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MARRIAGE TACTIC
A bride and groom are standing at the altar. The guy is thinking, “This is great!I’ll get to have sex whenever I want!” The woman is thinking, “This is great! I won’t have to have sex anymore!” Yeah, it’s funny because it can be true.
Women know that men need sex, and that this can drive a man to make some very bad decisions…including getting married. They use this to their advantage.
Then she divorces him and gets half of his property.

FRIEND ZONETECHNIQUE
Women want male friends because they’re better company. More interesting, more entertaining, less crazy, less annoying – all of that good stuff. Likewise they know if they’re pretty they can leverage that into favour whilst giving you nothing, so this is the scam most even moderately pretty women are working.
Most Men want to be friends with women because they are ignorant and think friendship is the first stepping stone to sex.
Women profit from this false belief because men waste time, passion and energy on an endeavour which eventually yields nothing but but hassle in return. When a man figures out friendship is not the path to sex with women, he ceases to see the point in having female friends.

MIXED SIGNALS TECHNIQUES
A key gold digging technique is when a gold digger realises a man has potential. She keeps him aside and go with others guys while still giving him hope. When you are still in school or you are broke, she will be confusing you but when you have graduated and established SHE starts feigning interest.

That why you see guy chasing a girl for 5 years before she finally agree to date him.

A heard a story of a guy who was a final year student going after a girl but she was forming hard to get confusing him with mixed signals as she heard that after he graduated and is now in the US she payed someone to collect his number so she could call him.

GOLD DIGGER TACTICS

LOOKS TACTIC
One situation where it can be challenging for men to keep things in perspective is when the woman in question is highly attractive.

I think it’s safe to say that beautiful women are better equipped for manipulating men than less attractive women are. They know this, which is why most women put so much effort into maximizing their visual impact. Hence the use of make up, cosmetic surgery, and fashion to make the most of a female’s appearance.

Men easily conflate beauty with virtue and will become vulnerable to gold digging from beautiful women. Girls that gold dig guys the most are attractive ladies.
A woman's gold digging instinct is directly proportional to her hotness. It’s no secret that hot chicks are higher maintenance than not-so-hot chicks.

It’s also no secret that attractive women can get by on their appearance. Just look at the info-babes and weather girls, hired in large part because they look good on camera. Pretty girls also make better pop stars, regardless of talent, or the lack thereof.

If a woman is attractive, she’ll usually get a pass in life, because she will automatically be perceived to have value. She may be uneducated, unintelligent, lazy, and self-absorbed, yet when she meets a guy’s friends or parents they’ll proclaim, “She’s a Keeper!” As long as she has aesthetic appeal and is reasonably pleasant, that’s enough.

In the case of women who really are attractive, they can get away with MUCH more than other women, as long as guys are willing to put up with it, which most of them are. That situation isn’t likely to change.

SEX APPEAL TACTIC
Women knew that men have weakness for sex but gold diggers also know that the illusion of sex is far greater than sex itself. Thus, they dress provocatively to get men to do favors for them without getting anything in return.
As i will always say, be weary of ladies dressing provocatively. Those ladies believe in money thats why they dress sophisticated and posh.

97.) GOLD DIGGERS/PLAYERS

The Gold-digger phenomenon, which used to mean an exceptionally attractive, young woman hooking up with a much older rich guy, has been expanded to mean any woman who is looking for a free ride from a man.
Take a gold digger out on a date, and she will immediately begin evaluating your potential, not based upon your character or personality, but on your financial status.

She’ll note what you drive, how you dress, where you live, and what kind of watch you wear. She’ll inquire about what you do for a living, not because she’s interested, but to estimate your income.

This is done under the guise of “getting to know you”. If you’ve ever been brushed off after what you perceived to be a successful first date, chances are it was because you didn’t pass her screening test.

Golddiggers avoid most young guys from 20 - 29 because they don't bring the kind of money they want to the table.
Gold-diggers are everywhere these days. Ironically, most aren’t even attractive.

MINDSETS OF A GOLD DIGGER
Gold digger (also fortune hunter ) is slang for a greedy person (stereotypically a woman ) who only dates (and subsequently marries) wealthy partners with the (typically) sole intention of exploiting said wealth.

Gold diggers understand that The more a man gives away his C. A. R( commitment, attention and resources) to a woman the more he gets addicted to her. That is why you hear stories of men getting addicted to a prostitute.

