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Im not into piercings myself but if you have a problem, let her find someone that wouldnt cry over something so irrelevant

Keep in mind that other person WILL enjoy the benefits of said tongue piercing.

Rofl.

Siena:
@ Kemjisuper: Your scenario's are pretty realistic. But, why would a guy who "claims" to be in love with his girlfriend / wife listen to what his friends have to say about her?

If a "friend" decided to start telling me stories about my girlfriend / wife, I'd stop him right there, and tell him where to go! A good friend has NO business furnishing a mate with details of his wife!

Because they are immature gbegboruns. Nigerians are very bitter and envious people. If something good is happening to you, you'll hardly find anyone who will share that joy along with unless maybe family and even family sef, you have to beware of some of them.
These idiots dont know that most of the time alot of things other people tell them is so they can ruin your happiness. If one guy is unlucky in love and sees a good friend of his getting married, it is NOT uncommon for the other to try to trash the girl's name by saying she was an aristo or that he or "someone he knows" has slept with the person before. SXome girls do the same to their own "friends". I take most of what anyone tells me with a grain of salt, only people that wont lie to me are my parents.

Luckily in the Yoruba tradition, if you have someone you want to get into a deeper relationship with, the parents already know what to do. They know where to go and what to find out and they tell you what they gathered and it's up to you to decide whether the relationship is worth pursuing. You dont need some lame busybody amebo to tell you garbage that most likely isnt true out of sheer jealousy.

Im sorry that some of you dont have that and have to rely on "friends"  

mue2:
quite frankly,the sexual behaviour and tendencies of men and women are not measured by the same yard stick.As i said earlier,society expects women to be on a higher moral ground.it aint fair but that is just how it is.So you can't say the same about guys.A guys past is not as important as a girl's past.I'm not being biased,it's just the truth.This is how society has made things.

You sound like a bloody Arab. get away from me, Mr Taliban.

Btw, I dont know what kinda tarts you hang around but I personally have a huge problem with male whores. Most mature women do. There are some men around here that most girls wouldnt be caught DEAD dating cos of their whorish pasts, there go as far as warning other women against the guy. I know of two who had to date outside of the state because no one wanted anything to do with their lousy arses
So No it's not just a girl thing so take your Arabic mentality and shove it.

no wonder the babe i was trying to date keeps delaying the issue. perhaps there is a white guy somewhere or black british dude whom she is hoping will come to her. . . hmmmmn. . . . . I see.

. . I say Bullshit. . . i'm not calling her again. what rubbish, i'll start sleeping with any LovePeddler that comes my way

Again, I weep for you. All shall be well in Jesus' name.

actually I think she gave you those links as ANSWERS to your question.

to toyin, still wtaer and co

Let me re quote otele's problem

no wonder the babe i was trying to date keeps delaying the issue. perhaps there is a white guy somewhere or black british dude whom she is hoping will come to her. . . hmmmmn. . . . . I see.

. . I say Bullshit. . . i'm not calling her again. what rubbish, i'll start sleeping with any LovePeddler that comes my way 

Like I said before, he just needs our pity.

[quote author=blueband link=topic=101137.msg1780390#msg1780390 date=1198005402
A woman's past is one of the biggest determinants to a guy marrying her.Believe it or not!
[quote][/quote]I could say the same about a guy. After all a marriage proposal requires a yes from either the man or woman. If the woman says No, there is NO marriage. If it turns out that in YOUER past you're a horrible person who slept with every girl you cam across, caused girls to have several; abortions or stole stuff, that could be just as a dterminant for the girl to say NO to your proposal.

Nigerians make fun of the Arabic male mentality yet you guys are barely different from them in reasoning. It's pitiful.

Re: Topic. If you wanna know her past, share yours too esp INITIMACY else she shouldnt be expected to do the same. Simple.

Besides, a decent man has no business listening to what others have to say about his wife / girlfriend.

Siena, like I've said many times, you are a rare Nigerian. I swear most Nigerian guys are worse amebos than the females. It's quite pathetic.

uspry loathesome? Not really. She's one of the nicest members. Too nice evn

What's your problem with her

In your reponse to osisi, you havent explained why honor killings is very popular in countries with a hiogh population of Muslims. Why is that considering you claim that it's against Islam, that's what I don't get

Cos the only reason why they are nice is because they look like Baba Suwe.

Ugly people cant afford to be mean. Rofl

You have to be Ferlie

24 and Prision Break are NOT movies.

Get a clue.

You people are mad foolish. The girl is pretty much Irish and she's married to a Nigeria specifically an Igbo man whether you like it or not, so I suggest you get over her comments. Have a problkem? Talk to her husband

still_water, No one is hiding, If some imbeciles want to generalize and say ALL Nigerian females are sluts. Na their own palavar. Their sisters, female cousins, etc are obviously sluts then. Why should I be bothered, Only immature runts reason that way and considering that I dont hang out with immature bastards, it really doesnt matter. Yea prostitution is high in Nigeria, no shit. Can most of them really be blamed, how many males actaully get jobs after school in Nigeria not to talk of females, I guess that's how some of them survive, latching themselves on pathetic married men, luckily some of us arent in such a situation and dont have to rely on anyone for anything.

