₦airaland Forum

Robi65:
I see broke guys coming to Nairaland to rant about girlfriends or wives leaving them for another dick or even secretly doing it while still with them
Let me make it clear today , a lady who grows up with poor parents and family is not looking for love, she is looking for a better life , not for herself but for her coming generation
You as a man wants to cuddle and thrust, no! She is not looking for that, she probably suffers trauma from how her father being shamed for not paying up on time for a paint bucket of Garri, or how her mother is ridiculed in neighborhoods for wearing rag
Such lady or girl would be stupid if she grows up and start looking for love … she needs money
So guys , stop being selfish, if you do not have money, girls are not meant for you , they are for those with something to offer

Unfortunately, Guys with Money are now Unto Women that has Many things to Offer including Money ....

Hypergamy na for both Gender... Laslas the Gender Hishhhh will be settled.

Petalse:
Wow, such an honour. Congratulations

Congratulations to Her and I wish her successful Service Delivery!

fergie001:
Prof Rufus Ayodeji Olowe, was a chairman of the UNILAG chapter of the Academic Staff Union of Universities, and a former head of the Department of Finance, Faculty of Management Services, on the campus.

Olowe and Financial Management.. I used His textbook during B.sc Era...

galaxy2020:
They are causing more harm to the party, there should be freedom of speech.

Position of Vice Presidential Flagbearer should also be Subjected to Primary Election with Many Candidates not just Verbal talks by some Party Leaders ...

What's wrong with INEC.... Vice President is a Potential President whether Acting or Substantial as Situation Might Required ....

Such a Position is Never-Ever suppose to be by Appointment at Party Level, Its Suppose to be By "Primary Election" alongside the Presidential Flagbearers!

Who Emerges the President and Who Emerges the Vice President would now be Jointly Presented to Contest for General Election on the platform of the Party.

Na everything I go dey teach dem small small pikin

Sweetplum:
Let Ooni try his luck first. I can't be second choice..only first choice.

Royals Don't Stress.

Meanwhile, "Some" 4th Choice finds life and Marriage Sweeter than Many First Choices:

Once The Man Sabi Family Management and Emotional Intelligence as well as Financial Muscle and Good Dicking ...

Wetin Remain ...

Pwettylinda:
Most useless in Nigeria currently all he does is Bleep women and marry every month

Pvssy sweet Ma ... No blame am! You wan join his Harem, Apply !

An Alpha Male and Women in Businesses and all of Una dey Cap here ... Leave them all alone!

Women dey marry women for Obodo Oyinbo!

Sweetplum:
Them talk you say I no dey classic n exotic?

Wetin Concern Ooni, Those ladies ain't Classless ... Why Posting as if You Pass them ..

Na so una go dey Cap Anyhow Online ....

and If Ooni Toast You now with Rolls Royce and Private Jet all Exclusive to You and a Mansion of Choice in Abuja City ... You go just Wet Everywhere with Cum One Shot See twins everywhere

Righteousness2:
When you don't read and obey the word of GOD, Disaster and Calamities will not be in short supply on you.
Be not wise in your own eyes. Fear GOD and Depart from evil so it will be well with you, here on Earth and in Eternity.

You Didn't Post to what You Quoted

Will Solomon enter Hell Fire

Sweetplum:
See why I no like these kings n traditional rulers. Always prime to at least 5 or more wives. Some of the wives are even gifts. See what female gender has been reduced to?
Oh Africa!
If you must marry me, it's me nd you alone.

Then Don't Marry Royal ...
Are those women not even more than You

You see their Profile ... They are Classical and Some of them Exotic

Mrfixitt:
All these monarchs too like kponyo

It comes with the Crown Especially African Crown Bearer has alot to Bear!

Mathiasa:
Tell her u need to move on and that she's the reasons you are not in a relationship with another lady, and that u want to know what she wants so that u can either move on with her or with another.
See her reaction after that. Tell her u don't keep ladies as friends.

A man Should Man Up ... it ain't Easy because we are all damped inside Pool of our own emotions but You just have to beat that Emotions Up and State Your Facts:

Oh ha!

