₦airaland Forum

Meedon:
If you are faithful to your spouse you don't need to fear.

So if a faithful woman’s husband dies from gastrointestinal disease how does she prove her innocence?

They will all look like the soulmate by the time they turn late 30s so let us manage the soulmate from the beginning.

“Who let the dogs out” woof!

Day169:
Far from it, Sis. The truth is that it cuts both ways. I'll refrain from the gender tussle, however I adore your sense of humour.

But you were throwing shade my way. See gaslighting 🙀.

Day169:
Word.. the No. 6, though, is the most deft of advice that a wife can be given, probably coming from the a wealth of wisdom from the most successful of women.
Btw the poster forgot to add No. 13.. "kindly ignore the comment above my post."

Don’t worry, you’ll get 100s of likes because you’re in the company of misogynists on this platform. 🖖

I was just thinking about this a few days ago while looking at my whites! Isn’t it produced anymore?

Kobicove:
So you'll choose Kuwaiti Dinar over US Dollars?

1 KWD is $3. You just fell for the hype because the dollar isn’t even top 5 of the strongest currencies in the world.

eepeepook:
We’re in mber months. This is cuffing season for Nigerians.

And in the west this is the hobosexual season so women are advised to hide their homes and hide their cars. 😅

Akalia:
I often struggle to make sense of your posts.

Why is that? 😁

I’m more surprised by people’s commitment to these threads. Some of these threads last longer than their relationship! My response would have been “Who is this?’ He responded with a time stamp 😱

It depends on the currency for me it has to be in Kuwaiti dinar or else I don’t want it.

1k KWD is 50m naira.

You people will not respect yourselves 😒

tammie24:
what if your family member is not able to make the call and a stranger is the only option available to reach to you and maybe save their life?

That’s just not my reality. If it was then obviously I would have my phone on loud next to my head when I sleep. Alhamdulilah, that’s not the case for me.

Black men would never admit that they are the problem. So black women were too aggressive and masculine, and the white woman is now too aggressive and demonic, so who is next on the list? Indian, Chinese, etc. you’ll run out of races before you accept that you guys are horrible people to partner up with.

Kobojunkie:
He also said this happened in 2009. I find it unbelievable since I have known of CPR since the 80s in Nigeria. So, I decided to refocus my response to the main subject of the thread. I guess my particular question is, why do you have a problem with me having that freedom?

So you find it unbelievable that a person doesn’t know CPR because you knew CPR since the 80s?
Kobo, no vex! Do you and I apologise for sticking my nose in your freedom 🤣🤣🤣

Kobojunkie:
CPR is great if the person who needs your help is right there next to you. But if you intend to drive 5 miles to give CPR to someone who had a heart attack after receiving a call about it, then I am afraid you are probably not gonna be of help to that person.

Do you ever read someone’s comment to understand them or do you only read to misunderstand them. Nowhere in that comment did they mention calls or driving. They were obviously present when their father had a heart attack and they regret not knowing CPR at that time.

thecommunist:
you should learn first aid and CPR, it may save the life of someone you love. Lost my dad in 2009, I could have attempted the CPR if I knew it then and probably save his life. I always think of how differently things could have turned out if I know how to do CPR then.

I’m truly sorry for your loss. Just to remind you that death is not something controlled by man. When someone’s time is up, it’s up. Don’t put that kind of pressure on yourself.

I know the basics of CPR and I could always call emergency services and the dispatch often talks one through how to resuscitate someone.

An elephant.

I can’t imagine how bad that area had to smell to not notice the smell of decaying flesh in the air. Is there no fresh air that could be disturbed by the smell of human flesh being cooked and rotting flesh in the air? How bad did that area smell!!! That a cannibal could just be living in a shack and be bbqing 🍖 people! Wtaf 😱

Acme45:
I thank God I wasn't a victim. Because I passed that bridge on foot almost every day within 6:30 and 7:30pm.

Can I direct this question to you? Did you not smell rotting flesh in the air when you were walking past?

Your thirst level is cringe worthy 😖

After going through this thread, I added my family members to the exception list of DND. Everyone should call who loves them enough to sacrifice their peace 😝.

This is very impressive, well done 👏

I’m not a doctor, I don’t know CPR, and I don’t have any money to give so please DND me! 🙏

Mothers tell their daughters to love, respect and honour their husbands, and fathers tell their sons to ignore, punish, and control their wives.

Stop following this thread! 😭

Gabrielshow24:
Morality is real🤦🏾‍♂️.

Don't make our ladies ravenously ’s...K’ dick🤨... If you filled the ’missing’ with ’uc’ then your mind needs cleaning, I meant seek👀...
Pls, let's be proponents of self control and try to reduce this pandemic of hook ups🤦🏾‍♂️. Well, I am no longer in the game but I fear for my children😔.

But when you were in the “game” those you played were someone else’s children. The nature of humans is a selfish one! The jokes just write themselves 😂

Jozilinn:
Why don't you ask? Anyways I'm a woman but grew up in a men's world.
What were your observations,and also your contributions ❤️

Ah! Transgender?

AllBlack:
Una too wicked for this forum. why? why? Just why?

What? 😆

AllBlack:
https://www.nairaland.com/8525859/relative-mine-mysteriously-kidnapped-three#136905583

That was my original reply when I first saw this story.

The family members did it.

The police over there are not ready to get involved. If a higher level police with true intention to unravel this crime steps in, it would be like opening maggi cube.

It might not be the husband. Rape was involved and I don't see why a man who has been having sex with his wife would come with intent to murder and come along with condoms.

And now a spiritualist cracked the case of the missing body 🤧. This is most definitely an inside job. The husband is the top suspect. What killers have ever chilled and partied at a crime scene if they won’t confident that they were safe. Could also be some ritual since politics (some one take some position in the community) are involved. Op, I’m just speculating so I’m sorry for sounding so insensitive.

Ps, I mean the husband set it up. Him leaving the area was his alibi…

AllBlack:
One or two of them know exactly what happened to her.

From your first story,
1. they took a bike and dumped it some distance from the house. (probably a decoy)

2. Now they found her right behind her house? How dem take carry her come back and even bury her wey nobody see or hear?

Her people came together to do this to her.

I don’t know if it’s because I watch too much true crime but I think the poor woman was set up by a family member. I suspect her husband.

What stranger has the guts to chill in a stranger house, drink, smoke, and wait for the one person who was home?

How would they know that she’d be home alone? And then take the time to dig a grave in the backyard and bury her right there. The woman was the target!

6. Blame-Shifting
• Narcissistic partners rarely take responsibility for mistakes.
• Conflicts are often your fault, regardless of circumstances.
• Healthy communication involves accountability; habitual blame-shifting is a danger sign.


This is the most obvious characteristic! Listen to their stories about how they interact with their world. If you notice that they are always the victim in their story and they never point out any mistakes they make; you got a narc!

They will apologise if they feel you’re pulling away from them but that’s just to keep you around. Look for accountability instead of remorse.

Let me just leave this here for our future sister in law.