No one should even mind what otele is saying. If you read his first post you'd see he's frustrated cos some Nigerian chick has been giving him the runaround obviously because he's a loser so he's taking out his frustrations on us here. Lmao dont you see that all he needs is our pity?

olulu:
I did sometin close to that this year , but i had earlier already made my intentions known 2her face to face. so i just sent a text later when she didn't respond to the issues i had raised

Coward.

yimiton:
I watched a Tyra Banks show once.
She featured a very beautiful lady of 29 who had never really kissed a guy because she had a sever case of bad breath.

She was so devastated that she had gone as far as using bleach just to get rid of the odour. She had gone everywhere and done everything possible and she had even contemplated suicide.
She was also used used to laying back when she talks to people and I couldn't help but feel very bad for her. The only thing Tyra could do for her was to pay for a psychologist who will teach her to accept and love herself the way she is.

Now, have you considered that this could be the case with your new found love? What if he brushes 10 times a day and eats mint all day long and he just still has the mouth odor?
The only way to find out about this is to talk about it. It's totally immature to make excuses and avoid the topic. Then, help him to eliminate the odor if it's possible with all the suggestions above, otherwise, you might have to either learn to live with it or leave the relationship.

Oh Please. All that heifer needed was a dentist or a doctor. She just went to Tyra crying so she could pay her medical bills for her since alot of talkshow hots Oprah esp tend to pay for certain things if they feel badly enough for you.

Um No.

Like I need to eat the food of women who wash their asses in the food so as to jazz you dorks that constantly patronzie them I'll pass and make my own food. He can eat there if he wants, I however have my own hands and know what I put in my food.

How sad that people are still taking crazykid and his usual retarded comments seriously

Lmao. I like

What about just telling him a list of things that put you off people. Then when you mention bad breath, you really emphasise it and say that people ought to brush after each meal or in the morning and before going to bed in the night. I guess he will get the gist and adjust. If he still doesnt get it, tell him he needs to chew gum or lick tom tom regularly.

I agree with this. I always talk about how i change my brush every 2 months and find people that dont wash their tongues disgusting. It works.

blackgucci:
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hypocrite?
nah i don't think so, u read like a dummy, "i guess" didnt u see that
stupid.

No you're an slowpoke. "guess" ko, DKNY ni. get out of my face, jare.


You "guess" that he is handling the girl situation fine but you cant "guess" that she can do the same? Seriously who you think you're fooling?

darfur:
@otele
i shame for you
please please please all naija babes, otele's utterances don't represent us. they represent otele, and otele alone. onye ara, you put igbos to shame, you embarrass nigeria. i suspect otele =naija4life them no train u well idiot.

His retarded uterrances arent that different from what I've seen by many guys on NL, so it doesnt make any difference.

who the hell is naija4life.

stillwater:
Nooo. The name Stillwater is just according to the proverbial "stillwaters run deep." I chose the name because it defines me.

Nigerian men think all Nigerian girls are sluts. They have this twisted mentality that a single recharge card is enough for a naija girl to fall for them. And I don't blame them. We have disgraced ourselves. How can you be going out with a guy because he's buying you a recharge card or because he gave you a phone or because he's giving you money. I weep because decent girls would be categorised with this disgraceful group that appears to be a majority nowadays. I'm a girl and I'm always in the midst of "girls' talk". There's no substantial news that can come out of the campuses today. What you hear is aristo babes and nonsense, who and who is using jazz to get a guy, who's going out on weekends in her portable suitcase to some Alhaji's house, I'm highly disgusted. Nigerian men if you feel the need to insult this aimless generation of women, pour out the venom now. If women like let them hit their heads on the ground and scream and curse and insult me go ahead.

You do know Nigerians exist outside OF Nigeria right? So excuse you but some of us actually have jobs and dont rely on guys for anything so NO, their idiotic mentality of thinking we're all money grubbing sluts is DUMB

Recharge card ko, SIMS card ni. Weep for yourself if that's the group you're part of.

we know enough to know you guys suck!

D Truth:
@ D reloaded

Well if it sound garbage to u, then,

Probably You would not like to face facts.

Having a girl or guy in your life does not mean u got to the bus stop. Learn from, access, and watever u can from the person, if it suits u ,

Living life can be simple, y make it hard.

You didnt answer my question which was if your sister or gf had tons of male friends, would you give the same "advice". Re-read it and answer it.Thanks.

D Truth:
Ar u married to him? If no, then he is not yet your man (like it or not). How did u get to start goin out with him (as one of his female friends or, )??

Well u should be glad he has lots of female friends as that would let u test him (How would u know if someone is not a theif if u have not keep him in possession of valuables)

Dont feel unsecure, What is urs has/is/would be urs.

One question. Would you say this same garbage to your girlfriend or sister?

uchetobi:
Not necessarily for virgins but for ladies who were smart enough not to get pregnant before d day

Lmao pretty much.

Not true, drrionelli

Not into guys who drink.

a little wine here or there is fine. beer is just trashy.