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nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

Go and See a Pyschologist ...

Women takes advantages of an Emotional Filled Man while They Respect and Fear the Reasonable Man!

I can Only Blame Woman against a Disabled Man

I can't hold Woman responsible for whatever she does to an Able Bodied Man ...

She is just a Microcosm of Your Manliness..

She is What Your Manhood and Maturities Defines Her to Be no be By Mouth

Woman, Woman, Woman ... To Manage any Woman by Any Man in this Dispensation Na to Pray to God to Enrich You with Woman Managements Wisdom and Maturities in all Facets because Your Manhood shall be Challenged and Sacked

If dem dey insult Buhari and Tinubu, Una go follow Put Mouth But to Lead just One Woman e no even Easy... God Bless and Further Help All Our Leaders.

To Burst Out to Lead Nigerians no be Play, Man or Woman

Eyinju112:
Shameless woman!!! Look at the small boy she’s opening her legs for.. what a disgrace to her children and husband.

.. No dey Judge ...
Just Look and Pass ....
No be small thing to make Decisions as Low as That!

I ain't Supporting Her But What's the root Cause that lead to such Circumstances

ernnie457:
Thank u

Welcome!

Sanmel:
Yeah.. Thanks for your input..

welcome!

Maysdevices:
Bad guy.

I get wanting to marry a virgin. But wanting to marry a virgin cause you’ve got no game and can’t please a woman? You’re scared you won’t be able to do what some other guy has done?

Lame ass niggas on this site. That’s why they Can’t type shit like this on any other platform.


Lmao!

That virgin self once she sabi game go go Gaga on their hands ..

Na woman wey dey wan enslave dem dey want!

ernnie457:
Of course exactly what a fool like u would say

Your Mouth be like Shovel

Vinnie2000:
Forget all dis Shalaye, Bro!

A Girl or Lady needs to have some Morals and Personal Discipline..

Otherwise, If she wants to use her Kpomor for Business, Men must Patronize!

I no Shalaye give You Son ? I ain't Ya Bro

Go give girl Born in Mushin and Magodo slum some Morals and Discipline ... Girl wey ihm papa no show face since ihm mama Don get Her Belle ....

Girl Wey ihm papa no get time for Morals and Discipline for House ....

If you Patronise Her e mean say You ma self na Brolosho and she Be Olosho ...

Both of you na Weyrey na

udofia234:
Bro the story son change ooo!!! Her weree ex just returned from the us and she giving me attitude already

... You self no talk say You be Her Plan B now ...

You be Second Option Niyen (Option 2) :

Now, Make a Manly Decision Bro

Me Yaff Run Comot Ya Case oo

jeromestarks:
Sorry sir. Logical people are discussing here and they will not appreciate a thoughtless pigeon.
I don't mean to be rude or anything, but with all due respect Sir, you're Very very stupid. Sir.

Please kindly exit.

Stop Crying and Redpilling.. Get Raba and Games .. Your Woman go dey Loyal to You

If not You will Cry the entire Atlantic Ocean and Woman would still be Woman

Boys of 16th century's IQ in 2022

udofia234:
You truly loaded baba!!! I get u

That's How to Manage Gen Z Woman Bro ....

You are Welcome!

Joe4real1988:
Nothing like double standard there dear, sometimes we just have to face reality and not trying to shy away from it by deceiving ourselves.

You are not being Realistic But Fallacy

You deceive yourself ...

Not Many Woman would rub shoulder with Man Higher than them in Status ...

if You stay within the Ambient of a Woman she would Test run You and rub shoulder against You ....

Problem comes once a Man can't Can even a Poor Woman will Spit at You ...

Divoc19:
I smell double standard at the bolded but then, we are all entitled to our own opinion.

Let me Teach You how to reply him next time
You for tell am what is a man shoulder doing at the level of a woman's shoulder that makes Her to Rub Shoulder against Him ...

If the Man is not Comfortable He Should grow taller na and Rise His Own Shoulder Upper ....

Respect Person wey ihm shoulder reach your shoulder

RedpillAnalyst:
Like @jeromestarks always say, only consider marriage with a virgin. If you marry a non-virgin there are too many variables that are in play for the marriage to fail.

A woman's loyalty starts before her husband meets her, infact right from her childhood.

A woman who remained a virgin till marriage won't commit atrocities this harlots commit. Imagine a pregnant woman letting other men deposit white gel on an innocent baby. That is why some kids are born mentally slow and can't solve basic maths because their mum couldn't close their leg temporarily during gestation period to random men.

Guys repeat after me.

No hymen, no commitment...

