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DemonSlayer:
Getting poisoned.

Really?

I refuse to unlock this fear! 😱

Who would do such a thing

Samantha125:
He must send your parents a monthly stipend? Yeah neh!!! We listen and we don't judge...

Op deleted the post

Please gist me! What was it about. From what I gathered from the replies, her parents wanted money from her boyfriend? What did they say and how did he react? Can you even remember?

Allthingswork:
there many women who can and will do anything for escapea poverty. Anything, no matter how bad or abominable.

We've heard the stories

What about men who are sacrificing their mothers, innocent women, and their fellow men for rituals

Could their be anything more abominable than that?

Which kind of 1920s washing machine is this?
Poor people will use anything to flex on others.

This is a business woman, let her eat!

Anyone dumb enough to give her money to learn what women have known since Eve deserves to get scammed.

Ray07:
Nah . . . No Movado songs comes close to "everything inna the hole.

I hadn't heard it before so I just checked it out. He diss vybz like that . We dey pon di gully side!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gTgZ3l5lNYs?si=EsIHTmVXDqegyJbg

Jeje247:
The only days of the week I'm yet to see as names are Tuesday, wednesday and Thursday

Wednesday from Adam's Family

That honestly did nothing for me but I might not be his audience. I miss the days of Mavado and vybz kartel.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g-ZFcGQozh4?si=6sncI9awnhj5KYSI



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y4lbxocj0Cg?si=DK5Zh9c5vQVe5p-n

It was September, 1996, the happiest time of my life thus far.

Maigidaane:
It's a private thing, I'm not painting her bad. But I've told her I'll work on it, she just talked about it last week. So it's not what I can change overnight.

Maybe work on that thing instead of focusing on getting married next year. She said she wants to stay with you but she's not sure about marriage just yet due to the "thing" you need to change.

Work on changing that thing.

Maigidaane:
I'm working on changing which she's aware of too. Yes, her fear is legitimate but I've assured her, I'm working on it.

What are you changing?

People come online and tell 50% of the story that makes them look innocent and their partner look guilty. Do you want honest feedback?

What is that thing that she knows because that could be the reason why she's holding back from the marriage. That thing could be an important variable.

How have you changed?

Are her fears legitimate?

But tell us how you changed, and what you need to work on so we can have a clearer picture.

noobody:
He has over 50 Monika that I can confirm

He is like an infestation

Keeps showing up with different ones weekly to expose himself

Because of your screenshot now,

He quickly went to clear his profile

Person wey dey promote yahoooo activities on nairaland.

I think that moniker was banned. That's why his activities were erased. It happened in one swoop within a minute. Like you said he has 49 more so...

How monikers does op have

I feel sorry for anyone that buys things on nairaland. That's not what the website is designed for.

noobody:
Get

https://www.nairaland.com/8433138/reporting-breaking-rule-10-trolling


He's petitioning Dominique to delete this thread.

Ojagun:
Lol!

Meaning the man must endure the suffering/stress in his marriage even if it kills him

How can anyone not love women?!

Isn't that what women are told to do endlessly, on this very website by these very men?

Mary95:
How is Somalia today?

Your guess is as good as mine!

Cosign this beautiful message

Not when we stop speaking because we can speak again but if I'm giving you eviction from my life then your belongings go with you! Everything deleted. 😋

Kaido:
You don't fix a sinking shipping. He might end up drowning.

So men are leaders only when it suits them?

Is the ship not his?

Why wouldn't he fix it when his seed is on board the ship?

An honourable captain goes down with his ship!

FuckYeyeMods:
What is new about a marriage that the woman feel comfortable about bragging with divorce.. from what you read so far, is this your conclusion.
Woman don't threaten man with divorce. Only a weak man endure such. I m currently in same shoe.
When the divorce matter became very obvious, she abscond with my children.
Don't encourage or try same my dear its very unacceptable.

I understand its a sensitive topic and I probably have zero knowledge or experience but I just feel so bad for the children. Men here are sensitive and I don't want to be insulted for expressing anything contrary to the consensus at play which is divorce her. It would just be nice to hear some other solutions.

I would advise figuring out what the other person needs, wants, feels, and thinks. In this case op obviously over pampered his wife in the beginning to win her love, he continued with this plan until it was unsustainable.

The mature thing wouldn't be to jump ship but to admit to himself and his wife that what he did was wrong. He could take into consideration that he robbed this woman of a dream she had: to marry a man that can comfortably look after her. He has to confess, seek forgiveness and come up with a plan that can get them from where they are to where they need to be.

