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oyolohi:
I looked into every possible future of Nigeria and I saw one that many Nigerian miss. I saw a United Nigeria...a united Nigeria with only one Tribe, one region --the North.


A future where the disguised Jihadists succeeded in carrying out their mission.

Have you ever heard learned men such as Ahmadu Bello speak about the other tribes in Nigeria? Only then will you understand how DIFFERENT we are.


Nigeria is a FALSE and EVIL marriage. Colonial Masters who didn't give rat a$$es about us or our future initiated a marriage between two couples where one party had it in their religious faith (and were already exercising that duty as at that time) to exterminate the others by all means (Jihad, terrorism or whatever.)


How did the British do that? Have you studied the geography of Nigeria? They made a certain region a majority (by all means: land mass, population, etc) and gave us democracy --which is indeed a government of the majority! It was a deliberate and well calculated move...and believe me, they're still benefiting from that move.


Insecurity will never end in "Nigeria" as long a a certain region do not perceive their acts as evil. And who does?


That region I speak of will continue to encroach 'Nigeria' until they hit the ocean. The case of southern Kaduna will be replicated in southern Nigeria one day, just one day. I write these with a heavy heart. At the top of Martin Luther's voice I scream.


-oyolohi

As nihilistic as this may sound. There is alot of truth in what you are saying.

The colonial masters created a mess and left us to solve the problem.

We have over 250 ethnic groups and over 500 tribes. Forced to live together against our will.

They say we should live together as one but when the people trying to be united are already divided with no intention of unity , they will fall.

Skepticus:
21cent can go on copying it. I'll advise those who have PCs to do same if they have the time. There should be some form of back up for the knowledge being shared here.

MJBOLT, you just can't tell what the Mods can do. Even, though we have tried to make the thread "sane" and not give room for naysayers and detractors to derail the thread, you just can't trust anyone. There are females among them (mods) and can influence it, to be deleted.

A lot of powerful and frightening nuggets are being dropped here which is sure to have a ripple effect in our immediate society, later in the future (if not now) for the society. The systems that be may start to feel threatened that male slaves of the partriarchy/matriarchy are being liberated and pushing for such threads to be deleted.

Personally, I don't see this thread lasting for that long.

Seconded.

One thing i noticed in life is that just because you think something won't happen doesn't mean it won't happen.

Any thing can happen.
And as Murphy's law stated, whenever something can go wrong it will go wrong in the worst way.

I think it will be good if someone can back up this thread and turn it into a book like the red pill handbook.

youngreezy:
how do you contain emotions boss?

I have just discussed it on this page. Check man and emotions.

We have two crisis facing us.

The first is covid-19.

The second is a declining global economy.

Health Crisis
Covid-19 keeps sweeping through the global population. Despite months of research and testing, and our effort to curb this menace, there seems to be resurgence.
As of 15th of December 2020, 758 new confirmed cases and 3 deaths were recorded in Nigeria.

Till date, 74,132 cases have been confirmed, 66,494 cases have been discharged and 1,200 deaths have been recorded in 36 states and the Federal Capital Territory.

It is reported that more people who have recovered from COVID-19-related deaths are coming down with it.
The population remains woefully under-tested and hospitals under-equipped.

So, while there may be far more people being infected than we’re counting, there’s also likely far more people dying than we’re counting.

If there’s one thing we know for certain about this pandemic, it’s that we know almost nothing for certain about this pandemic.

We still don’t fully know what COVID-19 does to the body or its long-term repercussions.

Economic Crisis
With the inception of the pandemic, in a span of months, the travel, hospitality, entertainment, restaurant, retail industries and even schools were put to a halt.
Due to the lockdown, housands have lost their jobs and unemployment rate soars. Alot of people entered into depression.
The consensus is that me enter into a recession.
Sadly, there have already been a number of reported cases of people contracting COVID-19 twice .

Doctors have noted that we may be in the middle of a second wave of the pandemic.

President of ARD LUTH, Dr.Judith Jolayemi said:



The conundrum
In the midst of the pandemic, if you do the prudent thing for the population’s health, you introduce a new systemic risk: economic crisis.
But if you avoid an economic crisis by encouraging people to go about their lives as normal, you exacerbate the risk of a public health crisis.
The conundrum is that we either sacrifice health for economy or sacrifice ecinomy for health.
My hope is that in the long run, we will come out of this pandemic.



