₦airaland Forum

ucheokonkwo:
Money has come it's now time to oppress the poor girl, very soon he will say she's not up to his standard.

Indiscriminate Child Bearing needs to Be regulated:

There should ve licenses and Approval before you can bear Children and Both Couples need to be tested and Examined whether they have what it takes to Raise Kids ....

If Yes, Continue with the Pregnancy:

If No, Both Couples should go to 3Months Imprisonment in Child Services Home to Understand what it takes to raise Kids ..

God wants us to Regulate and regularise Ourselves

STEWpid:
Chai..

...but will those people have the interest to serve Nigeria?

...they might be corrupted very fast in view of our sociopolitical atmosphere which is riddled in the 'Other World's Transnational powers and Very Deadly Wickedness'.

Anyway, I strongly believe "Nigeria's Messiah Time is at Hand".

Waiting to See when American Nigerian Would be Governor of Borno State, Amen!

That's the Essence of Humanities, Human with No Borders:

Righteousness2:
Bible Prophecy Is The Only Reliable Information on earth.
The Holy Bible is playing live before us, unfortunately many are not aware.

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Sit up Folks! Don't be carried away with distractions all around. Ensure you are living with JESUS Christ. We are in that season where anything could happen.
KING JESUS is about to Show up.

if the NASA were to be sitting down as You, We wouldn't have understand the science of the Sun

Have You ever tried to step up your comfort Zones in the Church and Endeavour to explore God's wonders in the Space

We are just so mentally lazy in Africa no wonder our Forefathers were dancing around the trees before they brought Islam and Christianity to them ....

Now Great Nations are moving beyond Theoretical Religion Dictates and Embracing Sciences, We would still wait till Colonialisation before Embracing Sciences

You are just shouting Jesus is Coming as if You would know when Jesus Comes

What about if Jesus Should Emerges as an Astronaut or You are Expecting Jesus of Eon Years in 21st Century

No Wonder African Didn't Produce Prophets while You sit Down Blowing Triumpets, the World left you behind Conquering Space

What about if Jesus is now an Astrophysicist, Prophets come to Show Humanities what God wants from Us interms of Next Focus of Evolutions not Just Shouting Up and Down ....

Sensible Nations Understand the next stage of Evolutions and how to Approach it while we are Here Shouting back to More than 4,000years Ago ... While You Could have used 4,000 years Intelligence to Plan for likely occurences in the Future

fairlyisabel:
The type of a man you described above is not a full fledged man but a half beast- half human. Full fledged men are kind, patient, perseverance, faithful, loving.. I don't where you got your definition from

Check Around the World and see for yourself The Life of Most Billionaires and Global Powers ....

If He Maintains Single Wife, He is Gaming Models Somewhere which His wife as Reckoned with ....

Or Some Marries Many Women with Numerous Girlfriends Join ....

You gree or no gree .... I no Concern !

If You are seeing Chain Reactions across men Over the Globe, that should tell you there is a Science behind it and that's Nature doing Her Things on Men to Balance their Workload and Relaxations if not Most men will die of stress without Fulfilling their Dreams Aspirations:

Women cushions Men's Stress

Just Marry the one not running on much Testosterone(Moderate Man) ... then Both of you will Come to terms if not .... Oyo is Your Case oo .. Single mom is just Loading!

Know Your Man and You would know what to Expect

Nehyooh:
Well, is not that i have the mind-set that non-virgin can't make a good wife.
But my personal wish is to marry a virgin, I've my reasons bro. Thanks

There are too many Virgins Around and Abound But You May Complain Dem no "Wake", Bookish, Nyanshless, Percky Boobs, Etc .... There can never be 100% Specs in One Woman so, Reason am well well and no demand Jupiter from person Daughter

All na Managements e requires

livinbygrace:
The modern day marriage is nothing but a scam and that’s why it doesn’t last any longer.
Most of our girls now are not marriageable (No difference between them and road side prostitute) .
Go to higher institution ,hardly you see a lady without numerous uncountable boy friends .
And the worst part is that economy is not encouraging at all.I just got married after frolicking with plenty uncountable ladies in my mid forties but will tell you categorically,that I enjoyed my bachelorhood days than what am experiencing now.

