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Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 12:07am On Dec 09, 2015
coolviv:
Ok they mentioned your family and it's paining you to the extent of raining empty curses on yourself or is your father a herbalist? Yimu....Mumu!
Help me.ask him o

For everything we do, especially those that have negative impacts on people. It is good to think twice.

Most of them don't. They forget that they have sisters and they are going to have daughters. Some guys down on the street probably think that they are ho.es
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 12:02am On Dec 09, 2015
brossam2001:
Not trying to justify the beating though!!! but I think some women deserve this shit, especially when they are cheaters. Madam pls summon the man to marital tribunal and let's try him for assault, battery, attempted woman slaughter.

It will be appropriate to hear the man side of the story bf passing my judgment at the mean time BAIL GRANTED due to insufficient information and evidence of past psychiatric problem.

Case adjoined to 20th January, 2028.
Can I kill a man who is a cheat?

I think I should because he deserves it for cheating on me. And fornication is a sin toosad




We will do the same to your sisters and daughters if their husbands beat them to death. We must hear their sides. If it is convincing enough, we will send them homecheesy

Dumb logicundecided
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 12:00am On Dec 09, 2015
mrkels:
Don't know what to say.

Only married folks would understand this.


What he did is totally wrong in all ramifications but there's more to this story that meets the eyes. Something is wrong somewhere and it could be that the women incited this beatings, we know them, sometimes their mouth can land them into trouble.
I once heard a woman insult her husband infront of everybody that he is not a man, that his pen!s is so small and he cannot even use it well and also wonders how he does it with the useless girls he carries, that his pen!s is not made for a woman's v!rgina, rather it's sole purpose in life is for urination. You need to see beating that day.

Anyways no matter how saucy your wife is, no matter what she said, no1 should ever be treated like this.

Sad.
I have experienced situations where men derrogated their wives in public

I think each woman should have killed her husband when they got home:DD



Whatever but it is still not an excuse. He should have separated or divorced her when she started running her mouth. If she had died, his life would have been totally ruined. And if I were her (I can't be), his life would be totally ruined.

And abusers get angry for no reason!
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 11:47pm On Dec 08, 2015
Eddygourdo:
please oga don't play that card jare it's silly, the man is also a son and a brother to someone. I hope ur sons and brothers marry whores and disrespectful wives who would send them to their early graves. I wish u eternal pains and suffering in the hands of ur partner and may you snap and react may the gods smite you with madness unending. That you reactions will forever bring you shame ad pains that even demons will reject your dawned soul. Bloody bastard. It's your type that come to the public and become a woman right respected only to abuse your women indoors. Waste of sperm
Hehehe

Nothing go happen my brothertongue

You can't reap what you don't sowcheesy

If you were true to yourself, you would have said Amen to those prayers

I was merely leading you on your premises, abi na

You are nothing but a hypocrite

E dey pain am
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 10:39pm On Dec 08, 2015
mikolo80:
not like this mumu. poor women have no choice, them worwor, this girl did, she chose rich bad guy and yep i used to be broke and now wen moni don come una go hear am
You are the mumu! They have a choice. Poor women are not ugly.

God! Are your stu.pid or what? I can't understand your retar.ded logic

You don't used to be broke. You are still broke.. And you are pained
Foreign Affairs › Re: 'Muslims To Be Stopped From Entering US'- Donald Trump by doveda: 9:52pm On Dec 08, 2015
Eluwilussit:
The reason black people are backward is this type of nonsensical blame game. Why should we Africans allow ourselves to be psychologically manipulated? If indeed we feel inferior to them, how's that their fault? Are we not really inferior by blaming them for manipulating us?

Please, stop blaming the west. They take whatever we offer them. We are responsible for how we are treated.
You can't beat psychologyundecided

This is the same reason you find modern slaves protecting their owners
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 9:49pm On Dec 08, 2015
mikolo80:
why them no go beat am. when she leave hustlers de find ready made dark tall handsome six figure salary earn ing Guy. you can't eat your cake and have it
Are you a broke guy?

