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RomanceRe: Why Women Can Never Support The "Cancellation" Of Marriage by Dpsychologist: 7:05pm On Jan 02, 2021
Shortyy:
Keep crying over women's matter. This is how you'll wail till this year runs out, achieving nothing tangible. While women are busy living their best lives. LMFAO. grin

Kai women have really dealt with some of you. Every day you wake up, you think of one foolish thing to post about women. People that don't give a fvck about your existence. grin
Men have suffered in the hands of women and if care is not taken it will remain so forever.

Fair it is not but true it is.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:57pm On Jan 02, 2021
warmachine:
please I want to be part of the telegram group, this is my email- nnamd97@gmail.com
Sent
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:14pm On Jan 01, 2021
ubunja:
yes man that is how they do us. The moment we want that Thing is the moment they list their problems for us. Nice one man. Happy 2021.
Happy new year man.

I once thought you were a female.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:42am On Jan 01, 2021
okrikaboi:
Do not be afraid the prophecy will come to pass grin
Lol...

Happy New Year
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:42am On Jan 01, 2021
demmymoney:
God bless you so much sir

I came into contact with redpill in November and I can say I m a changed person. Redpill was my wake-up call of 2020. Personally 2020 was redpill year 4 moi.

God bless redpill

Happy new year in advance Sir
Happy new year to you.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:40am On Jan 01, 2021
Hardrive:
I feel it won't be good if I don't express my gratitude to how far this thread has gone. I would like to say thank you @ dpsychologists for spending you time to share what you know with us. Keep it up.
Uwc

Happy new year
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:40am On Jan 01, 2021
TheUndercover:
@Dpsychologist, you really did a wonderful job on this Mission of Men Liberation.

This year was truly a year of Red Pill. So many men that came across this knowledge would have wished to have come across it earlier on. I was among the few that got to know about the Red Pill Philosophy which prevented me from learning the hard way. It was truly an eye opening journey all through. Thank you so much for the time and dedication put to this.

Long Live TRP! One Love Kings!
Uwc.

Happy New Year
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:39am On Jan 01, 2021
Emmynator:
Dpsychologist, I have been following the thread for some times now, I must say I appreciate your wisdom and the effort you put into spreading the red pill gospel.

Indeed 2020 is the year of red pill, thanks to you and other brilliant red pill mentor.
God bless you.

Happy New year in advance, I hope we move higher this new year.
Thank you and happy new year
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:39am On Jan 01, 2021
Jerry59:
Thank you so much for the pills you keep dishing out to us. May the source never dry... Happy New Year in advance!
Happy new year bro
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:38am On Jan 01, 2021
toscolee:
Death to simping in 2020 Happy new year to all red pillers worldwide
happy new year to you bro
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:48pm On Dec 31, 2020
toscolee:
He's the one.
I use to admire white ladies and had fantasy of marrying them but since i delve into stories of their divorce Court laws i have lost interest.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:43pm On Dec 31, 2020
Will red pill become mainstream in the future?

That i don't know.

All i know is that we have control of the present and what ever we do will affect the future.

You guys did well for being with me till the end of the year.

I can safely say the year 2020 is the year of red pill.

I wish you all a prosperous new year in advance.

Next year i hope will be a brighter year.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:39pm On Dec 31, 2020
MEN'S LIBERATION
Finally, we are having the male version of liberation. Our views make as much sense as feminist views which demonize menand want to oppress men for female materialism and social status benefits.

In the past, women were able to extract what they wanted from men through manipulating supply and demand for sex. It’s Economics 101. By controlling the supply of sex, women seek to control male behavior.

This is also Pavlovian conditioning, since men get sex when we do what women want us to do. (Arguably, that is only the case until a women has control of the relationship or has a man on lockdown through pregnancy or marriage, when the supply of sex is cut off.)

But, men are refusing to jump through hoops to get sex, we are learning to short circuit female wiring with Game and frame.

Rather than turning ourselves into Beta Males , men are accepting the fact this is just how women operate and not falling into the trap any longer. Spreading this wisdom online is how we save other men from being subjected to feminine imperative.