See this Brostitute Opening Mouth Taaa Insulting Women as Prostitute ... E go clear for Ya Eyes

The Most Important to Nature is Our Judgements, Once You no get Sense You are Fvcked till Sense Gets You

Nehyooh:
Bro, even with two body counts, only God knows how any times she did it. She may not even know the number of times herself.

So, the best is to find a virgin.
I can't waste my resources on a left over that now turned saint just to manipulate one simp to wife her after she don shared herself finish.

Virgin Doesn't Mean She will tolerate Your BS or You Will tolerate her BS ...

Work on Your Maturities and Reasonableness Bro ...

As per Your Believe that Only Virgin can make up a Good Wife Already Casted Your Maturities and Casted Your Home Self

Even if You married A Virgin, Once she misbehaved e mean say she no be virgin when you met am Shikom as per you head oo

BigMamaNaija:
Our forefathers and foremothers hardly dated or did it decently and had lower breakups compared to what we have these days.

This new pattern of 'dating' that encourages young people to taste and taste and taste different people and then go into marriage with numerous body counts; how can they stick with one person for the rest of their lives?

Na wa oh.

... Na so !

Trottle:
The trend is very worrying to be sincere.

However, when we choose to discard the old-age wisdom of doing in-depth background check and ensuring the necessary virtues and qualities are in place, and 'true' love/lost is not the main motivation to marry this is what we'll keep getting.

As youths we should also stop marrying to 'pepper' anybody, you'll be doing your mental health a disservice and also putting undue stress in your nascent marriage because you'll keep have to try to keep measuring up and ensure that the false picture you painted is not tainted.

Marriage is not a 100x100 metres relay race, you don't have to rush or go into it for flimsy reasons. Returning to the old (gold) standard will reverse this madness.

CC: MalignantGuest

The reason why Old(Gold abi Aluminum) Standards was working was because Women Suffers in Silence and the Societies was Against Women Complaining of Matrimonial Abuses and Maltreatment from Either the Husband Himself or In-laws:

But with Women Emancipation and Demanding for their Rights Up and down as well as Issues of Gender Equality 21st Century Men can't Can Anymore Because Our Operating System is still Our Forefathers and Ancestors Own ...

You want a Submissive Women as a Lazy Man or A Submissive Women without Toasting Out Her Head and Manipulating Her Entire Emotions and that of Her Ancestors Join ...

Baba, Girls yaff tear eyes Finish and they are also making Monies too so and Pvssy is selling like mad now with Many Emotional Filled Men and Women to take Up Her tears to Any Length ....

This is a Revolutions from Women for Eon of Years Suffered in the hands of Men ...

If You can't give her Orgasm she either uses machine or find her Ex .... Except Few Whose Souls is still on God and their OS is still on Our Ancestral Mothers But Gen Z Pro I Pity Future Males! BabyMamas Everywhere and Girls go still have to Calm down again to Bear Someone's Name or Find a Raiser for their Kids ....

Kai, this Planet sha.. Na Cycle!

MNDY:
Nice one
On this quarrel, you and I know your gender to be the one to love drama/trouble more than the other gender.
A lot can be settled amicably if your gender chooses the peaceful approach to settle matters.
Even cheating can be handled by a woman behaving unworried, it will keep the man scared and ultimately make him change.

It's Unmanly Bro to be accusing the Weaker and Emotional Gender to Settle things with You Amicably ....

Your Job is to Make Her Settle it Amicably and if You can't Make Her then You can't tame Her ... It ain't Her Fault Bro, Woman is Woman and Man Gats to Be a Man to Have his Way even if You Messed Up ... She will still Hold up to You not after venting Her anger though

fairlyisabel:
why wouldn't it crash when men has refused to repent from cheating? Why wouldn't it crash when men has refused to censor their eyes and minds and focus on the women they took out of their parents houses? He who must come to equity must be clean

You are Being Emotional now:
Trust me, You can't Bear the Masculinity of a Full Fledged Man ... He will run you till You run out of the House or He Kills You ...

You surely needs Help from Your Sisterhoods ...

