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Sublime beauty!!!

Flavour has however successfully shrouded his relationship status in mystery since he became a star, so much so that he neither acknowledged nor denied rumours he recently fathered a child with Sandra Okagbue. Photo: Instagram

Flavour is surely one of the most eligible bachelors in the Nigerian music Industry.

The award-winning singer has however successfully shrouded his relationship status in mystery since he became a star, so much so that he has neither acknowledged nor denied rumours that he recently fathered a child with super model, Sandra Okagbue.

However, Flavour’s relationship status seems to have just been confirmed by the woman in his life.

In the last couple of weeks, Flavour has repeatedly shared pictures of himself and another super model, Anna Banner Ebiere (MBGN 2013 winner), and Anna does the same via social media.

A few hours ago, Anna took to her Instagram page to share another picture of herself with Flavour with the caption: ‘When you have someone that encourages you, supports you, scolds you, appreciates you, respects you, advices you, reminds you of what the future holds, plays with you, cares about you, loves you, makes you smile, tells you the truth without looking back, and most importantly draws you closer to God. Please tell me what else you want. Because I have all I need. You make me happy, your are more than awesome. … I pray that God continues to bless you.@2niteflavour.’

http://thenet.ng/2014/10/anna-banner-confirms-relationship-with-flavour/?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook

At least two students from Nigeria who applied to a Texas college were told they wouldn't be admitted because of Ebola.
Kamorudeen Abidogun, a Texas man originally from Nigeria, said he received two letters from Navarro College, a two-year community college with a campus about 58 miles from Dallas. Abidogun has five relatives in Nigeria who were applying to the school and who were using his home in Richmond, Texas, as a U.S. mailing address, he told CNBC.
The college rejected the applications, citing confirmed Ebola cases in the country as the reason for the admissions decision.

CNBC
The letter begins: "With sincere regret, I must report that Navarro College is not able to offer you acceptance for the Spring 2015 term. Unfortunately, Navarro College is not accepting international students from countries with confirmed Ebola cases."

Idris Bello, a Nigerian who lives in East Texas, tweeted a photo of the letter to bring attention to the situation. Bello, in an interview with CNBC, called the college's purported policy "embarrassing."
In his tweet, Bello noted the irony of the school having such a policy for foreign students, when 26-year-old nurse Nina Pham, in nearby Dallas, recently contracted the disease after treating a Liberian man, Thomas Eric Duncan.

After repeated requests for comments on the situation, Navarro's vice president for Access and Accountability, Dewayne Gragg, sent an email to CNBC.com.
"Our college values its diverse population of international students. This fall we have almost 100 students from Africa. Unfortunately, some students received incorrect information regarding their applications to the institution," Gragg wrote.
"As part of our new honors program, the college restructured the international department to include focused recruitment from certain countries each year. Our focus for 2014-15 is on China and Indonesia. Other countries will be identified and recruitment efforts put in place once we launch our new honors program fall 2015. We apologize for any misinformation that may have been shared with students. Additional information regarding our progress with this new initiative will be posted on our website," he continued.
When asked for further clarification, and to answer whether in fact there is or had been a policy to reject students based on the presence of Ebola in their countries, Gragg said in an email, "The prior email speaks for the college."
There have been no new reported cases of Ebola in Nigeria since Sept. 8. Out of 20 people reported infected as a result of a Liberian man traveling there with the virus, eight died. But the virus was contained in the port city of Lagos.

Abidogun said his five relatives who have applied to Navarro College all live in the city of Ibadan, in Oyo State, Nigeria, which is about 80 miles from Lagos.
Navarro College talks about the Ebola virus on the section of its website devoted to admissions information for international students, but it does not mention any policy to not admit people from countries with cases of Ebola.

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gustavo440:
did you apply or you work in the board. do you know the exact salary figures

Nah, Am an Engr.... I don't really indicate interest for such openings/positions.

Well, A dear friend of mine applied and am certain she will be taken. "That I know"...

From a reliable source, the salary is between 35 - 40k..... My source works in one of the banks anyways. All the best bro....