Gold diggers understand that you can get a man to do anything for you if you can get him to invest heavily. This is why golddiggers are at the upper echelon, they understood the game. Kanye west spend 10million dollars diamond ring on kim Kardashian after she was robbed he has replaced it with another ring. Kanye has invested so much on Kardashian such that if she is to leave him he might go psychotic.

Robert Cialdini in his Six Principles of Persuasion explained that, by having people make a small commitment early on, you increase the chances of them agreeing to make a larger commitment at a later date.

Gold diggers are essentially people with the ability to “use others for what they’re good for” rather than value them for “who they are as personalities.” It is Briffault’s Law on steroids: they prioritise what a person can do for them over forming emotional bonds.

Gold diggers last strategy is sex

tegaever:
na man and man o. read again. plus I don still ho other sites go check. na homo

Lol and i was thinking it was a she

Wetin we no go see for this life.

Modified

Wtf... N i was thinking all this while that the nurse is a she.

rymalex:
A woman posted on her Instagram "Be patient, somebody will give you the world without you asking".

Word.

A woman can get away with that.

What a woman gets for just being a woman, a man gets with sweat.
Fair it is not but true it is.

OLUWABIG:
Abeg who get the Audiobook version of Rational male by Rollo Tomassi

So far i don't think you will easily get that except the ebooks.

Doortun:
Wow! Very deep analysis. You should be the redpill godfather of nairaland.

Lol i am still a learner o.

There are many ways to get you selected.

SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME
You have to expand your social circle this makes it easier to get ladies. When a friend imtroduces me to a lady, i get her very fast. Most of them know me but i don't know them when we meet for the first time.

CELEBRITY GAME
Check out Celebrities. They don't go after ladies but ladies go after them. All wizkid babymamas were his fans.

Majority of sex celebrities get is after their show, when they are going to a hotel many ladies follow them.

Leonardo Dicaprio once went to a club shouted, "who wants to party in my house" and all of the ladies in the club followed him to his house. He didn't approach them he told them to come and fortunately.

I happen to be a rapper and a apoken words artist and i can testify than i got alot of ladies through this means.

CHURCH GAME
Lets say in your church you are a nobody. You will have challenges atrracting many ladies. Most of them don't know you and some may deny ever seeing you even if they see you every sunday .

If you are an ordinary member, there is likelihood that going after a girl in choir might undermine you. To be in a Choir is a status in church, most of the ladies see people in the pew as ordinary people and as such see them lower than them.

It will be better if you join choir, or even ushering department. Don't be like a statue. Actively participate in subgroups such as youth fellowship. Lead programs, participate in discussions, make presentations. Ladies interested in you will find it easier to approach you when you are active than when you are dormant.

After choir rehearsals thats how i corner them and they have the excuse that our hanging out is choir related to suspecting eyes.

STATUS GAME
If your purpose is to be attractive to women, and increase your chance of being selected. You have to play the status game.

1. Use hypergamy to your advantage: in starting, set your goals in such a way that the women you seek are those who are lower than you in status - power, , looks, money. Your choices will grow as those things improve.
You don't just improve yourself overnight, start gradually.

2. Go to where the girls are and display your status . Athletes do the same on the field. Actors, politicians and CEO's too. The whole world is playing the status game and you have to be in it to win it. Remember: even low status is status - aim lower and as you get better you go up.

3. Follow the basic rules of Game. Make sure there's attraction before getting close to a woman. There should be sign that she is interested before you approach .

Women are social creatures, men need to be able to socialise in order to interact with them. Go get some friends, then start playing.

Generally interact with them and keep them as acquaintance, any one that shows she is interested them you go for her.

LOOKS GAME
Get in shape. Be healthier. Don't worry about the size of this or that. Work on the things you can change. Keep fit. Smell nice. Dress well.

96.) SELECTED

Many approach but few are selected. A lady usually reject most guys that approach her.

Allow a lady to do the selection it makes it easier for you than to approach alot of ladies and get rejected.
All you have to do is get her to notice you, if she chooses you or not its her choice. It is better than she see what she wants from you herself.

Approaching random ladies gives you opportunity to choose among variety of ladies but it usually gets complicated.

Some one might say...

But the ladies are not the type i want. It does not matter.


The type of ladies going after you now, shows where you are on the SMV and your environment can also contribute to that. If unattractive ladies go after you, it shows you may be inexperienced, have poor social skills, have poor looks, low status etc.

