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kingthreat:
2015, I will never forget. My boss used to get bulk fresh chicken from one farm in Mowe. I will drive to get over 20kg of chicken. Deliver 10kg to his brother's house and bring the other 10kg to his home. Second time of delivery to his brother's house, it was around 12 noon. Kids were in school, she was the only person at home. Woman was tying wrapper on her chest, opened the freezer for me to put the chicken. Dunno how, wrapper fall. She said sorry, tied her wrapper back. Now asked me, why am I looking shocked like I have not seen a naked woman before. I turned forward, no look back, no hear any word. Go straight to the motor, start dey drive. Dey imagine the sweet breasts and hairy bush I for enjoy if only I played along. Fear some married women.

Make God help us for real:
If she didn't lack she wouldn't have showed you shishi: A sexually Fulfilled Woman wouldn't look you twice so if she is not fulfilled, How could she go about it :

The problem is the Society lacks Knowledges and do not seek Knowledges:

Many men don't understand Men's Biology nor Women's Biology likewise

Many Women do not understand Men neither do they understand themselves:

You put each other for house and you think drop money, fvck and it goes:

What manages the various emotional stages of each other as it changes gear like Car and the hills and down of each one:

Life is a Journey and Only friends walk together to the extent of Same ideology or the Dominant Patner:

Everyone must be a Psychotherapists for Marriage to Work in 2020s if not Divorce rate will keep rising and the Consequential Effects on future Generations and Global Peace:

Batam:
All of you castigating marriage, as a married man I have few questions for you guys:
Are you from a broken home?
Did your parents married legally and traditionally?
Are you married?
What are your bad experience as a married man?
What makes you think a baby mama is better than a wife?
Do you think you are free from marital commitment when you are dealing with baby mama?
Are you sleeping with random girls and then turning around to call them names?

That's the Problem: They are Irresponsible That's all and they don't want to be Accountable to another Soul for Emotional support ...

Marriage is not a pot of stew : It involves mutual cleaning of the madness inside each couples head and enlarging the Beauties of one another:

Not many people are committed to helping each other in real sense so the easy way out is BabyMama but Until Nigeria passed Laws Protecting BabyMama and Children then They will have to fvck without pregnancy else you pay up and show up or go to Alagbon

Tunagee:
Babymama take you to court in this naija, if so, everyman go don dey jail

That's what makes you to become irresponsible because your problem is not Actually marriage but an avenue to become irresponsible over the mother and the kid

Weyrey ponilu until Nigerian also follow Caucasians make law to protect Babymama with Child Support and make everyman to be legally available and responsible for the Mother and the Kids they beget regardless of marriage or no marriage:

Shikom: You go just shag and comot and you wouldn't need to put any Woman or Children in Misery of Life !

Demigod22:
Our generation have no value for fidelity, loyalty, self respect and trust. I see married people cheating up and down like our politicians. Some have affair on social media, others in their office.

Hearing stories like this makes marriage scary and worthless. I can't stand my wife cheating on me since I am faithful.

Anything that cost me my peace of mind is too expensive.

Don't just be faithful Be a Man: Matured and Learn 21st century Women Management:

This is not the era of our parents and Grandparents, they didn't experienced Globalisation if they also do, they would go mad on our Grandpa and they wouldn't have been incarcerated:

This is woke World Be Awoke

Vinnie2000:
NO, not cheap or worthless!
It is actually more Promiscous and Sexually insatiable!
By 2035-2040, Nigerians ladies will be having multiple boyfriends, fvcking Diccks and refusing to Marry!
The Rich ones would Hire a contract husband!
The poor ones would get pregnant for any averagely rich dude, give birth and continue dier Oloshoism!

With OloshoMen

Wizywiz:
@Op it's so disheartening oooo and discouraging...seems this generation (especially some ladies are easily deceived) if I tell you how many married woman my boss in the office sleeps with and has slept with u will marvel.... currently one lady who is married with 4kids is busy following him up and down I pity the husband.......abi na my personal experience...I ve gotten several hits from married ladies severally, even when I was married then....it's so sickening...seems most ladies are in competition for who cheats the most...may God help us

N:B marriage is an institution I no longer have faith in... wouldn't want to venture into it again...I don go I don see....

