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Helpout12345:
Many women that are in that situation go outside too. It's not a new thing. It was there during our ancestors and it will continue to happen.

If that's the case then we ride at dawn 😂

Oh shi! I guess I'm a man! I've never read anything more insulting in my life!

Number 4 is ideal and Number 6 is the fantasy

I have a question for the men; what happens when a man experiences ED or just grows old and can no longer do the do? Should his wife turn to local boys to do his job?

I think it's a case of sibling rivalries. You don't know what your older sister did to get to where she is now. I'm guessing she (the bread winner) is from your mums first husband. You don't know the kind of relationship she had with your dad.

Everyone has their own traumas and triggers so it's impossible to conclude that someone is evil. You contradict your story because on one hand she is the breadwinner who supported your mother and by extension you, but on the other hand she is evil!?

There's a lot of entitlement in your thinking. I hope the younger sister finds her way and may her journey not make her bitter.

The audacity must be on sale I'm stealing this!

DemonSlayer:
Happy Independence Somaliland!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rPSf3vv_nA4?si=o_WfbASAXz2wA8FK

Onatounkiki:
One of the reasons why I'm so confused right now. If someone were to seek for my advice on something like this I would have called the person "daft" but because I'm the one experiencing this and I know the situation of things makes me feel very confuse.

I'm not doubting the man's intentions but I feel she's faking her likeness which she said she isn't. Her husband sister asked her if she's comfortable with it she she also said the same thing.

She mentioned that; she has always known her husband will have a second wife because there was a vision and she has dreamt and her daughter too dreamt that a lady was eating from the same place with her dad.
Her husband has discussed me with her and with everything she has seen about me, she doesn't have a problem with me and if it were some other girls she wouldn't obliged to it.
She's actually a calm person too with what I have seen and heard.

If you can play your position as the second wife, and you're not looking to out do the first wife then enjoy your man and play the defender. You're not the striker! You're not the queen bee. You are the background. If you are happy with that then enjoy your man. Don't disturb this family. Don't bring drama. Stay in the background and play supporting arist. That's what a good second wife does. If you think you want to be the main character then this is not for you. Forget about who had a dream about what. Understand your role before you can play it.

Of course she's faking her likeness! You are the best of two evils. She knows her husband will remarry. All this dream bs is to make you comfortable and to bring you in to the family. She chose you because she knows another woman is coming regardless. How do you feel about playing 2nd fiddle?

Firebox123:
you can marry another person husband

Chai 😪💔

It's different in many cultures. It is what it is 😂

If the man is responsible, financially capable, and able to spread his love then in my culture there's no problems.

Good men are scarce. If a wife is happy to share her good man then there's no problem. If she is unhappy to share him then that's a no go zone! Happy wife, happy life and all that 😂

Around there.I can't quote you because I'm getting blocked/ban.ned.. I hope we're friends now and you could allow me 😂. Wishing you a peaceful day ahead.

AmalaAtiEwedu:
Look at this Gen Z oh

I'm a millennial 😂

Nothing wrong at all if he ticks all your boxes and his 1st wife is happy with the arrangement. Please don't stress another woman! If she is happy then moooove!

AmalaAtiEwedu:
You can never be older than 28.

I think you are between 21 - 23, ... at most 25.

I'm 10 years older than all of those numbers. Respect your auntie now 😂

AmalaAtiEwedu:
How old are you?

How old do you think I am? I'm probably older than you though

AmalaAtiEwedu:

Somaliland Girl
hope u don't have terrorists there?

Please delete my picture.come on now! I'm begging you 😢

AmalaAtiEwedu:

Somaliland Girl
hope u don't have terrorists there?

We have al shabab in Somalia 🇸🇴. They are a f,ing nuisance. They haven't come into Somaliland yet because we don't play! We killed them quickly so they play in Somalia for now.

AmalaAtiEwedu:

Why? I don't understand what I did to you 😂

AmalaAtiEwedu, please delete my picture. I don't understand why you did that?

Please delete it.

Civil war 1990s

2nd picture 2025! Zero international or government aid! Somaliland rebuilt by the common man. Financial aid from Somalilanders in the diaspora. Self made country 35 years old.

Somaliland is a state that broke away from the status quo! They created a civil war and won! Somaliland was able to create independence from Somalia since 1990s! For 30+ years, this small state has survived without their country. Somalia is recognised by the UN and everyone else who maters. Any aid that comes into the country, goes to the recognised country of Somalia.

Somaliland is a dream! Built by the common man without government or international help. The common man has fought against the government and has created a country with it's own passport (recognised by some and not by many), its own bank system, government and military! It may never be recognised but it exists.