There are many poor men who beat their wives every single day. undecided
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 9:49pm On Dec 08, 2015
ginggerxy:
the man that did that surely deserves death.but could be that the woman is been paid in her our coins,dnt 4get that wat goes around comes around.this woman most have missed her real love during her youthful days alot of women make that mistake and you see they are nevr happy in their marriage.that woman must have done to other people especially does that loved her to have deserved such cruelty .we always get what we deserve.
What if she hasn't done anything. What if it is the man that if going to get what he deserves?

Why is that you are trying to defend to stylishly defend the man?
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 9:47pm On Dec 08, 2015
Lamasta:
Many good guys would have toasted her and she turned them down for the Bastard called husband, but I don`t blame the guy its the lady I blame cos she knew from onset how violent her guy is and went ahead to marry him now she dey cry make we pity am, I only pity the innocent child in that womb........
Say no to Violent against women............
There are many nice and gentlemen who are ticking bomb

It is not written on the forehead
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 9:32pm On Dec 08, 2015
coachwilcox:
The fact that you chose to insult my mum means you're probably gonna end up like Mrs Campbell very soon. Saucy untrained girl.
grin

The fact that you used a derogatory word on me is enough to insult every woman in your family.

Look at his barbaric face sefundecided



If only wishes were horses......
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 9:29pm On Dec 08, 2015
[quote author=coachwilcox post=40820379][/quote]Yes, I am oo

In fact I have got a pen.is

Will you like to see it?
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 9:22pm On Dec 08, 2015
coachwilcox:
And my mom, a b1@ch is dumb.
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 9:10pm On Dec 08, 2015
braine:
I have nothing to say to you. You're just simply silly, and trying to prove that to you would be me wasting my energy ultimately for nothing. Please don't quote me again.
grin ;DD

If I beat your sister black and blue, she must have been insolent, stupi.D, rude, dumb and what elsesad

cheesy grin
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 9:04pm On Dec 08, 2015
coachwilcox:
That's why when I smell drama queens from a distance and skanks I waka far. Id rather be single and happy than marry a querulous, insolent, disrespectful, stubborn, insubmissive, lazy, loose, impatient, proud, feminist, crazy woman.

They're the type who keep pushing you to the wall over and over again and expecting that as a "real man" you need to control yourself and walk away. As if they are real women

I don't condone violence against women but when I see that you're the type to push me to the max , I free you. That's why I'm a P.I.M.P. My girls beg me to stay with them I become like a drug to them and they can't do all this ish.
You are a clown
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 9:03pm On Dec 08, 2015
callherspices:
My dear she will definitely pay for her crimes
And why would a sane woman stab her hubbyhuhthe father of both the unborn and the innocent kids on ground

I tell u....if we women are as violent as some guys,this cases would have been a norm,corpses everywhere with no one to identify them,cos the rate at which some men beat women,even bash Ali sef fear
If!!!

Easy madam
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 9:02pm On Dec 08, 2015
braine:
Keep on. Mannerless child. I'm sure your mother tried her best for you.
Abu

The same mother you wknt mind tossing to the wolves if she were beaten by your fathercheesy
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 8:36pm On Dec 08, 2015
braine:
I don't know you, and you don't know me. I didn't address you yet you say all these to me... And because I never did anything to you personally, I decree with all the powers that be on earth that everything you have typed tonight, the 9th of December 2015, shall befall you and every member of your family. Ashe!
Nothing is going to happen to her

Your and your household will encounter worseundecided
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 8:34pm On Dec 08, 2015
braine:
Seen. I'm not justifying the man's act, but the message I'm seeing here alone has given her bad character out already.

A good and sensible woman would NEVER be treated this way. She attracted her kind.