This is not Always the Case But Mostly the Case with Most Men who is on Full Manly Nitro e.g Pursuit of Wealth and Powers as well as Maintaining Wealth and Powers is Very Draining:

The More his Body Demands from Him, the More He Demands from You, I doubt One Single Woman, With Home Care Responsibilities and the Kids, can Supply the Oils necessary to Cushion His Systems .. you Either Run Out or He runs out and Comes Home Chilling!

Can You Bear it

That's the Scientific-Facts not Emotions, That's Why Most Great Men are Gamers na person wey Cast be Thief !

That's another Crash to Marital Home !

The Only way is for him to Control his Masculinity which will also Affects his Life Affairs in Other Stratas of Life Hitheto Affecting the Home Front too:

Nevertheless, I blame men for the Bane in the Societies because these women are either Someone's Wife or Someone's Daughter whose Men have Failed them in their Masculinity and Manly Duties towards them:

The Courses of the failure Might be Either Objective or Subjective But Societies' Rottenness and Marriage Collapses Because Men can handle their Women

Blessedmercy8:
It will crash before now. When it's runs girls and boys that are going into marriage these days ,what do you expect?

The kind of places they meet themselves will determine how long it will last.

Most of these couples come from dysfunctional homes where there was no proper home training and are launched into the society with no character and end up with birds of same feather.

Gone are the days a girls mother will call her before marriage and draw her ears telling her to respect and obey her husband. You know, giving her advice from her experience and how to manage the home. Even the men no longer sit their sons down to advise them on how to take care of their wife's and homes. Everyone is after, "my child is a graduate and they go ahead and bill the husbands huge sums for bride price. That's all!

Clubers getting married. How e wan be? Tufia!

That's Marriage Built on "Dorime" and "Trabaye" ... Everything is On BamBam and If E no BamBam again Everywhere go scatter to Find Another Club where BamBam dey Trabaye ....

Once there is Economic Hardships, Morality get losts ... Humanities are not Supposed to Suffer for Economic Means because Our Mother Planet Can Feed us to Stupor and then We can Regulate Ourselves to Behave Normal:

But Once there is Self Imposed Economic Hardships by Big Men at the Top due to Our Greed, Everyone is affected because Everyone just want to Be Raving at the expense of Another then the Chain Reactions Begins across Humanities!

Only Few are Sane Even Me self I'm just semi-sane because You can't be Sane in an Insane World where you need to Constantly Check Your Back, Watch Your Folks, Friends, Frenemies, Businesses, Environments Even the Sky so Make Plane no fall for Your Head ... Then Watch God for Mercies ....

You can't just close your eyes and conclude everything is OK in this Era Marriage is not a Scam but the responsibility is just much to bear viz-a-viz trends in the Society ... Society doesn't even care anymore unlike before because Everybody gets dem own breakfast we dem dey chop

Madampauline:
Back in the days I dated a married man I was 19 he was 35 married with kids.

He had done a lot for me, thanks to him I am in Europe now he has done everything for me.

I broke his heart after moving in Europe in 2011, I blocked him and moved on with my life.

I am happily married since 2015 with 2 beautiful children.

I learned that he passed away this year march and his wife and five children have nowhere to stay.

She is actually staying in church with 2 children while the other 3 are with relatives.

I feel so sad and I want to help her with accommodation and will give her money for business, I want to do know anonymously because if she knows it is me who want to help her I don't think she will accept the money.

Should I do it anonymously or I should let her know I am the one who want to help her.

Advice me please

Kindly Breathe into Her Anonymously .... It's far better than Leaving them like that !

Atleast for the Sake of God and Friendship between You Guys!

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benedictnsi:
How do they often come up with this type of statistics ?

Most of these figures are just made up inferentially and as such Not realistic.

Which 3 African country total population is less than 14 million ?

Oboy if Loud, Arizona and Skunk are Drugs ... That statistics is underestimated ....

Boys and Girls just dey puff anyhow nowadays my mind dey cut ....

Next Generation which is Gen Z Pro would be Born with Igbo and Shayo already in their DNA

pinkPUSSY:
This will tell you how liberal and open minded Yoruba Christians are , but Yoruba Muslim think otherwise..