Happy 30 year independence day to Somaliland! 😍

There was a palpable sense of joy in Cardiff Castle on the morning of Friday May 16, with large numbers of excited Somalilanders of all ages beaming with smiles of excitement.
It was Somaliland’s Independence Day, and the nation’s flag was being raised above the ancient battlements alongside Y Ddraig Goch.

For those who don’t know the back story, this is a massive deal for the tens of thousands of Somalilanders who live in Wales, most of them In Cardiff.
Their ancestors came as seafarers, crewing the ships that transported coal from the south Wales Valleys overseas at a time when Cardiff was the biggest coal-exporting port in the world.

British ‘Protectorate’

Somaliland was a British ‘Protectorate’ – a polite term for a colony – at a time when the country next door, now known as Somalia, was in effect owned by Italy.

Later, when political decolonisation was under way in Africa, the residents of Somaliland voted to unify with their neighbours. But they soon lived to regret it and for many years were oppressed by a dictator based in Mogadishu, the capital of Somalia.

They are determined this should never happen again.

Eventually, the dictator was ousted in 1991, since when Somaliland has had de facto independence.

Those left in charge then had a choice. Either they would follow the example of Somalia and become a dysfunctional, failed state, or Somaliland would do something different and better, and decide to follow a democratic path.

To their great credit, and against great odds, they have pursued the latter route rather than the former.

Revolution

I have followed the fortunes of Somaliland for more than 20 years , since meeting a stalwart of Cardiff’s Somaliland community, Eid Ali Ahmed, who used to be the deputy chief executive of the Welsh Refugee Council. He played an important role in the revolution that ousted the dictator, Siad Barre – a story that deserves to be thoroughly told one day.

It’s impossible to have a conversation with Eid without the issue of international recognition cropping up. He has a very good point. There’s something fundamentally unjust about the fact that while Somalia has almost universal recognition from the international community, Somaliland remains, to a very large extent, an outcast.

Yet despite this, the nation holds regular elections at which the party in power can be voted out – it’s happened several times, always with a peaceful transition.

Those who lose bow out gracefully, which is far more than can be said these days about some politicians in the superpower that likes to project itself as the cornerstone of global democracy.

There’s something very engaging about the Somaliland community, as I have been reminded again while attending the flag-raising ceremony. Two school children from a primary school in the old docklands district of Butetown were brought along to the castle by their headteacher.


Somaliland Independence Day is marked in Cardiff Castle. Both spoke confidently, with passion and pride about being both Somalilanders and Welsh.

Many others gave speeches too, and a common theme was the way the adults as well as the children were proud of their dual identity and determined to make a positive contribution to life in Wales.

I was honoured to be asked to give a speech myself. It wasn’t something that was arranged in advance, but I could see it coming when others before me were asked to speak without having been tapped up previously.

Terrorist attack

I was happy to speak about what I have learnt from Eid predominantly over the years, and how, for example, I was able to get a phone interview with the then president at a time when the country had suffered an extremely rare terrorist attack by Al-Shabaab infiltrators from Somalia. The Somaliland security services are highly trained and very efficient.

There is something special about the Somalilanders I have met. They are entrepreneurial and tend to be positive in outlook, with a mischievous sense of humour .

They have no interest in portraying themselves, or being portrayed, as victims without agency – and they abhor self-pity. This is all the more admirable, given the country’s constant knock-backs when seeking international recognition.

Instead, they just get on with it. The women play an important role, not only in a traditional home-based sense, but increasingly with talented young women making a mark academically and professionally.

One of the best examples of creative Somalilanders is the brilliant novelist Nadifa Mohamed, whose Booker Prize-shortlisted The Fortune Men told the tragic story of Mahmood Mattan, the victim of a grave miscarriage of justice in Cardiff in the 1950s, when he was wrongly hanged for murdering a shopkeeper.

Yet it’s not a depressing book and is narrated with great verve.

Immediately you have anything to do with Somalilanders in Cardiff, you become aware of their commitment to their cause. But it’s a passion for their ‘home’ country to prosper and do well, unlinked to any violent and extremist ideology.

“We are moderate Muslims,” one of them said to me in the aftermath of the flag-raising ceremony, which led to whooping cries of jubilation as the flag went up the pole.

These people, it occurred to me, are the living embodiment of the very opposite of the grotesque caricature of migrants as rapacious and violent criminals who are opposed to social integration and determined to screw as much out of Britain as they can while giving nothing in return.

Instead, they are a credit to Wales.

Several of them told me how keen they are for twinning arrangements between Cardiff and Hargeisa, the capital of Somaliland, and between Somaliland as a whole and Wales.

This makes absolute sense to me. May it happen.

And may the UK take the plunge and recognise Somaliland as a sovereign state, as the Senedd did a decade ago.



https://nation.cymru/feature/somaliland-independence-day-a-credit-to-wales/

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