SeaTrade:
I've been with this lady for 3 years,I've only had casual sex just a few times that don't qualify as cheating cos I'm not emotionally involved with an of these random women.
Heck I don't even take their calls.
That don't count as cheating for a young,vibrant man.

There shouldn't be any crime in meeting Someone, Making New Friend and checking out Real Beneficial values both can benefit from Each Other not "Sex" Per Se ......

Why do You People turn everything into Cat and Dog Fight .... Bring her unto your table to meet your Fiance ... She can become a friend to una Couple ...

God bless our Ancestors Jare .. they are very Good here

Kinni weyrey Gan wey make all of Una turn everything to Madness ...

Simple Stuffs una go dey speak English... Offer her right there on that counter to come to una table ....

PlayerMeji:
I am still waiting for day one deranged person go begin hand out money to people instead of killing people.

Why is it that it is to kill that their minds easily default to? I need someone to explain to me.

Chronic Depression or Mental Health Issues Fuelled By Many Factors!

There is limit to Nature Intricacies some Human can Withstand before the Animal Instincts already Covered By Evolutions Kicks.

Everywhere and Everyone gets Hated ... Boom, Berserk!

The Understanding of God(Good) and Nature with Elimination of Hardships can really help Mental Health People!

Patriotsleague:
Lesbianism and homosexuality are a taboo, that will destroy the fabric of our family life and society.

The girl can just use the Video and Picture Evidence of Persecution to Japa Out of Nigeria.

Manofvalor1:
i pity your life, na so you for take land for emergency ward with your gbola standing attention for air like gsm mast, by then all those small small girls nurses go come dey laugh at your stupidity. while you go dey writh in pains. dem go come abandon you for ward bed like specimen rabbit, while you go dey shout, make una help me o.......!. make una help me o..........!. you go come shame your ancestors. shiorrrr.

LOL, Colorado effect!

Jazzman01:
you guys better stop all these nasty things you are consuming just for 2 seconds of pleasure. These things damage the liver and kidneys.

Add Heart Join because that Bro go dey pump anyhow just to ensure constant blood flow to the JT ... Overwork!

Something wey ihm suppose dey Use small-small!

dillylilly:
at least she didn't create a scene claiming u carried her for 20k naira.

Just call her apologies n b glad u have a new fuk mate, call when u need pussy n thats it.

Too soon to loose a pussy like dat

Wahala no dey finish for una Head ... Una go do sotey e go lead to Scene ... A lady Cap like that and You no Shift One Side ....

This Kain thing na One Night Stand ... Until Her Head Touch Abi !

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IceDune:
As we started, this babe turned me and lay on me. The way his babe rode me eh like say she has been hoarding kongi for 2months. I didn't even understand the style she did that night, like she was on top but she wasn't sitting on me but rather she was lying down flat on me and riding. This went on for minutes before she asked for change of position. I started pounding her missionary style, some minutes into the pounding she started crying and saying I love you. I overlooked it as things girls normally say when they reach orgasm. When I saw that she was satisfied and my sheet wet, I switched to doggy so I can cum too.
We did one more time around 6am before preparing for work. We left the house together. Now this is where the weird thing started.

Na so You Buy Market enter Portal ... Once Everything is Cheap and Fast .. I Flee ... I don't like Liabilities like Loan Shark ... Dem Disburse Easily

waice6571:
MARRIAGE SAVING ESSAY!!!

You live with your wife and the maid. One Saturday morning, your wife goes to the market. A while later, you go to take a bath to go out. The maid also takes the opportunity to go and bath in her own bathroom.

Whilst you two were in your bathrooms, madam comes back home to pick her phone she forgot. Then the doorbell rings. Remember, you are bathing, but didn't know your maid is also taking her bath, so you continue with no worries and your wife was all along on the bell.

Not understanding why the maid is yet to get to the door, you tie your towel, your curved tool making a bulge in the towel, you rush out of the bath and head to the door.

Getting to the living room, you find the maid already opening the door with wrapper tied to her chest, sumptuous bossom popping through the lightly wet wrapper tied to her chest, curvaceous buttocks seeming bare in the very light ankara.

Madam enters and sees the maid wet with wrapper tied around her chest, and you, oga, also wet with towel tied around your loins...

