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Stayingtrueee:
A part of me really wants this child but the thought the father doesn't want to have anything to do with it is killing me

Are you sure, don't kill the child.

Many people who are currently barren now and looking for children did some dangerous abortion in the past. I hope your present decision of terminating the pregnancy wouldn't affect you in the future. We all make mistakes, so I wouldn't judge you. As a medical doctor, I'll advise you to keep the baby. The Nigeria law doesn't permit abortion and that's why we have a lot of cases of unsafe abortion. Don't play with your life, that's the best I can tell you. Take care

The whiz kid I know na singer.
But your post make sense Sha. More oil for your head.

From your perspective and thinking you may be right, but I can counter your claims with the bible itself.
1. God says, his ways are not the ways of man neither are the thoughts of man like is own. In the realm of God, he created the best first. And maybe that's why in the story of creation, he said, everything he created was good.

2. When God wanted to make man, he said, let us. Meaning that he did it with other entities but when he created woman he didn't say let us, he did it alone. This tells you that creation of a more sophisticated product requires more hands, hence man is more sophisticated.

3. God created woman as a helpmeet for man. It doesn't mean that the woman is more intelligent or smarter. For example now, some bricklayers are currently building up my fence, doesn't mean that they're smarter than me or me smarter than them because they're helping me build my fence. Another example is an househelp, she is also an help but that make her smarter than your wife? Help goes both ways,

4. In conclusion, his logic is good but reality speaks opposite. In majority of cases, it's the woman that's dependent on the man. I choose reality over logic �

Who knows fear for the number 13??

Botwriter:
Good morning Nairalanders. I have an issue that has been disturbing for long.
So I met a lady two years back and we got talking. However, our communication was mostly restricted to online greetings.

December, 2021, we decided to take things to the next level by meeting physically. We study in the same school, so we met at a designated place. After our first meeting, things started moving fast and we became more connected.

Early this year, I decided to ask the girl out one faithful Saturday morning and her response was that she was in a relationship.

So I left her alone. The issue is this girl bonds with me so well and will often send me messages that she misses me anytime I decide to forget her for some days.

Last month, we all left school and were back home and our bonding became very strong again - we stay in the same city.

She invited me to her church twice and I honored her invitations. On her birthday, I asked her what her plans are and whether her bf is taking her out (jokingly) and her response was, 'which bf?'.

We went ahead to plan a meet up in a restaurant on her birthday but unfortunately something came up and I could not make it, so I sent her some cash to compensate.

*My issues with the lady.*

1. When I send her text on WhatsApp, sometimes it would take her 24 hrs to reply even when she's online. And she will find some flimsy excuses to make. She will even post on her status while my message is delivered but not read or replied.

2. She earlier told me she had a boyfriend, so I don't want to bring any relationship stuff again between us. But it seems she want me to ask her out again.

3. This girl bills me like no tomorrow. Whenever she has any minor issue she will pick phone and call me.

So honestly I'm fed up with her character and I have made up my mind not to talk to her again.

*My problem:

As usual when I decide ghost her again, she will chat me up and sometimes video call and that's what I don't want. I honestly need solutions. It seems this girl is playing mind games with me or she wants me to talk to her about relationship again?

Lol.... Op you don turn simp.
You have become back up nigga.
I am not against you giving the girl money, but that's what she uses against you. If you want to give and you're comfortable with it, give but me no dey give any girl money after wetin I don see girls do (story for another day).

An average lady has many toasters, many guys will be trying to catch her attention on WhatsApp, so she wouldn't even have time to read and respond to your message if you're not her priority. 99% of my chats on Whatsapp are with ladies and they respond immediately I send a message even though I reply 30 or 1hour late. And when they complain, I tell them (I am in a meeting, and I am even sacrificing my attention for you and you're not grateful?? Goodnight. If you want to chat, go and chat with your other friends. I am not like other people that come online on Whatsapp to chat or waste time) and they compose. I have turned the table around and made it feel that chatting with me is a great privilege. This feat can only be achieved when you've many ladies at your beck and call. It's the signature of an Alpha King!!!

jackals:
I made sure I communicated very well on our first meeting. And we've been chatting about 13 days before he came in. So I made a good impression.

That's your thoughts from your own perspective. What's his thoughts from his own perspective??

jackals:
.I was just expecting you guys to drop something. How to fix this. Since you're Men and you know what attracts you aside from beauty and body....

It will be difficult to fix, you caused it yourself.
You left him on read and went incommunicado for two days, haba na... You no do well at all.

First fix yourself, wishing you the best in life

Now I know why you're 33years old and not married or in any meaningful relationship yet. I have gotten so deep into women that the way some women reason baffles me. One thing that a lady can't win me in is the game of the silent treatment. Omo, I be boss for that game!!