Cc
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Danhoys:
I'm also thinking of temporarily suspending him from using the phone, at least three days.

You Should also sit him down and explain to him the dangers of getting addicted to porn.

Do not try to hide anything from him, he is no longer a small boy.

Do not be harsh on him on the porn videos issue or else he will do it where you can't find out. Most guys have done this just to explore. It doesn't always necessarily mean he will impregnate a girl.

CalliDora1:
Why did she too display it to them?

Wear what will cover you, no. Everybody wants to slay in plunging neck dress or braless tops. Some clothes are not for everyone. Know this and save yourself some embarrassment.

She brought it upon herself, so I don't pity her. Next time she'll learn to dress properly. Even what she's wearing in this video doesn't do justice to that part of her body.

I love this.

Whatever we do, there are consequences we must face.

Olympus has fallen. Lol

As far the depression. Its all in the mind.
No one can hurt you without your permission.

SIMPs are operating on another level.


See What i found...

Skepticus:
Gamergirl did sell her bath water and simps bought it. Western men are finished!

I noticed most guys here find it difficult to believe it.

But it's the truth, simps are operating on another level.

BTW

See What i found...

[color=maroon] Be tough

This is how it is in life for everyone: people will take from you what they can. If they sense that you are the type of person who accepts and submits, they will push and push until they have established an exploitative relationship with you.

Some will do this overtly; others are more slippery and passive aggressive. You must demonstrate to them that there are lines that cannot be crossed; they will pay a price for trying to push you around.

This comes from your attitude—fearless and always prepared to fight. It radiates outward and can be read in your manner without you having to speak a word.

By a paradoxical law of human nature, trying to please people less will make them more likely in the long run to respect and treat you better.[/color]

[color=maroon] Judge actions not words

Judging women by the results of their actions, the deeds that can be seen and measured, the maneuvers they have used to gain power.

What women say about themselves does not matter; women will say anything.

Look at what they have done; deeds do not lie. You must also apply this logic to yourself.. You are responsible for the good and bad in your life.

Women usually perform strategic maneuver, an attempt to gain victory.

Most times, women who accuse you of being unfair, for example, who try to make you feel guilty, who talk about justice and morality, are trying to gain an advantage over you just like in a game of chess.
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[color=maroon] Face your emotions

As a man instead of repressing your emotions , you must face them down, do battle with them.
Look at things as they are, not as your emotions color them.
You must see your emotional responses to events as a kind of limitation that must be remedied.
Anger and impatience will draw you into rash actions that will cut off your options.
Love and affection will blind you to the treacherous maneuvers of women you encounter.

Even the subtlest gradations of these emotions can color the way you look at events. The only remedy is to be aware that the pull of emotion is inevitable, to notice it when it is happening, and to handle it.
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[color=maroon] Handling emotions

You are your greatest enemy.

Life is battle and struggle, and you will constantly find yourself facing bad situations, destructive relationships, dangerous engagements, manipulations etc. How you confront these difficulties will determine your fate.

Every day you face battles but the greatest battle of all is with yourself--your weaknesses, your emotions, your lack of resolution in seeing things through to the end. You must first conquer yourself before anyone.

As Xenophon rightly said, "your obstacles are not rivers or mountains or other people; your obstacle is yourself."

Everything depends on your frame of mind and on how you look at the world. A shift of perspective can transform you from a passive weak beta male into an active Alpha male.
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[color=maroon] 84.) MAN AND EMOTIONS

Power, seduction, strategy, mastery, fearlessness and philosophy are what a man should master in this game called life—Dpsychologist

Ever wonder why man is said to hold his emotions and act like a man? It is because emotions are fickle and unreliable. It makes men weak. Moreover, men are bad at handling emotions.

When humans are emotional they become irrational and succeptible to manipulation, seduction etc. The feeling of fear, anger, pain, laughter, sadness etc makes himans to be easily controlled. When you read for exams and you enter the hall with tension. You tend to forget most of what you read but after the exams you remember.

What happened is that the emotional part of your brain at that time is in control.

When a girl breaks a guy heart before exams it has similar effect.

Your last semester results was released today and you had your first carryover plus tomorrow you have a test. You will lose focus.

This is because your brain shifted concentration from logical part of the brain (cerebral cortex) to the emotional (amygdala) part. You find it hard to be logical, can't assimilate or remember what you read.

