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PoliticsRe: Atiku Abubakar Receives Signed Copy Of ‘A Poet Who Died By His Poem’ (Photos) by dontai(m): 8:19am On Mar 02, 2021
What a title!
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 8:08am On Mar 02, 2021
Ketapu:
@ TainyLite, I didn't know you have been red pilled. That's great to know. You can read the book I suggested on your thread.

Please, stand your ground. I know someone very dear to me whose wife frustrated him like yours.

The man eventually got very sick and died. Please, take good care of your health. For your sake too, don't allow that lady back into your life. Woman hardly ever change. They only pretend to have changed until they will shock you again with their old ways. All the best bro.
I'm sorry to break this to you, he will accept her back. I read his latest concerning the issue,(and with the blue Piller and nairaland ladies who never saw bad in whatever crime a lady's committed) he have been softing-peddal. All he's wailing about now is his mother in-law been the one causing disaffection between them, not taking into consideration the evil the lady's have conduct and what she's still capable of carrying out without her mother. with the new born baby as a pawn, I'm afraid!
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 9:52pm On Mar 01, 2021
dontai:
pls what can I made off a friend who deplete me financially, due to his simping act. at times he will send money to a bitch even though after I have advised him against such. here's the thing whenever he sent 10k to a useless bitch, I systematically bear the burnt of the sum of 3k if I'm lucky, if I'm not I may pay half the simping fee, (simp are artificially deaf).

we are not a business partner, he made me hate dealing with pusssy worshippers. it's just like fuelling and hanging out things. he always make mentions like I just sent x lady 10k, so he's stylishly telling me to foot a bill which he ought to, and I will because I won't want to fall his hand. though he's a very good homie.

what can I do?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m):
luwiizy:
my words are my pride.

when a woman or man who's close to you takes your words for granted then she/he dont deserve anymore of them.
you are right, just on the contrary it all depends on how you make them take you at first maybe serious or a joker.

Yoruba have a say which goes 'ibi ti onile ba fi ona si ibe ni alejo a gba' (wherever the house owner place the road, that's where the stranger will follow in).

It reminds me of where I'm living presently, there are two ways to the toilet you can pass through the room or the living room directly(poor plan). I have my visitors passing the sitting room door, it's not just right to me. I padlocked it and those people who have been passing through the place started advising me, how it's not good to let people be passing through my room to the bathroom (like I have exhibit in my room/or it an hospital where different people abound).

I became pestered with their lectures, I went to buy wallpaper and used it to cover the whole wall, move my tv to the side, if you don't know before you can never tell the place is once a passage, and my people have no options than to pass through where I want them without complain.

with all been said, it's never late to stamp your authority on how you want things to be, let them say you are changing or becoming irrational.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 9:40pm On Feb 28, 2021
TheVictim01:
You look like an angel, walk like an angel, talk like an angel. But I got wise, you're the devil in disguise.
~Elvis Presley
lol, then he/she should be automatically assume as the devil's angel.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 6:16pm On Feb 28, 2021
ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] That's if I was a needling whining simp b**tch...If you're gonna be in my world, be within my own frame with your WALL fast approaching, then my dear,you best be ready to study kumasutra because other plates have enrolled for classes.[/color]
You know your onion, no cap.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 4:57pm On Feb 28, 2021
ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Satisfy urge indeed.... That's to why I'm upfront with any plate that I'm spinning...I tell them I like and know how to f**k very well...You must prepare your mind and body for that if you think we have a future together because I cannot shout.[/color]
In as much you believe you can't shout, one way or the other vociferation will still occur, they will make you raise your voice, if it's to just test your level of whatsoever they wanted to ascertain. so it also advisable you prepare your body and soul for the impending screech.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 3:39pm On Feb 28, 2021
page 3-0-0, here I am.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 8:21am On Feb 25, 2021
QuadrilAyinde:
Let's always try to get the full and complete story before Castigating and aportioning blames... Hope U av read the wife's revelation too..
Yes, hope she's telling you the complete story, and you believe her?

