What are the advantages of being single?

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What are the worst problems that People face during the age (25-34) ?

Bukolami22:
good evening, how much exactly are we to pay for the test please?

Below 11 years of age, 60USD = NGN23,120.

11 years old and above is 150USD = NGN57,800.

Today happens to be Father's Day. Hence, I thought it wise to ask this question. What is the best advice that your father gave to you?

Meanwhile, Happy Father's day to all the Great dad's in the house.

May God reward all our sacrifices for our various families.

Wives tag their husbands well to ward single girls off (including forcing then to wear rings). Unknown to them, single girls are after married men so the tagging helps them identify them easily.

According to many single girls, married men have experience in handling responsibility so they are more desirable for the bills (how true this is, one can only imagine).

The irony is that the responsibility by which they rate the married men, is being shared with the wives at home.

So, who's fooling who?

The wives assigning tags?
The husbands tagged?
The girls checking for tags?

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Xilsbridalhouse:
Pray

My dear, do not marry just anyone all because you are due for marriage, otherwise you’d see anyhow.
Before accepting to marry anyone, please and please involve the Author of marriage and our creator who knows the person you want to be with 100% and while doing this, work on yourself as well and pray to be a better spouse for your partner.

1. Do not fornicate with your partner before going into that marriage o! The accuser is always looking for opened doors to accuse you before God. Thank God we are serving a Merciful God but He is also a Consuming Fire.

2. God is not an author of confusion, so He won’t give you someone you are not compatible with! Watch out for compatibility as this would be necessary for peace to reign in your home.

For instance, I wouldn’t advise an introvert to marry an extrovert if you can’t handle his or her moving around, just stay off!

3. Ladies be submissive and respectful o! Dump all those feminists talks at your father’s house as no man will tolerate your rudeness, being disrespectful and nagging like wetin I no know!
Treat your husband like a King, trust me that is his MuMu Button o! Treat him like a king and he’d be willing to do just about anything for you.

4. Pray! This should be like your top most priority in that marriage. Don’t be on social media all day, go down on your knees for few hours and pray as a couple. Pray together please, as this is the unity the devil is fearful of. When two or more people....you know the rest. Pray together o!

5. Kill pride and be extremely humble. Stories like, he offended me so he has to apologize first should be left in your church bin after the ceremony biko! Don’t keep malice oooo...I repeat, do not and never keep malice! Forget pride, just walk to hubby or wife and start bombarding him or her with kisses and hugs, whether you are at fault or not. Be childish, tell Your spouse to carry you like a baby, pull a childish stunt to get your spouse attention and let peace reign. It is for your own good o! Don’t be forming I can keep malice for 200 years, na bitterness and sadness go finish you.
Also learn to forgive like a child. Don’t say things like, I need time to forgive you...which time biko? Unless of course he is a cheat and a wife beater, then you might forgive but I understand emotionally things can’t go back to normal. But once you pray for the right spouse, God will fight for you.

6. No room for Laziness in marriage darlings! You are Lazy? Dirty? Go work on yourselves now! You can’t enjoy such marriage. Also assist each other, wives are not slaves so men do what you have to do as a loving husband and how a king treats his queen.

7. Ehhhhh!!!! Third party Hian! Don’t try it!!! Erm “ I’ll report you to your Mom, Dad, Sister, Brother, Friend etc ...” eh! Don’t try it o! You only need God to resolve your issues. No single outsider should know what is going on in your marriage o! Quickly settle things before it gets out of hands.

8. Erm “My best friend is coming, My friends are coming “ ughhhh! Which nonsense friends? Better shut your home against friends if you want peace of mind. Not literally in a rude way, but there should be no form of closeness again, you are now married! Men! I understand you like to hang out with your friends but limit this as you are no longer a boy! You are now a man with responsibilities, so spend your time on productive things.

