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Family › Re: Help Me... My Mum Is Making Me Depressed. by doveda: 6:31am On Dec 11, 2015 |
M4gunners: I live in western world, but i can proudly tell you i am very happy i was raised in Africa. In my place of work,i can't count how many people that meet me their, but most of them got sacked after few months because they refused to listen to simple instructions. But i am still working there till today. They are many children of his age who wishes they have parents whom they can get advice from. Children who lost their parents at a younger age.He should be happyhe has one and listen to them. You are a liar Westerners are more likely to follow simple instructions than Africans Keep deceiving yourself with that BS. I hope your children do not turn out to hate you. |
Family › Re: Help Me... My Mum Is Making Me Depressed. by doveda: 6:21am On Dec 11, 2015 |
nairalander2015, you are making yourself depressed not your parents. In less than five years from now, you will be your own person. If you are lucky enough to get a job after school. Regardless, you need to endure. Time is like a bullet, it might seem long but it isn't.
Close your eyes, open your mind and tell yourself that you can do this. Try as much as pitiable not to get annoyed when they start talking. Find a way to let out your frustrations |
Culture › Re: The Igbo And Culture Of Apprenticeship by doveda: 11:21pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
janefrancisca: You no get am for Lagos Bunch of wags That is to say we get am for Nigeria  You are not going anywhere till we are reay to release you from this zoooooooo!  Jokers!!!! |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 6:39pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
sunnyt1: The thing is, we must learn to accept the consequence of our decisions, the society is shaped in such a way that it is the norm to look for someone or nature to blame for our failures.
Most of the bad things that happen to us were possible because we permit them, they feed on something, things that has engrossed or being.
Let me paint a scenerio; most of the fraudulent issues we encounter feed on our greed. Someone who defraud you most times would have made attempts to introduce you to a new way of making more money. Its the same thing for ATM fraud.
We make errors in relationship most times because we decide to choose whosoever appeal to us, not that person that shows a good personality and character. We choose people because they are tall, dark, bold, briliant, confident, rich, come from a wealthy background and not because they are Godfearing, respectful, humble, polite etc.
So these bad/wrong decisions feed on something in us.
Its so amazing how 9 good guys and a bad guy will come for the same girl at a point in time but she will end up choosing the bad guy. By law of proportionality and probability, she should have a higher chance of selecting a good guy. But issue is the bad guy will be more appealling to her, he knows how to treat a girl, how does a girl wants to be treated? The home videos and what the things the media tells you come to mind.
So thats how you end up chosing a beast, someone once said if you ask any random girl to tell you her dream man, she will be describing a playboy Would you rather her go for the good guy (whom she doesn't know about his inherent goodness) but who seem not to know her as a person or treat her right? |
Politics › Re: Kogi Speaker Momoh Jimoh-Lawal Impeached by doveda: 3:27pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
Bigmillz: I don see Nigeria in next the 4yrs. Am tired of this hause people all over the news They are not Hausa. Stop being a foo.l and a big.ot |
Culture › Re: The Igbo And Culture Of Apprenticeship by doveda: 2:04pm On Dec 10, 2015 |
janefrancisca: No even go there, una people like to live for face me i slap you pass amala sef  You no get am in Aba Bunch of clowns  |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 11:46am On Dec 10, 2015 |
Joy1706: Pls how do embolden words? Highlight the words Scroll upwards and click the B or type before and afterMake sure that there is a space between the last emboldened word and the next word that is not emboldened. |
Family › Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 9:00am On Dec 10, 2015 |
StiffDick: Doveda. Details available before me shows you are from a dysfunctional family. You have a mother who is in a mental home and a father who is serving jail term for raping a minor.
Am aware you work as a janitor in UK and you have siblings who are into prostitution. Sort yourself and family out first before dishing advice to others. Bugger with no class. Derranged Plonker. Moronic Fuuckwit .
x.x.x™  ;DD Who did this to you?  |
Family › Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 8:33am On Dec 10, 2015 |
florjay: Stiffdick emotional issues are rare first class that requires urgent medical intervention 4rm specialized professionals in d field 
Stiffdick emotional issues are rare first class that requires urgent medical intervention 4rm specialized professionals in d field I had no idea  Thanks for the heads up |
Family › Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 8:22am On Dec 10, 2015 |
StiffDick: Doveda. Who cares where you live? That makes it easier for me to track you down. All I need is a phone call. Got your IP and your other nairaland account. Mop head. Will locate you soon. Crazy Ass Man .x.x.x™  You don't sound tough You sound disoriented like someone with emotional issues. Go sort yourself out and be a good boy |
Family › Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 8:04am On Dec 10, 2015 |
StiffDick: Doveda. You can as well meet me in person if you are sure of yourself. Just one phone call..I guarantee you will disappear by tomorrow and I won't feel sorrow. x.x.x™  You get mouth  . I don't live in naij and even If I did I will gladly kill you if I knew you have committed a heinous crime like rape and if the police were aware but failed to do something about it  |
Family › Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 7:55am On Dec 10, 2015 |
StiffDick: Doveda. Don't fu-uck with me..cos I don't fu-uck with you. Stay out of my way. x.x.x.™ I am not going to. You are too stupid to be ignored |
Family › Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 7:39am On Dec 10, 2015 |
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Family › Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 7:37am On Dec 10, 2015 |
NovusHomo: And what if his wife loves it and cooperates? It is some kind of sickness. There is no mention of his wife consenting to it. If it is consensual, no wahala but it isn't. Stop implying what isn't into his explanation, especially in a country where it is normal for a woman to be abused  |
Family › Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 7:33am On Dec 10, 2015 |
cc RoyalRoy Seun
Can you please have a look at StiffDick's dp?