Before a man could said he's leaving before he end up in jail, you thought it's a joke of a word?

and yes she said nothing tangible but you still count it as the complete story, but if a woman said she's leaving before her husband kill her, you won't ask for the complete story before naming him a beast, woman's beater and deadbeat dad.

I read all your previous work with that your pal 'mrcock', you are always on the lookout to redress anything that doesn't went the woman's way which is your way. (I don't know what you want her to say, do you want her to accept she's killing the guy physically, mentally and emotionally)

You've always known you are not in the right thread, but you still stay put to defend the unknown.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 3:16pm On Feb 24, 2021
what's the fuvk with people deactivating their accounts on this thread, hope it isn't spiritual?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 11:54am On Feb 24, 2021
pls what can I made off a friend who deplete me financially, due to his simping act. at times he will send money to a bitch even though after I have advised him against such. here's the thing whenever he sent 10k to a useless bitch, I systematically bear the burnt of the sum of 3k if I'm lucky, if I'm not I may pay half the simping fee, (simp are artificially deaf).

we are not a business partner, he made me hate dealing with pusssy worshippers. it's just like fuelling and hanging out things. he always make mentions like I just sent x lady 10k, so he's stylishly telling me to foot a bill which he ought to, and I will because I won't want to fall his hand. though he's a very good homie.

what can I do?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 10:37pm On Feb 23, 2021
Moneysoldier007:
You guys have finally turned this thread into a joke, I wasn't joking when I said it has been hijacked by kids but we'll take it back. LUBBISH "In my anambla accent".

As for you glucose or ribenna or what's that your name, no worry we don soak your cane for water dey wait for you, hope you are presently enjoying your love life like Jack and Rose in titanic, do what you please but like Jack don't die for her. Deactivating your account was a slap to our face you fffucjing sisi.

Truth is redpill or not , men are still the problem of men.

And pleaseeeeeeee enough of the everyday lifting of quotes elsewhere and dropping them here, almost page 300, we have learnt enough, una no dey tirehuh, abeg it's time we start telling us how we practice them in our lives, cos people just dey bastardize the word simp, alfa male.
Lol @glucose or ribenna, If I said he won't be missed, that means I'm been economical with the truth. but it teaches us that it's not every Toyota we thought their legs are strong really strong some are Honda in disguise.

All been said, I thought enough preaching like you said, we want testimony.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 9:43pm On Feb 23, 2021
Bitch have done our nigga Safaree something oh:

CelebritiesRe: Ka3na Condemns Lady For Tattooing Her Name On Her Thigh (Photos) by dontai(m): 5:00pm On Feb 23, 2021
Sodiquinone:
Ka3na made sense, if u av tattoo on your body, u can't donate blood,imagine if u can't save the life of someone close to you because of a useless tattoo of a useless celebrity
you are wrong sir.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m):
XshegzzyeeiX:
Man up buddy. The redpill continue. We move!!!
I'm the one that quote him last, regarding the lady's issue, though I'm on the lady's side of niggas apologing, but what the f deactivating his account, that's a pu.ssy act to the core, if he viewing this he doesn't worth a leader, why would you lead your fighters to the war and killed your self because of a little rancor (suicide).
Hope he have a nice time with the lady offline, I wish them all the best.
Live, move on, no time.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 2:21pm On Feb 22, 2021
I don't know when redpillers became bully-men association. poor
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 12:35pm On Feb 22, 2021
waywardpikin:
This is exactly how it plays out in the larger society. A woman commits all sorts of atrocities and no one bats an eyelid. A correct Gee takes it upon himself to give her a tiny taste of what she dishes out and she runs to the public playing the victim and crying how she has been wronged.

What happens next?