9. Be a good example. Treat each other in a way that you’d be grateful to God for bringing you two together. Communicate often, be each other’s best friend, look at situations from two angles and not just yours, correct each other with love, Study the word of God together and discuss your flaws and how to work on your flaws together. Laugh more and frown little or at all. Be an example of how a Christian home should be.

10. Don’t cheat on your spouse as all I have stated would totally be a waste of time if you do this. You won’t even escape God’s punishment and your life would remain sour unless you repent.
Don’t cheat on your spouse o!

10b. Ahhhh Finance! How could I have skipped this Ladies and Gentlemen, this is one of the major Koko in marriage o! Wives be like “ I can’t spend my money o” mostly after getting sick advice and Lori iro advice from fake friends! Hubby be like, “pay me back that money you borrowed from me” shior! Mtchew!!!!
If you can’t handle having a joint account, not with a cheat o! Those cheats will spend your money on side chicks and side boos, that’s why it’s essential you pray like Elijah before accepting to marry anyone biko! Nothing is more sweet like having a joint account with your spouse with super understanding and same spending lifestyles! You will so enjoy this marriage ehn! Especially if you both are not materialistic and would rather invest than buy overrated Aso ebis!
Ladies, this is majorly for you! Who told you that man is your ATM? You work, he works but your money is for yourself in particular ? What happened to being joined as ONE? Why would you watch your hubby suffer while you have more than enough to support him with even if you don’t want a joint account. I’m begging you please, do not leave financial responsibilities to men only! They are not robots na! Work hard, improve on yourselves, pray to God for creation of wealth opportunities, Be each other’s support pillar, don’t frustrate and fight over money issues. You must understand that you are no longer different individuals but now ONE.
Men if your spouse agreed to submit her salary or profits to you, and you spend such money on useless things like giving one side chick girl that is playing mind tricks on you or you trying to get in her pants....I hope you know God will forget you and no one will help you.
Don’t fight over finance please, and if you need to do things 50-50, do it peacefully and if you as a husband you are capable of shouldering all the responsibilities please do it without feeling like a god.


I have so much to say but I pray the Holy Spirit leads you right and help you to speak when you should, act right and stay mute when you should, also do not forget your in-laws are important! Treat them like your blood even if this is a bit stressful, God will definitely find a way to reward you and there is nothing we ask our Dear Father in Heaven that He won’t do. For instance you could say, “Daddy, I’m stressed could you please make my brother in-law to stop acting irresponsible “ and He will answer you.

God bless you as you invite Jesus into your home.

This is absolutely a good one.

And to think that it is coming from a lady, honestly, this is commendable and thoughtful.

I am impressed.

May God bless our homes...and give us the courage and fortitude to fight and quench the fiery darts of the enemies... and again, may the Lord give us the wisdom to hear word when our ears are blocked...

Lord keep on helping us. Amen.

WeRblessed:
For women, have something doing for youeself.
In othe words, build yourself ( financially).

Stop looking for rich men and look for a man with potentials that truely loves you.

If all you are bringing to a marriage is sex and cooking honey you are not ready.

You must work as hard as your husband so that you both can live in a condusive environment, enjoy life, and secure your children's future.

Your money is your husband's while your huaband's is yours.

You do not have to be a perfect chef but try as mush as you can to make tasty and healthy meals for your family.

Your husband's family is your family.

Your husbands friends are your friends, but don't call his friends or visit them in his absence.

Always praise your husband and love him unconditionally.

It's okay to be angry, but think before you speak, because you cannot take your words back.

Never ever ever ever and ever compare your husband's look, finances, job, or anything with that of others.

Make time to have fun with your husband.

Don't ever lie or steal from your husband. It's like lying and stealing from yourself.

Eat healthy and exercise at least 4 days in a week.

Make sure you mantain a toned figure and a flat belly always.

Even after you had a baby, go on crash diet together with running and power lifting to get your figure back.

Spend money on sexy underwears, dresses, and hair.

Always suprise your husband with giftts and banging Hot sex every day or frequently.