Non-virgins are strictly for entertainment and recreational purposes only. Any attempt to wife such woman will always lead to premium tears down the line.

Weak Ass Niggers and cry cry babies ....

If someone format her head to break her hymen ...

You can reformat the same head and install your own Operating System(OS) ..

Remove Windows and Put Linux ...

But if you no sabi no mean say you go dey rant , look for Good Tech ... Dem dey fix and Unfix anything!

Realguyman1:
All this people assigned to take care of children should always try to do their job properly.

But She should have been Warned which is Better than throwing her into Jail for a month.. That's Slavery!

Possibly Reduce Her Salary as Punishment ...

UNHR needs to bring their Searchlight on Human Right and Employee Abuses all over the World .... Pikin Cut ear Na One Month Jail Shuuuu .... ... So if Sister get Diarrhea she no go Tey for Toilet

I want the Entire World to be Unified Since 20years Ago ... But God is Quitely Doing it ...

So Many Barbaric Laws needs to be expunged and replaced with Laws Befitting Civility!

ernnie457:
Wetin this one dey talk

Your Left Nyansh

udofia234:
Noted I'll key into it!!! but I don't wanna aft as it am a gold digger

You are who You are and You know who you are

If You don't like her but likes her wealth.. You are a Gold Digger ... Search Your Soul Bro

If You like her even if she ain't Wealthy and You ready to be by her side no matter what ... Then that's " True Like" ....

Love na Lie Dem Sell give Us since Year 0, Na only God dey Fall in Love with Us every other Love na Lie .... All of Us dey confuse Like for Love!

We need each other as Complements Men and women money or No money !

Na some Unfortunate Media dey blow Competitions between Men and Women Only Few are Promoting Complementary thanks to the Obamas ...

I already distance myself from some media such as Redpilling ... Hold Your Woman and Hold Her Head steady ... She won't insult your essence

Except you disgrace your Ancestors before her by being not a Man Enough to Manage a Woman with Money ... Common, Man!

udofia234:
I'm not forming ego!!! and more over I'm not poor and I have something doing

Guy no dey fear ..

Most Hustled women think futuristic and I wanna believe she already wants her children to be your blood ....

Of course during hot period She could shade you with what she has done for You(That's Women for You na Emotions) but as Man block her mental faculty that could ratchet you by giving her x2 of whatever she might have given you and that's how you would won back your Manhood from her ..... Match Her Gifts or Best is to Double Her Gifts ... !

Na simple Stuffs Na ...

why big deal am ... But if you no like am(Love Na lie in 2022) ... Kuku comot Her Case and Be friend with Her then !

Richy4:
The pot might contain massage oil and other things that makes sex enjoyable..

You Maa go kee person with laugh oooo

Lifestone:
What really do you guys want. A Lady depends on you, you will her name, here is a Lady who want to fund your responsibility, you are here complaining.
Are you saying you do not plan to develop yourself after the wedding, grow yourself and make your own money? Another man will soon collect that girl from you

Poverty of the Brain is worrying Most Men ...

Poverty of the Pocket is not as Bad of Mental Poverty ...

The Op is forming ego inside Poverty

Imagine ooo

udofia234:
That's exactly what I'm driving at bro! I don't want to live in regret

There is no regret Bro ... She is your guiding angel except you see other odds in her if not ... common, She has built herself so well and ready to build you too But You seem like someone with a mental block not ready to build yourself

DoMeGood09:
You can go ahead and tie the knot. But remember, she would always talk about how she helped you in life especially when you get her angry.

That's a Lie except You no sabi manage am ...

udofia234:
Good evening my people!!!

I know I can always count on your wonderful advice!!!


October this year I met this lady in one of our church programs and we became friends, from that friendship something deeper started and its eventually growing to become marriage.

Guys there is an issue at hand, she's older than me with 7years, she is rich and own her own business, house and other properties but she's not married, she just relocated from the US early this year before we met, Guys she's being nice and I won't hide that!!!



When she mentioned marriage I told her am not buoyant enough for an elaborate wedding that she wanted , she offered to sponsor everything, she even offered to buy me suit if I don't have the money to buy, she said she will carry everything from her side and my side. Guys all my life I've never met a lady like this!!! I'm scared and at the same time short of words!!! she's a worker , decent , respectful.

I rejected that offer because of my integrity as a man, she might want to use that against me in the future!!! Though I love her but u know women and their attitude, she might say I married her because of her wealth!!! Pls should I agree to it or reject this tempting offer and looking at it I'm in my early 30s and I really wanna get married.