Of course! Clueless, rudderless men like some of you here rush to the scene to save a damsel in distress, doing exactly what she hoped y'all would. Maybe if you guys actually ingested the red pills you spend so much time propagating, most of you would know better.
you kept getting a boner in your folly, don't you people teaches us females are emotional being and not in any way logical, when you guys have upshots in a different thread and she ran naked to this thread, screaming blue-murder and gang raping (literally)and even showing where you guys used her health status to spite her. so you want us to applaud you, we sorry to disappoint you guys. you now writing 'k' upandan, where is the k before you people wrestle with a pig in the first place(pun and no pun), you now came out with battered image and dirt's all over the white you have been wearing since inception of this thread. not knowing you guys are in a corner belittling the redpillers community.

for example: as a pastor preaching love and peace, someone wailed into the church with bloody face, then proceed to held your tie directly on the altar while you're giving sermon about how to avoid fight and make peace. you now trying to sweet talk she abused you first. When the congregation doesn't buy it, you switch to offensive and at the same time so defensiveness mode that they didn't stand for Christ like Peter the disciple, do you hear Christ used someone ailment to abused him or her, he instead heal ailments.
we are now telling you to make peace with her, not because we care about you or her. we don't want the church to become a war zone or better still carry your fight to the market square not this house of wisdom.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 11:46am On Feb 22, 2021
waywardpikin:
Ahhh, the Cavalry is here. grin

If you ask these ones now, they will tell you they are alfa meils or red pillers too. Hilarious!
I guess we are first human, before any red-piller things.

moreover apologizing is not only attributed to a simp, red Piller should also enbibe the act of saying sorry. even if it's not real just to get what one want.

Is it not better for the thread to die naturally? than on the altar of (unserious) people who are only good with words and not a doer. can't you see it's going to defeat the purpose of the thread.

And you people even broke the rules of this thread not to answer 'f' monikers. but you people can't hold it, showcasing how emotional and unstable you can be towards a lady, when the right button is pressed.

you even took offense with what lecturer 'GLYCOLYSISS' said, because of a b*tch you all becomes offensive.

too bad.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 11:14am On Feb 22, 2021
GLYCOLYSISS:
I got a neighbor whom two kids are SS.
You should not have done what you did on that thread sir.
Really heartbroken to see you and some other guys making fun of someone's health condition .
Seeing those kids in and out of hospital every now and then, their parents always spending on drugs every now and then, make me feel bad for those kids, suffering from what could easily be avoided, if their parents made a more informed choice.
Now,just picture situations where the same kids are stigmatized and spoken ill of because of their genotype, you got idea the psychological and emotional damages you're inflicting on them ? Considering their genotype was not their fault.
Honestly, you and those guys took it too far .
Not saying that Chioma girl is clean, very far from that, but if we are going to speak about emotion mastery and whatnot, you should have known better ,attacking her health condition should not be in the picture.
You and other guys went as far as engaging in e-battle with her for more than three pages on that thread you just posted.
I know guys will not want to speak on these, maybe they are more concerned about maintaining some reputation and maturity tag, got no problem with that.

But it's high time we call a spade a spade, you don't stigmatize people about their health conditions and come over here to teach us about emotion mastery and ask us to just ignore them when they come back for revenge and bring up your BS to these thread.
Next time you got to learn how to start using your "K" ,because it's going to save you loads of BS like these that's already unfolding in these thread.

Every guy can interpret these how they chooses to, I can't control that and not even bothered about that.
I thought they should all apologies to her and be the bigger one, she's pained and her plight is valid.

You can't gang# bang/rape a bitch (no offense) in another thread and be teaching us how to be our self to bang gang of bitches in their game over here.

let practice what we preach pls. that's my issue with religions.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m):
Come to think of it, ladies (women) doesn't even know what they want, they will divorce a simp because he was alleged to have cheated on them, but will marry a man whose house have full. Using that new lady following and confessing love for MC oluomo (whose wives and concubines are numerous to mention) upandan, like someone who's Bewitched as a case study.

