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Oyindidi:
Why you dey fear to marry?

I dey see strong strong marital issues nowadays , e dey make me fear o

Not again , person come dey fear to marry na , una wey don marry just dey make person fear everyday .Shey I go marry like this sha ,chei
Anyway.....
Situations like this to be honest would be very hard to solve(she is unwilling to do anything about it) , this is why you should always make it clear the things you like and the things you dont like before marrrying your partner .

Your madam was very very very very wrong on all levels ,
1.She is not supposed to go to a single guys room and vice versa
2.She is not supposed to collect anything from him , You should be the one to go to him if your family needs his assistance.
3.The height of it is her inivting him to your house at night to watch match by 10pm !!!!, like what the ....

Now to your own part
-If she has not always being like this, then something is wrong , and its at the foundation
-How often do you and your wife do things together ?, because from the look of things , if you observe critically and psychologically , its not just about collecting things from him , and she also might not be cheating on you, the koko here is SHE ENJOYS HIS COMPANY.Thats why she finds it hard to stop .
-Is your wife your best friend ? , how do you correct her when she is wrong (by shouting or in a loving manner)
-How well do you tell her sweet words and comment on her beauty
-How well do you give her time just to listen to her
-I know its hard creating time for all these with work and everything but you have to try .
-Women love someone who makes them feel safe and alive, someone who listens to their fears and worries and anything they have to say -Be her friend !
-Have a heart to heart talk with her, tell her calmly why what she is doing is wrong .
-Never stop telling her you love her , even when you are angry with her
-Try and get her busy , so she would have less time to even think he exists
-Bring back respect into your home , not just her respecting you , but you also respecting her .She has obviously lost respect for you
-Above all while you take actions talk to God about everything .

Act fast , because that guy na sharp guy, he knows where you are lacking and he is capitalizing on it , thats the advantage side chicks and side guys always have over the main partner "filling the empty spaces"

No matter what you do ,use wisdom and be calm and loving about it
God bless your marriage


MODIFIED : Women please stop assuming your husband would automatically know what you are thinking or feeling , talk to him if you feel he is not doing something right , not all men are mind readers biko, sometimes he honestly has no clue what you need until you open up,same goes for men too

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All these "adults" nowadays sef, if you can't answer the question , ignore na
OP its a good thing to always go through your car manual and also ask a qualified mechanic , I hope you get an answer

Pardon me for saying this ,you said you went to domino and saw her heavy .I may be wrong, but do they allow 8 months pregnant women work for them ?.Make una no vex o,I am not trying to step on anyone's toes,I am just asking for clarification.



As for solutions >
This is not a time for blames ,she don get bele already. From the story ,the boys mum has taken her in .
You can assist her,with baby stuff,you said you gave birth and she came to assist, technically your baby is 6 months if not more by now,assuming she had not taken in when she came assisting. You can give her your baby stuff you don't use anymore and support her most importantly through the delivery stage ,that's the most important now .She must not loose those pikins oo.Children are beautiful ,and they bring joy,why are people heartless (the guy).


She should just forget about him ,because if he could abandon her now in this state, he would do worse when she is not pregnant. Please she should not make mistake of marrying him,she has made enough mistakes already .


The focus now should be on her safety and safe delivery of the babies.Then concerning the next phase,solution would surely come

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yarimo:
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Codyt:
No be today..... Lol nigga been looking like a gay from birth

Just leave it there for some time, someone might come for it

MhizzAJ:
Of course i agree...You don't need to do the needful

It was a joke na

MhizzAJ:
God knows i can't get married to any man that doesn't know how to cook and do some basic chores

God knows I cant marry a woman who doesnt make a contribution to the general welfare of the family , if you agree let me come to your village tommorow and do the needful

Na wa o

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No, I'm not one.

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