The hotter ladies want hotter guys. You, not getting hotter ladies shows you need to upgrade yourself.

Meanwhile use the validations of those females that select you no matter how ugly or less appealing they are to improve your SMV and get noticed/valued by other ladies.

If you are not successful with ladies before and you are complaining about the kind of girls you attract then you must be joking.

You have to start somewhere while you working to improve yourself, you can bang those ladies to improve your confidence and bedmatics. Afterall when having sex her face does not matter.

The less appealing one may boast about your sexual prowess or how great you are and you may end up with an attractive lady. It has worked for many guys.
Thats the power of preselection.

However, try as much as possible to improve your self both dress-wise, status-wise, money-wise and other wise. This increases your SMV.

95.) THE VOID THEORY

Opposites attract.

From my years of Red Pill knowledge i came forward with a theory known as Void theory and it states that we are attracted to what we do not have or lack.

The void in us is what we want to fulfill.

That is why you here a man say " she completes me" or a woman say " He completes me".

High levels of chemistry usually come from opposite yet complementary qualities in people.

Void can either be psychological or physical.

PSYCHOLOGICAL VOID
A woman who is energetic will tend to have a high degree of chemistry with a guy who is relaxed, mellow, and open.

Surprisingly Introverts often have natural chemistry with extroverts.

People who are orderly and intense planners sometimes work best with people who are spontaneous and unorganized.

PHYSICAL VOID
Seduction is about giving someone what they want.

If a woman exclusively wants money, for your seduction to be complete you have to lure her with money or the illusion of it.

Ladies understand the game and once she knows you are explicitly after sex she lure you with the promise of sex but won't give you. The more she tease with sex the more you spent your resources.

Alot of ladies are after money and as far as they know they will get money from an affluent man they will do whatever it takes to get more of that money.

This is evident in women who have achieved high status on their own, they see no reason to marry a man since they have fulfill their void.

WHEN THE VOID IS FILLED
We use each other

If you are popular most people coming close to you want to be popular, likewise if you are rich they are coming close because they want something from you.

That is how the circle goes, we need each other for something.

When a break up happens one or both parties find out they no longer need each other.

After draining a man with her extravagant lifestyle a lady will decide to leave him for he no longer has benefit to her. Likewise a man that has tried all the sex style in kamustra on a lady and has made her do countless abortion can decide to leave her because his void has been fulfilled and want to get it from somewhere.

Most times hats how we humans behave, we use each other and then dump each other.

doctore212:
How to price olosho.

I also learnt that TDB is a pure waste of time because the olosho go do one round and sleep till morning.

Hence, is better to do ST

Lol. Don't know why this is very funny to me.

KingsJohnson:
Dpsychologist is a Legend and we all are proud of his doings

Thanks you too.
You guys also did well for taking your time to read.

Queenslander:
Here we go again, another female bashing thread,. As usual the mods will absolutely nothing... Fantastic forum!!

Although his language is strong probably because he was a victim, i don't like his tone but he is still saying the truth.

okrikaboi:
@Dpsychologist what do you think about building a frame like you already own the woman and not necessarily chasing her. More like domineering but in a sexy way.

Yea building frame is important, i discuss this in the first Page of this thread.

Frame is being stressed because it gives the aura of dominance. It gives the impression that you are not needy and she is the one to be chasing you.

You Should interact with her with the mentality that you are the prize. This makes her think that you must have abundance of women and gets you pre-selected.

94.) PRE-SELECTION

Women desire a man that is loved by other women then they steal him from others and make him faithful to them.

The celebrity effect

Women clamour for celebrities because other ladies do same for celebrities. This is female herd mentality.

If other ladies are not after you, she assumes you are not attractive.

I believe the rise of mass entertainment over the past century has skewed female desire upwards towards a tiny tier of top-rank men.

Women are less interested in men than social status. Contrary to popular myth, women are also far more competitive than men internally, whether or not it manifests externally. The old adage that most women hate each other unless there is something to be gained from not doing so is fairly close to the mark.

When a woman desires a man who is desired by other women, what she really desires is the desire of a man that other women desire. It's the envy of other women she's after, as that is perceived as an indicator of her worth and value compared to other women.