Men are also tired of being turned into “problems” for society to solve. No longer will men be embarrassed by our innate behaviors, such as desiring young, fertile females rather than older ones, our desire for autonomy, competition, aggression when needed, and other male qualities.

Men are also realizing the concept of love is yet another of many fantasies about life that aren’t true. Love is a fleeting emotion, and for the vast majority of recorded history successful marriages have not been based on love.

Men with the capacity for independent thought and self-ownership are often called every name under the sun by women, but we realize this is just a tactic women use to regain control of the situation.

No matter how many tantrums women throw, its up to us to hold steady to our principles, believe that ours is a just cause, throw off the chains of female bondage, and live our own lives the way we see fit.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:34pm On Dec 31, 2020
Feminine RED PILL Aversion

When you decide to be a man who does not look for pats on the head by women(beta blue pill man) who see you as nothing but a walking wallet, expect outrage, disgust, screaming, hysterics, insults, and more to be hurled at you.

Many women go into meltdown when they realize men are now moving on their own and not conforming to feminist groupthink spun by mainstream media.

Get ready to be called sexist and all sorts of other “ists” by dint of having an opinion that does not worship the female and for not gleefully turning yourself into a Beta slave as Meghan Trainor tells young men to do in her song and video, Dear Future Husband.

Women think it is sexist when men decide to take care of themselves and form their own opinions about dating, relationships, and marriage ideals.

Whether Red Pill, MGTOW, or MRA it doesn’t matter how we subdivide ourselves, each aspect of the men’s awakening of the 21st century conforms to the same general idea.

Men are refusing the cultural conditioning foisted upon them by women, society, corporations, etc.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:20pm On Dec 31, 2020
100.) TRP REVOLUTION

Historically, men haven’t spent much time talking about relationships. However, women have discussed about men at length, and this has given them a distinct advantage.

They have been sharing information on how to get what they want from men and relationships for a very long time.

This is changing. we’re discussing these issues, largely through the Red pill community online. Women aren’t happy about this, i plan to continue spreading the word to any man who will listen, and I hope others who have seen the light will do the same.

There is a sense of brotherhood amongst red pillers because we’ve suffered through the same trials.

Beta Men have try to do all their biddings and make their women happy, and have made considerable sacrifices. Women have not reciprocated. They have become entitled and ungrateful.

The irony then is that bad things happen to nice guys and nice things happen to Bad guys—Dpsychologist
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:11pm On Dec 31, 2020
THE BACHELOR :

The bachelor is a man who emphasize on his freedom more than most, and thus the constraints, demands and expectations thrust upon him by a wife hold no appeal.

This does not mean such a man would not enjoy being a father, but rather that, becoming one would mean giving up an inordinate degree of freedom to the mother and children.

The bachelor is one reluctant to marry.

There may be many factors Responsible for a man's reluctance to marry. The reluctance to marry can be a synthesis of a distrust in women, lack of money, inability to get a woman, failure of his friends marriage, psychological issues, mgtow etc.

Decades ago, a bachelor fears childlessness and absence of a help mate. However, this days one can have a child outside marriage via babymama or surrogate. And men have improved their culinery skills and learn domestic chores as such he can handle the home himself.

However, the feeling of loneliness persist. I once visited my cousin who is 40 years but not married this xmas he offered us malt and had to request his neighbors for food to entertain us. His babe was not around and he is not a good cook.

The Greatest problem of remaining a bachelor is society's scorn.
Society sees you as a man that refuse to marry. if you are not a married man in most organization they won't give you certain promotions or salary raise.

People see you as a man afraid to commit, a playboy or even irresponsible.

People around you will pressure you to marry. There is a 38year old man in my church that has become topic of discussion, anytime someone marries they will start pressuring him to marry.

It got to an extend they were making mockery of him.
Another problem a bachelor may face is loss of the establishment of family and legacy.

Isaac Newton and Tesla never married and left a mark with their inventions and scientific discoveries. The artistic man may leave his creations, the academic man his research, but what of the layman, and are achievements acceptable substitutes for legacy in the absence of reproduction?


THE CHOICE
To be a father or remain a bachelor. This is a choice all informed men must make, and there is no right or wrong answer.

