Family › Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by dotedote: 9:48pm On May 05, 2020 |
I'd really like to know if you've gone through what the OP is going through. He should celebrate his birthdays with the kids ? You've got no idea and I don't pray you end up with such a spouse. God forbids that for you. Sis, they're worse than a terminal disease. They kill faster (gradually)bukatyne: You realize that the error is all yours for not choosing well.
For that, you are half way there.
You mentioned that you married in the Church: brother you know that except adultery and I will say abuse, you can't divorce your wife.
You have tried counseling, reporting her to family etc. etc. and it has not worked.
Now, I want you to try changing your reaction to her attitude. You have been married long enough to 'predict' her actions/inactions.
She forgot your birthday, fine. Celebrate yourself. Go out with the kids, go out with your friends etc.
She tries to keep malice, apologize and move on.
I know it is hard, it is abnormal even however you need to build a shield in your heart so that her attitude doesn't get to you anymore.
Don't beg or cajole her to 'change' or 'be better' or whatever: you are telling her that she has power over you.
Thank God finances are not a thing: treat your self, go on vacations, do the certifications or courses you wanted to. Channel your emotions into the things you have always wanted to do, pick up new hobbies, go to gym and workout youf frustrations etc.
And prayers work: if not for her to change, for you to be whole mentally and emotionally.
It is well. |
Politics › Re: Aisha, Abba Kyari's Daughter: My Father Never Drove Till He Died by dotedote: 4:28pm On May 04, 2020 |
Zedoo: Lmao. Hope he can handle the hot wheels in hell. Devil is about to run his ass through some sambisa drills You're a deluded illiterate. |
Business › Re: Access Bank To Shut Down 346 Banks Nationwide (List) by dotedote: 2:00am On May 03, 2020 |
PureGoldh: Chai.....in dx life...no dey do pass urself.
Others donated ....so they followed suit and at the end of the day...Their workers are to be whipped out from the office.
All dx donations wey Dem give FG...e be like say all of Dem don enter voicemail ooh Stop being so shallow-minded This has gotten nothing to do with the Covid-19 donation pls. |
Travel › Re: BRT Scraps Short-distance Tickets, To Commute 20 Passengers Per Bus by dotedote: 5:43pm On May 02, 2020 |
bolaji3071: They can't reduce the price but increase it. Greedy people. Do you understand at all ? If you load a generator to less than half its capacity, you still use the same amount of fuel you would if it were full capacity. |
Crime › Re: Ondo: Okada Rider Robs, Rapes Pregnant Woman To Coma, Goes On The Run by dotedote: 12:24am On May 02, 2020 |
So how did they know he's 32 years old ? Na wah o |
Health › Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by dotedote: 7:52am On May 01, 2020 |
[quote author=Eulalia post=89004270]A disciplined man will wait. Besides penetration is not the only way of relieving/satisfying sextual desires. The woman can help with other methods to relieve the hubby. So many ways.[/q
"A disciplined man would wait" A year !!! I'd rather wait in the lord. |
Politics › Re: Atiku To Pay ₦5 Million For Using Trader's Picture Without Permission by dotedote: 3:10pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Biafrarep: Don't mind the greedy woman. Afonja and greed are like 5 &6. They came to assist you only for you to turn against them! Assist koh. Afeez ni. |
Politics › Re: Atiku To Pay ₦5 Million For Using Trader's Picture Without Permission by dotedote: 3:09pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Benbellamor: Trash .....Atiku will just pay 10% of 500,000 to court and appeal to suffer and teach the guy a lesson and for the plaintiff to file counter appeal he has to deposit 500k to court, and pay another 500k to his lawyers minimum, Appart from at least 4 sittings which will gulp at least a million out of plaintiff pocket. Then Atiku will heat to supreme court, the plaintiff Already exhausted... Ask Baba suwe vs NDLEA...NOTHING FOR LAZY FELLOW... Maybe you don't know, the supreme court jury would always take all the expenses into consideration before making the final pronouncement. |
Politics › Re: Covid-19: Governors Give Buhari Conditions For Relaxing Lockdown On Monday by dotedote: 11:03pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
LordviccoDaGuru: The whole thing is not working is better to lift the lockdown .....better to lift the lockdown and do what ? |
Politics › Re: Covid-19: Governors Give Buhari Conditions For Relaxing Lockdown On Monday by dotedote: 11:01pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
BOOZELEE: The Lockdown should continue but they should let children go back to school since the disease hardly kill children. Did you read what you typed before submitting ? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Suggests Injecting People With Disinfectant As Treatment For Coronavirus by dotedote: 6:21pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
dmz1: at least D Trump is seen, visible and in control of the different efforts to solve the covid 19 challenge in America. can we say the same thing of our president? Trump needs being sued by Americans. |
Health › Re: My Penis Discharges Pus, What Could That Be? by dotedote: 6:48am On Apr 24, 2020 |
greatbrian: Bros na gonorh u don carry. Get string antibiotics like azithromycin and doxyclycline. It will clear it off in days and thank me later. Meanwhile net time condom is just 100box.