Men are also very emotional. When it comes to issue of love, relationship and marriage then man becomes clouded by emotions.

Whatever you do make sure you are not clouded by emotions. Emotions are fickle and when they wear off you are left to face the consequences. Use your logic, for logic is more reliable.
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TheUndercover:
Why must you guys always reply any moniker with (f) sign?

They have orgasms when they see (f). Who knows it might be a male lol

Some examples

A Sexless marriage
In 2018, New York socialites Quentin Esme Brown (wife) and Peter Cary Peterson (husband) got married in Las Vegas. Guess what? Their marriage is a sexless marriage.

The wife said:



Simps are something else. I pity such kind of men.

Story: Surrogate bf

I know of a guy that his gf got pregnant for her side guy. She ask the side guy for money to abort but he told her he doesn’t have money and ignored her.

She ask her main boyfriend for money for an imaginary expenses and he gave her. Unknown to him he gave her money to abort pregnancy for another dude. This babe nearly died and was taken to the hospital.

The bf came and visit her without knowing what actually happened. And paid hospital bills thinking it was typhoid.
This same girl after she felt better was still going back to the side guy.

[color=maroon] The "Do me i do you" tactic
The friend zone however is not just a hurdle on the path to getting sex from a woman which magically disappears once sex has been attained.

A woman can friend zone you even after having had sex with you and a more cunning woman may use sex as a way to secure your commitment before withdrawing it later on and simultaneously seeing if they can extract emotional commitment and resources from you without having to keep up their end of the bargain.

If you let her frame win here within the context of a relationship or even marriage, you’re allowing her to drill nails into the coffin of being a chump.

As a man, emotional investment in a woman should only be given to her as positive reinforcement for behaviour that is conducive to your desires and/or the betterment of the relationship.

If she’s fucking you and engaging in desirable feminine behaviours then keep giving her love and emotional nourishment.

However if she’s going to callously cut off sex in an attempt to test the boundaries of the relationship and get you to do what she wants, you in turn need to callously cut off your commitment to her or else you end up encouraging her atrocious behaviour.

This is the only leverage you have (also known as dread game ) and is ultimately why marriage can turn into the headquaters of friend zones.
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The Surrogate Boyfriend
Women ruthlessly use men as “surrogate providers” for their desires and lifestyle choices whilst not providing any return on the services he provides, or doing so begrudgingly or sparingly merely as a manipulative effort to keep him content enough to stick around.

Ideally women are gatekeepers of sex and men gatekeepers of commitment.

Woman will give up sex to get commitment and man give up commitment for sex(even though this bargain is unfair to men). However, women play their cards right and ensure they enjoy commitment without sex from a guy, that guy is the surrogate boyfriend.

He is the one paying the bills but is made to wait till marriage while she goes out to get bleeped by an Alpha. She may even be claiming she hate to the surrogate bf but he’s probably fucking another guy behind his back.

If a lady has 2 boyfriends, the guy she demands excess money from is the surrogate boyfriend and is not the one she truly likes.

Alpha bleeps beta bucks.

The Alpha gets the pussy for free while the Beta pays for the pussy.

Nothing is actually free in life. When you get something for free someone is paying for it somewhere.

Alot of times, the main guy( Beta) is actually the side guy while the side guy (Alpha) is actually the main guy to a woman.

The Beta is the one that provides her financial needs while she spends the money on the Alpha. [/color]

[color=maroon] Friend zone in marriage

Now onto the idea of marriage being a glorified friend zone, beta males in sexless marriages are in effect existing in a form of legally sanctioned friend zone.

A husband who isn’t getting any sex from his wife has been softly friend zoned for his utility but no longer deemed sexually attractive and thus not respected by his wife.

A woman who respects her man, bleeps her man – if she’s constantly withholding sex for any reason other than medical reasons then her withholdment of sex is considered a transgression which violates the nature of your manly desires and thus can be considered an unspoken disrespect of your position within the relationship.

A sexless marriage engages in the same social dynamics as an 18-year-old beta orbiter who picks up the girl of his affections in his car and then drives her around acting on her whims as a glorified taxi driver, buying her gifts to demonstrate his affection.

These behaviours are a vain attempt to try to impress his way into her pants, by giving her everything she wants up-front without asking for anything in return.