However, It is my presupposition that most informed men will take full advantage of their extended fertility window and opt to settle down with a younger woman in middle-age.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:04pm On Dec 31, 2020
99.) THE DILEMMA

A 21st century man is faced with a dilemma : To marry or remain a bachelor.
Women do not face the conundrum that men face. Women’s marriage risk is minimal, and her fertility window is short. The nature of a woman’s limited fertility is precisely why once women have decided they want to settle down, they’re eager to do so.

This is in stark opposition to men, who are happy to take their time and vet their mate more rigorously, particularly when dating older women, who are circumspect by merit of their availability.

The older the woman, the greater her sense of urgency.
Men hold the keys to commitment, women to sex. If commitment, attention and resources is what women value most, then men are the gatekeepers to womanly wants, and marriage is a jackpot in which she is bestowed an endless supply of these things.

For women, marriage represents something it scarcely does for men – financial security and psychological sanity.
The most important decisions of a man’s life should never be made by anyone other than himself.

A man free of delusions should exercise his mental sovereignty by weighing up the risks and rewards of the lifestyle choices available to him, be that he be a father or remain a bachelor.

A strong man does not respond to shame, he acknowledges it for the manipulative nature it and continues to forge his path absent of interference.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:52pm On Dec 31, 2020
toscolee:
This scenario is similar to the Nollywood actor that married a Colombian lady that later divorced him.
Recently, she announced that she can't date a broke guy.
I heard that the guy is now broke.
I think you are referring to IK igbonna.

I think He is even paying child support now.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:41pm On Dec 31, 2020
aminu114:
grin grin grin i was once excaped that peak tactic thing i was in a room with a girl to have sex after romancing for about 20 mins im fully aroused and ready to penetrate she stopped me nd said if i will not give her 10k then forget abt it we wont do it mind was telling me to just give her nd continue then i rememberrd how hard its to get 10k that time i quickly use her unclothedness to jerk offf and walk away grin grin grin
Thats a smart move bro.

One of the biggest lessons for a man to learn is to control his sexual urge. If not he will never go far in life.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:35pm On Dec 31, 2020
TheUndercover:
LOL! Women keep inventing new manipulative, deceit and cheating techniques.

Good thing you didn't let your emotions overpower you.
As we keep exposing their manipulations so many guys will know, some will read this thread and start to device other means.

The thing is that if you know they are manipulative you will be able to detect any sophistry from them and outsmart them.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:29pm On Dec 31, 2020
CONCLUSIONS
This list is all about discerning if a girl has the desired trait of a potential wife.

If she doesn’t have it, don’t try to change her, don’t make excuses for her, and please don’t waste time thinking about her. Just walk away.

And if you have a hard time doing that, ask yourself if you would help a man who acted the same way.

It’s always better to be safe than sorry. There is simply too much at risk when you choose a long term partner. And if you can’t trust someone you’ll eventually think about marrying, you need to end it as soon as possible.

No amount of beauty is worth the headache and embarrassment. If a woman’s actions show that she doesn’t respect you, move on and find a girl who does.

Just remember that nothing here is foolproof either. Some girls are crafty and they won’t show many of the signs listed here—but that’s okay.

The point isn’t to catch every girl who’s like this. The point is to save time by weeding out the easy ones. And once you do that, you’ll be closer to finding a girl who’s worth the investment.

So be smart, stay strong, and have a little fun too.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:23pm On Dec 31, 2020
#13 One sided relationship
I see guys make mistake that if they marry a lady she might change. Thats bullshit, the way you are in a relationship thats how you will be in marriage most times.
If you noticed you have to do everything to keep the relationship afloat, and that it always leads to disaster any minute you fall short in her eyes, then you need to see the warning.

If the success of the relationship depends solely on you, find someone else.
Good leaders set an example for others and create a vision for the future…
They don’t do all the work.
Successful relationships will always take effort, but if the relationship is one sided it’s a bad sign.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:22pm On Dec 31, 2020
#10 She accuses you of being promiscuous, or worse, tries to prove you are.
What it means: She’s telling you how she would act if she was in your position (a.k.a. projection).
A girl who makes accusations like this doesn’t understand how any decent looking person could say no to their suitors. Especially since she could never hope to do the same.