In fact, they even threatened not to vote for Yoruba Christian if they contest for presidency hence the humiliation they gave pastor Osibanjo who is a Yoruba Christian..

They will tell you that muric man is on his own , yet they will go secretly and be supporting him.. If MURIC is on his own like they made us to believe, do you think he would remain consistent all these years knowing fully well that nobody is supporting him ?... The answer is No...


Yoruba Christian please wake up!!!

I'm a Yoruba-Muslim, My Paternal Grandma is a Yoruba-Christain .....

Remove Politics as well as Jewish and Arabic Imperialism, There is no Difference between All Prophets of God, The Most Important to God is:

Peacefulness and Blissfulness of Humanities in Love and Unity ....

Love Your Neighbour as Yourself and the Religion of God is One Religion and that is "Peace" that's All!

If The Job of Human Race is to Conquer the Universe in Extolling the Work of God of Nature, we can't achieve that Mission without Peace Amongst Ourselves and Much More Trained Human Populations so We Can Have Technicians Building Crafts for Different Missions to Different Galaxies at the same time so we can all Have Comprehensive Reports about Our Worlds and All Her Environments... This is a Huge Mission that Requires all Hands and all Givernments of the World to Subscribe to One Mantra "Peace"

We can't Achieve Constant Peace With:

Muslim vs Christain Global Crowd Tussles:

Atheists Vs Religionists

Moderate vs Extremists

Eastern Nuclear Powers Vs Western Nuclear Powers

Imperialists Vs Libertarians

Terrorists Vs Humanities

The Entire Human Race Problems is Central on Competitions and I keep Wondering What we are Competing for

Is it Food or Air which is the Basic need for Human Survival and we have it in Abundance until Some Imperialist decided to Monetised it in order to Enslave Humanities ....

Awon Eleribu I'm a Yorubaman and Yoruba-Muslim(Yoruba Peace Adherent) not even Arabia-Muslim ....

Peace to a Yorubaman is not Same as Peace to Arabia Man ... our Culture will Play Impact ....

Peace is a Universal Language the Entire Humanities Understand Because Everyone Understand Good or Bad as well as Love and Hatreds:

This is Inexhaustible...!!

Anything Above Moderate ... Good or Bad, I no Wan Dey

Elemosho478:
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I know this is the Reason because we are all Yoruba and that's how much it took!

He has Solved the Problem Now .... Naomi tear Race, Don't near the Stool if you can't Pay Her Dues .... if You Stubborn, Your Nyansh go Close, Sikom!

Power is not Easy But Thank God for God ....

Now, He will Live Long

The Responsibilities Eledumare Bequeathed On Kings Only Eledumare can Discharge the Jobs !

inoki247:
I just thank God for once me nd police neva get issue.....

Almost all the Police in doz West Africa francophone country dey organize pass na bike dem dey use arrest Car and dey will neva chase u any aw...


If you violate dere law na jus ur paper dem go seize dem no go even tow ur vehicle dey carry ur car wey no get paper up nd down if he sure for u....


And dey ar Less corrupt dem no dey put dere Corruption for face...

Buh u see all diz English speaking West Africa country dem no go hide dere Corruption jus go any English speaking country u go understand say na d same blood dey run inside every English speaking law enforcement agency....

British Corrupt all Nigerian Leaders via Indirect Rule(You are Just You, We are Brits so We Rule You through You)

But France Used Policies of Assimilations(All french Colonies are just France so Everything French is Replicated in French Colonies)

The Problem with France Own is that You will Lose Your Identity and Culture for French while that of British is that You will Keep Your Identity But It shall Be Bastardised !

Since then till Date ... Na ihm we Still Dey ooo !

aboyaji:
I travelled to Ivory Coast some months ago, so I settled in a remote area to reduce cost as a newbie.

One day I was going to an office for registration. Before I could meet up at the junction by 9am, the vehicles heading towards my proposed destination had all gone out. So I stood by the junction for sometimes with the help of the tree branches acting as shed and protecting me from the scorching sun.