Feminism was initially an attempt to free women from this. Problem is, status and worth are not properties of womanhood to be traded in the sexual marketplace or 'rights' to be fought for politically with men who supposedly have the power to dispense these. Men are naturally dominant are endowed with power.

When you are walking alone, women won't even look at you but when you are walking with a woman or two women, they start glancing at you.


A Committed man is an attractive man

Unless your girlfriend is not truly attracted to you, but if she does her friends will ogle at you. Even if it means to lie, she will tell amazing things about you.

Being married can make younger ladies attracted to you believe it or not. It tends to make women see you as responsible, attractive, ready made man etc

Aside that being a single dad also attract women.

There was a time my cousin sister gave me her baby to take care of. There was this new lady that came into our compound. She was forming for all the guys.

One day my cousin came and left her baby. When she saw the baby she started complimenting the baby cos the baby is very cute. She said we look alike and asked if we are related. This is a lady we have never talked before.

I told her yes and he is my son, that i am a single dad. Before i knew it she started coming close to me, telling me she love fine kids.

Thats how i got free vjay. She even went to the extent of buying baby clothes and gift for the baby.

In sexual attraction its all about the looks, How his hair is, his lips, his voice, his face, his chest, his legs, his perfect teeth, his flat tommy/his six pack, his facial hair, his hairy chest and even his dress sense.

Male stripper effect

I have also seen a strip show by men aimed at women where the performers literally come out with scratches and their clothes torn from their female audience.— A Woman

While people are more familiar with female strippers. By contrast, male strippers—a group existing in much smaller numbers—have existed since the 70s.


Male strippers are sexually attractive men, women pay money to see them naked and sometimes have sex with them.


What make women pay money for this is that such men are rare. Majority of men they come in contact with are either pot bellied, fat, bald headed, ugly, unkempt, poor fashion sense etc. Most women live their lives not sexually attracted to most men. Thats why women seem like they have lower libido.

For Male strip clubs criteria for its participants is to be physically appealing, physically fitted, have six packs, shaved legs, big dick, etc.

Many women go gaga when they see them and many women usually attempt to date them.


When the movie, Magic Mike debuted The movie was so successful that a sequel was released. The movie was about male strippers.

I noticed that guy's who are sexually attractive are not only limited to stripping but usually do work like massage therapist/masseuse, gym instructor, gigolo, models etc.

How do you make a woman to be sexually(primal) attracted to you?

Learn lessons from male strippers.

93. SEXUAL ATTRACTION

Desire cannot be negotiated

A woman decides if she wants to Bleep you or not.
It is women that decide if you are fuckable or not.
A woman that chooses you will not give you unnecessary excuse for not fucking you. And as Rollo Tomassi right said, desire cannot be negotiated.

When she is negotiating desire with you, she is not sexually attracted to you.

Types of attraction

From the girl on the street to a celebrity, women do not associate with men who provide no benefit to them.

Two types of men ladies are attracted to

1. The extremely handsome guy blessed with godlike genetics which women crave for sex.

2. The hardworking man who work hard, gets a “good” lucrative job or is an enterpreneur. He has financial value and/or their power and status that elevates them over “lesser” men in society.

The former is what i term Primal Attraction while the latter is what i term Mental attraction.

There have been rise in incels i.e those who have been completely cut off sexually as female attention is towards the top 1/5 of men. They are the forgotten men, the men who are neither sexually attractive nor are they financially capable/lack status to hypergamous women.


PRIMAL ATTRACTION
Primal is biological as it is based on your appearance. The way your face looks like, your height, your fitness, your unique body featues. In Primal attraction it’s sex first, then relationship second, not the other way around.

If you have sex on your first hookup or a same-night-lay, in all likelihood she’s really hot for, and into, fucking you based on physical criteria alone.

If you have sex after 2nd or 3rd hook up, she’s into fucking you and probably wants a relationship, but she wanted to give you a token impression of her not being ‘easy’.

Primal attraction is sexual

Many women find sex to be the deepest form of love and connection, and women are very sexually oriented.

A woman’s love is lust to her. She has to feel sexually attracted to you before she can truly love you.

If a girl ever chased you vehemently, you will understand what i am saying. Unfortunately, most guys live their lives and never has a woman chase them.

AS early as 14years i have had a lady (16 years) nearly rape me because of sexual attraction she has for me. She was willing to do anything to get my dick.


If a girl is that into you she’ll want to have sex with you regardless of not knowing your name or having others present in the room.