Regina Daniel went to marry his grandfather's mate with ample of wives at hand.
Just thinking of it, if that his former pink lips boyfriend cheat, hell will let loose, she and her feminist cum slay queen will guilt trip him, and cast aspersion on his gender. not knowing with the right price she can be bought, not only that, she can be the 10th wife. she even went on a traditional oath with the grand pa, who permanently registered the p+ssy in his name forever.

Summary: Never believe what a woman called her standard, with the right price and know how to act right (being yourself) with enough convincing. She will fall below any standard to zero standard, you will be amazed how standard-less they are.

only simp will fall for the said cheap standard, like I want a God fearing husband, and especially the one they used for time immemorial, no sex before marriage, no what? says who? says oloshos to his simp.
PoliticsRe: Kagara: Sheik Gumi Meets Kidnappers Of Niger Students And Teachers (Photos) by dontai(m): 2:08pm On Feb 19, 2021
Gerrard59:
So, you thought Buhari was going to lose in 2019 because you refused to vote him? Buhari who refused to call his boys - who slaughtered youth corp members because he lost the 2011 elections - to order is who you expected to lose in 2019?

BTW, what made you vote Buhari in 2015?
I simply want change .................
PoliticsRe: Kagara: Sheik Gumi Meets Kidnappers Of Niger Students And Teachers (Photos) by dontai(m): 11:04am On Feb 19, 2021
Kennyfancy:
They can't mobilize helicopter to look for bandit in the forest but they can mobilize helicopter to look for ESN, it's will never b well with who ever vote this Government into power
l voted in 2015, but never 2019. please, have Mercy on we 2015 ratifier, but history will never be kind with his 2019 endorsers.
CelebritiesRe: Makeup: Teni Looks Feminine And Beautiful As She Undergoes Full Makeover by dontai(m): 3:53pm On Feb 17, 2021
naa whaa oh, she can't even close her mouth again.
PoliticsRe: 181 Kidnap Victims Freed In Katsina After Govt Negotiates With Bandits, Miyetti by dontai(m): 2:17pm On Feb 11, 2021
But Nigeria solider can kill unharmed Gana on his way to negotiation. I swear it's southern governors that betrayed and sell themselves and their people too cheaply.
PoliticsRe: Usman Abdullahi: Nigerian Soldier Dies During Fight With Boko Haram (Photo) by dontai(m): 4:57pm On Jan 31, 2021
And some years ago after civil war, Nigeria army are so useless (no war to fight internally), they fly around the continent fighting for them countries, why praising themselves as the best, but for the last ten years they have known what's up. Boko Haram really doing them strong things.
may god help us.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m):
IronPants:
Concerning the redpill, and the tendency of kids to reward their mothers more often than their father, I am here to share a pathetic story of a close friend.
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So this guy's pops is a classic dead beat dad. A nonchalant and an irresponsible human, whose only mission is to bang as much damaged women (widowed women and disgraced ex wives) as possible.
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He spends recklessly on these women. Although he's take home is quite huge, this man has absolutely nothing to show for it, not even a decent house in the village. His kids from numerous women nko? Absolutely nothing to show. Zero investments in his children. In fact, I'll say he's none existent in their lives. Just the kids and their mothers struggling to fend for themselves, while the randy man goes looking for damaged women to sink his resources into.


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There are some men out there who are sorry excuses of people with pen!s. It's a very pathetic story and I'll just have to spare you guys a few details.
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Now would you blame my paddy if things turn around for him tomorrow and he ghosts his pops while showering all his goodies on his mother who has basically been the one sponsoring him in every of his life endeavors?
That's 10 in a hundred, likewise we have many mothers who are like that also.