A woman selling stuffs by the roadside asked me why I hadn't stopped the police officers on patrol to carry me along.

I said ... Me?

She said Yes, you. Stop them and they'll definitely take you (in french)

I was shocked

I declined the offer (because I was still running on the Nigerian operating system version 1.0

She insisted that they'll gladly be of assistance to me.

So there was a large number of the police officers coming in their 2 Hilux vehicles and about 8 motorcycles running behind the Hilux.

I waved at the Hilux in fear. Make Dem no lock me up in the process. The Hilux carrying some officers stopped. I wasn't fluently speaking the french. I gesticulated much while dishing out the little french I had in me. One of the officers politely told me they were not heading towards my direction and zoomed off.

The woman insisted that I stopped the ones on the motorcycles. I did and they stopped one after the other. They pulled over along the verge of the road.

Then, I told them where I was headed. The others told me they weren't heading towards my direction but 1. Only one out of them all was heading towards my direction. He asked me to join him.



Na police be this or what? And one thing about these police officers here is that they are always neatly dressed. Clean from head to toe. Clean shaven.

That was how we rode till we got to the office, then I alighted. The distance we covered, on a proper commercial vehicle costs 1k here. Yet a police officer was able to render such help.

The woman said that's how they live here and I'm a testament of that fact.

The people here are always ready to assist.

This is Cool and Humane ... I Beseech God of the Universes and Everything therein to Raise Nigeria(ns) beyond this Standard and Make Us a Good Example for The Global World to Emulate, Amen:

Divay2:
HIV/AIDS everywhere

I don't think I'll get married to any one because everybody is a suspect

Somebody cannot get diseases from HIS/HER numerous fuckmates and give it to me for free. Dead on arrival

Wetin Go Ask You Go Ask You and If You Go Unnatural Wetin Go Ask You still Go Ask You ...

Na why Many Janjawee plenty out there now because Many Things Dey ask dem Heads Questions wey dem no Know

HarlequinLekex:
Is it everything you must add religion?,religion extremist.Get sense

Religiously Means Regularly Na Just English dey make you dey Craze Like this ...

You don't like God sotey you no cum like Yourself Join

Ready100:
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wirinet:
I endorse the whole post.

We Black Africans are still living in the matrix. We are too scared to escape the reality created for us by the west. We are hopelessly dependent on the system built by the west

Blacks are born into bondage. Into a prison that we cannot taste or see or touch. A prison for our mind.

That's because We are Emotional Race Instead of Reasonable .... We Love Dancing Around Trees Instead of Conducting Research on How to Turn the Tree to a Ship and Let's Sail Atlantic and Pacific Ocean ...

Nevertheless, We are the First Human from which Others Evolves So I'm not Suprised a Lil bit ....

The West and Other Imperialists have also done Great Task to Ensure Africa is Kept Down and they all Play on our Emotions because they know the Weak Point "Emotion" ..... But One Day, Africa shall Rise and Also Lord over the World ...

We have the Resources, Na only Brain Remain

Loveisnotenough:
I hope we get to know each other. You're so on point. You're a great person. I'm afraid of letting them see what's going on, Incase they are on nairaland too. Man! I been hurt. People that I take care of on a daily basis, that I go all the way to starve myself just to help them. I'm that nice. I sometimes do favours that affect me so much just to make people happy but it's not as if I'm that nice, I also have a very bad temper. I have pulled an axe on two fighters before and they stopped; I have fought someone to the point of not fearing death before, we wasted our bloods just to show superiority, now how did I got so nice that even people use me.

Funny enough, these people are not strangers, they are the people I call my closest people. I know them, I know their cribs, should I kill them if I had the chance?

Thanks for the Accolades, Don't Commit Murder ooo

Just set aside 10% of Your Total Values for Charity on a Monthly Basis and Other Extra 10% at Most for Extra Effort to Helping People then Shut down immediately that 20% threshold is achieved.... You won't Be Bittered if they Hurt You because You still have 80% of You at any Point in time Strictly for yourself and your Immediate family:


You are also too Emotional, Nobody owes You anything and You don't Owe Anybody anything .. So Why Killing Your All for People who wouldn't Kill for You


See Life as a Businesses and the Earth as a Very Big Market Place, If You Loose Guard, You will be taken advantage Of and left to rot in Your Own Emotional Debacles or Extreme Angers that can destroy your internal organs and Kill You:

Do Businesses with Life and Be friendly with Your Friends to the Extent of their Friendship or More Just Prepare Yourself for Some Betrayal and post Managements...