To get this kinda attraction from ladies you have to be fuckable rather than likeable.

Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.

When a woman intentionally makes you wait for sex you are not her highest priority.

From the first day of meeting a woman determines whether you are fuckable.

Sexual attraction is a spontaneous chemical reaction between two parties, not a process of negotiation.

There is no comfort in sex, it is a turbulence of emotions.
A woman who wants to Bleep you will find a way to Bleep you.


MENTAL ATTRACTION
Mental attraction is termed so because a woman needs to consciously be attracted to you. This attraction is not biological but rather external. It has to do with a man's achievement.

Dual mating strategy explains that women are sexually attracted to bad boys and mentally attracted to nice guys.

If a woman has to negotiate her desire then it means she is considering what benefit you have.

In mental attraction it is relationship or marriage first before sex.

You have to go on many dates with her, you have to pay her bills, you have to put her needs first.

If a girl tells you she needs to be comfortable and wants a relationship or marriage, she is not primally attracted to you.

What I mean is that if you’re still trying to figure out what the magic words are to convince some girl that she ought Bleep you after 3 dates – or longer – you’re negotiating desire.

The Greatest con

When men can be convinced to participate in women’s social conventions half their work is done for them.—Rollo

Beta men are made to think women are innocent, delicate and are the object of men aggression.

Women are always the victims while men are always the aggressors.

This social conditioning is what is called the matrix or female imperative (this has been discussed previously).

SEXUAL WILES
Over the years women notice that most men do not like having sex with virgins and have pity for ladies who were molested. As such they use this as opportunity to manipulate guys.

1. She lies she is a virgin: Ladies can lie to get away with anything. Women are the gate keepers of sex and men the gatekeepers of comitment. However if a lady wants commitment without sex, one of the strategy is to claim she is a virgin and declare no sex till marriage. If the guy wants sex then he has to marry her. I do not have problem with this if it were true and she is truly a virgin. The problem is that most are lying and may be cheating on you with another guy while you are left in a relationship without benefits.

I know of a guy who while in a relationship is relagated to only hugs, she can't even kiss him. The funny thing is that the guy has been lying to us that he gets sex constantly until they broke up before he confessed everything.

Example :
https://www.nairaland.com/5895723/after-waiting-four-4-years


2. She was molested
Another technique is for her to claim she was molested . If he tries to demand sex she will call him evil man without a sympathy to her predicament making the man feel guilty.

3. She has repented
The worst of all is claiming she has repented. She is not a virgin and has had sex with her exes but when its your turn she has repented and learned her lessons. In essence, you are paying for the sins of her exes.

4. She hate sex
Don’t mind most ladies uttering this statement. They hate sex but love your money. A lady once confessed that she uses this tactic to scam guys. Any time the guy demand sex she will be telling him she hate sex and if the guy insist on the sex, she will be crying while having sex. The guy has no choice than to stop sexing her.

5. She makes it difficult to have sex.
This doesn’t work on all men. The catch is that the man has to like her or feel some type of attraction for her powers to work on him.

Giving up sex easily is the exact wrong way to use the power, because it renders you powerless. —Kara King
Kara king cautions women that they will lose the power of knowing a guy’s true intentions when they give sex easily and will kill their opportunity to become the woman he falls for.

To create a committed relationship with this man, she has to delay having SEX WITH HIM.
As such the correct way to use the power of the pussy is to not allow any man access to it until he has earned the right.

That is why women take their pussy in high value for they know it's power .

5. She entices with sex
This is a common tactic used by women. They dress provocatively with half their boobs outside. This stimulated lustful cravings in a man and in an attempt to see her nude, he ends up emptying his Bank account. The promise of sex is far greater than sex itself for imagination is more arousing than reality thats why porn sells and is a billion dollars industry.

6. Use sex as bait then withhold: This is their last manipulation tactic when all else fails. She will have sex with you and just after giving you mindblowing sex then she starves you.

7. Demands before sex :
Men are weak in moments of passion and as such women use this opportunity to cash out.
Anything she wants she will demand before the sex.
You will have noticed that when you have remove all her clothes and wants to have sex she will tell you to promise you will never leave her. Thats how many guys end up entering relationships when all their intentions was to chop and clean mouth.

92.) THE GREAT FEMALE CON
How can women control men who are physically strong and aggressive than them. For men use hard power via intimidation, violence and strength. The only way is to use soft power to control men via manipulation.