We are not talking of deadbeat or a defaulter, but men who used all their life to serve the woman and children in the name of good father or I'm providing for my house.

who will be spent quickly, or be bedridden in no time. while the woman will still be ayounge(young).

my mom used to say 'omo so ti je ni kin see omo sho yo' (child have you eaten is the key, not are you satisfied), I first taught she was insensitive with those words. now I understand it's the key of living long. why? ok lemme explain:

I now realize you can't satisfied anyone, the more you tried the more you believe you own them more, the more they ask you for more, that is how the cycles continue, till one doesn't have anything to give anymore. and they moved to the next available victim (I called it victim because they are only using you by egging you on in your foolishness, while they hoard and treasure theirs).

like someone who have a car and make sure he makes his friends happy, driving them to the club and buying all the drinks when they kept hailing him as a good friend. some years latter his car is getting old and retirement on the track, but friends are buying new cars and moving into thier houses. though he earn more than them, but his biggest undoing is wanting to do more than his capability and try to impress society that he's a big baller by being the only one paying the bill.

that spender now is the father getting old in retirement, while the friends are mother and children. Their new house and car is thier new life and status he help them achieved.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 8:23pm On Jan 30, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:
Saw her emotive reasoning , trying to bait us into weakness, appealing to our instinct to be protectors,to allow feelings supercede facts, her solipsistic rationalization hamster is built on raw irrationality,composed solely on emotional appeal rather than logic or reason, she doesn't have any clue the kind of men she's dealing with
guess she's disappointed. who even have her time. we wey be say naa blood (red)dey every eyes.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 7:41am On Jan 30, 2021
luminouz:
So what is your solution to these problems?
help me ask him oh, though I like the way he's using this avenue to let out some steam, but the sad reality is that the problem still hang on.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 6:08pm On Jan 29, 2021
angelfallz:
You can also read, "The Rational Male Positive Masculinity" by Rollo Tomassi

He goes into details about the read pill and the book is very structured. Please also tell your brothers about the book. You can download it here
https://www.pirate-bay.net/search?q=the+rational+male+by+Rollo+Tomassi?q=the+rational+male+by+Rollo+Tomassi

Also, this is his website: https://therationalmale.com/
I seriously doubt anyone can finish reading and digesting the contents of the website, it is very rich.

Also, his youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8eLDzfH6YfZRDbDuMsNWiA
thanks for this man.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m):
SOZINN:
I see some guys here saying that when they get married the girl will do this or that
You will not tolerate this one
You will not tolerate that one
Bro marry first
Don't get me wrong ooo
I like the "I no go lick woman nyash mentality"
Every thing you have been learning here is about the NATURE of women
We are these is how they are
All women are like this
Somebody is telling me that he wants to go to the ocean and select something that is not a fish
That woman you are looking for
Na you go create am
Even my guy that travelled to the village and married a 17 year old girl
It was only a matter of time
She came to the city
She adapted, made new friends
Came back one day and started acting like a totally different person
When you marry a woman
You marry her with her bullshit
And I hope you can take it cos if you can't then there's a problem
You don't get to wake up one day and say you're tired
Well you know by now that
Stupid reasons like
Having kids
Building a family
Finding true happiness.
Should not make you get married
You will never find a woman that will do you 100% (you know what I mean)
Marriage no be heaven
Peace
hahahaha, are you kidding me?
marrying her with her bullshit, and continue accepting the bullshit?..........
you don't get to wake up one day and said you are tired? but one can wake up one day adorning a nice suit and with all the 20years of experience his employer would handed him a sack letter, only to employed a freshman.

see wether we like to hear it or not, marriage is a contract that can get terminated anytime, any-stage, anywhere even anyhow.

people must first comes out from anything that's killing, causing them pain, sleepless night or depression.(all gender inclusive).
do you know what caused people to commit suicide? It's pent up frustrating which many things can cause including marriage (like the one PETUK highlighted up there)

so please buried that your thought, you may come out with another line, but not of saying a definition of a marriage is do or die, not at all.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m):
SOZINN:
Most of you just be telling that PETUK guy to leave the relationship
Do you think it's that easy
This guy is going through an abusive marriage and it's hard to leave an abusive mare
I've been reading a lot lately
Just pray that you don't find yourself in that kind of situation tomorrow
Stop saying you will do this or that
bros, leaving is the best option for him, oh! when they sacked him from work hope he didn't leave?