Madam looks at you weirdly and asks what was going on, and why it took so long for both of you to show up, in that compromising state, and together.
Now, your wife doesn't know what we know and willing to listen to explanations.

With the aid of a graph sheet, Four Figure Table and T-Square, explain in 247 words the theorem that can save your marriage.

I would just go back inside and Continue Bathing .. Mi O Raye Shalaye(No time):

If you can't trust me na ya Wahala be that !

vickyfrancis1:
I blame the guy sha... misplaced priority.
If not this Ashi for get mind dy cap non$ense?

As in for this Buhari regime, u go carry money gotten from hardwork/handwork and splash on a lady in a club?

That Handwork fit be Front Bro .... Nigga might be phone repairer Normal and Hustle in the Night ....

You no go Hustle Under Rain and Sun and blow Money as Big Spender on "Dorime" ....

InfinityFabric:
You ancestors and grandparents who never dated but still are married till they died, you guys dated 20 years, still divorced in less than a year of marriage.
I don't know how moronic this has to get, now you'll be taking 2 years ? Another fool will come and say 4 yrs ? Another will be like 1 yr.


People divorce after 5 10 15 years of "dating", in their first years of marriage.

You really don't know people until you marry them.


A SIMPle man giving advice on female nature, how reassuring.

Ancestors Marries into the Family Compound and Marriage takes alot of Preparation in fact Some since the Girl child was Born, Immediately after Birth Of Baby girl Suitors(Head of Different Families) have Lined Up on the Dormout of the Babygirl asking Her Parent to Marry her to them at Maturity and Brides Gifts yaff started immediately... The Would be Husband too would have been labouring for his In-laws!

After Marriage, the Families of Both Couples ensure the Marriage Last and Withstand the Test of Time!


Nowadays, Everything Happens in the Street and End in the Street ... Street yaff take Over, Even Many Families are now Street Families na Red Eye e go be like no be dem dey blow teeth to each other on Wedding Day .... !

Welcome to Gen Z, Version 2022 !

advanceDNA:
U dont date a nigerian girl with the mind set that you are the only one offing pant.....the economy is bad..how do u guys think all these broke women use iphone promax and bone straight wig...??

besides i dont know how u people trust someone u barely know 100%...

Trust no girl....This way...u always go in strapped and save ur self in case there is STDs....
U dont lick pvssy other men are spitting and cumming inside
U dont waste money...u spend on her sparingly....
U dont kill yourself when infidelity happens cos u are already expecting it....

Men...give yourself brain....

Aswear In Businesses Expect Profit or Loss ... No Emotions, It's just Life ....

Even we dey disappoint Ourselves talkless person wey no be You !!

Emotional Maturities is Key to LongLife ... I no go want run My Engine(Life) anyhow on Person whom I barely know except for few Years.

People wey you know all your life are even Bound to Change same You gangan can even Fvck You Up ....

Maka Happen na!

Urheadmaster:
North Korea is looking for trouble.

Should Japan decide to retaliate, make Kim Jong no come begin shout inhumane against humanity

Big Fishes and Many Marine Life would have been destroyed and dem go dey Wonder who fired fires Against their Abode ...

Banhammy717:
You're not only her husband, you're also her tutor and guidance.
You'll continue to educate her on the reasons to be appreciative.
Don't be tired of her, she will change for better one day.

lansile:
Well, here is another version o. I have 70k on me last two weeks. I gave her 20k for food. The rest is spend in taking care of our new apartment that needs some repairs and that includes HER OWN clothes cabinet which alone consumed 15k ooo. She then started demanding demanding I give her 10k, despite I stated how I spent every penny and I didn't buy anything personally for myself or did anything in my own room,she said I just wasted 70k without benefiting her. 20k for our food, 15 alone for her cabinet and all other things like curtains rods etc . I'm taya o, and what can they offer other than kpekus? Nothing!!! And when you decide to face your girlfriend outside and leave their stupid kpekus for them, another problem begins, you will see your wife beating her own child for any little mistake. Just call them devils kawai

... I don laugh Tire

rollywise:
You actually saw these things while dating her. But I'm not in the habit of fault finding when the deed isv done.
My advice: withhold some of the things you do for her. Not providing basic amenities at home o. Just withhold those gifts or whatever you buy for her that she's ungrateful for. If she complains, tell her it's coz she didn't appreciate the previous. Gradually it will sink into her

Until She goes out there go fvck the next guy for the same thing you denied her ...