The difference between a married man and the18-year-old beta orbiter is that he's legally obliged to ensure her feminine imperative is fulfilled perhaps there are even a few children thrown into the chaos which effectively ensures he remain firmly placed in the friend zone.

Allowing her to ruthlessly trap him by enforcing an unhappy sexless marriage is tantamount and equivalent in value exchange to that of the friend zone where the man in question is “just a friend” providing benefits to the arrangement whilst not receiving any [from her] himself.

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[color=maroon] The friend zone
This section is aimed mainly at guys who have no clue about women and find themselves a slave to the whims of any attractive female in their lives who throws them some attention, be she the hot girl at work or even his own wife.
These guys are responsible for their problems by not being on top of their game, putting the pussy on a pedestal and letting women take them for a ride.

There are many pretty girls in the world, abundance mentality is a cornerstone in avoiding the friend zone , however it is also paramount in having respect for one’s self and maintaining a healthy sex life (as the late and great Patrice O’Neal would say it: “ showing a bitch you’ve got options“ ) this still applies once you have reached the mating stage that is a relationship or dare I say it, marriage – you can never stop gaming .

The friend zone however is not just a hurdle on the path to getting sex from a woman which magically disappears once sex has been attained.

A woman can friend zone you even after having had sex with you and a more cunning woman may use sex as a way to secure your commitment before withdrawing it later on and simultaneously seeing if they can extract emotional commitment and resources from you without having to keep up their end of the bargain .

Leave the friendzone
If you stay in your comfort Zone you will remain in the friendzone

If you’re in the friend zone then you’re essentially giving away what she values for free without even realising it (or you wouldn’t even be “a friend” to begin with.)

By not making a woman work for what she wants [from you] she will never grow to appreciate what it is you bring to the table, in fact she will come to expect it and she will even go so far as to punish you for any perceived slight or insubordination should she have grown accustomed to your emotional commitment.

If you realise you were being friend zoned get annoyed with the situation and pull the plug by ceasing to provide her with the emotional nourishment she was deriving from you, she will reprimand you for pulling away and will attempt to re-ensnare you.

In such a situation, one has to slowly fade out of her life rather than having an over the top and dramatic altercation.
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[color=maroon] 83.) THE DREADED FRIEND ZONE
The Friend zone is strictly one-sided as it allows her to derive more benefit from the arrangement without you getting anything in return.

The ideal transaction

A woman desires a man’s emotional loyalty ( monopoly of a man's resources ) above all else, whilst as a man, your desires firmly place sexual loyalty (monopoly of her body above all else) this is the exchange of value taking place in a successful “romantic” transaction, your emotional commitment and resources for the use of her body.

The value of your emotional commitment to a woman depends on the worth a woman places upon it. If it is given with difficulty its worth is that of gold, if is given with so much ease its worth is that of sand.

Men and women are ultimately never equal in part due to the differences in our sexual imperatives.

The difference in agenda and how it is pursued by each gender is merely one significant indication of these differences in mating psychology.
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Alpha rules

[color=maroon] 82.) ALPHA GAME AND BETA GAME

Game can be compared with fishing in which the fishing method is the type of game you use.
How do you catch a fish?

The beta nice guy ask the fish and he is told using hook and a bait is the best strategy infact some will tell him just use hook without a bait and he will get them. The beta tries it and gets frustrated.

The beta tries it and wonders whats going on and why its very difficult to catch the fish.
After trying countless times and then catches one. He becomes excited.

Betas enter into r/ship because they have no choice, most ladies don't want them. They secretly admire the Alpha but keep getting Frustrated.

The alpha uses the fail proof method which is using of fishing net. He ends up getting as many fishes as he wants. As such he can choose the best fish and throw away the bad ones.

Alphas have enough that is why they are mostly not faithful or have abundance mentality.

Beta game: Simps and whitenights
A look down history will show you how weak men have simped deeply in the guise of love.

See the way Cleopatra turn mark Anthony, and julius csesar into a pawns.

Men have been simping since from time immemorial.
History keeps on repeating itself because men refuse to learn from history.

The internet as given us opportunity to see for ourselves what it entails. It is now left to us not to repeat those mistakes.

When a simp is broke or without power, his simping has less effect on others.

The problem amplifies when a simp is in power, he usually causes disaster. They crush other guys with simp laws. Simps have ruin great businesses and empires because of women. A look at history has shown how many men died because of women. [/color]

Lol this got me laughing Especially the goaty, catty.