Manipulative intelligence
Given the emotional-dominant nature of women, it should surprise no one that they are far better at manipulation than men are. This is due to their manipulative intelligence.
Manipulation is changing another person’s behavior by arousing emotions in them.

A good example is the woman who praises and compliments her man excessively not because she feels genuine respect for him, but because she’s trying to convince him that she’s nice to have around. Appealing to his ego in the belief that this will make her appear more desirable.

The flip side to that example is in questioning his masculinity rather than reinforcing it. If a man falls short of the woman’s expectations, usually by failing to perform some desired behavior, then she may question his masculinity.

This is a common and surprisingly effective tactic: “Be a man and demand for a salary raise!” Put in those terms, if he doesn’t ask for the raise, this proves he’s not a man. We’ve all seen this.

But it’s not always so obvious. She may instead opt to be subtle to the point that the man doesn’t recognize that he’s being manipulated. Women are extremely good at this; it seems intuitive for them. Even stupid chicks can do it.

To illustrate, if a man doesn’t make enough money for her tastes, she may point to her girlfriend’s husband as an example: “Kunle just bought her a new car. What a great guy, don’t you think?”

She won’t actually say it, but will imply that Kunle is the better man. This is intended to result to push her husband to earn more money and buy her car so as not to appear inferior to kunle. The woman comes off as simply complimenting a friend, but her motivation is entirely self-serving.

She also wants the resources

Women commonly portray themselves as complex in order to excuse their own irrationality. When a guy doesn’t understand what she’s doing, or talking about, it’s because she’s too complex for a mere male to understand.

This places the problem on the man’s shoulders. If he had the fabled intuition that women supposedly possess, then perhaps he could grasp the subtleties.

We hear meaningless phrases such as feminine mystique and women’s intuition all the time to gloss over all manner of inconsistencies and flat out bizarre behavior. And when she changes her mind about something for no apparent reason, well that’s a woman’s prerogative. Men have no such prerogative.

Of course, there are other terms more associated with men: My gut instinct, for example, tells me that all this feminine mystique stuff is bullshit, and that women are simply irrational, unreliable, and flighty. They have proven this to me over and over again. Yet we are told that we just don’t understand. I’m going to go with my gut on this one.

Bait and switch
Women are good at bait and switch behavior. You could also apply this to sex, in that women will provide lots of sex in the beginning of a relationship, implying that this will continue to be the norm as long as the man makes a “commitment” to her.

As virtually all married men know, once that commitment is made she will no longer feel obligated to continue providing sex with the same frequency.

The promise of sex (to you) is rendered null and void because the benefit (to her) of marrying her has already been rendered.

The issue seems to be that women fail to grasp a concept that most men readily understand: Honor. They simply don’t have any, and so hypergamy reigns. The very word honor immediately conjures up images of men. Think of a woman who exemplifieshonor. Go ahead, I’ll wait. (Fictional women don’t count.) Not easy, is it?


When con artist get conned
Women are con artists as such even when they know a guy is a player, they still want to go and con him. They want to be the woman that makes him commit and make him repent from being a player, in the process they end up falling for him and get their hearts broken. The player has successfully conned a con artist.

Words on marble.

When she has hit the wall, she will start crying that no man wants to marry her.

As the year is coming to an end, i think its save to say that the year 2020 is a year of red pill revolution.

You guys all did well. I think we have never united like this.

91.) BODY COUNT

A man wants to be a woman's first while a woman wants to be a man's last.

Just like we have established in madonna-wh0re dichotomy, men will sleep with ladies with high body count and marry ladies with very low to Zero body count.

A lady with zero to low body count attracts men who will want to wife her.

But a lady with high body count despite being beautiful and curvy attracts men who "chop and clean mouth".

This is evidenced in Instagram and twitter where you will see many ladies showing their curves and their beauty and complaining that no man wants to marry her. What she didn't understand is that men see her as a slut and don't want that kind of wife. Sure she is fun to be with and can give mind blowing sex but marrying her will be risky to him.

However, some simps will surely marry them that is always certain, most times its because they do not have options. She is the only girl he can get.

Beauty is not the sole criteria for marriage for men but good character and also a low to zero body count. Women understand this thats why they lie that they Were molested when they were young to cover up their promiscuity.