Meanwhile, she's the type that would do this...
You are a fool
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 8:32pm On Dec 08, 2015
abbey621:
You are arguing blindly and it's almost comical! Someone slaps you and you walk away, they tear your shirt you walk away, they f*ck you in the a** you walk away, you are delusional! If you bothered to comprehend my initial post instead of critiquing you would notice that I condemned the assault but can understand a slap or two. People fight in marriages physically and verbally, the woman can be the aggressor or the man it doesn't matter but to deny that fact is beyond ignorance!
I understand you better now but I still insist that you walk away.

At least that is what I do. Life always present you with opportunities to sc.rew them over and I don't let things go. Maybe that is why I find it easy to walk away. I believe that forgiveness is indeed divine.

I am sorry.
Foreign Affairs › Re: 'Muslims To Be Stopped From Entering US'- Donald Trump by doveda: 8:30pm On Dec 08, 2015
gimakon:
Ehen Ehen, wetin u say day worry u.
Shebi person don calm me down now, make I no start to shoot gun for here, na em u wan carry your own come.
I fit swear for you in 1million languages now o, don't try me. In fact beg me... before I....
Ode!

What will you do?
Foreign Affairs › Re: 'Muslims To Be Stopped From Entering US'- Donald Trump by doveda: 8:30pm On Dec 08, 2015
Eluwilussit:
How old are you? So if they give you arms to kill your family members, after killing them you will turn around and blame the man who supplies the arms? Hey, the west ain't no saint. I have said it many times today. If we choose to destroy ourselves, the greater moral burden is on us and not on the west. They have fought way too many wars themselves and learned a lot from them. We don't learn.

Ignorant is exactly how I will explain your position on this. It is every man's duty to protect his household. There are many ways to do it. By might, alliances or servitude. At each point in civilization, nations have gone through all.

You can blame America all you want but they can't do it without internal collaborators. We are our own greatest enemies. Not the west. Mind u, I am not their fan either.
Really?

Do you hate being a black person?

You still haven't appreciate the power of psychological manipulation?

Don't fear guns or bombs but fear psychological warfare.

It is reason the black race is still stagnate. And the West knew about it. They were aware of what might happen but they just can't be bothered so why should you/I be?
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 8:23pm On Dec 08, 2015
lastpage:
Nice words!
Almost took them out of my mouth!

But hey, would you advice (or had advice) this woman to "Walk Away" when the fight started?
Would you say "you should have walked away", when he landed the first slap on you?



or if l guessed right, that advice is actually just for the MALE party to the conflict? shocked shocked

Just wondering aloud nii! I may be wrong.



Lastpage!
It isn't just for the male party.

I don't support abuse on to those who you are meant to protect, respect and love including your children, husbands, employees and siblings.


I have always walked away from toxic relationships even with female friends who I believe are abusive or potentially abusive or proud. I believe that it is possible to control a real anger. You just need to try.


Abuse is different from terrorism. One is without any cause and the other is borne out of personal issues. Abusers do not need a reason to beat up their partners. They just do it and it is usually because of complex issues, lack of self discipline and unwillingness to take responsibility.
Foreign Affairs › Re: 'Muslims To Be Stopped From Entering US'- Donald Trump by doveda: 7:50pm On Dec 08, 2015
HaneefahRN:
My sister, there is nothing like radical Islam, only mad animals claiming to be Muslims
I know now

Radical Islam is not a bad thing. They are Muslims who stick to everything Qur'an states however that does not mean that they are potential terrorists or terrorists. It is their business if only they don't harm others with it
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 7:48pm On Dec 08, 2015
sunnyt1:
Whenever i see or hear this kind of stories, one thing comes to my mind; this lady, just like most ladies probably had lots of options but chose a beast among the rest due to some God-knows-reasons. And we would always face the consequence of our decisions
How do you identify a beast?
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 7:47pm On Dec 08, 2015
abbey621:
Thanks for starting your response with an insult, it shows I'm dealing with a lower intellect so I'll come down to your level. I don't know you, you don't know me so I can only speak from my own experiences. I've probably dated over 15 women in my lifetime, I've been with really sweet ones and really crazy ones. I've had one tore my shirt, I've had one try to stab me with a knife. I've seen my friend's relationship crumble because he swore never to hit a girl and when the girl had the audacity to slap his cousin mistaking her for a rival, the relationship eventually crumbled because he slapped her back. Once again I'll tell you stop living a fairy tale, you can read all the books in the world but till you have real life experiences you are nothing but a novice!
This is real life

If someone slaps you, you walk away

If a woman tears your shirt, you walk away

If someone cheats on you, you walk away

If you don't and the the person ends up dead in your hands, your life deserves to be totally ruined.

