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folake4u:
This does it for me too.

I like my personal space too much. Nobody will even open the gate for you in my compound sef.

Imagine! All the ish you have to do to accommodate them; 1) put clothes on,2) tidy the kitchen and check the bathroom is presentable (hiding undies etc) 3) start making teas and coffees and even food! Nah, if you’re going to send me to work at least give me 3/5 hours heads up.

My default rule is no one but if you catch me in the right mood, on the right day, in a blessed month then I might open the door. I don’t drop in on people and I don’t like my personal space invaded without prior approval.

Multiple orgasms 😱

I always remind myself that I better be willing to die for an ideology before I ever start making noise. Imagine this man was chilling in the Uk enjoying the NHS before he started poking the bear.

If you don’t mind me asking; are you married?
Aaaaah!

Welcome to London 😂 😂 😂

I’m sure mothers feel like this at least once a month. If you helped create what you are responsible for then please don’t run away! May you be rewarded abundantly for your efforts. But if you had no part in creating the “problem” then Ruuuuuuun!

budaatum:
Be unshocked.

buda is both male and female,
both equally is buda created.

Now stop looking under my skirt please.

😝

Kalulu44:
It seems you guys are not getting it. Is she that desperate that it's only to become a 3rd wife to another man that suits her.
It's not as if she's 40 yet and can still have babies till her late 40s or thereabouts

You seem to be struggling with individual choices! She can become the 19th wife if she pleases! She has done nothing wrong other than live her life and run her own race. This is a God given right. A man marries 19 wives and he is a god but a woman becomes a 3rd wife and she is desperate? You people need to evaluate your biases because it’s leaking.

If that shocks you then you might be new to humans!

Let’s be honest if the roles were reversed and a man from your family wanted to get married in the same time frame then we’d ALL be talking about how he is lucky to find a woman who can look after him and the baby etc. This is only weird because it’s a woman.

I understand you’re mourning your loss and it feels like she is just forgetting him but she’s honestly just trying to make a life for herself and her child. She probably wants more children and time isn’t a luxury for her. I don’t think she’s doing anything wrong, legally or otherwise.

Please just be a good aunt to your niece and continue to mourn your brother. May God make it easy for you all.

BlaqJagz:
I understand what the op wrote but there's no need telling anyone your probs except your family members at least cus it can attract a lot of insults, gossip that could lead to emotional trauma and even more probs, everyone should focus on his/her probs. I just hope your shoulders are strong enough to lean on.

That’s what needs to be changed! Why surround yourself with people who would mock you and gossip about you when you’re struggling? Wouldn’t you want to identify those people and cut them out? I don’t have a single person who would kick me when I’m down. I only allow people who love me around me.

BlaqJagz:
You're right but who would save you from your problems even the person you're telling your probs has his/her own.

That’s not why you speak up, it’s not to be saved but to unburden yourself. It’s to know that you’re not alone. That you’re not some failure but a valuable person trying their hardest.

Like op said, life’s not a Nollywood movie, nobody is going to solve your problems for you but they are willing to walk beside you and give you a shoulder to lean on.

Imagine you’re already struggling and now you’re worried about what others think about you! Take away the judgement and fear of being judged and you’re burden is already halved.

YourGFsnatcher:
Are you serious no naaaaw. That's totally disrespectful. I'm glad u dodged

It’s professor double07 to you 🧐.

Elect1neAtegun:
Oh mehn! E be like nah real matter o..

E be like our neighbor pastor and hin wife Dem dey road to heaven like this. As nobody don gree see them since momo even church members messages nor gree deliver for their two phone

So you’ve been left behind? 😱.

I got raptured but I came back because I forgot my phone.

My Christian friends! Have your pastors disappeared?

Mistakes are lessons so you need to make as many mistakes as possible to get the lessons with in them. Just make sure your mistakes don’t impact others in irreversible ways .

TikTok Christians are preparing for the rapture.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nl9oy49Cuhw?si=3vREgu5Unj3OJ5ZP

Talkisneeded:
So that we can read your post and ponder about the source of your maryJ

😂😂😂😂

I just wanted to laugh at talk’s needed’s witty response!

So one man can be all things to all those women? Men are such “interesting” creatures! It never goes past their stomachs and loins. Women are but tools to them.

YourGFsnatcher:
😂 my current mission is to snatch Dounb.le0h7.
She's the love of my life, but she doesn't know

Good morning, trouble! I wish you an awesome week ahead.

I didn’t like all the credentials she was dropping! I hate when people make jobs and certifications an extension of themselves. It’s some low self esteem vibes.

I remember meeting a guy and he told me not to call him by his name but to add doctor before his name. I told him you’re not my doctor so I won’t be calling you doctor so and so. He was offended and I just stopped calling him full stop. Some people need to get a personality!

In simple terms you want him and he doesn’t want you. If you push yourself into his life you will regret it deeply.

If she was to fight back she would have beaten the odds out of him. All that energy he used and she’s still standing. That man is weak inside and outside the aza room.

Mariangeles:
They mostly can't help it.

A lot Caribbean people have the H factor too. It’s not an issue, definitely not something to disqualify someone from having a relationship with them.

She knows the right thing to do but she has consistently failed so I have nothing to say other than I thank God for my peace of mind! Some people don’t appreciate peace until it becomes elusive to them.

Mariangeles:
It's like when one pronounces egg as hegg.

😂😂😂😂

And when it’s time to say house they say Ouse 😭

Most second borns I’ve met tend to be the most normal of their siblings. They tend to be friends with all their siblings and enjoy the respect of being an older sibling without the pressure of being the first born. They tend to be the most responsible of their siblings.

That’s the hill “men” want to die on? The right to break hearts, betray their loved ones, exposing themselves to diseases and the right to bring that disease home to their children and wives. That’s the right you have? This is coming from leaders or head of homes? This is the master plan from the logical gender? Okay! Enjoy the loneliness epidemic you are creating. Enjoy your youth spreading pain and despair and your old age awaits you with the fruits of your labour.

He’s 9 tithes in credit so he should rest for the rest of the year and enjoy his service.