Well, it is a picture of his phallus.
Ewww! |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 7:24am On Dec 10, 2015 |
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Family › Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 7:22am On Dec 10, 2015 |
fairygeh: Which gutters did this fool crawl out from? You are a beast Are you new on Nairaland?  |
Family › Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 7:21am On Dec 10, 2015 |
StiffDick: Doveda. Or whatever you call yourself. I won't engage you or return curses on you. My post was not directed at you. What brings my mother into it and why call me a bastard? Why all the curse? Except if I have cursed you or directed my post to you.
Not that I can't engage you or become Nasty. I've passed that stage. You can't see any post where I curse those who curse me. If you don't like my post why not move on.
Now let it be your first and last time you will ever direct any curse or frustration to anyone that has nothing to do with you. Otherwise.. I will locate you, tie you up and cut your balls or your breast all just for fun. Then you will know that the game has just begun cos am just having fun. Guess you don't know what beef is. Do you know what Beef is? Ask Yourself. All I'm saying is don't Fucck with me... Stay Out Of My Way.
x.x.x™ Who the hell are you?  You think I am afraid of cutting limbs, tongue and peniis just to do your fun hurting another person?  Someone complained of hurting his wife and you are asking him not to worry because she might actually like it. It is either you are a imbeciile or a sexist pig who treat women based on some BS. |
Family › Re: It Turns Me On Seeing My Wife Hurt, Sad Or In Pain by doveda: 11:26pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
StiffDick: You don't have any problem. Did she tell you she is not enjoying it. Or you are just assuming. She might even think you are not meeting up. I doubt if she doesn't like it. Most women like it that way. Aggressive Sex with more pain. That's why they say harder harder. And that is the reason she is staying and overlooking the other hurtful things you do. Keep it Up. Good for you two. x.x.x™ You are a bas.tard! Your mum should have flushed you out I hope you meet for doom/salvation before you hurt an innocent woman |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 7:51pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Nubian113: I hear ya bbe but not everyone thinks like that... Emperor was just saying ( & I gave an example) like You must agree that there are 3 sides to every story. This case is lost because one must relate in order to sympathise with something. You can't relate because you love yourself too much  I can relate that the law does not understand love as a defense. I can relate that if we allowed stupid excuses (not reasons) for violence/abuse, we will have to either bury hundreds of men and women everyday or emoloy more doctors to stitch up battered men/women. It is illogical and impractical to make excuses for actions like that. This is one if the reasons why I love the law  If we allowed people to act baedd in their emotions ( whixh would be subjective), the world would have turned upside down. If |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 7:34pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Nubian113: Lools #Wrong&Strong
It's not battle of the sexes hun. He never left because he loves her. She will stay because apparently she too loves him too. I'm just saying if you don't start nothing it won't be anything... She deserved a whoop asssss too! that's why in court I'll Taylor my statement to suit him. This is not a battle of sexes. I don't that BS. I do logic when it comes to gender issues. Love is not a defense in court if that he hoped to rely on. If it had been threat of violence, then I will pity him and defend him. And I am not saying that she doesn't deserve some lesson. Trust me when I say that I have met violent women that I can't wait for them to be put in their places but the truth is people should learn to run away from psychos like that. People who stay with abusive partners have mental issues and I believe they should be locked up. Personally, I find it hard to see myself enduring potential death incidents because of love. I love myself too much to undergo that BS. |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 7:11pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
emperorchedda: I give up on your case. I see the reason why the other posters chose not to engage you, you lack objectivity, with your one sided reasoning
Forgive me for engaging you
Ok bye  Forgive me I had no idea you were as stupid, as biased and as illogicalnas those before you.  Bye! |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 7:02pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
emperorchedda: Just how my sister ain't silly to provoke and push a man to the wall. When a man annoys her, instead of ranting she should just 'walk away' to avoid provoking him.
Forgive me for calling myself the cretin that I am  Were you not the cretin that started the ‘reason behind it' argument? If there is a reason behind his actions, there is a reason behind hers, and a reason behind his and a reason behind hers.... You can keep going until you find the reason behind the numerous reasons |
Culture › Re: The Igbo And Culture Of Apprenticeship by doveda: 6:57pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Brugge: Why are you calling me silly and why did you have to involve my dad in this? You don't know me and I don't know you, I assumed we were having a seemingly harmless conversation and you are insulting me. it shows the kind of home training you got and it speaks volume of those that raised you.