I have five brothers and I can't remember the last time I touched one of them.

You can't excuse your lack of self-discipline of beating up someone so badly. Where should we stop we if decide to excuse stup.id people for st.upid behaviours because they were angered.
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 7:20pm On Dec 08, 2015
redcliff:
You should pray for your family not mine. You dont know us so we dont need ur prayer
Hehe

I don't need to. I am the only femalegrin


But you do have sisters and you believe in your opinion. If you are not a hypocrite, you should be okay to apply the same logic if it happens to your sister/daughtercheesy

Are you a hypocrite
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 7:17pm On Dec 08, 2015
redcliff:
Well some women are the devil. until we hear what happened from both sides first we can conclude.
You haven't said amen to my prayers ocheesy
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 7:15pm On Dec 08, 2015
omonnakoda:
There is no chivalry in the foolish and misguided idea "don't beat women" as if somehow it is okay to beat men or to beat children. If we must speak against violence against the person let us do so but it make no difference whether you are beating a woman or man. If we were to put Mike Tyson in a room with Bovi somehow we are supposed to think that is okay because they are both men?

There are plenty of women who beat their husband daily that is evil too. Some men seem to think it makes them more of a man to say "I don't beat women" what about "I don't beat ANY PERSON" ? To me it makes no difference.

As far as these pictures are concerned they are truly horrific and I pray the woman gets good care and recovers fully
I salute you my brother

If only men and women get sense like this
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 7:14pm On Dec 08, 2015
stankezzy:
you got words out of my mouth , for a man to raise his hands on a woman , that woman is heartless , it is just like husband and wife issue that happened sometime ago , they had little quarrel and the wife shouted to the husband before some people that all her husbands energy is in climbing woman , the husband after wards told her, because u said this , I no go climb again chop it , and it is like they newly married may be no issue yet , for up to six month nothing from the husband , not even romance , the wife went and reported him to his family and they called family meeting.
Wemen are hearthless , if u hear d man side u go join in beating this woman .
Because his wife said that, it is enough to beat her abi?

It is going to happen to your sisters and daughters. In fact, they will almost lose their lives and we can't blame their husbands because they are the one that caused it. They must be so heartless.
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 7:12pm On Dec 08, 2015
redcliff:
Everybody is here abusing the man but nobosy took a minute to ask what happened in the first place. Bunch of hypocrites.
So if your sisters and daughters end up dead because their husbands kill them. We can't really them if and only if they have done some thing to provoke him or make him so so angry.

Well, it is going to happens someday and we won't blame their husbands
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 7:11pm On Dec 08, 2015
tonychristopher:
we wont kill them, I hate violence and blood



but it is still a man world
Yeah, that is why she is going find herself a good lawyer. Collect everything from him and send him away to jail or find someone to take care of him.

That is if she smart enoughundecided


It is a man's world so please stop acting pathetic by blaming feminists. They have got nothing on men like you.
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 7:05pm On Dec 08, 2015
abbey621:
Keep living a fairy tale believing married couples do not fight and argue.
Idi.ot

Did I say that they do not argue?

But once it comes to calling themselves hoes, bastard, fool ot beating themselves. Both of them should be put in solitary confinement for the rest of their livesundecided

Yo use such words or lay a hand in another being. It means that you see yourself better than them and that means you cannot respect them. You don't even have to think about it, you just can't treat people you think you are better than well and to make matters worse if this is the person you see everyday and doesn't live up to your standards (like doing things you like). It is going to be war in that home.

That is the psychological rule darling.

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