Have you also tried to check on Yourself to see what what you did wrong or too much:

Tolerance is required to Promote healthy relationships and we have to be Compensationary in areas we have strengths to cover the areas of our Lack:

uthlaw:
The thing is just that,females of this generation are just too cheap and worthless!

Imagine You Opened Your whole Mouth and Judged an entire Creation of Nature without you even having one single idea of how they are created nor what there stories are

Who told you you can't cheat your patner if you find Yourself in their shoe

Unfortunately, I didn't read your posts so be rest assured I didn't know what it contained neither did I feel what you felt


@ Toks2008 Your Left Nyansh

joyousever:
Clap for yourself!

You prolly have better Sense of Reasoning than that Op

You are the Matured One for real!

He wasn't in the Situationship neither did he knew the Guy but see how he Judged everything like he was talking to his daughter:

That's how they use their Madness to make you go mad:

Who created a thread for specs and only to go about judging everyone rudely as if you are primal facie to the situation ...

Na you still come carry first lastlast with your Decorum and manner of ending the conversation: The guy you dished is better than Him and I also like the manner you dished him too:

Mad ones wey dey Form Sabi !

Lovelydaisies:
It's as if women can't have choices on this forum. See some men running up and down trying to correct and insult women on 'their' own choices. Na wa o!

See how some of the men here insult and debase women here but complain that the Muslims have an oath defending their threads. If there was mutual respect between people, would there be any reason to set up and take oaths before entering a thread?

Even the thread for females has been infiltrated by men and there are no oaths to take. If there were, the silly males would still follow women to criticize them, behaving like evil spirits without rest.

Women bashing is the order of the day but it doesn't make your lives any better, only worse. And those who like the devastating and unholy comments by men against women, hmm, you are all part of the same big problem. Una well done o!

Whenever you (want to) badmouth females, put the ones in your lives in mind or imagine yourself as a lady. Constructive criticism is allowed but please, be civil. Respect is reciprocal. Enough said.

Don't expect civility in a Market Square: VGC pikin that enters Ajegunle must be ready for anything:

Welcome to Nairaland!

maryalloy:
Hey you guys should chill and stop attacking us, you asked for The kind of Man we want?
So allow us say our minds please �

Na Market place be this:
Don't expect civility!

The Op himself is misbehaving

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Sweetplum:
If you try that with me, I won't kill you. But you ll smell death. I ll deal with you legally, physically & spiritually!

This Life cum difficult Reach

Untop another human being and a Pe.nis ?

All you should do is take your leave and safe yourself a whole of Peacefulness!

questioner:
Herein, lies my dilemma
Younger sister is hooked and we have a little secret going
Older sister is also getting hooked and she wanna be starting something
Me, the beneficiary (or is it victim), I don confuse - both girls are top tier babes

What do I do?

a) Do the right thing and continue with YS

b) Do the right thing and stop the low key games with YS, and go for OS

c) Do the right thing and enjoy life with both sisters, shebi I no force them

Frankly, I would have gone with option C, na the stuff of dreams, but the things I am hearing these days about babes,
I dey cautious about safety, these girls are sisters and if they find out, nobody knows wetin dem fit do.

But NL people, what do you think ?

I think and Na think I think because na so I go think for my own too:

Drop the two girls and Swerve aside:

I just dislike issues especially the one wey cost Pass benefits:

lexy2014:
Just like HIV, it's likely that gays get the disease and become a health hazard to everyone else

That's it. Same way people having sex with animals and all unhealthy Sexual activities:

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ArchiLimited:
Una never see anything. When you leave the natural way God intended for pleasure and start poking dirty things, and then use colorful names like LGBTQ+ and "rainbow laces" to brush up a dirty act, it's only a matter of time before diseases endemic to that lifestyle will break out. No one keeps dipping bare hands into a septic tank and expect to not catch something. Despicable people. I spit again.

