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Jeon:
I am an ugly woman. Objectively, I really am. Please don't argue with me on this one, I am not overweight, actually in better shape than most women my age, I dress well, I am great with makeup. But last weekend the world just had to remind me that despite all this, people will go out of their way to kick me.
I don't often go clubbing, but Saturday night was a special occasion. A friend was celebrating her 21st, and it was also the weekend after a long week of brutal exams. It felt like a good time to blow off some steam. Because I don't often go clubbing, I really tried this night to look nice. There was an outfit that I had bought a long time ago, but that I'd never worn because it was a little sexier than what I usually wear. A close friend had picked it out for me when we were shopping, and, in that "you go girl" kind of way had urged me to buy it. I did my makeup painstakingly, straightened my hair which always takes forever because my hair is huge, put on that too-sexy-for-me outfit. And when I looked in the mirror I was even surprised at myself. "Wow, is that me? I actually look...nice!"
I showed my friends. They all said I looked great. And they MEANT it too. Like, genuine happy encouragement. I could tell they were sincere and it made me feel so good, like for once I wasn't just masquerading as an attractive girl with fancy makeup and clothes, but that I WAS the attractive girl. I hadn't felt so attractive in ages, Reddit.
When we got to the club, we got a nasty surprise. We had been told that tonight there was no cover charge for girls, and so none of us had brought much cash on our person. Well, our info was wrong. They did indeed ask for a cover. Only one of us 6 girls had cash, and she only had enough to cover two people. When we got to the door and found this out, a group of guys behind us volunteered to help us out. They each forked over a couple of bucks to cover my friends, but not one of them offered to cover me. One by one my friends were let in and they waited on the other side of the door until everyone got through. The guys were doing everything to avoid eye contact with me. They were looking at the ground, the street, pretending to look through their wallets for cash to cover one more girl. It was so painfully obvious that I felt like just going home. Luckily, my friend with the extra cash covered me so I was allowed in.
Well, once we were inside I thought I could just forget about that incident. I had dressed up and come out, to have a good time and relax. So for a while I danced with my friends. It wasn't long before other guys started dancing with us. We kind of paired off slowly, there was a guy whose two buddies had started dancing with other girls and he was left alone. At that point I too had lost track of my friends and was alone. He started dancing with me, but the whole time he seemed really distracted. Not once did he really look at my face, he was kinda looking around the club the whole time, like he was browsing the scene for another, more attractive girl he could bounce to. In less than 10 minutes, he had seen one. He peaced out without a word, and I saw him dancing a few minutes later with a very attractive brunette. The way he acted with her was just SO different than when he had danced with me. He was face to face with her, smiling, dancing enthusiastically.
That made my stomach drop. I went to the bar, found one of my friends who was sitting there with a guy. She introduced us, he bought everyone drinks. After a while I felt like a bit of a third wheel so I went back to the dance floor. Eventually my group of girls regathered together. Everyone had a guy, except for one of them who had a bf at home. So I danced with her, with our friends and their guys near us.
There was a photographer going around the club, taking pictures of the people there. I assume it was for some promo for their website or something. He got to our group, and literally circled us several times, taking several pics from different angles. I was kind of psyched about this, so I did my best to look like I was having a good time, made sure he could snap me at my best. But after a while I realized he wasn't circling us to get our best angles. He was trying to get a frame without ME. If I moved closer to the center of the group, for instance, he would tilt his camera a little the other way. I couldn't believe it until finally, he actually came up to me and asked me to get out of the shot.
I felt so ugly right then. For all the effort I had put into looking and feeling good that night, it seemed like it just didn't matter. So the night ends with me leaving the club. My friend with the bf at home who was dancing with me left with me so I wouldn't be alone. The rest of my girl friends didn't notice what had happened with the photographer, so when they asked me where I was going I just told them I was tired and wanted to go home. And since I wasn't leaving alone, they let me.
So yeah, that's my story from the weekend.
Please be kinder to ugly people, Reddit. Maybe one of the people I met that night will read this post and recognize themselves. I hope so, if only so they can know how behavior they're barely conscious of can affect someone else.

