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Please take the L and never look back! You fumbled the bag and anything you do now will be embarrassing.

To think these are the people who we are arguing with. A simple instruction and they don’t understand!

Morbeta11:
A group of rats 🐀 is called??

Mischief!


Nothing to add

fyneboi79:
who cares? If she doesn't fall in line with my wishes as a man after that,I can as well still kick her out entirely. What do you ladies even think you are worth?

No vex! May you find your peace 🖖

I believe this question is only acceptable if the woman you got pregnant is not your wife. If you were to ask your wife for a DNA test then be sure to deal with the fallout from such actions.

Most loyal, honest and trustworthy women will take it as a slap to the face. All her efforts of being a good wife and loyal partner have been rewarded with mistrust and suspicion. This will change the relationship dynamics.

For 22 Billion, I will slap everybody 😏

dbabs500:
Attached is the picture of what I saw, forgot to attach

What was it? Sand?

You said she booked a hotel for the 24th and 25th which was a weekend. I’m wondering what happened after you asked her about it and she said it was an accident… I’m guessing she didn’t go?

You seem to know what you’re doing so I don’t have any ideas for you but I would tell you to be careful she doesn’t poison you since you no longer trust her.

What did you find on top of the cupboard?
Did she go away for that weekend getaway?
Abeg! Finish this gist now so I can give you the steps to take. 🥹

Saybal:
your conclusion is dat the other guy is richer than the Op so he should double is hustle ,he is not in any competition with anybody he married their daughter legally , they can take their daughter and give to the other man

The only problem is marrying from such shameless and hungry

Is not compulsory he give them any gifts if he doesn't have the means

My conclusion? I don’t think you read my comment or comprehended it. I said THEY (his in-laws) are sending him a message the message to up his hustle.

Saybal:
After reading your comment I just shake my head

Why?

Thank you for sharing your story! I hope it inspires others on the same journey as you to have faith in God and be willing to do the work. Thank you for not crumbling under the weight of your struggle. Thank you 🙏 💗💗💗

This just showcases the insatiable nature of humans. He has the opportunity that millions will kill for and he’s complaining that life is hard. Life is hard everywhere! Africa, India, Europe, etc all have their own challenges. There’s nowhere on earth that life won’t touch you. The lesson is gratitude for what you have, and accepting life on life’s terms.

I love how the bottom crew is consoling themselves 😂. When you become extinct in the next 100 years, let’s see who inherits your lands 😂. China and Japan will invite you to their WhatsApp groups 😝

ChybuzzDD:
To up his hustle so that what exactly will happen?
Is he owing them??

And this the question op needs to ask his wife and in-laws. I said that’s the message THEY are sending.

The message they are sending is to up your hustle! Do you gift them?

I remember everything 😱

axglide:
We are to love who we marry not to marry who we love.

Correct, and water drinks not drink water 🤓

RealityKings1:
The major events in your dream has to do with one of the 5 elements (water) which is used to describe the natural world.

Those 2 people you see are not just people but 2 periods that will shape the flow of your path.
The car represents you, the water are the people around you.

If the car is washed well by both periods, you'll be able to achieve things of significance. But one of those periods, you thought will shape you might take away alot from you.

Don't be afraid and don't hold back. What will happen must happen.

Help me understand this dream: 2 crows are playing football, and I’m watching in awe at what I’m seeing.

Then these sea gulls come and scatter their game, followed by many squirrels who come out the trees to protect the crows.

The squirrels stone the sea gulls and chase them away but the crows don’t continue their football game and I’m left feeling sadness.

What’s your thoughts on this 💭

Joeboypondeck:

🤷‍♀️

You don’t know how to use “his and her” correctly but you know how to spread honey. Who did this to men? Black men in particular. Fvckin depressing 😒

I’ve met a few white women with this exact storyline, and they are happily married to the second person for many years. I think if there’s no children involved in the current marriage, and you meet your soulmate, then it’s probably best to walk away from the current relationship and try again. If there are children involved then it would be selfish to scatter your family for a potential.

First thought I had is that you are ungrateful. You seem to be looking at what others have and unhappy about your own portion of life. When something good happens, instead of grabbing it with both hands and thanking God, you’re already looking for something better. You then bite off more than you can chew, and ask others to help you, but these people distract you; like crabs in a barrel, you end up back in the same position. Another thought is the saying “a bird in hand is better than two in the bushes” the lesson here is gratitude. Be grateful for what God gives you instead of looking outside for something better.

I came to see the fire and I was disappointed 😒

FreeSpirited:
I will gladly welcome it's public discussions if it will make me ashamed enough to change... But most people are adamant, shameless and unwilling to change when certain things is being pointed

The point is that nobody cares enough. You’re childish and judgemental. Most healthy adults let others choose for themselves what they want to do with their bodies. Adults have more important things to worry about. With the state of our world today, your small brain is fixed on nose rings.

I’m pretty sure there’s something about you that’s repulsive to many women but they probably don’t care enough to warrant a public discussion.

This is the anthem for the pickmes! If you can’t handle your own company in peace and need to be in a relationship then sure! But if you are happy within yourself then nothing short of peace could lead you to coupling up. Many people can’t stand being alone with themselves and spend their whole life looking for someone who can keep them distracted.

If marriage benefits women and not men then I wonder why the need for all this propaganda? Any self respecting person should not need a another person so badly that they are willing to risk their mental, physical, or emotional health to avoid being by themselves.

Love800:
I have never been treated badly in a friend's house though. Maybe because i always respect boundaries whenever i visit in your home.

The thing is, am too sensitive. If i notice that my appearance is overwhelming you in your place, i limit my presence. You dont need to give me a vivid sign or too many signs!

I think you misunderstood the question. No longer a visitor as in you become part of the family.

When her mother included me in the tongue lashing of her daughter! I was sitting there grinning and she turned to me and started telling me that I’m just like her blah blah blah 😒

gunners160:
value of quality jewellery. Na wa ooo my dear philosopher of fine metals and fragile egos 😏 — he who plays the drums of luxury must be ready to dance in the market of affordability! The big question is how many ladies can afford the costly life style they dream of? The last time I checked, money is not unisexual. If you want luxury, buy it urself. Some of us wear stainless steel and shine with confidence, while others wear gold and still wrestle with insecurity. No wonder Regina Daniels today dey hear ham hot hot for marriage. I believed she followed advice from people like u

I’ve never seen someone fight for poverty like this! Enjoy!

Is this a new format? What happens to the money if you don’t get through to the competition?

SpencerForbes:
Some of our sisters see it as shopping spree tho. But if she doesn’t do such I’m still wondering why the man will act like that🤔

He was just fvckin with her head. If it went his way he would’ve accused her of stealing and broke up with her. He doesn’t rate op at all. I don’t know why op can’t see it though. A man who insults and belittles a woman is testing how much shi she’s willing to swallow. Calling her by another woman’s name is his way of telling her that she’s not special to him. I think he’s jealous of her and that’s a dangerous man to be with. I bet he uses her for money and a warmth. Op! Please learn from this and teach people how to treat you instead of being a “forgiving” girlfriend.