In her mind, you’re just a man control by his dick who couldn’t possibly deny easy pleasure, and it’s her job to prove that assumption right. It’s nonsensical.
I’ve dealt with girls who tried to find faults that weren’t there and I had a real good laugh afterwards.
So if any girl accuses me of something like this, I know we need to part ways.

#11 She is not over her ex/ she has promiscuous past
A girl not over her ex is a big no. A girl will a promiscuous past is also a big no. There is likelihood of her going back to her past.

#12. Your gut tells you so.(intuition)
What it means: You’re not comfortable with her.
The first time anyone sees a person they like, comfort is nowhere to be found. There’s excitement, there’s anxiety, and there’s interest—not comfort.

But that all changes as time goes by. The more you get to know someone, the more comfortable you feel around them. The girl you thought was such a snob before is actually kind and warm-hearted. And this new familiarity generally leads to more comfort.

But if time passes and you still don’t feel comfortable around this girl, it’s a bad sign. Your body is subconsciously telling you that something about her is off. And you know deep down that you can’t trust her.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:20pm On Dec 31, 2020
#9 She rushes the relationship. / She’s a little too perfect. / She tries too hard to seem like a good match.
What it means: She’s desperate /overcompensating.

As you start to care more about your appearance and get your life in order, you’ll notice that girls will seemingly come out of nowhere. And the ones you were invisible to before will make it obvious that they’re interested.
But the problem is that some of these girls won’t have the best intentions.

Almost every semi-attractive girl has been treated like a princess her whole life (and that’s one reason why a man who’s trained himself to be immune to beauty is so attractive to them).

But the side effect of this treatment is that many women expect partiality from every guy they meet. So now when they see you—a man who’s in good shape and has his life together—they don’t see a person, but rather, a tool who has the means to carry “her highness” through life.

This is particularly an issue with a girl in her late 20’s or early 30’s. Her internal clock is ticking and she knows she has to find a man before her beauty fades.
But you can’t let her clock dictate your life. People get burned all the time by making hasty choices. And it’s a known manipulation tactic to rush people into big decisions.

Yes, there will be girls who genuinely like you, and they’ll be eager to start something special together. But you need to be aware of the other scenario too.

Beauty doesn’t get ignored. And if an attractive girl hasn’t locked down a man by this time in her life, it’s very possible that she used her beauty for other means when she was younger, and now she’s scrambling to find a man who doesn’t know any better.

Of course this isn’t always the case. Breakups happen and some people just have an unfortunate streak with relationships. But barring any significant change to her appearance, and without any other special cause, the former is a real possibility.

Remember that your interests are important too. And you are not obligated to take any dude’s leftovers simply because she needs a man now. “But she’s changed! She’s not like that anymore! And she’s committed to doing better!”That’s great. And I applaud her. But that doesn’t mean you owe her a relationship. I’m all for acceptance and forgiveness, but I also know that forgiveness isn’t the removal of all consequences.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:18pm On Dec 31, 2020
#7 She’s friends with known promiscuous women. / She takes an interest in promiscuous celebrities.
What it means: She won’t be shamed for sleeping around, and she will probably be encouraged to do so.

Men compartmentalize their friends. Of course not every guy is the same, but usually he’ll have his videogame pals, his study group, his boys from work, his football crew, and so on. They usually include men from all walks of life. From mart guys to dumb guys, you get the point. But as long as they all have that one thing in common, they don’t really care about much else.

Women are different.

Almost every girl I know has friends who are very similar to her. Everything from the way they dress, to the grades they get, to the income they earn, to the guys they like, and even their political stance—it’s almost always the same. Women focus more on similar lifestyles.

You may not be able to tell if she sleeps around, but if you know her friends do, it’s a giant red flag.

Even if this girl is completely innocent, she knows her friends won’t look down on her if she does indulge, and that’s why she’s surrounded herself with them. It’s even worse if she takes an interest in promiscuous celebrities. They’re just like her friends who get around but with additional influence and social status.