UDUJ:
Just look at her face

How can you tell me this is not a witch

FarahAideed:
If she really 137 then she is the oldest person on earth and possibly the oldest person that has lived in modern. History....

wordcat:
Ajasco,

Papa Ajasco,

Mama Ajasco,

Boy Alinco,

Pa James,

Pa Jimoh

I don forget that lady name

Jaqenhghar:
I am not talking of hs country. I am talking about you.
It may not look like much to you as you are not an aviator or an inventor bit it matters.

Let's even go with this your logic..... when learning a programming language, if it's not important, why do they still teach you the basics and how to write scripts from the scratch? Since stuff has already been done they might as well just ask you to go rip off someone else's code since afterall you shouldn't reinvent the wheel

Jaqenhghar:
If he had succeeded and got a contract .... or something I wonder what you will say

aluyapreston:
I have aready planned breaking up with her now. i am just preparing it and trying to kill all the emotions. as the economy hard reach, i will spend close to 40k for our feeding monthly, then other buyings will make everything total to 60k or 65k and she still calls me stingy because i decide to save 120k from my 180+ earnings.

on my own i wont spent more than 20k monthly because i cook ad i dont do cream. I will ensure that i do all i can to take care of her basic needs so she can save 20k from her 30k salary (i give her the jobs, which i still end up editing) and she would still be calling me selfish, making herself the prize.

yesterday she called me stingy again and i calmly told her i dont care. we are like a live in couple but in the next few weks, we are going to be seperated couple

Fahdiga:
So throwing people in jail is now an achievement. Hnnnm

mario22:
My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.

ITbomb:
We already have it on Telegram since 1898

We even have free cloud space to save stuff
Useful when you sit on a foreign system and wishes to throw things out to get it later

Kingsolar:
Please help me, am really in need of what can keep me busy while I sit at the office doing nothing everyday and my salary is just 40k n nothing else attached. I need your advices please.

illicit:
I don't understand

Can't they pass Ibadan to Ondo and then to Benin?

abuomaIV:
Dear All,
if you would like to get a Remote IT jobs in the USA and earn from Nigeria, kindly drop your email address and I will forward you the requirments on email.

Please you must be good at any programing languages before you can get the jobs. It is free to register! There are plenty of remote jobs and projects to be done.

Neddstark:
You are sounding extremely unintelligent. So tell me negro, how did you come to this world? Two intelligent apes mated thousands of years ago and gave rise to the human race? Or a meteorite hit earth and some energy spark brought life to humans? Please engage me. I can prove to you the existence of a Creator. I have being an atheist, and tried some other faith, that is why I understand your view and can clearly say you are wrong. However, before you are yet to delve deep into faith to criticize what people believe in. But I understand you are too mentally lazy so you will simply criticize from a distance as usual.

Simplyleo:
Can someone pls remind me the activities that preceded 1967 civil war?

Maxymilliano:
One thing I know about Nigerians is that we suffer from collective amnesia and forgets easily.

Watch them vote and recycle the same old looters with the hope that it will be better next time.

chinjo:
Each time I think of this Desmond Idiot, I feel sorry for the youths. He is suppose to be someone representing the youths at the bigger stage but he keeps disappointing himself and his family just like Ayade of Cross River and Yahaya Bello of Kogi are doing.

Tony142:
The bitter truth is that very soon u will still go and do that yahoo u are claiming u did not want to do, I know your type, if u think I am joking then mark my words



In 2019,, that was how one of my friend in school came to nairaland and made a thread similar to this your own that, but today peer pressure have make him join them





If u are a yahoo boy reading this, may God punish u

Yobabad:
Very correct, just like saying Islam means peace, my brother is better to be an Artistes than to be a Muslim

Felason:
I'd rather travel to get a new phone than that Computer village.
Stories from there are terrifying.
Never been there,never will.