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In terms of seduction, we need to learn to read what females are feeling on a deeper level.
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We can find a wealth of information about people by their body language. #SaturdayMusings

Watch people’s smiles. Some are happy and genuine, others are fake and nervous.
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A person who walks tall and relaxed, with his chest out and head high is happy and comfortable.

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Somebody who is hunched over with her feet together is subconsciously trying to not be noticed.

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Look at somebody who rapidly moves his foot up and down and won’t look people in the eyes. He is insecure and expressing nervous energy.

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You can see when somebody is sad, happy, excited, honest, or angry -- even when they are trying not to reveal their emotions.

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Start watching people closely as you go about your daily life. At work, in school, in the store, on the street, even at a party; just sit back and observe what people are doing with their bodies and guess what they are feeling.

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As I mentioned, facial expressions, voice intonation, speed of speech, how you walk, the way you carry yourself through the world, making eye contact, how fast you move, and even our breathing communicate attributes to the people around you.

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The Art of Body Language and Non-Verbal Cues
So how do we subcommunicate the right things? Through proper use of body language and non-verbal cues.
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The nonverbal communication must be congruent to what’s being said…it’s really hard to fake girls out on anything.

A few girls once told me that they can even recognize how good a guy is in bed just by the way he walks.

Subcommunications matter.

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Whatever this guy says to a hot girl, even if it is funny, cocky, interesting, she is not going to believe it because she can see his legs are shaking, his hands are wet and he doesn’t know how to dress.

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Of course if a guy like that approaches her, she is going to brush him off because she doesn’t need to talk with him; she already knows everything about him. It’s really not hard to recognize an insecure geek around.

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After a few years of experience they know when they see a guy dressed poorly with weak body language that he is probably a geek with a boring, predictable life and is not so good in bed.

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They learn it culturally from other women and from talking to people and being social for years. Guys start to hit on them at thirteen and try to pick them up, sell them stupid stories, ask for dates, and sneak inside their panties. When they go out, they talk with 5-10 guys per day. Each guy is a different story. With time, they start recognizing patterns and are able to make predictions.

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They can tell everything about you just by the way you walk, talk and the way you are dressed. I personally don’t think its some secret gift they have, its just part of their experience.

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For some men, it’s like a secret code they can’t understand so they end up thinking women are mysterious and unfathomable. Girls are masters at reading body language.

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Women rely mostly on subcommunication in their interactions. The majority of their communications to one another are nonverbal.

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For example, a guy says that he’s confident and calm while his legs and hands are shaking. The verbal layer says, “I am confident and calm.”

The nonverbal layer says, “I am insecure and afraid.” Which are you going to believe, the verbal or nonverbal message? Non-verbal cues always dominate.

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When the two layers don’t send same message, we say person is not “congruent” which means the person is in some way lying.

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What we say is very important, but the non-verbal layer is more important because people will make a decision on whether they trust what a person is saying by watching their nonverbal communication.

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So, we really have two layers of communication: VERBAL(overt) and NON-VERBAL (covert)that we must manage.

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8% of that communication is done with words. The rest is subcommunication; nonverbal signals such as the speed, pitch and tonality of voice, subtle body language cues, eye contact, the way you walk, the way you move, the way you dress.

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Most people don’t understand how to communicate effectively and control what they’re subcommunicating to others.

If you want to be successful with women, and with people in general, you must understand how people communicate.

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We have to not only pay attention to what we communicate, but just as importantly, how we communicate it.

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In seduction, its not only about what you are saying but also about what you are not saying.

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There are 5 physical senses widely known : Touch , taste, hearing, smell and vision.

However , there is another sense more powerful, which I shall call The 6th sense.

This 6th sense is our intuition detected via subcommunication.

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DNA saga season 20 episode 1

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Once a lady is captivated by your outlook she will want to know your inlook – Dpsychologist

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Your clothes should match too, avoid colour riot and use of more 4 colours in your clothing.

Your trousers should be darker than your clothes.
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Wear fitted clothing not baggy and oversized clothing, that era is over. Slim fit is the new king.

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