At least I'm okay but not rich like her, and most times she offers me expensive gifts which I rejected , I have never collected any gift from her, the day I took her out payed the bills.

pls help me my able nairalanders!!!!

Dude, Use Her Wealth to Build Your Own Wealth ... God sent a Messenger to Help You and You are Jonsing ....

Don't Ever take Her Granted though Before You Boom and After You Boom

Sanmel:
From my observations, I think good girls have a lot to learn from the so called 'bad girls'..
I don't need to explain this further because I know people here are smart enough to understand me.

So please, what should the good girls be learning from the bad girls that would likely end up being beneficial to them?

Simple:

Life is not Based on Emotions Only But Sciences:

God is not Based on Emotions Only But Sciences:

Move Your Ass to Do Stuffs Don't Rely on Prayers, Good and God Only Be Ready to Put Actions to Words and Ask God to Bless Your Moves!

headbasher96:
did u read where i said i have been knacking the girl as well

Ya Left Nyansh Dia

FashionCookie:
The last paragraph really got to me. Veryyyy true. In some cultures in those days, them no born any woman well to demand sex, let alone change positions during sexual accitives(reasons women on some parts were circumcised even till today). A woman was not meant to enjoy sex, just the man.
But what do we have in the society today?
You see women leaving their husband's houses because they feel he's too "soft" in bed. Some go say the "kini" is not big enough(such boldness). See the waves of young guys(men are not left out) drinking agbo and burantashi and person go tell me say na only woman dey enjoy s*x? Make everybody calm down o bcus who do anyhow ho see anyhow. Nobody be mumu...

That's the present Reality men are not Understanding and Failing to Respond to ... Women were Highly Cheated in the Olden days by the Entire Societies that's Patriachal in Nature from Your own Families to Your Husband Families and the Entire Societies....

Your Mother Suffers Matrimonial Abuses with no one to Complain to because It's the Norm and the Daughters are Suffering same too with no one to Complain too because it's the Norms....

Mama and Daughters go begin Cry their eyes out to console each other till that Generation lapse and next generation like that until Gen Z, the Woke Generations... Awon Feminists (Women Empowerment) ... I no blame them Nature just smile on Womanhood not yet at optimal level though ... But it's Coming Big ...

I dey laugh we men aswear, Gen Z Pro are coming and Gen Z pro Max After that Demanding different....

No to Genital mutilation Everyone must Cum ... ... Genital mutilation was meant to tame Women's libido(Imagine Wickedness) so as for her to be dissuaded from Promiscuity... That's Cheating ... I knew Non of My Ancestral Mothers Ever Cum ... Kai, My GrandMa really Hustle so much Imagine her never to Cum in a Lifetime Is that not Evil

men are now into different Drugs and Boosters Jekomo .... Chaiii, Liver and Kidneys Problems in the future is Highly Plausible with the genetic effects on Generational Offspring.....

I'm a Dude, I Invest in Gym to Build Stamina and Build Powered Mindsets, you don't need all those Enhancers pressuring the Organs to Overwork because I wanna show someone Daughter... but Knowledge Nko and Small IQ until Kasala Burst and Gofund me is Opened ...

I pity men sha, Economy has turned most to lose their hold na By God fit Help the Gender Revolutions Issues going On ...

Anyway Women Must Cum

aktolly54:
if your female colleague already crush on you then is not about food you want to offer her when she visit. Just have a good mouth and your house is neatly arrange then you can fuc.k her .

Promise her heaven and earth, tell her you want to marry her then start trying to touch her breast and from there be ready to finger her puss.y

Hell is scorching bro ...
Why lie to someone because you wanna shag ... Why Promise What You can't Afford ...

E go clear for una eyes as E dey roll

I no even wan make you know my worth so as not to become Mario or carry another Person belle come give me ! Shioor!

Go and become what you wanna be lieing about then You won't have any need to lie

headbasher96:
how i wish our nigerian girls will think the way u are thinking

Honestly parents need to do more that is the first place a child is trained to follow the right path

There is a woman in my compound that always push her daughter to go sleep with some rich bachelor tenants when her husband is away on business trips.

I was contemplating telling the man but a lady adviced me to mind my business
Oxygen is more expensive than her pussy like u can mess her with just lies not even indomie or egg las las i the press her from time to time though no be me say make she no get sense

You wan tell her husband say his wife dey pi.mp his daughters to Rich Bachelor tenants .... ... You be weyrey ooo

No be say you care na Jealousy dey worry you as dem no bring the cherry come Ya side

You Self come dey press the husband wife ..

That's one hell of an Environment ... Kaiiiii .... !

