₦airaland Forum

joseph1832:
now this is the essence of marriage. People like you believe there's such a thing like perfect marriage, when infact, there isn't. This is were you miss it all.

That is the difference between you lot and Oyinbo..
Pretence..
You will rather die in a bad marriage,than have the guts to walk away and live..

pocohantas:
The man didn't act Christ-like a bit and if I didn't watch the video, I would have doubted such happened. It goes to show the level of classism that has infiltrated the church.

While it is shameful a graduate doesn't speak well or know the degree awarded to her, she already stated her foundation was poor. You learn grammar/languages easily in your formative years. Subsequently it becomes a struggle. Hence the saying "catch them young". He should have simply told her the correct term and if you watched the video, before the microphone was put to her mouth, she said LLB. Maybe stage fright, she switched to the popular BSc and went back to LLB when he mentioned it.

I bet she had the longest walk of her life back to her seat. Maybe a pastor in a neighbourhood church wouldn't have noticed if she said B.Ed. Sadly she went to a big church where the head pastor dresses like a medieval magician.

Succinct.👌🏽

joseph1832:
compare the number of baby mamas and broken marriages to the number of successful ones.

Beside, the baby mamas and baby daddy's along with those with broken marriages, how are they treated.

Number of successful ones?
You meant the suffering and smiling lot of co-habiters, tolerating each other?
Ogbeni,the only thing holding many marriages in Nigeria are children and what people will say.

Beverlyjean:
Man is allowing devil to have a field day... destruction of marriage has always and still is the devil's number 1 priority

The Devil has no business with your broken marriages..
Waiting for the day you lot would start taking responsibility for your actions..

joseph1832:
no wonder you believe marriage is losing its relevance. Go to your village and see if your opinion won't be ridiculed...

Go to the villages?
The same villages that has broken marriages and baby mamas strewn everywhere?

integrity16:
It is only loosing relevance in the west. Stop generalizing.

It's losing relevance everywhere..
You must not have been aware of your environment..

Biglittlelois:
So your one colleague's marital issue is the basis to conclude that in all marriages, women are making men suffer in silence?

So many kids here......

Where exactly did he say that women are making men suffer in all marriages?

Chief661:
I disagree

Na your right to disagree..
Doesn't change the truth before our eyes..

ThatFairGuy1:
Oga you're also a hypocrite.

You would have called him a terrorist, attack his religion and sacred people IF HE WERE TO BE A MUSLIM.

Hypocrisy kee u all

If he were to be a Muslim he would have been shouting Allah Akkbar.😂

ALFADOS:
Is America west oga geographer, any white hippocrates is termed as west

America is West..
Which unfortunate school did you pass through?

mu2sa2:
See the hypocrisy: They don't believe it is an act of terror. Why? Yes of course the suspect is a christian man. They wont call him christian terrorist. If the suspect were to bear a muslim name they would have filled the air waves with name calling. Hallelujah! Allah is Great!

Did you see him shouting Jehovah is the greatest?
Ogbeni rest,you lot cannot exonerate what your Terrorists do in the name of All.ah.

Julibet:
What's all these? Couldn't the hotel cordone off the premises and at least drain the pool till it's fixed?

What kind of country is this for crying out loud? Citizens don't even have rapid response to emergencies.

And no arrest would be made, no fines imposed, nothing nothing...

The average Nigerian life is truly worth nothing to the government.

Did anyone push him into the pool?
You can't swim ,you dey wear trunk dive into water..

OneCandleAway:
We have a problem and if you complain some people will start saying we worship whites

We need to sit and discuss why we blacks when there's a congregation of pure blacks can't produce a functioning society.

How do you expect low IQ Cre.tins to produce a functioning society?

StOla:
Not rape, murderer of his wife.

He will face judgement of God, having likely escaped judgement of man.

And you were the acomplice when he murdered her?
Na hellfire for you both..👎🏽

YorubaNOlevel:
They called him a rapist then

Oj Simpsons 😂😂

Rip

And what's so funny?

Righteousness2:
GOD ALMIGHTY First born , Signet on Earth and Covenant Nation has spoken.
ISRAEL will wipe out Hamxs Terrorist from the Face of the Earth.
They that Have Ears to Hear, Let them Hear.

Just in case you are confused about ISRAEL or you dont Understand what or Who ISRAEL really is.
Come with me to Genesis 32:24-28

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When you see nations and People angry and blabbing and ganging up against the Nation of ISRAEL and, this are the reasons.
They cant understand, describe nor Explain the Strength of a little nation that the world cannot do without.

You Hate them or you Love , they are GOD'S Signet on the Earth. Dwelling in their Land Given to them by GOD. No Force on Earth can do anything about it.

It is not their fault. If you angry with ISRAEL, go and Fight your CREATOR.
If you angry with ISRAEL, go and Fight GOD.

They can't understand their strength?
Remove American and Western support,let us check something..

IceLip:
... because say God gift u wit body way no dea smell always no means say make u cast .. people like u get one lil-disease way u dea hide from others


...I believe time will tell and she will treat herself

Moreover, As long as e man dea lick plate when she cook, no p

Ogbeni,maintain your personal hygiene,that is the least you can do..
Baff and wash your clothes,use deodorants and most body odour would be kept at bay.

shortgun:
You are a compound fool who was raised in a broken home where etiquette was never taught.
Our late friend will be given a befitting wake keep the way we deem fit, the way he would have loved it to be. You dumbos can go n die. Nobody loved our late friend more than we do.
Idiots

So,why come here to seek validation?
You should have just proceed with your plans and spare us the hullabaloo..

trespas:
My condolences, guys in the northern part of Nigeria they do not celebrate death it is a solemn affairs calling for reflection n reminder to all that its a garment all must wear. So to d family it's strange what ur team is proposing

Even in the South,nobody celebrates the tragic demise of a young man..