Anazo:
Goodmorning please anyone in d house. Have u received any message after d edo state teachers interview concerning maybe getting appointment letter or being posted to any school.

They are through will compilation of names and they have sent it to the board.... Awaiting approval.

Now, How much do you think you guys will be paid? As in salary?...... Am sure its between 30 - 40k.

Funjosh:
She is just lucky and Ebola kind of Pity her.

You are funny.

It can be exhausting nursing a child through a nasty bout with the flu, so imagine how 22-year-old Fatu Kekula felt nursing her entire family through Ebola.

Her father. Her mother. Her sister. Her cousin. Fatu took care of them all, single-handedly feeding them, cleaning them and giving them medications.

And she did so with remarkable success. Three out of her four patients survived. That's a 25% death rate -- considerably better than the estimated Ebola death rate of 70%.


Fatu stayed healthy, which is noteworthy considering that more than 300 health care workers have become infected with Ebola, and she didn't even have personal protection equipment -- those white space suits and goggles used in Ebola treatment units.

Instead Fatu, who's in her final year of nursing school, invented her own equipment. International aid workers heard about Fatu's "trash bag method" and are now teaching it to other West Africans who can't get into hospitals and don't have protective gear of their own.

Every day, several times a day for about two weeks, Fatu put trash bags over her socks and tied them in a knot over her calves. Then she put on a pair of rubber boots and then another set of trash bags over the boots.

She wrapped her hair in a pair of stockings and over that a trash bag. Next she donned a raincoat and four pairs of gloves on each hand, followed by a mask.

It was an arduous and time-consuming process, but Fatu was religious about it, never cutting corners.

UNICEF Spokeswoman Sarah Crowe said Fatu is amazing.

"Essentially this is a tale of how communities are doing things for themselves," Crowe said. "Our approach is to listen and work with communities and help them do the best they can with what they have."

She emphasized, of course, that it would be better for patients to be in real hospitals with doctors and nurses in protective gear -- it's just that those things aren't available to many West Africans.

No one knows that better than Fatu.

Her Ebola nightmare started Juy 27, when her father, Moses, had a spike in blood pressure. She took him to a hospital in their home city of Kakata.

A bed was free because a patient had just passed away. What no one realized at the time was that the patient had died of Ebola.

One woman walked in, and the Ebola nightmare began

Moses, 52, developed a fever, vomiting and diarrhea. Then the hospital closed down because nurses started dying of Ebola.

Fatu took her father to Monrovia, the capital city, about a 90-minute drive via difficult roads. Three hospitals turned him away because they were full.

She took him back to another hospital in Kakata. They said he had typhoid fever and did little for him, so Fatu took him home, where he infected three other family members: Fatu's mother, Victoria, 57; Fatu's sister, Vivian, 28, and their 14-year-old cousin who was living with them, Alfred Winnie.

While operating her one-woman Ebola hospital for two weeks, Fatu consulted with their family doctor, who would talk to her on the phone, but wouldn't come to the house. She gave them medicines she obtained from the local clinic and fluids through intravenous lines that she started.

At times, her patients' blood pressure plummeted so low she feared they would die.

"I cried many times," she said. "I said 'God, you want to tell me I'm going to lose my entire family?' "

But her father, mother, and sister rallied and were well on their way to recovery when space became available at JFK Medical Center on August 17. Alfred never recovered, though, and passed away at the hospital the next day.

"I'm very, very proud," her father said. "She saved my life through the almighty God."

Now he's working to find a scholarship for Fatu so she can finish her final year of nursing school. He has no doubt his daughter will go on to save many more people during her life.

"I'm sure she'll be a great giant of Liberia," he said.

http://cnn.it/1BWXM4x

luvluvluv:
The above line's wat struck my mind after I returned to my lonely apartment once again yesternyt....

After a seemingly brk up some yrs back dat later turned out to have ravaged my quest for a new relatnship, now like neva b4, I feel a gr8 sense of loneliness...