Sex should be enjoyed between you and your husband always!

I will come back and drop my advice for the man later... I mean, what do I know?

Banging hot sex every day indeed. Lol. Talk is cheap.

It's obvious you aren't married yet.

When single ladies choose to cohabit with men, yielding to free sexual servicing, domestic chores and the likes, what exactly goes through their minds?

This is love?
This will make him marry me?
I am married and this is my duty?
This is what it takes to hold a man?

Which?

More importantly, why is it difficult for women to see this at this point.
Chances are many are reading this now telling themselves "no, this is not me. My own case is different. We are in love."

Okay then. Love.

What is love? What to you is love?

We cannot understand, you think.

Welcome to the journeys that led to the pregnancies that led to undesired marriages that became toxic and ended up in very hurtful divorces having one person bearing almost all the physical, financial and social cost of it as a single parent.

Welcome to the realities many of us currently live but then, maybe we don't understand.

If he truly loves you, he'd do the needful and marry you right. Don't be mistaken. When the right one comes along, he'd do away with all the excuses he's giving you and marry her. Unfortunately, many learnt this lesson the hard way.

The choice is yours.



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Amotolongbo:
How do you convince a man that you arent a water molecule deficient of one hydrogen atom if within few minutes of meeting, you’ve suddenly got ancestral financial crises to solve?
I set up a meeting between a brother and a girl, before we got home, she told my brother she isn’t happy cos she lost her mum’s necklace. What kinda nonsense is that?
Even if it’s real, can’t she mask her loss and keep that shît to herself?

You are dating a guy, the only currency you can trade with him is your pu$$i and the sole skill you can use to entertain him is your moaning during sex. These brothers get these everywhere they go. What makes your own brand different and makes him to stick to you?

Brother is broke, you don’t have a financial contribution to join his brokenness. You can’t wash away his “sapa”.
Guy is so deficient of idea at that moment, you can’t spark up mental contributions to rejuvenate his brain. Tell me what you are good for then if not a sexual specimen.

From observation, you are obviously a wise woman.
Your reasoning is quite commendable.

Unfortunately, an average Nigerian girl has a weird mentality. They don't seem to think straight.

Jayrockk:
Haven't gotten the job yet. Actually all I want is to pursue my masters abroad, but my parents are reluctant, thus they are putting in a good word for me. They happen to have a very reliable connect for me which will most likely get me the job, so..

Pursue your Masters abroad and thank me later.

You have the opportunity, make the move abroad via school route.

Moshabiola:
Good evening house, please I’m having difficulty booking my medical test, all dates are booked, no more date until after August 30 which is just 2weeks before my resumption, what can be done about this please?

They are having network issue lately. It's actually not going through.

However, just go to the bank and make the payment. Scan your receipt, then send them a mail and attach the receipt.

After sending the mail, you will most likely get a call from them and you will be told to come with your receipt and passport to their office for the medical test.

All the best.

jimmyolasun:
So because I dey fuucck my staff now, I should leave my company. Una dey ment

There's no point fucking your staff Sir, let alone any other lady apart from your wife.

Stay true to your spouse. It's not rocket science, it is quite simple. Let's stop chasing shadows.

It hurts.

By the way, what is so special about side chicks?

Why is it so difficult to stay faithful and focus on your family as a Man? This thing is simple... I really don't know why some Men don't honour and respect their marriage vow.

Discipline makes a Man. Unfortunately, self discipline has been swept under the carpet. Too bad.

I always tell Married men, a distraction is hardly noticed until it has brought regret to your household.

When it comes to women, Flee....... Don't run, but FLEE.

Vivonose:
Is there public holiday on Friday??

I suppose. However, it is very unlikely that it would be granted.

There's no communication to that effect for now.

Is that all?

Chia....

This nairaland is filled with very wicked, dangerous and promiscuous boys. Omg.