You never know anything especially when Woman head dey touch na formatting She requires no be to dey do Gragra with Her ....

ABANGWABOI:
ifinger

O boy see make I give you OT..
If she mess up...
Try and get her husband contact.. then go and buy an already registered sim (it is sold oo.. naija is corrupt,make e no shock you..) use the Sim to download WhatsApp ..
Then use it to send her videos and nhude pics to her husband..
Remove the part that your face showed on it..
Then drop small hints for him on her excapade..
Then after you confirm he has seen those pics and videos you sent..
Then remove the Sim and if possible break and destroy it..
The Sim cannot be traced to you cos you weren't the one that registered it with MTN..
Watch how that OLOSHO woman marriage go take scatter and always maintain a defiance state whenever she tries to link you to her brouhaha..

If that woman jam my type of person eeh.. she go melo..
I don't know if it is because I am a Bad fellow that is why both Men and Women avoid having issues with me.. . sometimes I go dey find trouble but trouble just dey avoid me..
Op Dem dey look face Sha.. Dem no born her well if na me..

If she be Street Woman, You will be Jungle Justice in no time ...

You Destroy her Home, She will Destroy You without You Seeing Her Coming .....

A Sane Man would never allow a Woman to Concentrate Her Scorn on Him ... You can't Win ! ....

Cashio:
nothing will happen to his wife because you wished for it....what he did was wrong, but your curse is useless

Very Useless, The Op Might Even be Catching Cruise and He Came with wetness everywhere....

Emotions everywhere

Stanweezy:
If this thing is true OP,

Person go do am to your wife, infact even ur gateman will have a taste of your wife and she will continue to sleep with anything sleepable without ur notice.

Repercussions will caught up with u unless u decided not to marry that's the only way u will escape this curse.

I wonder what a normal thinking man will see in a married woman with kids for that matter

Life no dey work like this Bro .. Op Will Pay his Price not his Innocent Wife who no dey there when dem be Fvck na!

ifinger:
So it all started in my work place a yr ago ,met this lady we were in same department that brought us close . We exchange numbers,she told me she was married with 2kids I didn't think much of it.
As time went by we started chatting via messenger,it started from official stuff till we became intimate,on one occasion she told me she was always wet each time we chat, I asked about her hubby she told me he works in a neighbouring states but comes back occasionally.

Then I told her we could satisfy the urge if she wanted she was like no oh if we do it heaven would fall, this that , I just maintained my level as she was the one that told me how wet she was
Two months later she told me she wanted me in her lol,? I told her , I booked an hoetel. N a Friday invited her still not sure she would make it but to my surprise she came
Before I new what was next we were kisn fingarin her on the bed
Then a call rang it was her hubby who asked were she was this lady with my hand deep inside her honey pot said she was on her way to the market
We had good sez that day I gave her lots of tongue and gave her 10k too

2 weeks later I noticed she became so possessive ,I can't even chat or speak other co staff of the opposite sez in the office she wanted to know what we discussed, at some point I could not hold it any we had a fight she was like I will tell my husband I laughed and blocked her numbers made shore I deleted all our chat which had been on disappearing mode !
Now she is looking for a way so we could be friends I think she actually want to set me up so I have kept her at arms length! Yes how can u blame a guy for a fling that was mutual and u were even paid! Only to want to control who speak with! Guys be smart these hos ain't loyal

That's why God Said Flee Fornication Na Sin Against God(Good) ... It's because of the See Finish that ensued afterwards .....

someone will start Being Overprotective of Territories Which lead to Choking the Other Person then You wanna liberalise Yourself next She feels Used By You then As per Small Mindset, She Can Slam You with Rape and wets You Everywhere and harm your Prestige.....

Na Correct Ballers Sabi Play the Game of Fvck Aside in Office infact Nobody go Know because Everyone is Matured Enough to Understand what's at Stake!