A brief intro..
My lyf in d university days was very rosy, talkin about affairs with with 'em even though one could hardly survive d never endin hunger..hehe. I was liked by so many. 28yrs,Not handsome, 5.10ft tall (na small I jus raise head ), very dark(like papa suwe).
But ultimately, I was liked o. How I did it, I don't know.

It's 3yrs now since d brk up (a story I will probably share some day) or sell as a movie script..lol. Recently I was transfered from lag to benin as requested. Well, needless to echo dat am doing well by God's grace. I rented an apartment in GRA and now am living life to its fullest. But I jus can't make a lady say "yes"

But I should have a gal! Am always at my best, gat d cash, don't want to play but jus a serious gal is enof. Or have I been approachin d wrong ones? I luv pretty and advanced ladies(not a major criteria though) even though am not very handsome..

I guess I need some help as to d best approach to apply. I decided to post dis here for all u matured minds. PLS HELP!!

Until you get comfortable with being alone to create your inner self. you will never know if your choosing someone out of love or loneliness

Be that as it may, what you need at this point in time is DIVINE GUIDANCE. Divine guidance is an invaluable resource. Without it, you are like a sailor at sea unable to find his way because he has no compass.

5minsmadness:
Choi. So my mata don reach nairaland

Who this be like?

EfemenaXY:
Have I judged you yet?

Re: the bolded, your words, not mine.

Its Ok.

Moving forward, The guy in question is a very good friend of mine.

pickabeau1:
Let the guy free the girl

Bro, its not that easy. He is really into her. They have invested in each other so as to achieve upward mobility in their relationship and they have spent time together with a focus on building a good relationship.

The main issue started when he informed her of his desire to travel abroad to further his studies.

Well, He left for UK Three weeks ago to commence his Masters Program @ the University in UK.

Now, The girl is putting the guy under duress.

EfemenaXY:
I fail to see why details of a very private conversation should be made public in the first place. That says a lot about the characters of @OP and his "friend".

Don't be caught up with the fallacy of making hasty conclusions. It has nothing to do with my character, not at all. Don't judge me because you don't know me.

Do you think am insane for pasting this dilemma down here? This isn't a JOKE!!!

If you can't contribute meaningfully and hence add value, Then just pass and let others have their say without being judgmental.

pickabeau1:
Replace their Names

Thanks. They aren't on this forum and besides, anyone could be Ohis and anyone could be Funke....

As far as I didn't get to use their full names, That's not a problem. Don't you think so?

Now, How on earth should a girl in this modern day and age be so insisting about marriage to a guy who isn't working yet but hustling hard to make ends meet?

Please, what is needed here is valid/matured advice.

Good evening Ladies and Gentlemen,

This is a situation that needs your opinion/contribution/advice.

A very good friend of mine is having a running battle with his girlfriend lately, it has to do with the issue of marriage.

However, via email, he sent me the conversation he had with his girlfriend today and hence asked for my advice.

As expected, I've given him my opinion and thought it wise to copy and paste the conversation between two of 'em here for you guys to analyze and contribute asap. Thanks.