#8 She has no discernible skills outside of her physical appearance.
What it means: She’s going down the wrong career path.
Everyone needs money. And if that need is not met, people will resort to all kinds of evil to meet it. If this particular girl doesn’t have any marketable skills outside of being “hot”, she is going down the wrong road.
Eventually she will…

A. Find some way to make money off her appearance
B. Get bailed out by another man, or…
C. Be left in a financial hole when her beauty fades
Now you could argue that A wouldn’t be too bad of a scenario depending on the work involved (e.g. innocent modeling), but none of these are favorable to her developing a solid set of skills when she had the chance.

Not only has she put herself in a position where her beauty can be abused, but she’s also shown that she’s fine with being a drain on people’s resources.
That’s not good.
Everyone needs a strong work ethic, no matter who they are. And if she doesn’t have one, she’ll be pressured into compromising situations.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:16pm On Dec 31, 2020
#4 She’s a man hater
What it means: She lacks healthy relationships with the men in her life.

“All men are blah blah blah…”“Guys only care about blah blah blah…”“Men don’t deserve blah blah blah blah blah…”
Man haters are the worst. I understand that some of we guys are really terrible, but if every guy she meets is like that, take a look at the common denominator, her.

You can’t let the good ones convince you that all girls are sweet and innocent, and you can’t let the bad ones blind you to the praiseworthy women either.
The same is true about our side.
So if a girl always complains about the men in her life, she’s either still bitter about a failed relationship, or she presents herself as an object for men to lust after.


#5 She’s comfortable in revealing clothes. / She’s insensitive to male touch.

What it means: She’s used to it.

Do you really think she dresses that way for you?
Do you honestly believe it’s normal for guys to hug and hold her like it’s no big deal?

She’s used to it, man. And even if she isn’t promiscuous now, it won’t take much effort for her to get that way.
But going back to her style of dress, you might believe her choice of clothes doesn’t matter anymore. You think that times have changed, and this girl is different. So different in fact that she’s above all of human nature.
Yeah, keep believing that.

The reality is that men are visual creatures. And both men and women instinctively know that the way a women dresses determines the type of attention she gets. Don’t buy the “I’m-proud-of-my-body-so-I-need-to-be-half-naked” excuse.

People who are comfortable with a fit body, or great wealth, or whatever else they have don’t feel the need to show it off. The only people who show off are the ones who need validation. And they always need it from multiple people.
So if any girl shows too much skin, or if she’s fine with being hugged or touched any kind of way, you need to reconsider.

#6 She uses profanity.
What it means: She doesn’t value purity.
Pure speech is something you should value, and profanity usually indicates that something is off in her life. It just shows a lack of class. If a girl doesn’t have the decency to control something as simple as her conversation, think about how ugly the rest of her lifestyle is.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:14pm On Dec 31, 2020
THE VETTING PROCESS

SOME things to look out for, this is by no means exhaustive add yours

This INCLUDE:

#1 She can’t stay at home. / She’s a party girl.
These kind of girls seem fun and interesting at first, but their lifestyle gets old fast. Plus there’s no telling how many intoxicated guys have taken their shot at her.

She is more likely to be a drinker / She does recreational drugs.

Contrary to popular belief, human beings are not inherently good. And when given the choice, we will always be inclined to do what’s morally wrong. However, our conscious thought overrides this inclination and keeps make us feel guilt as such be remain good
But whenever alcohol or drugs are involved, that inhibition goes out the window.

The point here is she allows herself to be tempted. And why would you ever trust a girl who intentionally lowers her self-control through alcohol.

You are playing with fire and you know it.


#2 She has too many male friends.
What it means: She’s addicted to male attention.
There’s nothing wrong with a woman having a conversation with a man. And if you do have a problem with that, you’re too possessive. A woman making small talk with her male coworker isn’t cause for concern.

But if she has close relationships to other guys, and she consistently talks to them about personal issues, that’s when you should be worried.

The true number of platonic male-female relationships is very small, and most of them only exist due to special circumstances. But for the most part, men and women do not just become friends.

Any girl who has tons of guy friends is bad news because almost all of them are attracted to her. And since she hasn’t made an effort to turn them down, it means she’s addicted to their attention.