MrBachelor:
The thing is there are various legitimate ways to earn online, albeit with many restrictions for Nigerians, but for some reasons these guys prefer fraud. But that is not the aspect that marvels me.

What I find difficult to comprehend is why most of them make their activities so ostentatious to the point of drawing unwanted attention to themselves, when fully aware that their source of income is a crime.

It's just beyond me.

It's just normal human nature.
People tend to flex money when they've it or when they've made it illegally. Only few people will perceive that I have money if they meet me for the first time and that's because I always tell myself the money is not for me even though I worked hard and made it legitimately. It is the nature of people to judge you by your appearance.

1. In the land of the myth and a time of magic, the Destiny of a great kingdom....

2. Excalibur!

3. Bend the knee; I will not bend the knee.

4. I am the wizard of the first order.

PS: First person to get all four to within two days get 1k cash or airtime.

Fcmb2022:
Yes it was. so how is ur day going?

My day was stressful but I thank God.
Are you a night person?
Ama take you out for the night.

Abc2Z:
I saw someone said number 3 is spiderman but I know that line from Kungfu Hustle

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No. 3 is Spiderman. It was said in Spiderman 1

Her name suppose be *Toto dick her*

Following your story ooo.
Interesting!

Fcmb2022:
Good morning my love, I guest everyone has their own side of the story.

Good morning sweetheart, hope your night was good?

Well, have seen lots of dead bodies.
Been to the morgue several times, haven't seen the truly dead move a finger. There are cases of rigor mortis (a medical term for contractions of muscles after death). Have worked on cadavers plenty number of times, never had a nightmare. So, I conclude that it's myth or superstition. Thank you

Fcmb2022:
Ohhh
dat will be so harsh she will start asking whether you ever loved her.

You're right Babe, it's a bit harsh but I have come to understand that a time will come in your life where breakup must come. It's better to part ways in amicable terms than to leave the heart shattered. I still have good relationship with my ex. I have this grace of keeping ladies around me Sha but currently, I am single

Okay
Then keep quiet.

Fcmb2022:
Nigga ke!
my G I be girl ooooo , check my profile.

That's true ooo.
You're looking good correct Babe. How things dey go for your side??

Fcmb2022:
Ehhhhhhh dontrulee, my G
how far na Dis one wey u comment for my post I sure say I dey safe.
well how things na.... u goon soon tell how u take no say na 419 .my G you dey creative ooooo .tnk you for quoting me.

My correct Nigga, I dey alright ooo and you're very safe with me. You're welcome

Correct Babe.
Not the one that will be working and billing me. If you bill me, I double bill you back. No time for nonsense

Notyourtype:
number 3. Spider man.

Good. You should know number 1 and 2

1. How is that scratch on your eye, Eliot?
2. What's our profession? War! War!! War!!!

1. It's just a fucking dog!!
2. I can kill you with a pencil.
3. With great power comes great responsibility.
4. You've been declared guilty.

The answer is simple na.
It's 419

Ninisun:
Come let me adopt you my boy . At least feed you for some years to have a goat brain cus na cockroach brain you get for now. Onye ara

Hahahahahaha..... I like you already, I don't know why.
Are you married?

Sweetplum:
If you are a KING, act like one.
You no bizza you just dey run mouth kitikata. Aye n se e ni?

Make I no talk.
If I talk now, you go cry till tomorrow. Cry cry Baby

heartofcity12:
Yup, this applies to only redpillers that want to spin plates, otherwise just focus on your grind and other fun stuffs.

Honestly, I have numerous ladies at my beck and call. When one leaves, I don't even notice until she comes back and draws my attention to it.

Sweetplum:
Ogbeni koshi.
Who send you too?
Heeediot!

This babe, you funny.
I believe you're very weak physically na why you dey run your mouth anyhow for here. Abi you wan collect?
No one disrespects the KING!

Sweetplum:
I don't take things like this to the heart.
But you ll be dragged. Disgraced n made valueless if you don't keep quiet!

You be correct Nigga.
Unfortunately, you can't drag, disgrace or make me valueless... It's nice discussing with you Sugarplum, let's catch up on another time. Bye

Sweetplum:
As you v generalised me. I ll say you are also a broke man who's using an internet phone from proceeds of yahoo +.
I m sure you v no good parents so your trainings are no good. You are a single dad who's running away from a single mom.
And I pity the woman that ll be your victim, not a wife.
I v a good man. He's better than you a million times.

This babe blood dey hot oooo.

Sweetplum:
You ll reap repercussions of your acts.
I m here to lend voice to women you n other mumumen body shame.

Alaye, pack well.
Who send you work?
Sheeediot