12/10/2014 00:29:07: Funke: So ur sis hasn't called me o thot u gave her my no the other time
12/10/2014 00:36:25: Ohis: Nope I didnt
12/10/2014 00:36:44: Ohis: U didn't want to talk to her
12/10/2014 00:39:46: Funke: Ehn ehn na so thot I told u that u can give her
12/10/2014 00:40:51: Ohis: Well ok
12/10/2014 00:41:15: Ohis: I'll tell her to call wen I'm able to call her
12/10/2014 00:41:42: Funke: Hmmm kk just asking
12/10/2014 00:42:09: Ohis: No wahals
12/10/2014 00:42:29: Funke: Aiit
12/10/2014 00:44:00: Funke: Just say it as is it though it's kind of early but do u think u can make it by dec?
12/10/2014 00:49:25: Ohis: Not so sure as I'm yet to get job
12/10/2014 00:53:21: Funke: Hmmmm so it means that if u don't get a job early enough u won't come abi?
12/10/2014 01:02:50: Ohis: I need some money for my ticket
12/10/2014 01:02:48: Funke: Ans na
12/10/2014 01:06:14: Funke: Of course I knw u need some money for ur ticket thot u had everything worked out or will work it out when u get der like u told me
12/10/2014 01:07:07: Ohis: Will do
12/10/2014 01:06:46: Funke: But that doesn't ans my question
12/10/2014 01:10:23: Funke: Anyway where am actually going is that if u don't make it in dec then it means till the end of ur programme later/end of next year abi?
12/10/2014 01:11:10: Funke: Or is der a break in between?
12/10/2014 01:12:57: Ohis: They said there will btw Jan-feb
12/10/2014 01:13:50: Ohis: Ok
12/10/2014 01:14:18: Funke: Jan-feb ohk o
12/10/2014 01:15:07: Ohis: If its till d end of d prog? What happens
12/10/2014 01:16:17: Funke: I don't want to imagine what will happen
12/10/2014 01:18:18: Funke: I just knw it means u are working/planning 2wards ur 1-2 years marriage plans
12/10/2014 01:19:13: Funke: Cos we will definitely not marry next year if we go by that
12/10/2014 01:19:43: Funke: So it means we are looking at upper year upwards
12/10/2014 01:19:53: Ohis: Why would you think so?
12/10/2014 01:20:57: Ohis: I cant do upper year. My mind is set on next yr
12/10/2014 01:20:57: Funke: Becos of the facts on ground
12/10/2014 01:21:36: Ohis: My prog according to them ends july
12/10/2014 01:23:12: Funke: Ehn ehn ohk o I av voiced my concerns
12/10/2014 01:25:53: Ohis: Ok. Is sombody giving u deadline?
12/10/2014 01:26:15: Ohis: ☺
12/10/2014 01:26:55: Ohis: Just asking
12/10/2014 01:27:55: Funke: Oh really or shld I say seriously are u asking me that
12/10/2014 01:28:56: Funke: This isn't about anybody but me incase u don't knw am not 18 or 21 or even 25 ohk
12/10/2014 01:29:28: Funke: Time waits for no one am going to be 30 next yr
12/10/2014 01:30:17: Ohis: U ave entered d quarrel tone now.
12/10/2014 01:31:13: Funke: I av my life to think about and plan for when do u expect me to start having kids if by 30 I don't even knw when I will get married talk more of kids
12/10/2014 01:31:16: Ohis: I kno ur concern, I hav mine
12/10/2014 01:32:34: Ohis: We are not quarrelling. I agree
12/10/2014 01:33:32: Funke: Whatever concerns u av it doesn't compare to mine cos like it or hate it u are a guy and u can decide to marry anytime u feel u are set and ready
12/10/2014 01:33:53: Ohis: We shud b praying that everytin works out and not let doubts like dis spoil d prayers we hav made already
12/10/2014 01:33:57: Funke: I on the other hand don't av that luxury
12/10/2014 01:34:34: Ohis: Ok.
12/10/2014 01:35:33: Funke: I am but am just letting u knw so we will be on the same page
12/10/2014 01:36:11: Ohis: Ok we are.
12/10/2014 01:36:49: Ohis: Wat r u really afraid of?
12/10/2014 01:37:22: Funke: Aiit since u say so no p
12/10/2014 01:37:51: Ohis: Is dat u wont marry or u wont have kids bcuz of wat u av heard frm oda pple
12/10/2014 01:38:04: Ohis: ?
12/10/2014 01:38:25: Ohis: Just tell me
12/10/2014 01:38:45: Ohis: Cuz leaving u is not part of it
12/10/2014 01:38:49: Funke: Me afraid keh! I just don't want to say I told u so
12/10/2014 01:39:07: Ohis: Told me so how?
12/10/2014 01:40:38: Funke: Leaving me or not is not really the issue I just don't want to prolong any thing further
12/10/2014 01:40:56: Funke: It's time for the next step
12/10/2014 01:41:19: Ohis: I kno it is
12/10/2014 01:42:35: Funke: Fine then let's work towards doing it fast and move on
12/10/2014 01:42:56: Ohis: Yes ma
12/10/2014 01:43:52: Funke: Na so don't ma me o
12/10/2014 01:45:34: Funke: U let's make visible plans, pray and work towards it
12/10/2014 01:46:41: Funke: Cos am tired of not been sure how my life drama with u will work out at the planned time
12/10/2014 01:48:25: Funke: I don't want to be in the dark I want to knw the breakdown of all the major plans and sub plan to get to where we intend to get to
12/10/2014 01:50:35: Ohis: Ohis life drama!
12/10/2014 01:52:24: Ohis: Smh
12/10/2014 01:52:26: Funke: Ehn ehn what about it?
12/10/2014 01:53:01: Funke: Na so
12/10/2014 01:53:05: Funke: Why?
12/10/2014 01:53:26: Funke: Everyone has life drama abeg
12/10/2014 01:53:38: Ohis: Guess u r tired of me?
12/10/2014 01:54:01: Ohis: N my life drama.
12/10/2014 01:55:27: Funke: Don't rope me I didn't say that
12/10/2014 01:56:26: Funke: But if u keep prolonging the marriage I might be
12/10/2014 01:56:44: Ohis: From ur tone dats what I can sense
12/10/2014 02:01:27: Ohis: I hope its marriage u r talking abt n not wedding, cuz som people get married n start to regret. So I hav concluded on my part all these I kno.
12/10/2014 02:02:04: Ohis: Have you concluded on your own part?
12/10/2014 02:03:03: Funke: Story u and I knw am talking about marriage
12/10/2014 02:03:30: Ohis: Okh
12/10/2014 02:05:03: Ohis: Ohis Life Drama
12/10/2014 02:05:10: Ohis: ☺
12/10/2014 02:07:13: Funke: Why sudden intrigue by the word life drama?
12/10/2014 02:09:58: Ohis: Cos am tired of not been sure how my life drama with u will work out at the planned time