Modified, you should go for am HIV screening as well. Who knows Na wah o |
Politics › Re: ECOWAS Appoints Buhari As COVID-19 Response Coordinator by dotedote: 4:50pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
othermen: The failure of the president is seen in the death of thousands of people and his failure in the days to come may be the death of hundred of thousands, and those that chose him as the one to lead the coordination are probably ignorant of the President record and experience. This is his record. Not that, there were no deaths when Jonathan was president, but the death of Nigerians never became a norm during Jonathan's time. And he was never casual, when such death occurred, he visited the locations of such disasters, mourned with the family, he was compassionate, he addressed us. Recently, Chad president showed us what it means to be a leader in the fight against Boko Haram. Under the president, attacks on Nigerians, deaths are no longer news. Medical tourism reached its peak with the president. President Buhari has enough on his plate already and he should turn down the offer to concentrate on Nigeria, on Kano, where the virus continues to spread endlessly. He should address the ticking bomb, the poverty amongst his people first. Maybe you don't see what they see. Maybe they know more than you in that light. |
Phones › Re: How To Browse Using Mobile Data While Your Phone Is On Airplane Mode by dotedote: 6:43am On Apr 20, 2020 |
Great |
Politics › Re: What's The Electricity Situation In Your Area Like During This Lockdown? by dotedote: 3:05pm On Apr 13, 2020 |
Never had it this much since I was born. 22-23 hrs daily, on the average. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: COVID-19 In US: Thousands Lineup Orderly In Their Cars To Get Food, Items(Pics) by dotedote: 10:36am On Apr 12, 2020 |
Olunmercy56: We are waiting for our own government to act fast, many people are really hungry!!!! If you don't know Did you read in the news this was done by government ? |
Health › Re: COVID-19: Lifting Lockdown Now’ll Trigger Resurgence, WHO Warns Governments by dotedote: 2:27pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
fireback: the same WHO that deceived the whole world, telling them that wearing face mask does not protect from the virus. many infected persons would have escape the virus if they had used face mask but WHO misled them. Enter market dey point finger u hear ? You go hear am. |
Celebrities › Re: P. Diddy: Coronavirus Killing A Lot Of Blacks In The U.S. by dotedote: 2:16pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
DCmonster: Why have I not gotten it? Why has p.diddy and all the people he is gonna co-host the revolt news with not gotten it? Mad people, black Americans are bunch of deluded alarmists. Over here an average black American will commit a crime and will expect a judge not to convict and send him to jail when found guilty. Over here they don't go to college, they all wanna be gangsters and they hate on the whites for no just reason. All they do is drugs and hoeing around and yet they wanna compete with the whites. Latinos have more morals now than my African American brothers and sisters. For p.diddy it's all about the money. Corona virus knows no race, the blacks dying from it are probably the chain smokers and drug addicts whose lungs are semi-damaged already. "the blacks dying from it are probably the chain smokers and drug addicts whose lungs are semi-damaged already" You effortlessly gave yourself out with this line. Your paymasters must really be proud of you. We can all see that you're more of a bi*ch than a bi*ch. |
Politics › Re: Segun Oni: PDP Will Disgrace APC Out Of Power by dotedote: 2:07pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
[quote author= post=88312118]Nigerians should even stop talking about voting for a particular party, if we want to take our country back from the hands of all the political criminals that looted our country blind since independence, we should vote for personality, and honest men and women. This is the only way our nation can continue to move forward. For all those still supporting criminals that took our nation 100 years back, posterity will judge us all.
We Rise![/quote]Unfortunately, those personalities must present themselves under a party platform. |
Politics › Re: COVID-19: FG May Extend Lockdown As Cases Rise To 305 by dotedote: 2:01pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
Slurity: MY SORRY GOES TO THE FOOLS THAT STILL THINK THE PANDEMIC IS A SCAM. WE HAVE TOO MUCH ILLITERATE IN NIGERIA. SPIT... not as many as in the US where we have the highest number of cases in the world. |
Politics › Re: COVID-19: FG May Extend Lockdown As Cases Rise To 305 by dotedote: 1:56pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
MyVILLAGEpeople: People will come out by force. Hunger is more deadly than coronavirus. People won't care anymore. How can u just put people Indoors without considering how they will feed??. Majority of Nigerians are living from hand to mouth without government support. I bet you. People won't come out. People won't dare. Swallow it. |
Travel › Re: US Shares Relief Materials To Nigerians In China Thrown Into The Streets by dotedote: 5:56pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Xisnin: Just watch the video and see the propaganda narration in the background. The narrator has to mention Trump because why not. I mean isn't it the same Trump who is stealing medical supplies from European countries who he considers closer to him than others?