Lance008:
Dem tell u say na for their family house
The guy is from north west but reside in Abuja
Una can behave lik say Na Una lik person pass and deep inside Na Una wicked pass
So he friends no fit organized party as a remembrance for field ?

They want to organise it in his residence and the family is against it..
Are you saying that they don't have the right to object against such?
A young man died in a very traumatic and tragic circumstance, respect the family's wish, it's that simple..

blacknp:
Chioma Okoli attacked Eric Umeofia, they will soon gather to accuse Yorubas of hate, and jealousy.

Erisco’s head office is in Oregun, Lagos State, not in Nnewi Anambra State.

Shut up,you dumb fvc.k.

Lance008:
U too funny to be honest
U know ur enemy
Ur first enemy Dey among ur family members
See bro even the family no be saint
So I can't organize a party for a late frd

You can organise a party for your friend,IN YOUR HOUSE..
And no one is stopping you..
And if that friend's death really means anything to you,you would have understood AND respect where the family is coming from..

MrBrownJay1:
the female version of a PEDO... and she should get the Romeo and Juliet law (aka automatic considered statutory rape if the other person is under 17yrs old). sadly, she probably wont get any jail sentence (like a man her age would if he had sex with a 14yr old teenager)

There's nothing like a female version of a Paedo..
All Paedo na Paedo.

Lance008:
You Dey crase

Everything Na memories
Celebrate ur frd hw u like

Friends indeed..
With friends like them,who needs enemies?

BornToSucced:
This month is my one year wedding anniversary, and I feel i should share my experience thus far, especially for the benefits of other young guys who are eager to follow my path.

The summary of my advice is: what you get out of your marriage revolves around the kind of spouse you end up with. As they say, garbage in, garbage out.

In my case, I have no regret thus far. Sex is great: I sleep better and eat healthy now. No unnecessary spending of money on Lagos broke-ass slay queens. Overall, the benefits far outweigh the demerits.

However, to enjoy the listed benefits above, I have dedicated and sacrificed my time, and intentionally made every effort to ensure my marriage is not a living hell.

As a retired fuc*k boy, I can tell you for free, sleeping with countless women is a highway to the grave. There is nothing to gain in it, not even a trophy. I have been there, done 3sum, and done crazy stuff just for fun. As certificate of achievement, I bagged a Baby Mama

But nothing can be compared to the peace, love, and joy I now enjoy, through Christ who brought me out of darkness

One year old marriage and you think you are some Sage?
Ogbeni,you are still in Honeymoon..

Ate247:
All what he wrote there seems like someone with a selfish mentality. You get what you give.

You get what you give?
Whoever came up with this fallacy should be sent to the gallows..
You can give 101% and still get cra.p!
Life is not some fairytale!!

FreeStuffsNG:
I believe that you are still confusing it with your village.
Does it look to you that it is cowries they are spraying at this kind of parties: Lagos High Society Weddings Of The 1920s

https://www.nairaland.com/7791204/lagos-high-society-weddings-1920s

This is over a century ago o. This is why some of you are at odds when some Yoruba tell you that they are not from villages because their ancestral homelands have been a city for over a century.

Over a century ago does not determine Yoruba culture,Ni.gga..
Paper money and all it's antecedents,is a Western invention and you can't claim a culture of it..

FreeStuffsNG:
Smh. This is not a healthy way for you to learn and acquire knowledge.

Here's a report on Yoruba weddings in Lagos as far back as over a century ago: Lagos High Society Weddings Of The 1920s

https://www.nairaland.com/7791204/lagos-high-society-weddings-1920s

This was a time some people in present day South East, according to authoritative books written by foreigners and some of our Nationalists of Igbo extraction, were still walking unclad and not exposed to having societal parties where Yoruba spray money.

You can get a copy of this book and read. We appreciate our history when we learn about how our forebears lived.

Reno is right, spraying of money at social and private events is part of Yorubaland culture till date. Others learnt it from the Yoruba and it's not a bad thing in my opinion because it is a way to appreciate the celebrant but it's now to be done in a manner that you don't mishandle the naira. Even the EFCC lawyer who prosecuted Bobrisky, a Yoruba, and the Judge who convicted him are Yoruba!

Shut the fur. CK up.
Which money were you spraying in your traditional Yoruba gatherings, Cowries?
Answer and stop beating about the bush..

Taiwojon:
They told you rapture will take place in April and you believe

No one not even the angel know when rapture will take place.
It Is for God to decide not man to decide.

And why you perform poorly for jamb
Don't use rapture as an excuse bro

All of Una that believes in some random fantasy, are birds of a feather..
Rapture ko, capture ni.

NECO1998:
Go and sit down. You don't even the bible and its teachings.

Look at this Clown..
Using the Bible to prove the Bible..
Delusional Meatheads..🤡🤡

PandoraObi:
Keep telling people what you tell your mother on the pages of nairaland

You dey find engagement, Oponu..
I done bless your useless life this morning..
Now run along ,Clown..😂😂

djkirkoo2:
Wey my grandmother lived for 113 years before she died.

Where is the record?
All we do in this country is apportion age to the old,no verifiable records.