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scobaba:
I'm currently in Milan Italy for a training(job related). All the while I had been getting along with all my colleagues from other countries around the world.

On wednesday, I got called out while in the middle of a group work presentation.
The lady 'politely' announced to the whole class I had to be excused for a few minutes for 'ebola awareness'.

By the time I came back to class 20minutes later....i had no friend again.

I later complained to the training organisers and the lady came back next day to explain to the class, it was nothing serious, just a little. Chit chat required with all 'ebola countries' participants, but for wier, the harm had already been done.....everybody avoided me, except the Angola and Ghana participants.

The Ebola stigma for Nigeria, is still very much out there.

Perhaps we should be concentrating on stopping the spread of Ebola in Africa and eradicating it from the earth. Like the war on terrorism, All hands must be on deck.

For instance, I have a cousin who is a Brilliant pharmacist, she works for UN in Liberia, she's not been able to go out for months and that's a terrible situation she's in there. All due to Ebola!!!

This humanitarian crisis has enormous health implications for the whole world.

Bill Gates isn't just a smart guy — he's disposed to critical thinking.

I want to ask you two questions:
• Can you play the piano?
• Do you play the piano?
The queries are less similar than they seem — and they tell you something about how you learn.
"These are different questions,"... "and your answer may well be 'yes' to the first and 'no' to the second."
How so?
"The first question asks about ability" ..... "If you sat down in front of a piano, could you play a tune? The second tacitly asks much more ─ it goes beyond ability and asks about inclination: Are you disposed to play the piano? Do you like to play? Do you play regularly?"
This same distinction — between ability and inclination — extends into our mental lives.

For instance, research into reasoning shows that people can make arguments for either side of an issue when they're led through the process, showing that they have the ability. But people usually don't evaluate both sides, since they don't have the disposition.
So if you want to be more inclined to critical thinking, you need to know what's in your toolbox, just as Warren Buffett would have you do.
"Being a good thinker means having the right thinking disposition," because otherwise you'll never make full use of your abilities.

There are seven such thinking dispositions. They are:
1. The disposition to be broad and adventurous: The tendency to be open-minded, to explore alternative views; an alertness to narrow thinking; the ability to generate multiple options.

