybratt: At my place of work as an hotel receptionist My boss called me and said:Do you know you are gay? Me:How? Boss:Don't you know you act like one of them? Me:Anhhhhh mmmmm Boss:But you guys are damn so beautiful Me: . Are you thinking what am thinking
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