No be You Create Human, No be You go Liberate them, Just do Your Own and Run-Off .... Leave them to Finish the rest!

browndre:
No virginity, no marriage. The man will look happy on that day but op will be laughing inside of him because guy man don marry his leftover. Tueh!.

What Left Over Una go just dey Cap over Nonsense ... You are also Her Left Over ...

Guderian:
No man is an island.

If one chose to live alone they also try and get some friends and meetup time to time.

Staying along with no friends.......

No be Joke, Human are Social Animals but there is need for Privacy to Do Recap and Activities Review if not, I love Sane Social Gathering ... I might not Even Say nor Do Much, I Just want to Watch and Be Merry:

Loveisnotenough:
Back in the years when I was a fresh bachelor doing well for myself, I had a lot of friends that I can't even count, I was so popular everywhere in my Neighborhood cos I was overly nice and friendly.

Fast forward to date, Every one had used my good heart against me and I'm ruined. I've even left my neighbourhood because all of them have taken advantage of me and no longer have the gut to come near me again.

I'm seriously lonely and not regretting it tho but I feel so much hatred for humans than ever before.

I wish I could get a gun henceforth. Can't leave my opps wandering the earth in peace.

Indeed being nice to people can be very toxic.

You just need to Define the Thresholds and extents of Your Nice, I'm Nice and Emotional But I Have Threshold and Time-line, Once My Time and Threshold is Breached or Accomplished, I'm Out Unto Another Person needing Help:


Don't blame people for using You, thank them for Training You to Becoming a Better Person, Thank Them for Showing You as Experience that Using and Dumping Someone is part of Life thus Don't Loose Guard Next time because You can be Used and Reused ....

Nature Usually gift Second Chance so Rise Up again and Experience shall Guide You but if you messed Up again, You will still be Messed ... Emotional People get Punished While Reasonable People are Rewarded!

Nature Only used them to Train You on How it's done on Planet Earth ... She like a Moutain with Valleys .... You Shouldn't walk Straight a Road that's not Straight, You will be lost to the Bushes if care is not taken then to the Jungle where there is no Rule But Survival ....

Nature will Give You Second Chance, if you fail to learn then Nature has Tried ...

Never-Ever Run Life on Emotions But Reasonableness if You going to Run on Emotions Possess Emotional Intelligence, and Emotional Maturities to Achieve Emotional Stabilisations!

Good or Bad, I'm always thankful to People who have showed me what I wouldn't have known existed ..... People who showed me the Loopholes in My Personality and I covered My Tracks immediately after Exposures!

Great People are Taught Great Lessons By Nature if not Nature wouldn't have Arch Humans to Hold Humanities into Order ....

All Great People have Myriads of Experiences some even nearly killed them But they survived and Learnt to Maintain the Top ....

inoki247:
lol the true Odogwu....


Baba buy 1 colet 1 free....


This what you call 2 phase line if 1 current low u change to anoda current..

Both Current is gonna be loaded at the same time

Sasi54:
I just de wonder say na who he go first Bleep

party Bro

franchasofficia:
This is what Seun ought to have done on Nairaland.


Monetize front page such that only paid posts and highly relevant posts hits the front page.


Then start a verified account on Nairaland too, and then make the verified users pay a certain year subscription and then add some benefits like:


verified users will qualify to have at least 5 of their threads on front page every month. So it is left for the verified user to submit his most relevant threads to the mods to the screen and select one to be pushed to the front page every week. Do this and watch throlls reduce on Nairaland.


Also verified users will have direct access to private message any member or mod directly without waiting for them to respond to their PM request.



Verified users must have their full details submitted and verified by Nairaland admins before an account can be verified.



Cc: Seun reach out to me let me share more monetization tips to you if interested

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