2. The disposition toward sustained intellectual curiosity: The tendency to wonder, probe, find problems, a zest for inquiry; an alertness for anomalies; the ability to observe closely and formulate questions.

3. The disposition to clarify and seek understanding: A desire to understand clearly, to seek connections and explanations; an alertness to unclarity and need for focus; an ability to build conceptualizations.

4. The disposition to be planful and strategic: The drive to set goals, to make and execute plans, to envision outcomes; alertness to lack of direction; the ability to formulate goals and plans.

5. The disposition to be intellectually careful: The urge for precision, organization, thoroughness; an alertness to possible error or inaccuracy; the ability to process information precisely.

6. The disposition to seek and evaluate reasons: The tendency to question the given, to demand justification; an alertness to the need for evidence; the ability to weigh and assess reasons.

7. The disposition to be metacognitive: The tendency to be aware of and monitor the flow of one's own thinking; alertness to complex thinking situations; the ability to exercise control of mental processes and to be reflective.
Put together — and used in the appropriate situations — these tendencies allow people to fully engage with knotty intellectual problems.
There's another benefit to having this outlook. I have come to understand that having a growth mindset — where you think your outcomes come through effort rather than innate talent — leads to success for kids and grownups alike.
Thinking about your thinking dispositions — rather than how innately smart you are — helps cultivate that attitude.

valdes00:
Am sure she's really nt cwious bout d relationship wit him...... Cos if she is, she knws d right thing to do...... No nid to ask for ppl's advise..... To d best of moi knowledge, you flirt wit most guys in here..... N u knw he will see it, u dnt xpect him to be comfortable wit it....... No matter woh he tells u in reality ..... Deep down in him, he is nt comfortable wit it.... Am a guy, and majority of guys thinks in 1 direction in situations lik dis....... Ur story might b real n it might also b 1 of ur publicity stunt..... Buh if its real n u knw u realy luf d guy, u dnt wanna lose him.... The ANSWER is in you..... #ADJUST

Often times, The reason ladies flirts with other guys online openly and in front of their bf's, is because they are tired of being exclusively committed to only one bf/man. A personal opinion though!!!

rozzay:
Now I was inspired by my sis marieolae to open dis thread cos I also nid advise. Now here's d problem. My boy friend u all know him Olubukato( I no dey hide am), we love each oda soo much inspite of enemies nd rivals but d problem is he s jealousy, he s always jealous wen am flirting online with all my friends and I tell him its my personality here. Ystaday he caused a scene with king tom! So pls I nid advise on how to handle him and tell him to stop flirting too.
Ps- he won't come na for bed we dey settle am just drop ur advise nd go. Thank u. Hhehehhehehehehehehehehe

Chill, work on your weaknesses and build upon your strengths to make you a better person. Do it for yourself.

You have complete control in this situation. You can control perfectly from the position you are in. Use respectful boundaries.

A Married couple work in different cities, He works in Abuja, but she works in Lagos, he goes home every weekend. Both have Facebook accounts. The wife has vowed never to date anybody on facebook, Moreso that she is happily married. She even gave her hubby the impression that she does not go there frequently like others do.

One day while bored at work He playfully creates a Facebook account with a fake pix, he sends his wife a request & she adds him. They chat regularly over 1 month, she finds him very exciting & is always looking forward to chatting with him, she began to hate weekends because he was never available to chat. they chatted about everything, recently their chats became very sexually explicit, she got turned on by the things he asked her to do, then one day he asks her to send a pix of her private part, she excitedly does that without hesitation, he then asks her to take other pix of her body parts & she did & sent all to him.

The husband called her that she would not be coming down to Lagos for that weekend because of a seminar in Abuja. When asked about her itinerary, she told her hubby that she will be home for the weekend with the kids. Both facebook lovers then arrange to meet in Nicon hotel Abuja Room 101... but unfortunately for her, she came and saw her husband.

If you are the husband, what will you do? Please, be sincere.

chimerase2:
*still sleeping*

Sleep tight!!!