Ashawo boys plenty for here gan.

mrbenjame:
Ok........ I’m back now. I got into the waiting/ departure area but before then I was asked If I was with any possession of perfumes or stuffs like that. I told them yes I do. The guy just told me to go that I shouldn’t worry. Before entering the departure hall I saw a lady that her Job was to check your ticket and detach one side of the ticket leaving you with a little piece of paper containing your flight details. (your name, seat number, where you’re going to, type of plane carrying you etc.). I entered the departure area and saw another conveyor again. This time I had to repeat the process again. Dropped everything I had including my watch.

After they all rolled out to a particular point ( short like I said earlier) I picked up my bag and
other belongings.

I got to the departure hall seeing a lot of people seated. The hall is usually glassy in which you can easily see any plane landing and taking off as well as people entering and exiting some planes.

When I got there I found out the hall was filled so I had to go upstairs. It’s a gallery where you can sit up there and still see the people downstairs as well as the landings and take offs. I enjoyed staying up because you’d see everything clearly and vividly. Thanks to the airport staff that ushered me upstairs. I saw both children and parents waiting for their flights, boys and girls, old people etc...


While we were there we were hearing announcements from time to time of the particular airline that’s leaving and the destination. So I had to check my ticket to confirm if it’s the airline I was flying with.

Mind you.... be very attentive as well because the announcers voice is very little. So I barely heard her voice. She’s obviously a Nigerian no doubt but her voice wasn’t audible enough. That really pissed me off. Thanks to the airport workers who also announce the flights for people to hear.

So you’d hear something Like this:
Arik air Portharcourt to Lagos zone A to F please
Assemble for your flight. Thank you! ( something like that).

Since I was boarding Max air, I was bordered because I’ve never heard of that name( maybe because I don’t visit the airport like I said or because I’m not a frequent traveler).

I saw people seating with me whose plane was ready to take them away. After 30 minutes of their leaving the hall, I saw them flying away into the cloud. I started wondering like “ see o. No be that babe wey sit down here don enter cloud now now? Chei! Nawa o. Lols. So Na so me go move too? Omo. No be small o “ I just kept calm because I was getting excited

After waiting patiently, almost 10:25am boarding time, I started seeing a mighty aircraft running through the run way to the departure hall with a bold description “Max air”. I just smiled. In my heart I said this is Max air, the aircraft I’d be flying with. My happiness is that the aircraft looks new and very hefty.


Please note that planes usually stop far away from the departure hall. Most time there’re airport shuttle buses to convey you to where the plane is parked before you enter( if the departure hall is far from the plane itself or if it’s raining and you need to get off the plane as soon as you landed). But if the plane is a little close you can walk down to the arrival hall ( for those who just landed in their destination or returning).


Alas it was time Maxair was announced. I gladly got up and moved downstairs and headed to the exit of the glass house where my ticket/boarding pass was handed to them. The checked it and returned it to me while I headed out for the plane.........


To be continued........

I presume you were also asked to take off your shoes immediately you entered the departure area?

Brunicekid:
Mine was...

They told me that I can't leave the job for another job within six months, and if I must, I have to repay the full salary of one month I received within the period I worked.

Probably a six (6) month probation period.

If they tell you you can't leave within the stipulated period, that is a red flag.

Reading comments and personal experiences above should give you an idea about what the Nigerian job market looks like. It is pretty saturated and quite disheartening how supposed employer tend to take advantage of job seekers.

Truth is, there's no end in sight.

However, I urge every job seeker not to relent. Keep pushing, the right job is just around the corner.

Jololii:

Always A FRIEND. Can't you people refer these your friends to Nairaland so we can hear from the horses mouth?. Or don't you want seun's business to grow?. Bring your friend here and let's hear directly from him before we give any advice or suggestion.

With all due respect Sir, I wasn't the victim.

There's nothing to lie about.

I just need professional advice and positive suggestions on how to go about it.

The bank account statement is in my possession.

There's a case of financial fraud I am currently trying to unravel.