Baba Weyrey

gfon:
That indomie and egg talk is nonsense,if a lady wants to have sex with you when she comes for a visit,she would,even if you offer her just a bottle of coke

or Nothing ..

I'm leaving in the next 10mins ...

E mean say

"Start Action Ogbeni no dey dull me" ...

Naija ladies format na wa

But Gen Z no dey format anything dem go talk am gbua ..

. "Dude, You dey house"

I dey ...

I'm coming for Gbola, Cook indomie and egg for me ooo ... Awon omo Endtym !

placeofallure:
Indomie and egg sa? Indomie! So men have bragging rights over a meal less than #500? I don't know why some women cheapen themselves that much.

Mothers should train their kids to be content with whatever is available in the family. The way I grew up, you won't believe it! If I no chop for 2 days, you won't know self, let alone you luring me to bed with cheap Indomie, Egbami!

Be modest. Don't run after any man's money, you can make more. I hate it when a man wants to play Lord, King and Master over me just because he's offering something no matter how big or small. Men will respect you when they find out you can breathe without them.

Different Background Different Trainings that's why the world is Diverse :

Indomie and Egg can still be used to Chop Buhari's Daughter, Dangote's Daughter, Even Dj Cuppy or Beyonce ...

It's not about the Food but the Love for the Man behind the food except He becomes an Unfortunate fellow

Meanwhile, Some girls are Longthroat and their Womanhood no mean much to them due to dysfunctional Background or Circumstances... Dem dey Use indomie and egg Chop dem Steady not just because of the food perse but the security of the man Against Her Background!

There is need to Protect Womanhood especially those who want to Be Protected not All Woman, I don't know how much Ministry of Women Affairs is doing about that .... I don't think we truly have laws protecting Women especially being Impregnated and Abandoned


The Mothers of Future Generations, Gen Z Pro

Persephone1:
No it doesn't! As a matter of fact no lady is cheap! Problem comes when these ladies lower their standards and get down you foolish guys without demanding anything in return, foolish guys who have the lowest esteem that can be found in humans who have glorified sex so much and never thought something as great as intimacy can ever get to their generation will start thinking of what they did to deserve such "mighty" gift.
And yes! He picks the highest he could ever afford. Indomie and egg.

If all you could ever brag with to get intimate with a lady is indomie and egg then you should be ashamed of yourself. You are not only broke but totally ungrateful for free gift of life.

True Overbloated Talk!

PerfectStranger:
I think karma is partial. Most people suffering from karma are innocent. Paying for shits they didn’t do.

How did You know that....

You draw water from Oceans inside a Bottle and Carry am go Your House .... You drink am e come Taste Salty ....

You draw water from your tap Inside a Bottle and drink am ... e come taste good and fine ...


Why would you conclude the Ocean Water inside your Cup is Innocent because e no suppose taste Salty ... How E go Be Fresh ...


Water Drawn from Salty Water will Taste Salty regardless of the Kinda Cup You Use Drawn am ...

Cup na Just Body, Water is Your DNA inherited from your parents and Ancestors...

You are Expected to do like them except you corrected it and suffer or enjoy same consequences Base on Current Trends:

Water Drawn from Sockerway will smell Shit any Day Regardless of The Cup Use to Drawn am except by Neutralisation ....

Nobody is innocent Bro, We shall all pay price of where we Originated, where your water(Your Body and Soul) is Drawn From and Also Enjoy the Benefits of where your water is drawn from ....

That's why You should shadow and Don't Mix Your Blood/Water with Anyhow humanbeing in order not to create wahala for yourselves and the Societies

Nonexisting1:
I don't believe in anything religion but I believe in karma. An old man once said to me, my son let me give you a little secret. Most people that suffer in this life now are only paying for their wickedness in their previous lives. Have you not entered okada before and wondered why this man with big man vibes dey ride okada. Even bus conductors, agberos, baro pushers, etc. You will get the vibes of an affluent person but the person dey struggle to survive. Since he told me that, I done dey wait for General Sani Abacha to come back make I turn am to my shoe shiner straight.

Abacha can't come back as your shoe shinner cuz God no dey reason like Man ....

Abacha died as Military C-in-C and Do you see his Families how many of them are Shoe shinners .. That's how you get your Clue ...

Nobody can Judge Anybody nor Make Decisions for Anybody's Account of Life But Only God Decides ...

Abacha might not be Evil as You think before His God due to Many Good Decisions He would have made that Only God knew ....

Laslas Our Intention is Our Judge not the Action Perse!

Where Grass Die in dry season shall Grass Rise in Raining Season, All things being Equal