Hiding the fact

Women have learn to never truly disclose their body count. The previous men she was honest with by disclosing the number were disgusted and gradually left her.
She has to keep telling lies, for telling the truth will be to her disadvantage.

Ever wonder why most ladies who marry tend to marry those outside their vicinity or neughbourhood.She prefers a place where people do not know her body count this saves her from ridicule or being exposed.

They prefer to get married to someone oblivious of their past as such she can tell him she is a virgin even though her body count is 50. Until on his wedding night, he then discovers she was never a virgin and the marriage disrupts.

I know of a prostitude that after being a sex worker for 20years went back to her state and pretend as if she is a saint. A pastor got interested and married her only to find out she is a retired prostitude.

Body count favors men, not women.

A woman's virginity is important to men but useless to women.

Even virgins do not really want to get deflowered by a male virgin who is inexperienced. Their fantasy is to be devoured by the guy they love who is good in bed.

Women are gate keepers of sex, narrating her escapades make guys feel disgusted and discourages him from marrying her. Thats why when an ex wants to tarnish a girls image, he will send her nudes to her parents or fiancee. The reverse won't have much effect.

Men are gate keepers of commitment as such narrating his escapades doesn't get her disgusted, infact in most cases it gets her excited.

This is the mistake girls made when telling her female friends about her boyfriend's sexual prowess. This ends up making her friends eager to bang her boyfriend and before you know her bf has cheated on her.

Some might say this is not fair. Fair it is not but true it is.

Leezah:

Shout out to you too bro.
You also did great.

Side effects of Pedestalizing women


1. Man reveals how fiancee cheated on him with a sugar daddy
He gave her 150k a month,pays her brother school fees and even got her an iphone 11 pro when he's using an X max,sponsors her friends and even rent an apartment for her yet she cheated on him with a sugar daddy.

https://www.nairaland.com/6313153/man-reveals-how-fiancee-cheated


2. Man Buys 99 Iphones To Propose To His Girlfriend; She Says No
With “Singles’ Day” looming in China (Nov. 11), one man thought the time was right to try to tie the knot with his girlfriend, preventing them both from having to participate in any future 11/11 festivities.
As a keystone of the young programmer’s marriage proposal were 99 iPhones 6’s placed on the ground and arranged in the form of a heart. The setup, as reported by The Nanfang, cost the love-bitten chap two years’ salary (about $82,000).
But that evidently wasn’t enough. She said no.
https://www.nairaland.com/6257517/man-lavishes-n2m-iphone-meant


3. I Find It Hard To Leave My Cheating Girlfriend, Help
Please advice needed ..
I find it hard to leave my cheating girlfriend, upon say na me dey spend o ... wen we quarrel na me go still beg, upon say no be me Bleep up .
I've read books on red pills and tried being an alpha Male all to no avail, this has bin going on for like 3 years now ..
Advise me on this simping, real niggars in the house . Just want to get my life back to normal


4. Look at the story of that Doctor that was falsely accused of rape, he negotiated $1000 for common pussy. I wonder the hype in banging a celebrity.


Money game

If you want to use money to get a lady use it ruthlessly, see the way Ned Nwoko does. No emotions involved.

And do not be faithful to any lady.

90.) Sex, women and money

Unnecessary lavishing of money on a lady to impress her so you can get sex is the classical definition of a simp. It is putting pvssy on pedestal.

Pussy is an anatomical feature just like a d1ck which comes narurally as such does not warrant waste of huge amount of money for it is koboless. There are guys out there getting it at almost zero naira. Be one of these guys, if she is trying to manipulate you just let her go.

If you spend alot of money on pussy it means you are not sexually attractive to the said women. However, since they can benefit from you, they will keep demanding so that you keep spending higher. Till you end up getting broke while upgrading her till she is above you. Then she dumps you.


Alpha simp
I define alpha simp as someone who is an alpha in simping. Being rich doesn't automarically transition someone's beta mindset. If care is not taken, money actually accelarates the simping by raise to power of 10.
The more you chase sex the more you spend on it. Whatever you chase becomes harder to find as such you spend more to get less sex and you end up becoming broke.

Our "politricians" are the biggest simps. Majority of the money they embezzle from our budget goes to women. They use it to impress women and end up spending exorbitant amount of money on pussy that they cannot bang well. You don't expect an old pot bellied man to bang a lady well. Some of them have to lie down while the lady is on top.