In many cases, if a guy/man can’t be a friend to a girl/woman he certainly can’t be anything romantic. For me, friendship is the foundation of a great relationship and love. Far too often people jump from relationship to relationship seeking a feeling, but they are truly operating out of lust. There is a lot that goes into a relationship, but the foundation has to be friendship. However, today I want to address the reason why guys/men may not desire to be your friend.

I do realize some of the reasons I am about to share may seem judgmental or unfair; however, some of them will be common sense.

1. Questionable past with guys/men.... ÷
Many men are quick to judge women for their past, because secretly men like the fun girls. However, when he is ready to settle down he wants nothing to do with the girl/woman who drinks, clubs, or anything else that reminds him of his player past. However, this doesn’t mean you should lie about your past, because the right man will understand and love you regardless.

2. On the other hand, if you are a woman who is “practicing abstinence”÷... and the guy has casual sex intentions, he will not want to be your friend if it won’t lead to sex (which is strictly his intention). As I always say, the character of a man matters more than anything else he brings to the table. So, a guy like this who doesn’t want to be your friend is a good thing.

 3. You use the words “let’s start as friends.”.... ÷
For some men this is code speech for “I am not interested in anything, but a friendship”. Ladies, allow the man to set the pace and learn to maintain healthy relationships without getting emotionally involved too soon. If he truly desires something real with you, he will seek a friendship with you. If he wants to have something more down the road, the friendship will allow both to know if it’s possible or even a wise move.

4. The way you act or behave in public.... ÷
If a man has a hard time seeing you as classy, sophisticated, stylish, and graceful it will be hard for him to pursue even a casual friendship with you. I remember, about three years ago or more, I was out with a female friend celebrating a new job. Little did I know, she was so loud and completely without manners. In every other situation I shared with her, she was always the model lady. I guess in restaurants and after a few glasses of wine, she changes. I still remained her friend even after feeling embarrassed.


5. You major in pushing guys/men away and having shallow relationships.... ÷
A man wants to know you have strength, meaning he can be flawed and your love doesn’t change. Nothing scares a man more than knowing, if he fails or something happens, the woman he loves will walk away from him. You can be a ride or die lady without losing yourself.

contactmorak:
Breaking: Linda Ikeji's Blog Has Finally Been Removed By Google

So sad. After several attempt by her enemies especially the hacker called Mr Aydee, they've finally succeeded in geting Google to remove the site after they lodged a campaign of copyright infringement against her. This must be a big blow to the multimillionaire blogger who is Africa's number one. She is expected to release a statement on this. Earlier in the day she told her readers that she's been trying to get a domain name but the internet squatters have hijacked most of the likely name she cud use. That's a multimillionaire business google has just shut down! Couldn't they have verified all this allegations against her and know that it's the handiwork of hackers and haters!

They should also have known that most people in Nigeria actually registered on blogger cos of her(I guess)

They did not just remove it, they want to arrest her.

cold:
Says the gangster for kryst. Y'all can go starve yourselves for your sky daddy. Your bling,bling mog has authorised you all go on a hunger strike...sigh

Maybe it’s time you let God’s word cut deep into your heart as you choose to believe what He says about YOU instead of you calling a Man of God a gangster. That's not cool.

However, Understand that God’s kindness is intended to lead you/us to repentance.

CAN DECLARES 3 DAY PRAYER AND FASTING - 17TH – 19TH OCT.

The National Executive Committee (NEC) of Christian Association of Nigeria (CAN), on Monday 29th September, 2014, passed a resolution that Christians in Nigeria should observe 3 days of fasting and prayer for the church and for the nation from Friday 17th – Sunday 19th October.

Earlier, the South West Zone of CAN had chosen 26th October as the day of the National Repentance. However, with the directive from NEC, both positions have been harmonized and the day of repentance and national re-dedication shall take place nationwide from 17th – 19th October.

The President of CAN, his eminence, Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor called on all Christians to unite at this critical period in the life of the Nigerian church and the nation and corporately seek the face of God for forgiveness and divine intervention.