Yoruba will say ' to'loun ba ti fota eni han ni, ko le pa ni mon.' (when God have shown you your enemy, he can't kill you again). only when you stop making yourself a target courtesy of your availability.

What is hard there to leave, people leaves London, Canada and America, and come back to this country people named jagajaga. at least he will be eating iyan and ewedu in peace. or he should stay until he got deported?

So nothing or nowhere is hard to leave, this world self one will leave either he likes it or not, and with this new found evidence of her real age (according to the passport), do you think he's save if she finds out? nah, he's save because she doesn't sees him as anything, and she knows he can't leave as she believes he has no options, as you advised he shouldn't because it's not easy.

But if anything happens to him hope it will be easy for you to write , RPI( God forbid). because it's this kind of situation that depression and that sniper drinking competitions thought set in.

SUMMARY: let him leave her home (not his), peace of mind is the first thing he deserve. after that he would re-discover himself, and start afresh. it's never too late. Yoruba will also say 'ka da ewa sile, ka tun sha', (roughly means, we should put beans back in a big bowl and re-pick the shaft and stone, not to be cooking and eating it like that with the bones) to have eaten dirt in the past is ok, but to continue eating it is gross.

peace out.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m):
real4real2021:
Hello
First I'll like to appreciate all those making effort to help fellow men and brothers out of the darkness into light on this thread
Secondly this might be a bit lengthy and that's because I really want get out of this 'simpish lifestyle' so I just want to pour everything out. embarassed

I'm posting this with the hope of getting support and guide from my seniors here
Am reading this thread from the beginning hopefully I will turn fully RED before I get to this page.

So growing up I was a typical 'nice guy' trying hard to appear just 'right', pleasing people and avoiding disagreement like plague.
Extremely shy at some point Infact small things like bargaining for a price is a problem even when I know am being cheated on. (Damn)

My social anxiety is such that I can't even ask question in class, can't ask for money i lend  someone(my own money oo lol),
step on my foot and I might thank you and apologies for putting my leg there LMAO

And that has in turn, limit my progress in almost everything I do, missing opportunities like damn

And when it comes to girls and relationship stuff,
Yeah you are right, it sucks too.
Never had a real girlfriend, not even close female friends like that. I mean how could I with my stupid mindset
I still couldn't maintain serious conversation and relationship with them ladies...

honestly my social life just sucks am tired.

I've tried several times to build my confidence an get out there an do my thing
Have recently gone through books. Like. The Superior man, No more Mr nice guy(still reading) etc
And yes that give me a better understanding
But I haven't seen much improvement in action

So I know some of you might have being there too,
I will be glad to get tips, advice, guide on how to get out of this am just tired.
A mentor I can relate with will be cool too.
You can ask me more about me if that will help.
Just anything to improve my f*cked up lifestyle


I am 20, in my 3rd year in the uni(at home now sha)

Please help me tag, those OGs here dem ubunja harddon etc
I really understand your plight, I can't/which I don't talk much. all you need is a model/mentor like you said because it's what you have been missing since the beginning. reading of books are good, but watching movies of strong men would be better, you will see their posture, attitude, reactions to issues, the way they think.

I always have this three films in my laptop I watched here and there, they teach me about myself in a kind of way(because I'm also shy):

1. TYRANT: learn BASSAM's meekness, thoughtfullness and his brother JAMAL's courage, witty-ness, crudeness, knowledge and how he will pause for some seconds before answering questions or giving a verdict.

2. TRANSPORTER

3. BURN NOTICE.
they are all season films.

bonus: check out for Charlie in TWO AND HALF MEN, anywhere they show Alan his younger brother just fast forward the place he's the definition of new age men.

And for the relationship stuff, that's not a big issue, with time when your attitude towards people became more firm. you will pass through that hurdle.

just remember whenever you started exploring don't be a 'SIMP'.

also get a friend that has those qualities you need, and be imitating him.

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