But Heterosexual are also not spared from this Diseases:
I Pray to God to take Controls of What we Human are bringing upon ourselves ignorantly or Intentionally.

We need much more Mercies like since 100years ago:

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pocohantas:
That is exactly how they are. They don’t ask questions to understand your perspective. They simply want to attack.

I usually Blame Background, Orientations and Civilisations for some Horrible posts on Nairaland! Mobile phone and Internet doesn't truly connote Exposures!

Unreasonableness comes with Stubbornness sha!

guobe:
The world is evolving into westernization the earlier you know thisits just the norm.like valentine is celebrated by most lovers in Africa and I know u do valentine too.

Dude pack one side, I'm also evolving too but there are still better part of my culture to preserve like I love spending for my own woman yeah it makes me feel a Man:

It will be very strange to me to be spilling bills carrying western girl to eatery, Keep Your money Bae, that's My Job!

I'm only evolving in Western Education(Scientific-Facts and Artistry-Beauties) and Technologies with Technicalities

Not flowers bro:

Maybe a good flowers for interior decor like full sets her kinda colour that matches her room hell yeah ...

Women must be Spoilt then Disciplined if she misbehaves and viceversa for you too:

guobe:
ah watin I do,na flower I talk about I no kill person lol

Here, guys take care of girls but You guys wants to have you cake and eat it at the same time:

If you have what it takes Carry 20women Nigerian Women will stay with you provided you can give Saturations to her regardless of the 19women !

But a guy who can't feed himself nor have IQ enough to even break himself out of poverty planning polygamy no make sense na:

A guy complaining on "gifting" a Nigerian Woman and westernising every conversations but when same Western lady divorce your ass and take away your properties and still put you on salary for the next 18years, You will still come and Wail

Dude, Leave Nigerian girls alone... Me I like them for real!

guobe:
It is good the Nigerian girls mentality is changed.They should know that they can work hard and have all they want for themselves instead of being dependent on others.

Imagine you talking about evolution and you still got mad at the same time in devolution:

The thread is talking about "Gift" and those girls provided their feelings only for you to still come at them like Rats!

The culture here is Money, if you no get Money don't love and love yourself till God Blesses You!

guobe:
If you say tradition,will you traditionally serve the gods of your forefathers?definitely no.so one has to evolve from those traditions not favourable

Why should one now Evolve into Flowers?
Oyinbo too should Evolve into Jellof Rice na

BoredBerry:
Definitely! It's thoughtful...

Many Nigerian men would never offer a girl flowers, so...

Even birthday gifts... They just take you out... Never give you something you would treasure like a good book... If you like someone, you try to know them... And what you offer suits their likes... It's simple...

Person that's not Happy can't give Happiness

Know this and know Peace:

Trust Me, Don't Expect London from Oshodi

Joeyzinho:
Call him father Abraham, call him the 21st century Solomon but you can't shy away from the fact that this man right here is a legend. And the man takes care of his responsibilities as a father..

You lot judge someone for commiting a different sin from yours.

Big ups to legendary tuface idibia..

I swear: E already Said Nobody Raped Him among all his baby mama for he love them All:

I love him too and God loves who is Responsible to their Responsibilities regardless of How e Happened!

Anyone who should be complaining or forming Holy must not have committed Any Fvcks Up Before, Presently or into the future But if You Know you can fvck up anytime too: Just Embrace The Beauty of Tuface Presence in His Children Life if it's as true as the picture depicted!

MrBrownJay1:
na SHAKARA now.... just tell the yeye woman:" i wanted you, you said NO, i still chop the honeypot, you continued saying NO....now i jejely comot fromyour wahala and lived my life, you are trying to give me some BS....are you ok sista?!"