In his opening remarks at the meeting, the President of CAN remarked that “as we labor for the Lord and make our way into the kingdom of God, we must constantly bear in mind that the enemy of our souls is perpetually at work seeking to ‘steal, kill and destroy’. The most common tactic of the enemy is to ‘smite the shepherd’ and scatter the sheep. Whenever the enemy launches this attack on any shepherd, experience has shown that the main targets are the sheep.”

On the day of National Repentance, Christian assemblies are expected to focus on prayers of confession for the sins of the nation as well as transgressions that are in the church. Paramount among the short comings of the church is the challenge posed by disunity and the attitude of ministry competition. A message of repentance based on 2 Chro. 7: 14 should be preached in all the churches on the Sunday  of  the National Repentance and National Re-dedication. Subsequently, prayers should be offered to God for mercy and forgiveness for the church and the nation.

Other areas of prayer focus include the persecution of Christians in the North, insurgency in the nation, the threat posed by Jihadists to the church and the nation, the forth coming general elections, good governance in the land and so on.

Christians are called upon to prayerfully establish in Nigeria, the four pillars of the throne of God. These are: righteousness, justice, mercy, and truth.

All the 5 blocs of CAN are expected to participate in the prayer and fasting program. No Christian assembly is exempted.

During the NEC meeting, the leaders of the church reinstated their support and solidarity for the President of CAN, Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor, as well as their commitment to a united and cohesive national church.

All enquiries should be directed to the General Secretary, CAN, at cangensec@yahoo.com


http://kingdomnewsng.com/news/120-can-declares-26th-oct-day-of-national-repentance

TrollMan:
Stick to broken English. Okay, about the topic, it isn't always easy to make a wife outta that kinda girls. You need to change her, you can't expect her to change herself into a wife material. Or whatever you call it.

I’ve discovered that you can’t change people. They can change themselves. Yeah!!!

ENELDEE:
That's a very good way to connect with your past.

Yeah.. However, What is past is past. never go back. Not for excuses. Not for justification, not for happiness. You are what you are, the world is what it is.

Airforce1: I wish them goodluck

When God put two together no man can put asunder. However, It's okay for them to make mistakes, but reconciliation is important.

Tiwa’s hubby put her online as his WomanCrushWednesday and she accepted. I see reconciliation coming!
#TrueLoveForgives#


http://www.gurusloaded.com/tiwa-savage-and-husband-exchange-love-messages/

Lanceslot: CR7 all the way.

Yeah, I concur. We are on the same page.

Ronaldo and Messi.... two giants of the game.

Cristiano Ronaldo and Lionel Messi, two giants of the world game, are competing for yet another prize as the rivals take aim at the Champions League's all-time scoring record.

Real Madrid's Ronaldo has 68 goals in Europe's top club competition, one more than Barcelona star Messi, as both aim to catch former Madrid legend Raul, who scored 71 during a glittering career.

Ronaldo may have a better chance of getting there first as Real Madrid play Bulgarian minnows Ludogorets in Group B on Wednesday, a day after Messi has a tough trip to big-spending Paris Saint-Germain in Group F.

The Portugal forward looks primed to increase his goal haul in Sofia after scoring 10 goals in his past six matches, including one four-goal performance and a hat trick.

Messi, meanwhile, scored a brace to reach 401 goals for club and country -- his 248th in the league -- in Barcelona's 6-0 rout of Granada on Saturday, and is closing on the all-time La Liga scoring record held by Telmo Zarra, who netted 251.

Ronaldo and Messi's latest two-man contest comes after they have shared the FIFA Ballon d'Or for the past six years and have taken turns leading the Champions League in scoring for the past seven seasons.


http://m.espn.go.com/soccer/story?storyId=2062694&top&wjb=

Givemejoy: Listen! A weak man do not go into marriage. My advice, if you are not ready you had better wait.

Am all ears... Now, what do you mean by the term "Weak Man?"..... Depending on your perspective... But I have seen strong Men go into Marriage, yet it didn't work out.