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Nairaland issues never finish. Similar cases happening in different forms.

Why are men of this generation like this, they just allow women to undermine and downgrade them till they become emasculated then come here and complain that their partner emasculated them.

What ever you permit no matter how small will persist.

More men need to be redeemed from simping

Most women get the aesthetics( thanks to the make up industry), but don’t cultivate the personality traits needed to secure long-term commitment from a high value man.

Men are the de facto gatekeepers to commitment. A woman’s ability to keep a man lays in her personality traits.

If she doesn't seem like a good deal, if he doesn’t enjoy her company or he finds her to be shallow or annoying then why should he keep investing in her? Because otherwise he’s an assh*le.

If a woman want long-term commitment, she has to work for it. It doesn’t just drop out of the sky, nobody’s entitled to anything.

But the concept of earning commitment seems lost to most women, they rely on their looks too much – then they get old and lose their looks.

Many women are simply undatable and not relationship material, however physically many are bangable so they’re whats crudely referred to as a “pump and dump.” That’s her value, she’s hot enough to Bleep but terrible to keep.

If she want a life long monogamy, her looks are going to die out around age 35-40 and there will be far prettier younger women around trying to catch her man’s eye, so she need to possess other traits which makes her seem like a good investment and set her a part from others.

Cc lalasticlala

Cheating knows no gender

One of the greatest philosophical statement ever made is that change is constant.

No matter how you will want to argue this, you are not the same person you were 4 years ago.

Your beliefs tend to change, what you value changes, what is important before is now useless, what you reject in the past is what you regret now.

Physically your statue changes, the clothes you wear is different, the books you read is different, the places you go is different.

My life has gone through major transitions over the years. Not just personally and professionally, but really in terms of what I value, what my interests are, what my goals/dreams are, etc.

The thing is, I wasn't really looking to change myself at all, things just started happening. That's life, I suppose.

It's weird, because while growing and changing is clearly a good thing, it is also very disorienting and challenging.

When change occurs you feel like a bit of a new person, that new person has no clue what they want or what they're doing.

And life goes on.

No matter how we try we can't resist change (either positively or negatively.)

Lalasticlala
Seun
Mydd44

bjprodint1:
It depends on d character of d other partner.some of us love calling it a quit 2 test if d other partner really loves us(we seek 4 attention).sometimes we call it a quit when we are angry(we dont really mean it),but when ur partner uses sweet words like(my queen,babymalt,sarauniya,temi,my diamond),it resets our brain and we realise dat we cant really live without our joygiver...So begging is not simping,it makes a woman feel special.

@ bolded, this post is directed at guys alone abi. Men should continue simping to a women feel special.

If you have to use break up to test if a guy truly loves you. I guess you have trust issues then and I doubt if love is even there.

Probably a male using a female account and an innocent person's pics...sharing the lady's pics isn't ideal since you have not been scammed.

Nine2ten:
How can I join the telegram group

The link

There will be an audio podcast on our telegram group titled "The Beta Revolution"

Tonight

There will be an audio podcast on our telegram group titled "The Beta Revolution"

There is a mass beta revolution ongoing since the red pill inception

When you discover the red pill. You will have a lot of temptations to go back to the blue pill. This is what happens to cypher in the matrix movie.

Lemme pin this here too..

"The hardest part of the red pill is not taking the red pill, it is staying redpilled."
— NeroStealth01

It’s either your Frame or the Frame of the person you’re talking to.
#FrameWeekend

When you have no frame, you have no game –Dpsychologist
#FrameWeekend

You should never deviate from the path you have set for yourself. When you do, you lose Frame, which is something you must avoid.
#FrameWeekend

7) Be Focused.
You already know you should be going to the gym regularly, eating clean, dressing well and always looking to make more money. I don’t need to tell you that.
#FrameWeekend

6) Put yourself first. You must be your mental point of origin according to Rollo Timassi. Every decision you make must fundamentally be based on the question “what is best for me?”
You remain unfazed regardless of what happens. Be “cool under pressure”. This called equanimity.
#FrameWeekend

It starts with you.
Just make sure that chasing women doesn’t become your priority. Your purpose must always be your priority.
#FrameWeekend

5) Create options
Know that options won’t just magically appear, unless you’re a celebrity. You have to generate them and work towards them.
You should also endeavor to approach more women. Whether that be online or in the real world is your choice.
#FrameWeekend

The only way to more options is to generate them.
#FrameWeekend

.4) Develop outcome-independence. You don’t care what happens because you don’t have to. You have options. You don’t need that one particular girl to want to Bleep you. You know you will be fine either way and that it’s ultimately her loss.
#FrameWeekend

3) Practice stoicism
Having an “I’ll be okay no matter what happens”-mindset is critical.
Reading some books on stoicism and Meditation can be a great tool to help you accomplish this state of mind.
#FrameWeekend

2) In accordance with your beliefs, set boundaries, and enforce them. When someone steps over a red line, you punish them byreprimanding them or, for repeat offenders, by removing them from your life. No questions asked. You don’t have time for people that don’t respect you. “My way or the highway”.
#FrameWeekend

1.) Know, and I truly mean know, exactly who you are.What you want. What you’ll tolerate and what you won’t tolerate. What your goals are, what your purpose is. Your beliefs.Write these points down on a piece of paper and periodically overhaul them. Internalize them.
#FrameWeekend

Eliminating your need for external validation is one of the most important steps to take. Here are a few actions you can take right now to help you reach a state of internal validation.
I'd advise you not to skip any of them.
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Ultimately though, strong Frame comes as second nature to a
high-value man. This should be your goal.
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Frame comes from deep within you.
There are strategies and thought patterns, that will help you hold an Alpha Frame.
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Where does Frame come from?
What can a man do to make holding Frame easier for himself?
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Having a strong Frame is incredibly important, as it extends far beyond your interactions with women, to every aspect of your life.
#FrameWeekend

Your Frame communicates what you actually, solemnly believe to be true.
#FrameWeekend

Now, it is important to note that your Frame cannot be an act. You can try to fake it, but that won’t take you far.
#FrameWeekend