A friend of mine went to a Paga shop to withdraw some money via his ATM Card, after the successful withdrawal, as expected, he got an sms alert which showed the rightful amount debited as well as his account balance. On seeing his account balance, he was shocked. Reason being that, what he was expecting to see as his Account balance wasn't what he got via the transaction sms.

So he called me to report the matter at once. I asked him to calm down.

Consequently, I asked him to visit his bank the following day in order to immidiately report the matter and then get his bank account statement as it will show the date and timing as well when the amount got debited.

On getting the bank account statement, it was discovered that the money was transferred from his account via his mobile phone USSD transfer code to another bank. The details of the Bank account the money was transferred to was stated in the Bank statement as expected. And again, the Bank official confirmed that it was actually a mobile phone USSD transfer.

Please I need professional advice on how to go about this to ensure the perpetrator is caught.

NB: The name of the account, Account number and bank name where the money was moved to was rightly stated on the Bank Statement.

Is there any chance of the money being recovered?

Thanks in anticipation of your prompt advise, suggestion, comments and or suggestions.

Romanoff:
If you know she'd be too old for you when you're ready to marry, please tell her to move on to a guy that's ready.

No use your reggae spoil her Fuji.

Gbam.

As simple as ABC.

Adinije:
There's no manual to marriage, however, there are certain things that are necessary.


Openess

During courtship, most people lies about a lot of things which usually break the trust when found out. A distant cousin of mine told her then fiancee that she is a graduate whereas, she dropped out of school. After they became married. Husband was trying hard to help his wife secure a job, when he received the shocker. They are still together but things never remained the same.



Financial Stability

A lot of people undermine the importance of finance in marriage. Most people get married hoping that when the woman enter, they will struggle together. Trust me when I say you will always find yourself in a rocky place. Forget the love is all that matters crap. Love doesn't pay bills.



Sexual Compatibility

This is another topic people don't take serious. But very important. A lot of infidelities in marriages happen due to sexual incompatibility.

You have spoken well.

Matured response.

Giving the option, which African country would you like to marry from?

chatinent:
So you need a native doctor to tell you that her actions call for jubilation?

So you don't know this is the right time to buy the chicken and celebrate her actions with your family?

You are a wise man.

The guy just dodged a killer bullet and he doesn't even know.

I wonder where they meet these type of girls.

It's simple, when you see the writing on the wall from a girl such as this, you take prompt action and escape effective immediately. It's for your own good.

TheUndercover:
For a single person, it's fine. For a married person, it's a suicide mission.

For someone with a single source of income, it's just an event away to having financial problems.

Even for a single person/bachelor, it is still not easy.

30k will still not take you home as a bachelor.

Funny enough, on top of that, most of them still have girlfriends. I wonder how they do it.

Ladies, how do you calm your Man down when he is angry.

Have your say, let's learn.

GeeMeshin1:
First, remove suicide out of the equation; it will not solve anything rather it'll compound issues. If you can continue your current job and learn the driving alongside, it'll be better. Be strong, the best is around the corner.

This is a very good advice.

Ishilove:
Hiaaaaan!

Take this lesson home: you call her 'evening newspaper' and say she is desperate, but she is a lot smarter than you with your puny preek, puny brain and gigantic ego. How can you relocate to leech off a woman without a plan B?? Who does that?

He is obviously not a wise man.

There's absolutely no wisdom in his action.

Carelessness isn't for men. Women can afford to be careless. But as a Man, you can't afford to be careless. The earlier he leaves the crib, the better for him.

Egypt is constructing the Giza Monorail with a length of 43 km, comprising 12 stations at a cost of $1.213 billion.

Egypt is also constructing Africa's longest monorail line in the New Administrative Capital at a cost of $2.415 billion.

It is 52 km long and includes 22 stations.


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Kriss216:
Stay away from Nigerian girls and avoid threads like this.

Stop giving bad advise bro.

If we stay away from them, who is gonna marry them?