I believe op wanted to spoil his wife and family! He too dreamed of having the finer things in life. I think op is probably capable of providing that life for his family and all he's asking for is some time, a team player and some peace.

If he could convey that to his wife in a humble manner, I believe if she has sense she might play along. The reason she's shouting for a divorce is she feels like she's been sold a false dream. Men say everything (lies) to tie down the woman they want. Until those men could admit to their problem instead of fighting the woman (gaslight her) to be what she never claimed to be.

Ops wife made it clear that she wanted the soft life before they were married. In fact men like op, approach with the bs without you even asking! He'll buy this, spend this, take you here, take you there! He will create a fake image of himself. Then when we're locked in (marriage and kids) he'll start telling you to budget the water, don't use too much tissue paper, I can't buy meat this month! This is the same man who took you two 5 star restaurants! Then he'll tell everyone that listens that you are an unreasonable woman, your lazy, you waste money.

Men are teaching each other that women love lies.
Don't tell her truth because she'll leave or cheat. This is the result when men lie about their abilities, needs, and requirements. If he was honest and up front he's wife wouldn't have married him and he knew that from day 1.

Karlifate:
As expected.


Sarcastic deflection is next in your manipulative arsenal, since your folly has been brought to full glare

Ok. Well done!

Karlifate:
Typical feminine rantings.

Instead of wailing & gnashing several molars & premolars, proffer solutions to the OP's predicament, wise sage!

Don't hurt yourself now! Calm down.

They look so beautiful together... stunning couple.

Makaveli217:
What advice should they give? To stay with an unproductive ingrate that can't manage a business of 3m, rob you of your peace of mind, and contribute nothing meaningful to your life.

He's obviously enabled her bad behaviour. He could adjust his ways and lead his home instead of running away at the first sight of a problem. He has a child with her, that child shouldn't suffer for his father's choices. Men are always shouting about being leaders but when things become hard they run away from their children. Their marriage is still new, everyone goes through hardship in the beginning of their marriage, until they finally understand each other. He sounds weak af!

This is the place marriages come to die! Not a single person advised to try to keep the family together. Nobody giving op solutions to correct her behaviour and his enabling behaviour. If op follows all these people, another one bites the dust! So many broken homes. So many single parents and abandoned children.

dkidd:
So what U meant as too good to be spoilt man is the ideal mate ? I never knew and I thought U meant a very good man that's why I responded that way cos I know I'm not a good man but I'm definitely a speck to many women just like every other man and woman is a speck to someone else. And U don't even know if I'm him for u oo U done cancel me out like say U know me before. Anyways like I said I'm the ideal mate to so many other women, so U can't tell me I don't fit

I was teasing you.

Difrent:
Taaa
How many rich people commit suicide compared to the numbers,it's insignificant
The vast majority of rich people live a life of paradise.
Life is not a fairytale for Most of the inhabitants of planet earth and most don't wish to experience it again.

Is it your fault or mine ? No

You have to be very young, I hope you're very young to think like this. life isn't about money! There's so much more! Money isn't even 25% of life. There are millions of rich people (young and old) on hospital beds unable to buy health. Many more unable to buy love, friendship, respect, honour or any offer of real human connections.

While there are people in war torn countries unsure where their next meal will come from but they are blessed with health, friends, family, community and they are very grateful. Life is complex while you are fixated on wealth.

I believe in God, judgement, heaven and hell, but if I didn't I would definitely love to reincarnate. I wouldn't mind if I came back rich, poor, disabled, male, female as long as I come back human ooo. I don't want to be some insect or a wild beast 😂. I would love to do it all over again with a new challenge and perspective.

RickyJesus:
Exactly, and that's why he can't answer the question.
The dude won't ever listen or learn, no sense in his line of thought. But I commend you for taking your time to explain, at least if not for him but some misguarded souls that will take his point seriously.

ExBachelor:
you don’t know me

👍

ExBachelor:
Double0h7 I just checked your profile. I think I know you 😂😅

You want be banned over there 😢.

Come and reveal yourself 🤔

ExBachelor:
Really? Did you use cu**s words?

They should free mr c. He entertains many of us 😃😃😃

No bad words, I typing grammar and I used Mr.c and the owners name. I often get banned on Mr.c's threads. I might get hit now so I won't be commenting on here again! See you around nairaland 😂