Until she vex put Rape on Your Tab: God will judge you for Fornication
Societies will judge you as rapist

Una no go get Sense in 2022 that's this world ain't 1922 anymore:

One cryptic post with her Cries will make Social media boom and bloggers will quickly make Your popular now

Ogbenro:
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What would you do if you were in my shoes, pardon the errors was typing fast and I didn’t want to proofread anything

The first thing a Sane man should do in 2022 is to Reset the Psychology of any Woman even if she is 80yo including Your wife before any Action so as to Avoid Guilt tripping and She can even put Rape on Your Tab:

She might have utilised You to Cure Konji(Dem dey do am) and from there guilt trip You and turn you into a Cashcow since she seems assured you love Her:

She has showed You she is a Drama Queen and You still fell Yakata... Once You sensed Drama know that further Deeper Emotional Connections will lead to More Dramas:

You should have played Her game by ghosting her when she ghosted you to improve your values before Her: But the Love of Kpomo usually take most nigga head away now una head yaff clear and let the guilt tripping begin in Drama 2.0:

You sell yourself Cheap and she got You Cheap anyway Both of you no well all this 2022 moniker with Breaking Stories:

Albertone:
All the killings he mentioned,where did you see anything relating to religion there?
You just want to berate religion.

If not for the christianity religion,it'll be worse than this.

Imagine the whole of Africa belongs to that religion of piss,we would all be extinct by now.

Religion is being attacked bro:
Islam which literally means peace is now on Violence from Nations to Nations:

While Christianity which literally means Salvation is now bedevilled with Immoralities from Church to Church

Human can't sustain Good Philosophies and Principles for Long without Abuse due to the Animalistic instinct in Us will always Pops Up which the Grace of God via Humanitarianism and Humanities seeks to Eliminate Only if we Allow:

The Immoralities in Christianity today can make Jesus to even use Mosaic Laws instead of "Go and Sin No More" : But He Who without Sin should cast the First Stone: Except those that killed Deborah have Never-Ever Sin Before .... That's why Each Nation is What they are : Unjustified Killings But Did it end there

If you tagged Islam Religion of Piss, You are also Piss because With Your IQ, if you were to be a Muslim which you were not by chance and due to the fact that your parents were Christians, You would have been Among those that would kill Deborah Samuel with the amount of Fury that would be in your heart against Christianity:

This is never about Jesus or Mohammed but the Heart of Man is Evil if not for God's Grace:

God = Good

Killing Deborah is not Good because Nobody educated her on Blasphemy and she was just a victim of Violent Environments:

There is also violence inside your Heart Christ or No Christ: You are a potential BokoHaram

This is all about IQ and If You Mistakenly behaved Nonsensically Among Religion Extremists, You know what's Up ...
Wisdom Is Sancrosanct to Blessings as Bible stated: I Don't know the Verse:

I'm a Muslim with eternal maximum love for Christ(The Holy Spirit) and all other religions prophesying Good even in China or North Korea as far it is Good, That's God right there!

I Love God(Good) not Religious Myopic like You Blinded by some people's description Nope!

All Goods belongst to God

All Evils is from Our Hands

Unjustified Killings and Heat Up Condemnations and HyperCriticisms are the Evils of our hands which shall begets further Evils:

Oyinbo only remove one "O" from Good to arrive at "God" .... If you No Know Now you do

Mooh247:




Africans are generally wicked

Last week 2 men got lynched in Delta state over a bike

Two weeks back two soldiers were beheaded in Imo state

Go through Cultist Update post on Nairaland, every day young men butcher themselves for no reason

Go through Udele/ Oyigboupdate post every week someone got killed every Monday sit at home


It's high time we stand completely against killing of all manners regardless of the reasons

killing is not allowed under Nigerian constituition , criminal code, penal code or Sharia law
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I just thanK God Religion was introduced into Africa Albeit the World. What Many Don't understand is that This World is a Jungle and if not for Many People incarcerated by religion Doctrines, Humanity would have killed itself Finish especially Africa here where it is nothing but Wickedness: