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GrammarNazi1:
You're talking to a man who has been married for at least 5 years.

How long have you been married?

So you mean to tell me, a man who has been married to a woman for 5 years still has such a view upon women??

Clearly you don't see the indictment upon your wife, your opinion on women hold.

I mean, look at the opinions of ibime and gloriousG, that's how you know men who are in a wonderful marriage.

Not immature, underaged alpha male nonsense by guys who clearly don't understand what it means to be with a woman.

iamoyindamola:
Her phone is even boring to me, sometimes she initiate phone exchange for some minutes i always reject the offer
Not like i have anything to hide but i don't feel comfortable with it
Na from clap dance they start the next will be hours, days then we start sharing sim card

Isn't this what an ideal union is supposed to be?
Two bodies with one mind??

I set my standards for a relationship quite high. Especially if I am genuinely commited to it.
A marriage should ideally mean that your partner is your best friend, your strongest ally. The one person can that predict you completely. Every sex is an absolute communication of love.

The minute you have boundaries here and there within your marriage, cracks begin to form.

DissTroy:
Related issue: November, 2021 :

Disstroy, what is your opinion on men who cheat on their spouses? And what do we say to men who cheat on their women, is it to be encouraged or dissuaded?

BlaqFaze:
I can't think of a valid reason why females are scared of DNA test

I don't see anyone here "scared" of a DNA test.
We're highlighting the mindset before it.

For you to want to test the DNA of your wife's baby means that trust is completely gone from that marriage and you have no business being in that marriage or union.

GrammarNazi1:
The rot is so deep that for a man to be married for long, he may have to be a simp.

There's no changing these bitc**s and it is pathetic, really.

You have to be a teenage virgin, that's the only way, this writeup makes sense.
The writer has definitely not been with a woman.

Ballzproblem2:
niggas have been compromising their standards for years that's why y'all lame.


First they tell you marrying a virgin is not a must ,now they want sell you the idea of having blind trust for women.

You see what's happening? they're selling you the idea of settling for less ,make una dey play beta males

The issue is this, you that is looking for virgins to marry, are you a virgin yourself??

Because the idea that men would expect to have as much sex as they like with different women before marriage and then somehow turn around to look for virgins to get married to is insane. They hypocrisy of that stance is mind boggling.

A woman can only be expected to be a virgin before marriage IF the man himself is a virgin. That's equitable and fair, isn't it?

The most brutal video you will ever lay eyes on.
I'm sure it will definitely be banned soon.

https://reddit.com/r/MostShocking/s/U3uPO566Et

Viewer discretion strongly adviced.

VERY STRONGLY ADVICED.

But wait oo, with all these news about business failings in Nigeria, doesn't mean there isn't a middle scale business that can prosper in Nigeria??

If farming, transportation, property development is a problem, then what exactly can one venture into that will prosper in the country.

There has to be some niches that create some services that assure prosperity to the investors and owners.

For a long time, it used to be hotels in the east, because Easterners have far more indigenes than properties in the state and the aftermath of the war meant property shortage soo hotels were well stocked at various economic seasons. But large scale insecurity in the region now has hampered that prospect.

Is there something like that that can be replicated or invested in?

seankafor:
bro, when buying stuffs online, make sure to buy from official stores

For over 3 -4 years now of using jumia and konga, I've never had any issues..

The laptop 💻 I bought on jumia last 2 years which was defective, I returned within their 7 days return period and I was fully refunded

The problem with this is that usually 7 days is not enough to fully access the new product.

Not to talk of when they actually start counting the day it has received by you, meanwhile it's still in their warehouse and the driver actually hasn't delivered it to you yet.
I have friend who is into drop shipping that saw hell with delivery of these companies.

Itsrm:
Well, na their opinion. I don't agree with it. I have absolute trust in my wife. It will remain that way until she gives me reasons to have doubts.

Very wonderful opinion right here..💯

nihilistjnr:

Let me note that you have started today again.
Just a note.

DissTroy:
This back-and-forth is about heterosexual relationships. I don't know how you fit in here, Smollett.

Is this supposed to be a petty dig rather than an informative exchange that informs our world views on a general issue?

DissTroy:
Here's a simple test:

Can your partner confidently leave her phone with you all day?

Most men, married or in committed relationships, can't answer this simple question. Heck! Many can't even unlock "their" women's gadgets. That's a pointer to the faux safety blanket and trust they supposedly have for their women.

A woman is wired to continually prove her loyalty and continue to earn it, and that keeps her in line.

Simple question here;

What about the man??
Can a man confidently leave his phone unlocked with his woman?

We always seem to think here that relationship and trust is one sided thing and not a two way street.

Is fidelity in relationships expected to be the standard for women but not for men?
This particular point always boggles my mind.

Good luck finding a modern woman who would subscribe to these archaic traditional values. It's either you're setting yourself up for future disappointment or you're ending up with a naively ignorant and most likely undereducated partner.

DissTroy:
His questions and stance are valid.
Your trust means nothing to a woman. Once she's aware your guards are completely down is when she feels more daring to try certain antics on you.
And one way a woman gets your guard down is by open or seeming display of spirituality. That woman who posts Jesus everyday on WhatsApp and Facebook is more likely to play you than the other women who don't because she knows you've been blindsided by her wiles.

A woman can swear on her womb and everything sacred in the universe and still be lying. That most men haven't come to terms with this reality is why women continue to get away with playing men for fóols.

This is quite literally a shallow way of thinking.
Once someone starts an opinion with random generalizations like this, know that that person is actually not well Informed on the issue.

50 percent of the world's population is female, if you think that they all act and think alike, then you're surely mistaken.

I want to think you've had different girlfriends over the span of your adulthood.
Are all the same to you? If they are, then the problem might likely be you. (No offense intended).

Some women are kind and caring and loving and empathetic and usually expect the same.
While Some women are opportunistic gold diggers who see their vagina as a financial instrument and usually might have bad personalities.
Likewise some men too. Some are ibime's of the world. Intelligent, measured and responsible.
Some are Darlingtons, criminally minded, misogynistic and shallow minded.
And some are geenstay. Flat out cray cray.

It's left for you to know how you attract the best. By your own personality and habits.

BlueRayDick:
Some of us that started bashing him recently are doing so because we observed it's difficult to have a decent conversation with Teejay without him turning round to hurl insult at u. He just seem to be incapable of having a civil discussion without calling u names once u don't buy the otem nonsense gospel.

I personally usually let his unprovoked insults slide for a long time until I didn't.

If he wants others to be humans then he must also try to be human and understand people can have divergent views on the same subject matter.....Insulting the person discussing with u does not in any way portray u as more knowledgeable

Well said. Geenstay can't point to a single person on this board that he has ever had a meaningful conversation with.

Every single person on this board is "perceived to be his enemy". Any body who dares engages his point automatically becomes mentally inferior.
I don't know if its a defensive mechanism or personality issue.

seankafor:
Na mostly online I dey buy my things now.. it'd quite cheaper on the likes of jumia and konga compared to offline 📴 stores 🏬

Big big difference

I've actually found the opposite to be true. Whereby things were cheaper in physical stores than online stores. I'm talking 10k differences for TV, home theater and phone.

I checked the jumia stores for the prices then I went to an electronics market and found it much cheaper.

It seems online stores do inflate their prices significantly.

Ibime:
When you observe say water done pass garri, mockery no dey sweet for mouth again.

Make una allow TeeJay rest. Who done code done code.

But the guy no wan let us rest.

Every day one rubbish after the other, which frankly absolutely no one is interested in seeing as he the person who's disturbing and polluting the place with his noise refuses to engage like a human person once engaged.
All his posts is designed to infuriate. Every single one of them.

What then or how then do you suggest we solve the teejays problem. Because the spamming is excessive and disruptive from him.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Dude should be looking @ investment in Africa.

Our economic environment makes it extremely difficult for any start-up to genuinely take off.
Lack of power generation is truly a real hindrance to any business. Especially the tech startups.

Ibime:
Search Nairaland for "Roland17 Otem" and make an interesting observation
.
Egbons emotional IQ has always been very high. When you observe say water done pass garri, mockery no dey sweet for mouth again.

Make una allow TeeJay rest. Who done code done code.

The search didn't bring up any useful result, can you point to what you were trying to say?

What Elon musk owns.

How many paragraphs was that? Who would actually read it all?

Propaganda news up and down from Russian-brainwashed fools.

Incognito9:
Is tinubu transgender?

Don j verify for us

https://www.nairaland.com/7853459/us-release-only-certificate-atiku

This whole debacle is a big insult to all of us nigerians.
Imagine the citizens of their country not knowing the basic information about their president.

Don't know his father and mother, don't know his exact area of origin, don't know his primary and secondary school.
NOTHING!!

it's a big show of shame upon this country. This can only happen because you have educated willing enablers who are ready to go all out and defend the nonsense simply because of tribalism. It's really sad and pitiful.

Amigoss:
Hahahaha @donjazzet,what do you have to say...

A rapist in the UK who changed gender and transitioned from male to female before appearing in court has been found guilty of raping two women. Isla Bryson, formerly Adam Graham, will now serve time in an all female prison.

People are terrible, people are good. Their sexuality doesn't determine their morality. That it is a transgender who did this doesn't matter because straight gender normative people also do bad things like this.

Karma in action.
Lady justice doing her thing

A001:
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/science-environment-66893661

I read this news report yesterday and laughed. Only the wise know how the outcome of this sort of research and analysis would impact science in the coming years.

They'd do all sorts of various analysis and research and still come to the same conclusions that Kogi guy, Otem, already explained in his works even without having a single spacecraft to do the kind of explorations NASA scientists engage in.

A scientist doesn't engage in such folly. One learns some kind of physics for self-defense when the situation warrants it.

Please read what you've just typed @ the bolded and tell me if you genuinely believe that a science inclined person would think like this.

User09:
Spent an hour plus reading the entire spat against my better judgement. Some of the signs were palpable and I did call it out a few times.

Anyway, not a very sightly thing when things go so low to this extent. You guys really need to do better particularly donj and for obvious reasons

I am very desperate to know how you went through this spat and determined that I was the principal cause of this for you to single me out.
I desperately want to know at what point you believe I did something that led to this. Don't run o.

Interesting argument on Twitter about this pics.
A poll was held as to who was doing the giving or receiving of the spaghetti and it was roughly 50-50.
Meaning people were seeing it from their own perspectives. For me I'm thinking it's the person on the right giving the spaghetti a d receiving the laptop.

Ibime what's your current analysis on the state of affairs regarding the Ukraine war and Russia's economy.

Do you think Ukraine is doing very well? Any hope for them? What about Russia's economy, what's your prediction on its future?

Segun2222:
usa casualties against Vietnam 50k+ duration 20yrs the the usa lost the war according to you, Russia casualties against Ukraine over 200k+ under 2yrs but Russia is winning this war according to you while usa lost in Vietnam because they couldn't achieve their political aim, who is schizophrenic between me and family members, seems you need to come from a lineage of unfortunate people to be this daft, mumu tell us how many battles or ground the usa lost in Vietnam like kyiv, izyum, kherson etc

These guys are brainwashed fools. I've always seen no reason to engage them individually.

It's a monumental waste of time.

The long necked people of Myanmar in present day.

Theflint1:
Going as far as stealing someone's identity isn't enough proof of your being a liar? Abi it's when you you'd make statements and when it's pointed out you'd say you were just hyperboling?

You cannot say with conviction that I've stolen anyone's identity seeing as if I ask you to prove that, you simply can't. You can only but make inferences but not be definitive. So I don't see how that qualifies.

Secondly, the statement you made was before all these soo infers that for a long time, I have been caught lieing on multiple occasions, where has that happened?