Red pill quote of the month :

[color=maroon] "Never try to impress a woman or she'll always hold you to that standard."-W.C. Fields [/color]

Man must guard himself by controlling his sexual urge.
For his sexual urge left uncontrolled will shatter his life into shreds. He ends up losing large potion of his time, resources, sanity or even worst, his life.

Never let a woman get free rent, expenses, promotion with her pvssy.

mickelkingz:
what about the ex that break her Virginity and spend nothing on her?

It has long being established that virgins easily get Emotionally Attached to their first guy.

[color=maroon] Men who are masters

The simps are pawns while women are the masters. There are masters of masters, they are the pimps. They are the kings, they control other men because they are able to control women.

It was only in 17th century came a great change: men grew interested in seduction as a way to overcome a young woman's resistance to sex. Men began to adopt the methods traditionally employed by women.

They learned to dazzle with their appearance to stimulate the imagination. They also added a new, masculine element to the game: seductive language, for they had discovered a woman's weakness for soft words. This was what later morphed to pick up artistry. [/color]

[color=maroon] Women invented game

The game of dating is amoral. We’re all players in a game. It's either you move or you’re moved. You play the game, or the game plays you. You can’t not play the game. You don’t beat the game by denying the game; death’s the only escape from the game. Until then, play well to live well.

Women invented game /seduction. They had no way to compete, no weapon at their disposal that could make a man do what they wanted—politically, socially, or even in the home.

However, men had one weakness: their insatiable desire for sex.

A woman could always toy with this desire, but once she gave in to sex the man was back in control; and if she withheld sex, he could simply look elsewhere—or exert force.

They had no choice but to submit to this condition.
Then some women (The greatest of them all,Cleopatra) whose hunger for power was too great invented a way of turning the dynamic around, creating a more lasting and effective form of power: seduction.

First they would draw a man in with an alluring appearance, designing their makeup and adornment to fashion the image of a goddess come to life.

The illusions of sex is far greater than sex itself

The long eyelashes, the high heel shoes, the long hair, the lipstick, the fake butt, fake boobs, botox etc are all arsenals for seduction.

By showing only glimpses of flesh, they would tease a man's imagination, stimulating the desire not just for sex but for something greater: the chance to possess a fantasy figure.
Once they had their victims' interest, these women would lure them away from the masculine world of war and politics(isolating the target) and get them to spend time in the feminine world—a world of luxury, spectacle, and pleasure( Cleopatra lured Julius Caesar on a trip down the Nile) .

Man is at his weakest emotionally, woman at her weakest logically.

Men would grow hooked on these refined, sensual pleasures—they would fall in love. Then the women would turn cold and indifferent, confusing their victims. Just when the men wanted more, they found their pleasures withdrawn.

They would be forced into pursuit, trying anything to win back the favors they once had tasted and growing weak and emotional in the process.

Men who had physical and social power— King David, Julius Caesar, Mark Antony, —would find themselves becoming the slave of a woman. [/color]

[color=maroon]81.) MASTERS AND PUPPETS

Actors/actresses are being praised for their acting skills but actually it is the producers and directors that are responsible for making a movie great. A president is seen as the most powerful man in a country, however there are godfathers that are behind the scenes controlling the president.

Just like the way a puppeteer controls his puppets that's how a woman controls a simp.

The masters are those behind the scenes controlling the puppets.

For Every simp laws there is a female behind manipulating a simp to enforce the law.

Have you wondered why women are always favored. You go to look for job but instead a woman is given preference. I once was told that in a particular firm the man recruits only ladies.

Its a man's world but a woman’s paradise

Whether you believe it or not women control men.

Delilah controlled samson and manipulated him to his death.

Cleopatra manipulated Mark Anthony and Julius Caeser to their death. If not for the cunningness of octavius he could have also been a victim.

Norma Jean, also called Marilyn Monroe had many men at her palm in the mid 20th century

While men were busy going to war, studying the earth and trying to make money. Women were busy studying men.

For centuries they perfected the art of Seduction, sophistry and manipulation, while men are only catching up.
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mickelkingz:
my experience..

will you mind sharing it.

This quote explains it all:

"Never try to impress a woman or she'll always hold you to that standard."-W.C. Fields