#3 She has tattoos or piercings on interior body parts.
If a girl has tattoos or piercings on any interior body parts (i.e. her upper thighs, torso, etc.), it is not a good sign. And here are only a few reasons why:
1. Someone had to put it there
2. People don’t get tattoos to cover them up
3. She makes long-term decisions based on short-term results
It’s just a terrible choice all around. Why would you taint the natural beauty you have with a man-made ink and worst on all on an interior body part. .
It's red flag
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:07pm On Dec 31, 2020
MEN AND MARRIAGE
Most women get the aesthetics, but don’t cultivate the personality traits needed to secure long-term commitment from a high value man.

Men are the de facto gatekeepers to commitment. A woman’s ability to keep a man lays in her personality traits.
If she doesn't seem like a good deal, if he doesn’t enjoy her company or he finds her to be shallow or annoying then why should he keep investing in her? Because otherwise he’s an asshole.

If a woman want long-term commitment, she has to work for it. It doesn’t just drop out of the sky, nobody’s entitled to anything. But the concept of earning commitment seems lost to most women, they rely on their looks too much – then they get old and lose their looks.

Many women are simply undatable and not relationship material, however physically many are quite bangable so they’re whats crudely referred to as a “pump and dump.” That’s her value, she’s hot enough to Bleep but doesn’t have the qualities needed to secure commitment.

If she want a life long monogamy, her looks are going to die out around age 35-40 and there will be far prettier younger women around trying to catch her man’s eye, so she need to possess other traits which makes her seem like a good investment and set her a part from others.

DETERMINING A WIFE
Women that make the best candidates for family and childrearing are those whose hypergamous instinct has been kept in check.

Materialism and promiscuity are hypergamous behaviours, they’re indicative of a “constant need to upgrade,” which is hypergamy at its core. These kinds of women should be avoided for serious commitment.

The importance of resources made men cautious about which women they invest their resources, which makes men very choosy about long-term partner choice. Further, men and their families desire certainty about paternity to avoid investing other men's offspring ( paternity assurance ). This then result in going for easily controllable, cute and obedient women.

The value of a young woman extends beyond the appeal of her physical youth and fertility, although both are covetously desirable in and of themselves, it is her malleability to be formed into a woman who complements a man that is her main draw. Alot of older women are, much to the dismay of men everywhere, not solely lacking in beauty, but largely irredeemable in that they lack the pliability archetypal of young women.

Do not invest on women who are not worth it. Man must be careful, for the more he invests, the more he loves, and the more he loves, the more he is prone to holding an unworthy and toxic asset.

A WOMAN'S WORTH
A man must be tactical in discerning a woman’s worth.
Due to woman’s pressing emotional wants, a relationship almost always serves her.

Marriage is a riskier affair for man, for the likelihood he receives equal or greater benefit is improbable.

A woman is often a burden posing as a partner, and many men are fooled, when in reality, she is almost always little more than a dependant. Although there are exceptions.
The question that should be asked is “will she be enjoyable enough to be worth the burden she will impose?”

Sex can be and often is withdrawn without notice, and so a man cannot rely on either quality or quantity of sex as an indicator of womanly worth, and even where sex is certain, such narrow scope in the evaluation of woman would lead to blunder in mate choice.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 4:04pm On Dec 31, 2020
98.) SETTLING DOWN

A marriage is like a car hanging off a cliff, it requires the man driving to accelerate now and again to ensure the car does not tilt and fall into the ocean below. Just as it was in courting, in marriage the burden of performance is man’s to bear.

Women do not fear marriage because they have no reason to, men do because they have every reason to.

The success of a marriage is of course dependent solely on the parties involved, if they both want it to work it will.
Marriage is like fire it has advantages and disadvantage.


MAN AND MARRIAGE

Marriage is no longer a religious institution that holds people accountable for their behaviours as marriage oaths have become nothing but ceremonial pleasantries rather than promises which hold both parties accountable.

As the world keeps changing so should a man adapt.
You must vet a woman rigorously and if possible carry out a paternity test just in case.

As a father, a man has increased responsibility especially in the presence of children. He has to take care of himself, his wife and children.