The most annoying are lecturers. Some of them try to use grades to get sex from ladies. All through their 20's they were unable to get ladies now that they have made it in life they are trying to use inrimidation to get it.



To The make money crew

Making money is necessary for a man but using it as an facade to avoid making yourself a better man may be catastrophic. I have seen men with money who do shameful acts that make me wonder.

How will you spend alot on a woman and still end up begging her for relationship. Any body doing this is not just a simp but a sissy. He will has to endlessly use money to keep her, this gives her the temerity to misbehave. He will be the one begging her for forgiveness even when she is at fault.

While he is busy taking care of all her bills and doing all her biddings, she's begging another man of value for attention, a man that's already gotten his shit together.
And when she breaks up with the nice guy he will feel like dying, saying she left him after all he has done.
If you spend alot of money and end up devoid of sex, i think a prostitute will be better.

THE IRONY

The sexual revolution was majorly as a result of development of hormonal birth control. This resulted in the shifting of birth control into the hands of women from men who put the rubber on and do so correctly.

However, even with the vast variety of birth control methods available to women today , we still see an increase in single mother families and abortion rates. One would think that these statistics would be lower in light of all this modernization.

In fact the single mother birth rate has skyrocketed and abortion is just as popular as ever even when new methods such as the ‘morning after pill’ are readily available.
In Comparison , there were far less unwanted pregnancies or single motherhood before than after the advent of the pill.

This shows women are unreliable in birth control.




POWER IN BIRTH CONTROL

Whoever has the birth control has the power.

There is a level of power that the woman holds when she is controlling the contraceptive, for there are various forms of contraception that woman have available.

There are about 40 different types of contraception available for women, men have only 2: vasectomy and condom. Infact to me it's only one because most men are not comfortable with vasectomy.

Utilize condom wisely. It will safe you alot of stress.
No matter how uncomfortable or expensive condom is, it's not as risky and expensive as abortion or taking care of a child you are not ready for.

Make sure when using a condom it should be from you. After using a condom make sure you appropriately dispose it yourself. Be careful of women who seem desperate or emotionally unstable.

Women are very unpredictable, and they usually have ulterior motives beyond having sex with you. Proceed with an abundance of caution as some may even try to put a pregnancy on your head especially if you are financially capable even if its not yours.

89.) BIRTH CONTROL
It’s called birth control because someone is ‘controlling’ the birth.—Rollo Tomassi

Many guys trust their girlfriends to take birth control pills and that she “doesn’t want kids” only to be an unprepared father nine month later after the so-called ‘accident’. Thats why we have alot of runaway fathers, its not always their fault, they were not just prepared for it.

Their major fault was not being in control of the birth themselves.

I will like to emphasize that Men need to use extra caution especially when in a long term relationship, as the ease of getting complacent is high. Just when you thought everything is under control and then boom she is pregnant. God help you, and you are broke as at then, you will be running helter skelter like a mad man looking for 5k.

Or worst she told you she won't abort the pregnancy you will have to start begging. Thats when you will see a 40 year old man begging a 19 year old girl.

Don't be deceived when she says she love it raw, that's how Chinedu became a father after much pressure from her family to take responsibility. I have seen quite number of my child hood friends experience this.

You need to stand firm even when she says “take that thing off I want to ‘feeeeel’ you.” When women are in the heat of the moment emotions cloud their reasoning as such they do not care about future consequences.

You will be held responsible for succumbing to her irrationality unless you run away or vehemently deny that you had anything with her.

In fact if you are not careful she might pin another man's child on your head.

The accident

Never completely trust a woman for birth control

Accidental pregnancy is more common now than ever before. The “unplanned” pregnancy for a woman with or without an education or a degree can be a pretty good prospect, if she can trap down a millionaire with a child.
Accidental pregnancy is rampant this days with the outbreak of baba mama culture.

Women can now use it to cash out money from men . For a woman without education (or even with) and without means, an ‘unplanned’ pregnancy may be a pretty good way to trap a man of high status.


For example, one of wizkid's baby mama, narrated how she always had a crush on wixkid. When wizkid came to her school she pirposely fillowed him to his hostel and have sex with him raw. One thing that never cease to amaze me was that she said she was pregnant for 2 months and was not aware and when she discovered she had to find wizkid and tell him the news. Today she is his baby mama and i think she gets paid every month. She she is now both famous and financially stable.