The problem with we Nigerians is we like arguing without facts, you had better go check the number of employment generated by big companies like coca cola, Google, Apple etc against the employment generated my sme within same period and you will understand my point. Or you can keep flaunting your ignorance around the choice is up to you am done trying to encourage you to start thinking critical rather than making wild speculations about issues.
This is my last piece with you, do have a nice evening. I asked you a question. I am sorry if it sounded like an insult Who do you think founded Google? Facebook? Etc You are very ignorant and you are trying too hard to sound smart and logical but you are not |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 6:50pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
emperorchedda: Pleaseeee don't reply that girl's quote on this your comment. I'm beginning to think she has no brothers as she claimed.
Imagine her saying a man that was nearly killed with a TV was served right..lol
Just so you imagine the kinda women God left for us in Nigeria...
double standard Yup, serves him right! The same goes for women who stay with abusive men!  My brothers are not stupid enough to stay with a psycho. They love themselves too much to allow that to ever happen. You appear so stupi.d that you could stay with a psycho for God knows what  |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 6:46pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
emperorchedda: I'm tempted to come down to your level and throw bants....but No!
Run along kiddo   Joker! You are a very bad liar! Run along |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 6:42pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
emperorchedda: And your brain told you the statistics was centred only on Nigerians??
Expensive or not people do it. I for one know two former neighbours that did it..the outcome is not what i'll spill out here. Not everyone is broke Idi.ot Yes, it was. It generated quite a traffic on Nairaland  Liar! |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 6:40pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
Nubian113: I absolute understand your point. However in this case and every case of domestic violence, he who crosses the line looses. Beating her like this while pregnant is a fools game and he lost.
My neighbour, this white girl, cheats, lies, and physically abuses her boyfriend. Last week because he didn't wanna drive her to the supermarket at that precise moment, she pick up the TV and dashed it at him. Now this guy looooves computer game Ps4 all that, he was in the middle of his game when she did this.
I open my door aft hearing her screaming. I knock on the door, he opens the door, he has her by the hair dragging her on the floor brings her outside and goes to town on her in the communal hallway. Our other neighbour, male, pulls him off her. She runs in and calls the police and he's in my flat trying to calm down.
I feel for him and if she goes court I'm on his side. Why, cause although he lost it, she doesn't deserve to win. Serves him right!  Did she threaten to kill him if he left her? Did he leave her? Did he make attempt to report to the police? |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 6:35pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
emperorchedda: hahaahaha she wants a proof..
More than 50% of first borns ain't from their 'dad'. Imagine this dude just found out that the pregnancy ain't his you prefer him to "walk away"
Lol
Be realistic...no matter how much you try to justify what you and your likes do to hurt men, we can hurt you back in your own coin If he killed her, his life would end 50% ko 50% ni, hoe many people have had their dna checked in Nigeria? Do you know how expensive that is? Common sense says we can hurt each other. If you can bleed or can react to words, you are no one  So because you can beat me does not mean that I can't put a gun to your head and shoot you dead or asked some goons to torture you to death or poison you or throw acid on you or burn you alive  And it does not mean that you can't do the same to me  |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 6:25pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
emperorchedda: why call 'mum' a hoe when you have no proof that she's one?? did my mum do that?  Proof as in coming late from work, talking to other men, dressing in a certain way etc etc Why call a man an impotent, a weakling in bed, a lazy broke ass man when there is no proof that he is one?  Can you see how retarded your logic sounds?  Maybe the question should have been what did he do to have provoked hercto bad mouth him to the extent that he developed a guilty conscience however because he has to find a way of feeling better, he unleashed his animalistic tendency on her  Sounds better, doesn't it? |
Family › Re: A Wife Sent Her Hubby A Shocking Birthday Message After Beating Her Mercilessly by doveda: 6:20pm On Dec 09, 2015 |
emperorchedda: And you think i'll train my daughter to provoke a man and push him to his limit??
If my sister comes home like this the first thing i'll do is find the perpetrator, sit him where he will have no chance to escape and ask him why he got so angry, any silly reason will get him fed to his dogs. Not everyone is led by their emotions, some people think before acting. You don't push a man everyday and expect him not to react some day
I'm a man and I know how it feels to be treated like a fool because the society feels 'women are the weaker sex' He stayed with a verbally abusive wife till he was push to the limits. Did you actually sit down to think about how stupid and dumb it sounds? What type of dumbass human being stays with a verbally abusive woman especially when he is not blackmailed or threatened? Are you also saying that men do not derogate their wives privately and in public? FYI, men are verbally abusive as women but they tend to it when no one is listening. In fact the rate at which men use derogatory words on women on this forum should tell you that subconsciously most of them will not hesitate to call thier wives names with or without provocation. And would it be okay for a woman to poison her husband when she tire of his mouth diarrhoea  I am not going to believe what you might do at least not until you actually find yourself in a situation where your sister is either lying unconsciously in the hospital or dead? |