Marriage is full of responsibility and thus the higher burden of performance rest on the man. He can no longer hangout and come back late night like he wants compared to when he is a bachelor. And now instead of being alone he has a partner. As such He must work hard to fend for his family.

Thus, a man should not be pressured and cajoled into starting a family, he should do so on his own terms, not on the terms of those with a plan for him.

A man should not be bullied into marrying, by his religion, his family, nor the woman manoeuvring to get a ring on her finger.

A man may be cajoled or duped into marriage with babies which may initially fill the dissimulating woman with maternal glee, but such weak marital foundations do not go well for the future of their marriage.
A man should make his decision to marry free of external devices and with full mental clarity.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:36pm On Dec 31, 2020
A PLAYER

A player does not get all ladies he targets ladies that are attracted to him.

Gold diggers bring nothing to the table and in some cases their vjay while a player brings his dick to the table.

A player is a con artist. His aim is to get what he wants from a woman no matter how.

Just as when a gold digger sees money when she meets a man thats how a player sees pvssy when he meets a woman.

A gold digger is a con artist and a gold digger is also a con artist.

When a woman is after money and a player understands. He decides to play the money game on her .

He entices her with a nice car (which might not be his) and expensive clothes etc . He purchase those things that will give them an edge with her.

With his smooths words and her expectation of cashing big time with this maga she gives him sex and he disappears.

The con artist has just being conned.

A woman dazzling men with her beauty, provocative dressings, surgery(boobs job, ass job) and other antics to cash out is no different from a man pretending that he makes more money than he does, or lying about what he does for a living .


The only difference is that the man will be called out as a liar while the woman won’t.
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:21pm On Dec 31, 2020
OBSERVING A GOLD DIGGERS

When a woman proclaims, “I’m not materialistic” you have to wonder why she feels compelled to say it.

You can’t rely on what they say; you have to look at their behavior.
This behavior has dragged so many men down for so long that we’ve stopped listening to their endless denials and doublespeak.

A person's past will tell you something about his present and future.

I read two books that i think may help.
1. The power of pussy by kara king
2. Ho tatics
RomanceRe: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 12:15pm On Dec 31, 2020
FEIGNED SUBMISSION
This is the exact way in which calculating women destroy great men. There is a mixture of submission and puppeteering involved, and when she tires of her toy she will abandon it or break it in half.

In relationships with such women the man is “the provider” because “she’s submissive” and “needs him.”

She takes and continues to take from him, money, wisdom, energy, time, everything. She’s a parasite, a black hole, but she frames herself as a willing accomplice who needs investment to return dividends to an eager, naive, hopeful investor.

Eventually the man in question has nothing left to give and is dried up both spiritually and financially. Now he’s been drained for his utility she becomes aware that although he elevated her self-development, she has become more valuable than him.

Better yet with the taster she’s had and the strides she’s made she believes she has the opportunity to become even more. Thus rather than return investment she will betray and abandon her prior mentor to repeat the process with a new one.

One who she considers to be more worthy of directing her. Effectively, this means finding an even higher level man to surpass her newer, more recent elevated status.

Gold diggers don't go lower their perceived standards, starting as a broke girl she aims for a man making tens on thousands, then she jumbs to one making hundreds of thousands, to millions and if possible billions.

Its always about upgrade. Gold diggers hate broke guys.

PEAK TACTIC
Men are at their weakest when they are in passion.
When men get aroused and want to have sex with a woman they can foolishly do anything to ladies that's what Kara King called PEAK. PEAK is Pre-Ejaculation Ass Kissing.
It’s during PEAK that women have the most power. PEAK makes men do crazy things!
At this point she start making excessive money demands and make him promise heaven and earth to her.

The technique i observed is that just when he has started removing her clothes, she gives him her phone to credit her account. If he refuses to credit her account then no sex for him.

Woman can demand fwhat she want during PEAK. He’s either going to say yes or no.If he denies her what she want, then she tells him “access denied” and move on to the next man. Chances are, however, when he’s in PEAK mode, she's going to get every last thing she ask for.

MISCELLANEOUS
If all else fail a gold digger can resort to blackmail especually if he is a High status man.
Some ladies are into voodoo to get money from rich men.

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