There is no evidence that the US government has anything to do with the donations especially with an administration that is cutting down every form of welfare even for its own citizens. Those are likely donations from NGOs to everyone on the street regardless of nationality.
The narrator describes Chinese as useless while his business and livelihood depends on them. Shortsighted readers everywhere ready to jump into conclusions at a mere glimpse of the headlines. |
Business › Re: Oil Prices Soar As OPEC+ Prepares To Cut Supplies by dotedote: 5:51pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
Yenefer: Who is pushing thread to front pages this days in nairaland, 90% of the people who visit nairaland don't benefit from Oil. Wether Oil price is high or low..., Most people here don't rip the benefits It's about staying informed. When you read about Davido carrying his baby or Dino Melaye taking selfies with his fast cars, what do you gain ? |
Crime › Re: Sola Fatunla: Man Kills Monarch For Snatching His Wife In Ekiti by dotedote: 4:55pm On Apr 09, 2020 |
fulaniHERDSman: Another Yoruba Demon thought an eternal lesson.
Pls I am having small cough and sneeze.[b][/b] Don't quote me. Your Waterloo |
Health › Re: Jack Dorsey To Donate $1 Billion To Fund Global COVID-19 Relief by dotedote: 8:19am On Apr 08, 2020 |
klax: The billions Nigerian cash guru gave what did buhari did with it? Jesu !!! |
Celebrities › Re: I Am Sorry - Funke Akindele Reacts To Video Of Her Husband's 43rd Birthday Party by dotedote: 6:15am On Apr 06, 2020 |
YorceelinaBlaq: If marriage has made you lose common sense, please, do not generalize it. We have women who are genuinely happily married and it has nothing to do with them wanting to show off on social media. That she's a celeb doesn't make her non-human. Everyone has the right to post their happy moments. The issue is that she went against the social distancing order. That is her sole crime. Leave her marriage and "womanity" out of it. "The issue is that she went against the social distancing order" She sure did more than that. Her selfishness would now cost the government time, energy and money to start chasing after all those that attended that party and whoever those have had physical contact with. It's draining I must confess. |
Health › Re: Funke Akindele Arrested For Hosting Party Despite Lockdown by dotedote: 6:01am On Apr 06, 2020 |
Angelinastto: She has already learnt her lesson with all the online bashing, why this again? Her lesson ? Who cares if she hasn't ! A lot is at stake MaDear. While she keeps releasing series of apology skits, government would spend time, energy and money in ensuring that all that have contacted each and everyone at the party are contacted and isolated so as not to lead to new cases. Now that's the problem. If you're told to stay home, it's not really because of you, but cos of thousands that'd get it indirectly from you if you contract it outside. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Boris Johnson Admitted To Hospital Over Coronavirus Symptoms by dotedote: 5:47am On Apr 06, 2020 |
shurleysky: Meanwhile Naija presido is still denying the fact that he’s tested positive. And even Aba Kyari is no where to be found. Health minister playing along. Same as your father |
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Phones › Re: Beware! - I Just Discovered Why Your Data Doesn't Last. Always Check by dotedote: 6:21pm On Apr 05, 2020 |
Greatzeus: You are wrong sir. You are very wrong,which is not the problem. The problem I have is that you as an educated person thinks that it's possible for your new subscription (60gb) to start reading from the last subscription you made and consumed(15gb.) Bros it is technologically impossible, unless it is programmed to be like that. Which will mean it is so for all Glo subscribers,or you want to tell me Glo decided to reprogrammed only your own SIM to work like that. Everything is computerised. Apart from daily logistics,if every Glo staff go home for a week everything will still be working fine. Everything done on your SIM, subscription, buying credits,call rate etc has been programmed. It cannot do otherwise. The call rate cannot change unless it is reprogrammed,the data consumption rate is programmed which is the same for everybody. Computer doesn't make mistakes bro. This your assertion is stupid,your new subscription started reading from the last subscription you did. I have never heard that before. We all know how our subscription can get depleted so fast we will be wondering how. We think telecoms are cheating us. Maybe yes or no,but I know that the standard is the same for everyone,every sim everytime. You probably want attention for your 60gb subscription which you have gotten. You can let us rest now. Many times I'm uncontrollably prompted to ask people's age. |
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Celebrities › Re: JJC Skillz 43rd Birthday Party Amid Coronavirus. Funke Akindele Under Fire by dotedote: 11:38am On Apr 05, 2020 |
Perfecttouchade: If only those criticising her could direct the energy at the reckless government who allowed this shit in with the recklessness..and to think looting is on going within the government and these people ain't questioned..leave funke and her husband alone o..they are not our problem o U obviously need to see 9ja's scoresheet as regards performance in the pandemic. We're doing very good. |